Aries man Capricorn woman

I am a 28 year old Capricorn woman, having a very fiery explosive sexual relationship with a 29 year old Aries male.

I was attracted to him for his intelligence, his good looks and his strong personality. The moment I saw him I felt a long deep lust towards him. He is argumentative, and I am argumentative, but once I learned to submit, and listen to him, sometimes more just bite my lip, we have got on a lot better.

He is passionate. About life, people, the world. He doesn't do things by halves and he wants things done quickly and properly. I find him invigorating, powerful and sometimes intimidating, he thinks a lot about the world as I do but I feel attracted to that.

He also responds well to eye contact. At first I was shy, looking away from him, but looking at him when he speaks, I love watching his face move. His facial expressions and his lips.

He dominates me, which I find such a turn on. His strength in the bedroom is amazing, he sometimes won't wait, and will rip my clothes off, pull at my hair, wants to experiment and is very playful, but at other times he is so soft and gentle, really wanting to please me in every way possible.

It is possibly the most amazing experience I have ever had in my life. I've never met an Aries male before, and the way he makes me feel is that I don't ever want to meet another man ever again.

Whether this lasts or not, is a story I hope to be able to tell you about in 20 years time!

Warning! Cupid loves to shoot you when you are down! How do you imagine meeting your true love and soul mate? After many (way too many) fruitless, obnoxious, and frustrating relationships I met Mike. When I first met him I would not have pegged him to be my "soul mate". This was definitely not a case of love at first site. He drank too much, smoked too much, had been dumped by every female that had dared to take him on. Not exactly the man of your dreams right?

Well, after getting him to put down the bottle it turned out there was a very shy and sensitive boy inside that rugged exterior. A boy that wanted very much to become a man. A stand up dude as I like to call them. Being a 30 year old woman that has been there, done that, and passed on the stupid t-shirt to prove it, I really have no tolerance left for losers. Somehow that never stopped me in the past from making way too much room in my life for them. There they were. You know the kind! Jobs but no money, talk but never listen, the cry babies, the socially challenged.

Yes indeed, and I told all of them that I love them, and want to be with them forever. All the time knowing that I didn't mean a word of it, and was harboring a lot of resentment towards them for their shortcomings. I had wondered if I would ever find the real thing. How old would I be, and what would life be like by that point? Well, I can honestly say that it sometimes hit you when you least expect it.

Our connection is incomparable despite our differences. He is an Aries and oh, don't get me started on that! I am a strict and practical Capricorn with serious Scorpio flair beating me up left and right. In the past Aries have annoyed me with their naturally short attention spans, and tendencies to be somewhat selfish. But I have since discovered there is so much more to Aries! They can be very playful and devoted. I never thought I would fall in love with one. The circumstances of falling in true love the way that I have really defy most of my previous expectations. I guess it really can happen anywhere, anytime! Beware!!

I'm a Capricorn and I've been dating an Aries man, he's 38 and I'm 25. I love the way he's a manly man, he picks me up and he takes control of my body, but the one thing that makes me a little nervous is his phone ethics.

I don't know if he likes me. He is difficult to read. I don't really call him because I work, however he doesn't call me either. But once he hasn't heard from me in like 4 days he'll text me. Then well hang-out and he'll lay on my chest and kiss me passionately.

I just expressed to him that it would be nice if he could say hi every once in awhile. I have been hesitating to tell him how I feel just because of his demeanor, but me being a Capricorn I have to address things that are getting out of hand. He really responded well, at first I asked him if he had a girlfriend because he doesn't call as much as I would like him to.

He says no not at all and he doesn't have one because he doesn't like answering to anyone. I told him he's not answering to me it's just common courtesy to say hi to someone your intimate with and he didn't argue he said " I can dig it" then he says well you have my attention now. After we talked I did my thing for the day and he did text me that same night to see how I was. He makes me fall in love with him over and over again. but is he interested? he's hard to READ.

I have never experienced someone who is always on the go like he is, but when I get his attention I LOVE IT!

