Cancer man Capricorn woman

I'm a Capricorn women and he was a Cancer. We had shared seven years of our life together. Two weeks ago we broke up, for good I think.

I noticed that he was the hopeless romantic guy. I loved him so much and care for him a lot, but he would tell me how I was possessive and dominant. I really never knew I was making him see me as that person.

I saw weakness around him and he would tell me how he loved me for being the strong person that I am, and why are Capricorns so strong and he was so weak. But he couldn't handle me and he needed to become a man. He was still a kid, he would tell me. I finally understood that he needed to be free and I did too.

I'm 26 and he just turned 25. He needs to find what he wants in life and venture out. His last words were you made me a stronger person I will love you for that. One day I hope we meet again.

I'm a Capricorn gal, and find it extremely difficult to turn myself away from a Cancer man I met. He was a customer at a store I worked at, and vice versa. There was an instant attraction from the very begining, but I blew off his flirting as he was married, and something of a flirt with everyone.

We got to know each other slowly as each others' customers. Finally after a year he orchestrated a situation in which he kissed me. It was so intense, and perfect. Things that I had secretly wanted in that area from a partner he automatically did from the get go.

We only made out a little, but it was hotter than anything I have ever known. I didn't realize I had been in love with him until that moment. Even though the attraction had been there from the first moment we saw each other, he was married, so I never gave it a second thought. Until that night. Now I am hopeless.

We tried to be just friends after it became clear he wasn't leaving and I wasn't sleeping with a married man, but now I realize its killing me. I really have never been so fond of anyone before. He's magic, its magic...its a mystery that you just sit back in awe of.

Because of the situation I know I should look at him and see a lying, cheating, coward. But what I see is a man who actually sees me...he is so kind and insightful. Its like we just understand each other. Too bad, eh? I really think under different circumstances it could be the most mind-boggling, spiritual satisfying sex of my life.

I'm a Cancer man and date a Capricorn woman. Our life was full of romance for the first two years.

I'm a short tempered person but she loves me so much that she deals with that, even though she often says it scares her when I lose my temper. It's something I constantly work on, for the sake of our relationship - I always try to be very calm and quiet around her.

Sex has always been one sided, and sadly she isn't very interested in it. It's something we often fight about and a big difference between us. We've both been faithful to each other, but it's hard for both of us when our sex drives are so different.

Sometimes I think she doesn't love me as much as she did at the start of our relationship, though she always says she does. Astrology made me realize this is because she is less emotional and sensitive than I am. So now I look back and think perhaps I made things worse for myself sometimes. It's difficult to feel secure when you "need" to tell (and show) someone how much you love them, and they don't have that same need.

I love her more than anything, and I've just asked her to marry me, so wish me luck :)

I'm a Capricorn girl, and I'm dating a Cancer Boy. We met through the internet.

I'm careful minded..So, I would never date anyone through Myspace, Facebook...What have you. He was the one to message me; and I recognized his face; because we go to the same high school.

I was skeptical. But, since I've been talking to him, no matter how skeptical I want to be, I can't. I tried to dislike him; and it was hard.

Neither one of us are into rushing relationships; but we recently got together and it's been almost a month since we met. Neither one of us has poured out too much information about each other, so It's one of those stop and go things.

He's extremely sweet, and I can tell by how he speaks to me and what he says to me that regardless of the thuggish exterior he has, I know him already not to be that type of guy. It's actually pretty funny, because he portrays the "bad guy" persona, and I portray the "good girl" persona. But, strange enough, we've made a connection. A connection that I can't understand right now. I can't call it love, but we have a connection already as though we're kindred spirits or soul mates.

He gives me a feeling that can't wash away with soap; and I'm scared to death that him and his mood swings are gonna hurt me. Being a Capricorn, I never let my guard down. But, with him? I've let so much of my guard down. I can't remain secretive with him. I can't pretend that I don't care about him. Oddly, he makes me drop my defenses.

