Aries and Virgo friendship

by Kate
(Australia)

Hi I'm an Aries and my close friend is a Virgo, we been friends for 4 years.
I went out with a frend of hers that she doesn't like,
For 3 months I was chasing her back for the friendship.
After 3 months she gave me another chance and yes I pissed her off again.
She controls me a bit, and hates that I act before I think.
She's always wants to know what I'm doing or where I've been.
I spoke to her the other day and she brang up the past again.
And she just kept telling me off. She said that the way things are now between us, it is better for her and me, if we would speak everyday. 3 times a day, to now once every 5 days.. How do I get her back??