I have never fallen for an Aries. The more I read about them more I want to get away from them. They scare me but I seem to be taken in by all the chaos around them. My Aries has been in my life for over a year now but I don't feel any closer to him than when we started but he never really goes away either.

He comes this close and no further. He has said, "I love you" but I do not really. I don't dare. I think that the game will be over. I don't trust that he cares or even loves me but I see him everyday and he calls several times a day. I would never want to live with my Aries. He is a mess with money, lacks direction but it makes the me cut loose and I love that. I have been so chained down with responsibility for so long that to have that kind of freedom is wonderful. I am grateful to the Aries but I don't want to hook to him just be taken for a ride.

I'm a true Capricorn and dating and Aries man is not for me. The sex is great, but I think that I can get great sex from any other zodiac sign. He was to controlling and I hate to be controlled. He likes for women to cater to him and have to much work to do for that. I just wanted to be friends with him and have great sex from time to time. He wanted to be in a relationship with me I think he needed someone to love.

He needed to feel loved. I don't no how to have great passion for anything other than work, I'm over thirty and success is what I seek and he couldn't understand that.

my man is not a Aries/sun he is actually sun/Aquarius but with moon and mars in Aries and a few strong mars aspects. but he is very typical of Aries personality ,he is enthusiastic, forward very hands on . He is always very friendly

he is a sports man -he plays on the defensive side in his field -which is just as well considering his strong Aries traits.

sexually he is very honest and will say what he wants. he can be gentle and loving or aggressive and dominating and he is always 'ready' for action.

however if he has to play sport the next day he will in no uncertain terms not 'allow' sex to occur not even if it requires little work from him!

I don't believe this could ever lead to anything long term as we both love our space and freedom - and neither of us are the sort to settle down.

but he is great for the here and now.

I am 27 year old Capricorn who has been seeing a 33 year old Aries... He's handsome, gentle, sweet, acts timid but isnt.. We were great friends before we started dating and he can communicate very well...great in bed...very exciting...but unpredictable. How do I know where I stand with this guy??? I don't think he diggs relationships. Will this guy ever settle down?

OMG!!! where do I start... Im 28 and im on Aries #2 my first Aries man was a friend turned lover overnight. From the first day we crossed over it was never a dull moment. I don't know if it was his confidence, aggressiveness, or his affection that kept me coming back for more and I have to agree they NEVER go anywhere were still trying to salvage what's left of our tattered relationship.

Aries #2 is barely a year older than me and has the spirit and charm of a man much beyond his years I hate that I like him the way I do and just when I think he's gone he pops rite back up again. He to is sooo affectionate, confident, aggressive just how I like my men but he is way hard to figure out. They say Taurus and Virgos are a caps perfect match I don't think so I haven't met ONE that could keep me on my toes. Even though dealing with a Aries can be hella frustrating the ride is well worth it!

Here's my of the story my 'relationship' with a Capricorn woman we met when I was 18 and she was 24 I had a huge crush on her. I had just moved to England I couldn't speak English and the uk is lonely AND cold she was kind asking how I was and inviting me to her house to meet her family (sisters\) the whole was purely platonic though I to young for her.

she moved away a year after I met her ,I didn't see her again for 4 years .

anyway forward 4 years later im now a 6`3 tall grown man we ran into each other it turns out she's living in my birth city where I have moved back to .

after slowly getting to know each other all over again one night after she had a few drinks she made a pass at me we had great sex she's very intense and sensual, but to my stupidity the night after I ignored her for TWO weeks! I just felt very awkward about what happened and couldn't bare to speak to her. So when I was ready to talk to her she was LIVID I have never seen a woman so angry and wounded. she said I didn't have to behave that way I was an asshole and if I didn't want to see her again that was fine it didn't bother her but I shouldn't have been so damn rude ,she said other things that really cut me up like "guys like you make women hate men" and "you make me feel bad about myself"

after months of cold shouldering when the fires died down we became friends again I still have strong feelings I admitted them to her and she told me she used to like me BUT she would never be trust me again because of how I behaved last time. BUT we have slept together though she acts like nothing happens the next day .just when I thought she would be my girlfriend it turns out she dates other guys and now has a boyfriend ,so im out in the cold .

she says let the past be the past but I cant help think she still views me as a basterd and I hate how down I feel when I see her with her boyfriend.