He is the second guy I ever had feelings that I could fall in love with permanently. The first hurt me to my soul and he was a water sign too. This scares me how much we connect, because the last guy i started to feel was the one hurt me down to my soul; and the Cancer guy is helping me finally to get over it after 6 years of loving the other guy.

I just don't wanna fall back on my face again with yet ANOTHER emotionally charge sign who happen to love me and can't express it. I want this to work; and I never felt a bigger attraction to a cancer guy..ever!

The Cancers in my life always become among the most important people to me. My mother, my best friend, and just recently, my boyfriend. They all have amazingly dedicated parental tendencies and their utmost loyalty appeals to my Capricorn personality. I find their hard work (and creativity!) they put into their goals is completely shadowed by the bad rap they get in being sensitive / moody.

The Cancer I've fallen for is super sweet and romantic, fun and compassionate, puts 1000% into everything, and is very understanding and easy to talk to. It's a refreshing change from my ex-Taurus who had many personal problems that made communication difficult (and expression of my personal feelings is hard enough for me already).

We've had many road trips together and I can't describe how happy it makes me that I can talk to him so easily, yet fall into comfortable silences with him. He's not shy to say flattering things and, equally so, he's not afraid to put an issue on the table. And did I mention the awesome sex?

Perhaps its because we both seem to value our group of friends a little more, are focused on other things in life, or maybe he just isn't as emotionally needy as other Cancers, but there hasn't been too much mood swing or oversensitivity issues with him really. I think my only issue is that I find myself wanting an even more serious relationship with him, even though I know it's too soon.

I just can't describe it, Cancers just seem to open up a totally different side of me. I believe Cancers are attracted to the stable, goal-orientated side of Capricorn while Capricorn admires Cancer's dedicated loyalty and loving nature.

Opposites indeed... Cancers complete me, you could say. :)

I am a capricon girl & I met a cancer guy, and my experience with the cancer guy is good. He is very sincere, loyal and loves me alot. he is sometimes moody. we are going to complete 3 yrs. Due to his work pressure and all somewhere i have started thinking that he is avoiding me or may be he has got involved with someone. I spoke to him regarding all this and he just replied that trust me i will never ever love anyone more than you. but still i am somewhat disturbed.

I'm a capricorn I fell in love with a cancer who is going through a divorce he's a great father but his daughter is not from his wife she's the reason for the divorce and for some reason I thought he wouldn't do that to me. I was very wrong. He's taken me on nice vacations and purchased nice gifts for me but can't be honest or faithful.

He's very charming and every time I would leave him he would charm me right back but not this time it's been two years of this so I'm moving on but we are still friendly.

I'm a Cancer man and I am not going to share my experience here as I rather keep it secret. :)

BUT...I can give a lot of advice for Cancer men out there who are madly in love with Capricorn women or want to be in a relationship with her.

1) Try to be open if you can. We all know it going to be hard at first but don't worry about it. It takes time.

2) BE VERY CURIOUS. Ask about what she wants for herself in the future, how she is doing, etc. Don't ask too much but try to keep the conversation interesting/fun with the same topic if you can. Don't forget to bring in humor too!! Also, avoid asking sex questions unless she brings it up first (I doubt she will do that though) or ask her if she is comfortable to talk about it. Ask her in a polite way. Be bright!!

3) Be in a lot of self-control if you can. It will attract her. TRUST ME!! She hates controlling men when they don't know what they want for themselves. If you ask her for a little help/advice, then that should be fine.

4) Be very respectful and gentle to her. She don't like when men criticize on her. Maybe once or twice would do because you need to make her feel a little emotional too.

5) If she doesn't like you and walk away, please do the same. It WILL attract to her as well if you keeping at it. If it doesn't work, then that's okay!! Try to find another Cappy woman. :) Act like you two are in a mirror to each other.

6) Tell her about what you want in goals and your future. Also, tell her about how you achieve goals yourself, include sharing your experiences. She would LOVE to hear that from you. :) (Speak very very honestly!!!)

7) Again, speak honestly!!! It builds up a greater trust between you Cancer man and Cappy woman. If you break the trust, you are done for good!! Some Cappy women might give second chance but it is depending on how they feel for you or if you apologize to them with a good reason.

