Aquarius girls being evasive

by Nats

Do you Aquarius girls avoid someone your interested in or like? Do you avoid direct questions from the person you like?

Theres an Aquarius girl i've been talking to for about 6-7 months now. I;ve told her i like her, she's also told me she liked me but nothings happend thanks to HER. She always avoids seeing me one on one but she invites me out with her friends when its in a group. She ALWAYS declines or makes excuses when I ask to see her. And the other day I asked her why she avoids me and not to give me a bullshit answer and she just ignored it.

She disappeared for 5 days and then emailed me today acting normal like nothing happened. I told her in my previous email I was waiting on a response from her, if she never spoke to me again then so be it but i wasn't going to chase her. So she emailed me today she's acting normal being friendly and trying to help me sort out the dramas im going through at the moment and shes like "talk to me about it babe I wanna help you" so fine I did and then in my last email I told her "you know im still waiting for a reply to what I asked you before. and DON'T ignore it". That was about 2 hours ago and nothing. I'm getting the feeling she's going to ignore it again.

Can anyone explain this?

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Aquarius girls being evasive

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by: Anonymous

That is just part of our complex personality to be evasive. It doesn't mean she's not interested she just having some exciting fun seeing you sweat! My advice to you is try and avoid asking her that question in the regular, boring and straight forward manner that you have been doing. Invite her to something or somewhere fun, unusual, or exciting ( I don't mean the zoo!), we aquarians like museums, theatre, hiking etc; then maybe after she's had her fill of fun, you then when she least expects it and when she cannot be distracted you ask her your question. Hey it's a lot of work but we aquarian women love the chase and unpredictability of any event! Don't whine and nag us constantly about anything, just be creative confident and creative, then we would be hooked! Hope this helps.
Evasive?
by: marina

She is probably not interested but the only way to find out is to back right off. You may have turned her off already if you have been pushy or aggressive and now she just feels guilty/sorry for you hence the group invites. If she doesn't contact you, please get the message.
I think i've done that
by: lovelynnaquarius

Yes we are detacted and elusive or watever you call that. I cant deny it and WE ARE!

Just recently i did that out of irritation cos the guys are just so boring to us.
You need to be "outstanding" in a way to be different in approach to getting us out. We/ I hate those typical start out lines which we have heard it over hundred guys, nothing is as annoying as same or diffferent people repeating the same old boring stuffs. Above me is right about suggesting interesting places to go, even we are lazy or do not feel like going, we might just give it a try as it makes us interested.

Btw, i wasnt interested, at least i know i think i would never be, so in order not to hurt, and waste brain ceels on communicating with you, i disappear to my thinking world (definately more interesting than boring guys). About why we still came back to talk to you was that we are friendly treating everyone as friends, we just keep in touch and be nice, thats all.

Sorry thats all i can say, and they are true.
They do that all the time.
by: Anonymous

Yeah, that's something they do all the time. Vivacious and charming around groups of people they like, and around guys they see as awesome friends but not potential lovers. But as soon as a guy starts edging out of that platonic sphere, they back right off and usually make themselves unavailable. If the guy is worth it, he'll get her in a roundabout way, not mentioning anything serious. The best way to hold an aquarius is to play mysterious. It'll make her think and get her imagination stimulated, and nothing turns on an aquarius like her imagination. You can use this to your advantage by planting an idea in her head, but be careful: if you're clumsy about it or she senses you're doing it on purpose, she'll turn cold pretty fast.

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