I deeply regret letting her down the first night we spent together but I don't know how to make things better or even if it's possible to heal the rift .

Having a whirlwind with an Aries. He is a bit of a contradiction as he really tries to think things through and seeks out the wisdom of others. Has lots of accolades and accomplishments but also gives so much of himself.

When he Aries and me cap have issues is when we both try to play down feelings. I can then physically feel like he is out of his element b/c he is so open usually -- a bit scary at times. He has had bad experiences with the fly by nite relationships of the past. It made him date for convenience over passion.

Enter me to ignite the flame that only Aries can truly exude so raw like. Scary to let go of stable linear cap ideas. Yet somehow with him he makes me trust in the here and now and not think tomorrow is necessarily better - just 'safer' for all my planning. Yet he feels more safe with my rounding out his blazing trails.

So freaking brilliant that mind of his. I feel like I am standing still sometimes. But then he feels that way about me b/c I command so much knowledge wrapped in wisdom and humanitarianism - I have Libra rising.

We go from planning meetings to clothes off in no time. It just takes one look and we BOTH are ready. Never been that way in my life!

Admittedly I can 'submit' to him -- have my moments. But I have never said that to man. He has such a grasp on all things that the conscious effort - (b/c caps don't just give anything away )- of submission seems more like a gift than a chore.

Yes he loves me dressing up and yes I love doing anything and everything in the office, lol. Most people would be shocked b/c I have in fact mastered the art of the cold exterior. Somehow he was able to peep through this at times. Like the hunter in him could sense fire underneath.

Being older things just fit so well it almost seems too good to be true. You know us caps think everything has to take years, this did not.

He has lots of opinions and you have to be so thoughtful in how u give 'advice' as u can feel the horns rise up a little. He can be such a kid sometimes in sulking and feeling slighted but also in playfulness.

Commitment to fam w/ a supportive woman is amazing!

* Key: if u can be a cheerleader without being objectified u will go far* In other words acknowledge his brass rings and the processes it took to get there. When u can master that, whoa u got something. Honestly, he will not look anywhere else. He will always acknowledge and asses value but will leave it at that if he feels fulfilled. Which is in line with caps' SECURITY issues.

Hope this helps. I appreciate those who helped me.

I am a capp who is interested in an Aries man, but scared of letting him know, I don't really know if we can have a serious relationship one day or if it would be just good sex. Ive been with a Scorpio for 16 long yrs, we fight a lot and for some reasoned this Aries man just grabs my attention, the way he talks , the way he looks at me, I love the way he sees life, we have lot in common and that's what scares me, do you think I should just give it a try?????

I met a man on the internet and finally agreed to go on a date with him. I wish I had researched the Aries male prior to the date because almost as soon as we were comfortable with each other, he turned the conversation to sex. I wanted to have sex too but not on the first night that I met him anyway, he convinced me to stay over at his house as I had a long drive back home. BIG MISTAKE. it was a roller coaster ride just in that one evening. he had me all excited and nervous at the same time. I held him off sexually till morning and then lo and behold it happened. (mind blowing sex). all I could think about during was that I had ruined my chances of ever seeing him again (which I wanted to and I think he did too until the sex). anyway, as I was about to leave, he got all icy and made a comment about we are not going to be boyfriend and girlfriend. (how old are we)? 43 and 39. it felt like a slap in the face to know that just because we had sex and an otherwise great connection earlier on that date, he would never speak to me again.

Hey Everyone! I'm an 18 Y.o Aries male, and my girl is a 20y.o Cap female! So far, It's a blast! Aries men like a challenge, and holy shit, is she one! Haha! She keeps things spicy and damn can she get me in a "Good mood!" If you can make it work, It's a GREAT relationship! I say give it a shot.