8) Try to control your moody and emotional; otherwise, you would scare her off.

9) Be stronger than her (It doesn't mean to being a bossy of her. Just be a little overpowering.)

10) Be calm and quiet around her sometimes

11) Most of the time, you would feel that she don't love you enough as she did at the start of relationship but the truth is, when she get enough love from you, she would start concentrate on her careers and her things. Just accept of who she is and know that fact that she DOES love you!! Don't give up if the feeling of love isn't enough to you!!!

12) Be very romantic (Of course, us Cancer men know how to do that already. LOL)

13) Always stay by her side but DO NOT try to be there for her all the time. She would misunderstand and assume that you are not giving her space.

14) She HATE argument. So, don't try to do that with her unless if you have some complaints and bring up some good reasons for it.

15) Keep the relationship balance

16) BE PATIENT because she's very very very patient!!

Capricorn women are the MOST complicated signs to get into a relationship but the above can help you make them crawl out their shell and get close to you!!! Hope this help!!

I think i like this Cancer guy.

He seems real sweet and real.

We talk & text all the time.

Im a Capricorn girl so I'm pretty shy.

It's just i don't know if he's taking me serious, girls seem to be all around him all the time. But i don't want him to think i'm one of them.

Cause i'm not.

He tells me im unique and cute. lol.

I'm just not sure if he's willing to take something further or if he feels something. Oh, i just don't know how to explain it.

Well please help, thanks !

Cancer men have a way of enchanting and charming a woman, without doing very much of anything. I somehow am in love with a cancer man that I have never met. We speak online and we know each other through mutual friends. He gives me an indiscribable feeling.. And I somehow know he is the one for me. Yet I dont know if he feels the same about me. He gives me such mixed signals. He'll flirt (very subtly) one minute and tease me the next. Soon we'll be living within minutes of one another and im praying that we will have more than a friendship. As a capricorn I am somewhat intuituve (cancer moon) and I somehow just know that we belong. He is possibly one of the most intriguing men ive ever met. So handsome and conservative. Sexy with confidence.. I wish I could just know how he felt about me.

I am a Capricorn woman and i met a Cancer he opened up to me the first day i met him.We started talking as friends and it was clear to me that he wanted more from me.It is hard for me to really open up and feel secure but with him the more we talked i let my guard down.he told me he loved me three weeks after and it scared me because i felt it was to soon.

I thought he was cute however being a bit of a player I thought well, he will do, for now... But, not forever! I haven't had sex yet w/him as I live for the seduction game, it thrills me and if I go to fast I cannot truly savor it! Howerver, the moment he kissed and touched me, I felt this electric feeling sooo fucking good!! Now all I have to do is think about his kiss and touch and my entire body tingles!! All I can say is the sexual chemistry is fing AWESOME!!!

My first kiss was a cancer, when i was 11, i just adored his presence and found his domineering combative side mesmerizing. Since I was a dominating mean little girl...i will always remember on the school bus, when he kissed me at his stop, I remember the chills. Now I only knew of zodiac at such a tender age because my mom had materials around in our house.

Ten years later, close to two years after losing my virginity, i slept with a cancer man and enjoyed sex after it! He was so powerful and it was instant drawing to him, he was almost like a teacher, except he never was real vocal but his words were carefully chosen and powerful. He was just in it for the experience,though I was obsessed with him for more than a year, he never had too much interest in me as he was seeing another girl. It made my world go upside down and I remember (its now comedic to me) telling him i never wanted to speak to him and him being very understanding.

