Aquarius and Aquarius

Aquarius and Aquarius Compatibility

Aquarius and Aquarius is a combination almost guaranteed to be best friends, but it doesn’t always work as well as lovers.

Compatibility	4
Sexual chemistry	3
Communication	5

(All scores range from 1=low to 5=high)

The danger in this combination is that you're both very intellectual and progressive people. You'll mesh so well mentally that you'll almost certainly be best friends, and that can sometimes make for an unsexy equation.

The problem here is that you both tend to be fairly emotionally aloof and impersonal in relationships, and benefit from a slightly more emotionally needy or inspiring partner to bring out your loving and nurturing side.

You're both outgoing and relatively stable people, and are likely to enjoy hi tech gadgets and news. You're both free spirits, intelligent, objective and analytical. You both value your independence.

This combination together sometimes equals a lack of emotional depth, which is so often the glue which holds a couple together. Logically there's no good reason for that, so you may not accept it immediately, but this is a combination which has a much higher chance than average of one of you eventually deciding you just want to be friends, with or without benefits. If you're both very independant then this can actually work well for some couples.

Aquarius and Aquarius sex

There will be great chemistry initially, you both enjoy intellectual stimulation and aren't afraid to experiment. Again in the long term, there's a danger of the friendship/intellectual dynamic spoiling the lover dynamic.

The best way to combat this is to open up to each other, and nurture your romantic and emotional bond whenever possible.

So is this article conclusive?

No! This article is based only on sun sign interaction. In order to provide a lot of people with information it's a convenient and fast way to generalize, but it's far from conclusive at this broad level.

To get a complete picture we need to take all the other planets and their interactions into account. If you would like more information for your unique relationship please see the astrology compatibility reports page.

Other resources

Often the hardest questions to ask are the most important - for example, what are their views and expectations for raising children? sharing housework? saving money? career goals? etc.

One subtle and fun way to approach this is by working through a couples question book together - that way it's not really you asking, and delicate subjects can be covered easily. The best book for this I've found is Michael Webb's 1000 Questions For Couples

For reviews of this and other relationship ebooks on subjects ranging from improving your sex life to getting an ex back please see the relationship ebook reviews page.

A third method of further research is to share experiences with other couples of this same sign combination - you may be amazed how consistent they often are. Please see the links below for visitor experiences and questions.

In any relationship there are also very significant external factors. One of these is how well you understand yourself, your partner and your partnership - the more you do, the easier it is to make the relationship more exciting, fulfilling and satisfying for both of you, regardless of your starting position. The articles on how to Make him fall in love with you and Make her fall in love with you have information on how you can use astrology to revitalize a relationship.

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Gay or lesbian relationships

The information on this page applies equally to gay or lesbian relationships. Overall, gender affects relationships far less than planet placement does, so it's currently ignored to avoid articles becoming overburdened with gender permutations.

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