Tip to Cap women : Play hard to get, Oh god, Is it hot! :D

This is a very difficult match. I met my Aries over 6 years ago, and each year got harder and harder. The attraction is undeniable between the Capricorn woman and Aries man and the passion between them is a force to be reckoned with. The problem is they are both Chiefs and neither is an Indian. They are like 2 bulls in one arena. As a Capricorn woman, we want and demand respect at all times. An Aries man wants to feel in charge at all times & for some reason thinks that means he doesn't need to respect his Capricorn lover because he ultimately sees himself as boss. It is my experience that this relationship can only work if the Capricorn woman is willing to suck up her pride & say she is wrong (even if she is not) and hold her tongue & opinions when the Aries man has made a profound statement or lecture. Unless your willing to silent the characteristics that make you a true Capricorn, your relationship with an Aries man is doomed for failure. Lots and lots o f fighting.

I met this Aries guy, we get along very well. Usually I like to take the lead in relationships, but funnily enough I don't mind him taking the lead in this one. I don't usually fall for guys so easily as I've been hurt badly in the past, so I have gotten used to unattaching myself emotionally in relationships... But he has managed to melt my heart... The way he looks at me intensely and the things that he says... I'm finding myself falling for him. His Venus is Pisces and his Mars is Scorpio, My Venus is Capricorn and my Mars is Taurus. I don't know where it's going, but the sex is passionate and AMAZING! Plus the fact that we get along and have the same things in common There is a bit of an age gap between us as he is 8 years older than me. I grew up with an Aries brother so I know that he is/has told me a couple of lies but its early days yet (known him for coming up 4 months now). I find myself more submissive than my usual self when I'm with him. He's alre ady said he sees a future with me... But what I'm worried about is my tendency to run away from commitments in relationships. I am worried that he will want to control me all the time and I like my freedom. I am 19 and have never BEEN had my first love before, but I think I'm falling for this guy ( I haven't told him)... I'm trying not to, but I am falling hard..... I just hope I don't hit the ground and reality hits me that he isn't right for me after all.... Wish me luck!!! xx

P.S Just a little tip... Remember with love and sex its usually the Mars - Venus Sign Compatibility that tells you whether its destiny or disaster not just the star sign compatibility.

I was involved with an Aries man for almost a year - I love the man, he is my compass in life & I feel very lost without him, which is weird being a Capp! Most of my friends find it amusing that my life is so great and organized, and when this man entered my space, I seem to run in circles where he is concerned.

He's straight forward, bold, takes charge and I love every moment of it.

But - sadly almost overnight he decided this relationship wasn't going to work. I've been battling for almost 6 months now trying to sort out WHY it ended this way, as there was really no reason for it. He's not interested in anyone else, I'm not either. Being a Capp I don't date a lot, I'm very picky with men in my life and this man is my soul mate. I don't know how to get him back, and I've tried for the past 6 months. Nothing - in fact, it appears things have become even worse between us.

I'm now at the point where we are so rude with each other, and it's hurting me immensely.

So - I have decided to stop all communication with him. There will be nothing anymore. This man made my life chaos, and though I love that he makes me forget about work and make me stop to smell the roses, he simply doesn't want me anymore, and I have to move on.

I'm a 23 year old Capricorn in Lust with a 32 year old Aries, our sexual connection is beyond anything ive ever experienced, He takes control of me sexually and gets what he wants, I'm a stubborn at times until I see him in person I melt. He is beyond attractive, sporty, athletic, charmer. I like to sometimes feel like he's in the palm of my hand to keep things interesting, because Aries men love excitement, he can say the right words to me and im there in a instant, other times when he expresses that he wants me I like to say no. To keep him wanting more, but it seems to be the challenge of getting him to want me more.

We have had an ongoing sexual relationship for 9 months now; I have cheated on boyfriends in this time period to be with him sexually, something I never thought I would do. (Come on' Cap women are stronger than that!) lol.. I feel like he won't go away, always somehow creeping back into my life, although I let him. He has expressed to me that There's something about me also. We can't stay away from each other, but I know I could not date him; he is promiscuous and has 2 kids with 2 different women.

