Casual relationship with Virgo man

by Sofia
(belgrade)

Ok so I am seeing from time to time one Virgo guy and he is torturing me... We have start as a friends at first , but flirt and attraction was there from the beginning. Soon we have start seeing each other for sex and we both agree that its just an combination (though it was to late for me because i have already fall in love).

Every time when we see each other we have a great time together. He is tender, sweet, passionate, etc... But every time when we see each other there is question do i date other guys and why do i do that.

He comes only when he wants and have time and when he comes he is perfect, but when i call him he is almost everytime busy. I have to mention that he was very much hurt by the girl with who he was in his last relationship and that since then he hasnt been in serious relationship (that was 4 years ago!!!)

please i need help and i do not know what to do anymore

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Casual relationship with Virgo man

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Truth
by: cee

Im a virgo & this seems he may not want the hassle but then again he may be waiting for you to make the 1st step.. Ask him truthfully where "you" are going tell him and hope for the best!
Virgo men
by: Anonymous

Hun I've got exactly the same problem with a virgo man... when we meet he is awesome but when we part we hardly speak cos he is busy, no text or call almost! know how u feel.. it drives u mad cos its mixed messages!
lady taurus
by: ms.sunshine

I met a virgo man a year ago. He is very sexy,and we have some pretty deep talks. The sex is like campbell's soup(umm,umm good)He will call me everyday until he sees me and then nothing for a week. He knows that I only sleep with him,and when we are together we have fun. He is very attentive to me,and if I'm working on a project he always offers his assistance. He does know a lot of women and when we go out to clubs and stuff they are always approaching him- but always makes me feel like I'm the only woman in the room. I really care for him a lot, can any virgo man tell me does he care about me too,or does it sound like a booty call?
Please help!
Wow, I thought I was the only one
by: Sandra

I met 'my' virgo online, just with the intention of finding a 'friend with benefits'. The sex is the best I have ever known. At first, that was all it was, but I am falling in love with him, and I am fairly sure he has feelings for me too, but he wants to take things very slow, which is probably a good thing.
What also bugs me is that things are great when we are together, and I almost never hear from him when we are not. I would love long phone conversations, or some texting, but like everyone else said, he is busy, or just plain stand-offish and cool when I do communicate with him.
I probably think about this way too much and keep my phone close just in case, and that creates a dependency I really do not like. And why should they get to call the shots on this? Why can't they make an effort to keep in touch if this is something we want, right?
But I don't want to be too demanding and chase him off, like him too much for that. I wonder if someone else has found the magic formula on how to deal with this...seems to be a common problem.
virgo men
by: Anonymous

I have started 2 ignore and not texte this guy who i have great sex with only.. virgo ofcours and he is playing everything very cool which sometimes drives me mad!! or most times.
I very often found myself texting him and never got a text back, but when 2 meet he is mind blowing..
Anyway i stopped contacting him and now letting it up 2 him 2 contact me.. dunno if this gona work just fingers crossed
Virgo men
by: Anonymous

Virgo men can be difficult creatures to crack. they are very focused and are not emotional. I have been seeing a virgo man for over 2 yrs and we have a long distance relationship. The communication was intense in the beginning and we talked for hours at a time on the phone. He has always initiated the calls/txts/bbms and I return them. I honestly have to say that when we have gone though our little issues, that he has a strong will and would not reach out until he's ready. I have learned to have some patience. The most that I haven't heard from him was three weeks and it was because of a disagreement that we had. He doesn't like drama nor being arguementive and often likes to think before he reacts and I'm the opposite where I react first/think later. That was a huge problem for me but because he works with me, we have managed to get over those hurdles. I always give him his space and when I must speak to him, I let him know how much he's missed. I guess sometimes you have to sit back and let the relationship flow on it's own.
Sam here
by: Anonymous

I'm not sure how old this post is but am going to leave my two cents that Im experiencing the same thing. He pursued me in a poor but albeit cutely flirtatious manner. He was so bad at it. Lol But out of respect of his efforts I still talked with him. For the first month, we talked almost every single day and developed a rapport as mutual minded parents of teen kids. He is very aware of my party life and reputation for being a very cool woman who has many love interests. Lol Well we ended up having sex for the first time because I was emotionally in need of a friend. He stayed awake wuth me all night when I was having a very rare meltdown over an intense family issue with alot of bad history behind it. To my surprise he found my outbursts cute rather than unsettling as others have who have seen me in this rare form. I seduced him the next morning and for the following month the sex was off the meter. Now goibg into month three he rarely calls/texts. He alrsady said its not me. Last week I expressed that I feel like shutting him out because Im getting attached and am afraid he's going to hurt me. He literally begged me not to and even though he admitted to being in a shell he popped up at my house the next day. Sex that night was very emotionally intense and since then he's barely initiated contact. Im not feeling so secure about him right now. Im a Pisces sun and moon...Taurus rising. Lol I really cant say what I will end up doing. Good luck with your Virgos!
A little helpful advise!!!
by: Anonymous

Hello ladies! im a virgo male, and i understand what most of you are going through. Basically give your virgo men a challenge, thats what we love (challenges). the key to any virgo male heart is through his mind, make him think, feel secure, let him know he's needed, and being direct with him in a calm patient manner about any problem,(we hate it when people beat around the bush). virgos see things differently, we know perfection don't exist but by nature we strive for it any way, and we expect it from our lovers as well.

GOOD LUCK WOMEN!!!

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