Advice on situation with Taurus man


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Advice on situation with Taurus man

I'm a Scorpio woman in love with my Taurus man friend.. He's married - his wife has been sick for over 10yrs.. He is the man I love.. We do have a fun friend/lover relationship that has been on/off for the past 2 yrs..

It's so complicated because we also work together.. I don't know if I'm coming or going... I don't know what's right or wrong... AND I don't know how to walk away from this man.. I just know I love him.. ANY ADVICE ON HOW to handle this unusual situation - WOULD BE APPRECIATED..

Sad Scorpio woman..

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back off
by: Reo

Helping a man cheat on his wife is disgusting. Neither of you seem to truly honor a lasting relationship since both of you spit on his marriage. Realize that the chances he will leave his wife are slim to nothing; like most married men, he's using you as a distraction but when the shit hits the fan, he will almost positively go back to his wife. It was she with whom he took a vow, not you. Find a single man, home wrecker.

GOSH
by: Anonymous

i agree with the comment. women like you make me sick. how can you be with a man knowing that he has a relationship? even worse, he is MARRIED !?? i think you should get a grip of your self because to me it looks like your a wasted person !

Sheesh
by: A Passing Pisces

I was reading the comments and just thought I would like to remind people it takes two to tango.

Of course I don't aprove either, but I hate it when people put ALL the blame on the girl for the man cheating on HIS wife.

Taurus man - been there done that
by: Anonymous

Hello, Here is the problem; he is faithful and cares deeply for you as well and because of loyalty; he would like to take care of the sick person he has dedicated a good portion of his life to and would feel guilty as hell for what he would deem as abandonment on his part, which goes against his very nature. On the other hand you are fulfilling a deep desire as well and he cares for you, but the guilt he puts on himself causes him to waiver back and forth between the two.

This will sound real crazy - if he told you his heart of hearts; you would all live in the same house and everyone would get along and you two would help the sick spouse together and the sick spouse would say you two make a good couple, have at it and everyone lived happily ever after. He is not a polygamist by any stretch; it is just a combo of the loyalty and wanting to please everyone and it is impossible.

He is probably a guilt-ridden wreck which is why you keep getting the mixed signals. On you end this is difficult because you usually read between the lines very well, but this one has stumped you a bit and since you love him; you are dogmatically loyal; thus there is a real dilemma here. I wish I could provide an ideal solution other than the absurd one above, but there isn't one. My advice is that if you love him and want him, then you will need to be patient till something becomes of the sick spouse. For your own sanity; be yourself and be the fun-loving person and quit trying to figure it out; you now know what the core issue is and there is no real solution except to be patient so he can fulfill his obligation to his sick spouse or turn around and never look back.

Good luck and God bless.

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Hello, Here is the problem; he is faithful and cares deeply for you as well and because of loyalty; he would like to take care of the sick person he has dedicated a good portion of his life to and would feel guilty as hell for what he would deem as abandonment on his part, which goes against his very nature. On the other hand you are fulfilling a deep desire as well and he cares for you, but the guilt he puts on himself causes him to waiver back and forth between the two. This will sound real crazy - if he told you his heart of hearts; you would all live in the same house and everyone would get along and you two would help the sick spouse together and the sick spouse would say you two make a good couple, have at it and everyone lived happily ever after. He is not a polygamist by any stretch; it is just a combo of the loyalty and wanting to please everyone and it is impossible. He is probably a guilt-ridden wreck which is why you keep getting the mixed signals. On you end this is difficult because you usually read between the lines very well, but this one has stumped you a bit and since you love him; you are dogmatically loyal; thus there is a real dilemma here. I wish I could provide an ideal solution other than the absurd one above, but there isn't one. My advice is that if you love him and want him, then you will need to be patient till something becomes of the sick spouse. For your own sanity; be yourself and be the fun-loving person and quit trying to figure it out; you now know what the core issue is and there is no real solution except to be patient so he can fulfill his obligation to his sick spouse or turn around and never look back. Good luck and God bless.

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