I do find him wanting to spend time with me; to see if I will fall in love or his trap of girls that melt for him. It's outta the norm for me to spend a day with him because I don't want to get attached emotionally( even though with our conversations, this could be impossible). He insist on spending time with me, when we do. I don't know what to talk about with him, because its always an ongoing battle to be the superior one, He is such a manly man, I do go into submissive mode when he plays Mr. charmer. But we never have a decent conversation unless it revolves around sex. We have this exciting, scandalous connection that I crave . I'm a very strong woman, with any other Male Zodiac like a rock but with him you know.

Take note that if you ever hurt of try to 'play' this sign, he will never forget it and always bring it back in your face from time to time, My Aries man always says if you dint screw up, we would be dating you right now. But sexually he craves me as well, it had come down to telling him not to contact me again... Then a few weeks later a txt mug with the right words for me to melt.. AGAIN.

This match of Zodiac is poison.

I am a 25 yr old Capricorn, completely in love with an Aries, who is not aware of my feelings. I met him only once, but was not aware of my feelings that time. I try to keep myself in touch with him through emails. From his general information I have come to know that he is flirtatious.

I have heard that one should never make a first move in expressing her feelings to an Aries, it usually turns him off... But sometimes it really becomes difficult for me to wait and know how he feels about me or how can I convince him.

I really like, and want to know more about him, I have tried to give him hints in my emails, but he was always vague to me.

Shall I speak to him or express my feelings to him in writing?

I'm a 18 year old Capricorn and this Aries guy is 20.. He keeps me soo interested and he doesn't treat me differently at all in front of his friends/family. He is so hard to figure out though, he gets really jealous if I hang out with a group of friends and there are guys there he will ignore me. He's so hard to figure out. He drives me crazy in a good and bad way.

I am a 22 year old Capricorn and he's a 32 year old Aries. all of these posts are true. We met a while ago and I was newly single so a friend re-introduced us. We hit it off so well we decided to hang out about once sometimes 2 or 3 times a week. we couldn't get enough of each other. My dumb ass fell in love with him and we went through an incident due to the chick who introduced us, I think she liked him and got jealous we were actually hitting it off even though she is married. well due to that we haven't been hanging out and he claims he "doesn't know what to believe and cant let me go" at the same time. I decided to tell him my feelings, plead my case and leave it alone. 3 days of not talking (which was weird, we text each other everyday) all the sudden I get a funky text, random, about tamales. WHO DOES THAT? it was just a reason to contact me im sure. then he tells me he cant let go. They are very confused in there own head its ridiculous. Sweet, passionate, great sex , leaves you smiling all day every day.... but some part of me says they're clingy too. ONLY because the fact of when you try and let go... They ALWAYS send you that text message or phone call that leaves you falling back in square 1. now I don't know where this is guna go from here. my feelings (for some reason) are still hella strong, yet when I let go he comes back... sometimes I think... IS THE CHASE WORTH IT? OR IS THIS A LIFE TIME OF HELL???

ONLY TIME WILL TELL.

GOOD LUCK TO YOU ALL.

I am a 38 year old Capricorn woman who has been involved with a 33 year old Aries man for 2 1/2 years. We have broken up 13 times and ended up back together within a months time. I think he tires of the relationship after a month or so and he seems to act indifferent. Hot and cold is what he gives me throughout the relationship. Then after I let him go he comes back with full passion. Hugs, kisses and a total yearn for my loving. Then after things have somewhat settled, I assume its because of boredom he mellows out and emotionally disconnects. I've asked him about his rude behavior and he insist that its not what I think. He doesn't understand where I'm coming from. He says he loves me and he doesn't want to lose me and that he doesn't want to lose me. So why this pattern of connection/disconnection?

I'm a Capricorn girl dating an Aries guy. The chemistry, in my opinion is amazing. We are very different, but it works out. We balance each other out. He is wild and crazy, I am quiet and keep to myself unless I know you. We've been friends since middle school and now that we have both grown and matured, I think it's wonderful that we are making it work. The sex is amazing, which is weird for me because I am generally a reserved person. But he just makes a completely different side of me come out. I am still in awe over him. he is so sweet and caring. He isn't ashamed to tell anyone that he is dating me, which helps me with my low self-esteem issue. He has cured most of my pessimism and for that, I am truly grateful. I would hope to stay with him. Only time can tell.