Almost two years later I have met another cancer man, he has equal presence and power, well read, but really loquacious which i sometimes find very feminine. But i now it could just be a real sign that he likes me. He has been very patient and inquistive with me, and supportive in a way thats different than most men. We only hung out twice in person, than proceeded to have several hour long conversations debating or dissecting what each other is trying to say. He is really committed to working and being stable, hes a recent transplant to our state. So i hadnt seen him for two months but it appears after telling him that i wanted to just make him my friend, because i was upset that he depriving me with intimacy ;)...and that i recently enjoyed kissing another gentleman, because i needed it. he changed his priorities. What i wasnt expecting for a capricorn woman, i do use my dominance sexually. I'm very aggressive but he never allowed it, he completely took all reins. it made m e very uncomfortable i liked it but couldnt process it. added with him trying to talk to me to be sensitive made it worse because i didnt know how i was feeling. then we have personality clashes, case in point if im at a store and the clerk is rude, im trying to leave...he wanted to stop me and ask the clerk are you going to be here all night sir and then goes to me and repeatedly asks me want do i want to get. it pissed me off because when i say no, i mean it! but i recognized he was being the parental, which im used to being. with all these things, when we finally were intimate, i was emotionally detached because i really couldnt process his energy, though i still liked him. capricorn women, we are, very confounding women..we often dont know how we feel. we dont take too kindly when a man understands us better than we do by saying things to you that are ten steps ahead of what youre still procesing.he said to me if youre arent physically into it because im kissing on you and such, its ok. i just told him cut pyschological crap out, he was amused.

I am a capricorn woman and my fiancee is a cancer man. we love each other a lot.I have realized over the years that the cancer man sometimes has insecurity issues,it could be because the capricorn woman is more practical and can be a little stand-offish when it comes to matters of love.

I'm a Cap and have been so deeply in love with my Cancer. In our relationship, I can honesly say I have never met anyone more charming, loving, or amazing. The sex is absolutely electric (and I used to hate sex!) he's so sexy in so many ways.... Never been in a deeper love. So much passion in everything between us. He inspires me. He once told me 'I can talk to you like a best friend, I am attracted to you like a supermodel, I admire you like a role model, and I trust you like family.' Oh he makes me melt! There's no guesswork as to how he feels. He tells me, and I melt over and over. So intense and perfect.

I'm a capricorn in her thirties, who fell in love with a cancer man, also in his thirties. We met over five years ago. And when we met, I thought he was was my soulmate. After datings lots of men, it was a rare and unusual feeling to have about someone you just met.

The spark was amazing! He was physically attractive, smart and gentlemanly. Moreover, his effect on me from day one was remarkable. In his presence, I'm alive, inspired, comfortable with him, and trust him. The way he looks at me, the very touch of his skin on mine sends shivers up my spine, and when he is with me, it feels like anything is possible/within reach. He makes me want to be a better person.

When we became intimate, it was the first time I truly understood the phrase making love. It was more than just sex, it was our souls intertwining. The sex was physically pleasurable and then spiritually our bodies were becoming one, it was intense. In him, my soul found its home.

People would see us together and say that we looked beautiful together and that it seemed like we had known each other forever. And it felt like we knew each other forever.

The challenges:

He didn't communicate much with me between dates, and didn't want to see me more than once every few weeks. It left me wondering if he was dating other people. He said he wasn't, but cancer men are supposed to be loving, and connected, and he felt so distant.

So when he would say all these nice things to me, about how he thought I was special, beautiful to him, etc, it was hard to believe since his actions were telling me he didn't care. His actions didn't encourage me to try and communicate with him more, only drive me away. And once we began sleeping together, he would get up and leave, so it seemed like he was just using me. The combination of his actions led me to believe he wasn't serious about me...

He moved away and when he left, my heart left with him. He said he didn't want to date. He left me with no alternative but to date men here. The men flock to me, but he still has my heart.

I won't ever forget him. He taught me a deeper, stronger love, both physically and emotionally. I fear, he will forever have a piece of me.

I don't have advice for people, only my experience to share. He moved away, doesn't stay in touch, and doesn't want to have a future with me, but I don't regret meeting him. In fact, I'm so lucky and fortunate to have had such a powerful connection with someone. Its a blessing to experience the emotional and physical so intensely with someone, even if they don't share the same with you.

One day, I'll find someone who feels it with me and want to be a part of my life...till then.

Goodluck cappy and cancer!