Listen Aries ladiessss, those cappy men that boss you around are idiots and those that try to control you are also idiots too and insecure. I used to work with a cappy guy myself and I could see how stupid calculated and an idiot he was and I am a cappy man ma self ya know, but I have an Aries rising. My gal is an Aries and I love her to death she tries to control me sometimes though but that is not a problem for me. I give her all the freedom she wants and the more freedom she he's the more I love her. I normally can tell what she is up to anyway and it does not bother me because I know that she loves me. I know its a challenging relationship but I love challenges. There is not reason to be judgmental to a sexy Aries lady not only to her but to anyone. I love her for who she is and that's why I fall in love in the first place with her so why would I want to change that. I love her for who she is and she is a wonderful beautiful soul. She tries to change me sometimes b ut I have told her that you fall for me the way I was, so why are you trying to change me. Anyway if you love someone you'd love them for who they are and I do believe that its a big mistake to try to change someone to fit you.

love u all xxx

I am a Capricorn woman who is yet again involved with her ex of 5yrs an Aries.

We met up again 6wks ago and we have being seeing each other every week and we text everyday. I feel like were in a relationship except his told me that his only in it for the sex.

I am confused. When we are together there is no mistaken that he cares about me maybe even love me and yet he does not want to be in a relationship.

Am I just kidding myself with hoping that he will change his mind?

Oh my God all I can say I am so much in love with him he is aggressive and I am calm and composed but some how we have a great time together whenever we are with each other ..he is the lord of sex the best I ever had with any man I have been with him for the past two years sometime he has made me cry sometimes laugh and sometimes he has made me confused though

all the bad times we are still together and I still ask God why ...he is still not sure about a commitment as he is a Casanova when it comes women and we both are possessive about each other but now with time he is changing hope and pray we are together for the rest of my life I know he loves me but will take time for him to commit.

cap woman ,Aries man we been together for 2 yrs, an at times we but heads we never broke up but we came close once arguing.he makes me so happy an he broke down my walls

I am a Capricorn woman 28 met an Aries 32. He lives in ATL and I am in DC. After talking and had an intense connection he came to visit me for a weekend in DC. We got along so WELL and gosh I had sex with him the whole of that wknd. He said he doesn't care that I had sex with the first night I met him. He went back to ATL and we talk everyday and he said he really likes me. He says he wants something serious and indirectly said am his future wife/ soul mate. Anyway we were trying to plan my trip to visit him in ATL and I asked him to call me when he gets off work to book my ticket because it was getting late to book at an affordable price. He didn't call me until 11pm at night. Prior to that he moved dates on me prior to family arrangements. I got upset and yelled at him for jerking me around and told him I don't have to go ATL and I don't have time for dudes who don't take me seriously. Since then I haven't called him. He texted me the next day and I answered with a on e liner. We haven't talked in 3 days!!! I don't want to call...... or should I? Did I overreact? Do you think its over?

im a 28 year old cap with a 30 year old Aries male. At first we started off as sex buddies. 3 years later were getting married. I have three kids. His a great role model. I think its better that ive met him later on in life, cause if I was in my twenties I don't think I would have given him a chance. Ive never met a Aries man, but ill tell you what in my situation he is fantastic in so many ways. hope to write back in 20 years time.

im an 18 cappy girl with an 18 Aries guy.. may sound weird, but he's the perfect one for me.. and these days, I am having thoughts of marrying him and having kids.. don't know what's wrong with me

I am 30 yr old cap, I met a 26 yr old Aries, and there was an amazing instant physical connection! The sex is AMAZING! We see each other about once every two weeks, its mostly just for sex, but now I am noticing I am developing more than just a sexual interest. His personality is just as attractive as he is physically..easy going, and confident! I would like to see him more, but I don't know how to...I think if I show more interest he will run, I tried it but got no response! So now what, just wait? Do I ignore him, say no, or ask him out? And...do I tell him I want to see him more?? Please help, I have never been with an Aries before.