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Confused by Pisces man

I'm a Scorpio woman and I've been involved with a Pisces man. I feel very connected to him on so many levels, but still confused . He plays mind games, strings me along . And just finally admitted were only friends. I want to know what took him so long to tell me this, and is there hope for us in the future, because if there is one thing I'm sure of , I touch him on a very emotional level, and my personal opinion on him is that he doesn't know what to do with his feelings, and probably doesn't want a serious relationship. Please any comments would be greatly appreciated!

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Confused by Pisces man
by: Anonymous

I also want to know why a Pisces man took 4 months to let me know he only sees me as a good friend, but won't even talk to me anymore. In the past I asked him so many times are we just friends and he would mislead me and say no not friends, but then what? I'm confused as to is this typical bevaviour of a Pisces man? Someone please respond and help me out. P.S. We were dating for 4 months!

Sooooo confused
by: Anonymous

My pisces man chased me for months, calling constantly etc etc. We met up and hooked up. He says he is going to call at certain times and always calls an hour or 2 later than he says. I travel long distances to see him and he barely makes time for me, which makes me think he's not that into me, but then he makes a big deal about introducing me to his family, he is confusing. When I ask him if he likes me because by the way he treats me I can't tell, he laughs and says, 'of course i do, what are you talking about?'. He was the one who pushed for us to become exclusive but then doesn't make time to see me. I can't tell if he likes me or not, he has only had one other girlfriend before, so I am not sure wether he just seriously has no idea at all or if he doesn't really like me or if that's just the way he is. I am seriously running out of patience. I really like him and we get along sooooo well on the phone but when we meet up he is really quiet. I have no idea what to do.Break up or give him another chance??

pisces men love a little mystery.
by: Candice

Ladies pisces men love a woman who gives them a taste of their own medicine. Be hard to get. Have some fun & while ur at it don,t be predictable. If he does,nt spend at least 50% of the effort u give him hes not interested. u deserve a man who is.

LoL... sorry for the laugh, ladies...
by: Anonymous

but your experiences with pisces men shows a character trait, it's hysterical. At least, your stories makes me feel a little better and allow me to take a step back and see what's really happening between my pisces and me. Thank you for that.

I am gay so I met a guy 3 months ago, met 3times once in every 4 weeks. I don't know if it was coincidental. My story is not much different than yours. We never chat online, call each other or send messages except he calls me 2-3 days prior to meeting. I can almost guess what date and time it's going to be..lol. He calls and says "hey bud, I am calling to see how you are doing, what you'been up to," I answer briefly and then he says" ohh I have been busy, I was away. Do you think I can get to see you this weekend?' It's hysterical.
When he comes over, he is completely different person that he is all over me...compliments, constant flirtation, gives me expressions as if he wants to be with me for life. When we are intimate, he never let it go, wraps his arms around me and kisses me as long as we are together to a point that the next a few days, I have sore muscles as if I just came out of a heavy workout session. Before, I couldn't understand why I had sore muscles when I didn't work out.

To make it short, I can understand the affection they show(probably more than anyone else), but what's it that a pisces stop communicating until the next hook up? Is he waiting for me to make the first move and ask officially whether he wants a relationship? Anytime, I overcome my feelings about him, and think "I am okay, I don't really want to get together again or not this weekend", it is the week, he calls and wants to get together. Sex and the time I spend with him so amazing, and intoxicating, I can't say 'no'. But I will let him taste his own medicine next time. I assume he may get in touch with me on the second weekend this time around, he said his vacation days are over, if he does, I am not going to be around for the next a few weekends, and I'll see how he feels. :)) It's said that they tend to be introverted unlike leos but this fish tells me always that he is going to a party or invited to a dinner etc. Yes, he has many relatives and friends around as he is now a mature person and spent all his life in the same area, but still, partying and having some activitiy to attend every single weekend tells me he is not an introverted person....

anyway, I just wanted to share my own experience with a pisces with you.

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but your experiences with pisces men shows a character trait, it's hysterical. At least, your stories makes me feel a little better and allow me to take a step back and see what's really happening between my pisces and me. Thank you for that. I am gay so I met a guy 3 months ago, met 3times once in every 4 weeks. I don't know if it was coincidental. My story is not much different than yours. We never chat online, call each other or send messages except he calls me 2-3 days prior to meeting. I can almost guess what date and time it's going to be..lol. He calls and says "hey bud, I am calling to see how you are doing, what you'been up to," I answer briefly and then he says" ohh I have been busy, I was away. Do you think I can get to see you this weekend?' It's hysterical. When he comes over, he is completely different person that he is all over me...compliments, constant flirtation, gives me expressions as if he wants to be with me for life. When we are intimate, he never let it go, wraps his arms around me and kisses me as long as we are together to a point that the next a few days, I have sore muscles as if I just came out of a heavy workout session. Before, I couldn't understand why I had sore muscles when I didn't work out. To make it short, I can understand the affection they show(probably more than anyone else), but what's it that a pisces stop communicating until the next hook up? Is he waiting for me to make the first move and ask officially whether he wants a relationship? Anytime, I overcome my feelings about him, and think "I am okay, I don't really want to get together again or not this weekend", it is the week, he calls and wants to get together. Sex and the time I spend with him so amazing, and intoxicating, I can't say 'no'. But I will let him taste his own medicine next time. I assume he may get in touch with me on the second weekend this time around, he said his vacation days are over, if he does, I am not going to be around for the next a few weekends, and I'll see how he feels. :)) It's said that they tend to be introverted unlike leos but this fish tells me always that he is going to a party or invited to a dinner etc. Yes, he has many relatives and friends around as he is now a mature person and spent all his life in the same area, but still, partying and having some activitiy to attend every single weekend tells me he is not an introverted person.... anyway, I just wanted to share my own experience with a pisces with you.

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by: Anonymous

Hi I'm a male Pisces who has done the run around with women's heads too. What happens is we male pisces don't always have both feet firmly planted on the ground and are only thinking with one of our two fish. What we need and believe me this works, we need a slap in the face or a wake up call. Next time your pisces is playing with your head or heart, cut him off from any communication for a week. This will send him crashing down to earth and reality, it'll get his attention and this is the time in which you sit him down and say look....this is what your doing and what do you really want. you see we pisces are dreamy and it's not that we don't respect you it's just we're not always thinking about our actions and how they effect others. So bring him down to earth, sit him down and look him in the face with one hand on his shoulder and put it on the line. Be strong and tactful with your delivery and this will get his attention, at least for a while. I'm a 41 year old male who's left a trail of broken heart for 28 years, I recently had my heart broken for the first time and well it forced me to confront my weaknesses and consider others heart and not just my own. I find its a constant battle to remain in a state of reality not jump into a stupid situation. We pisces are emotional so try the no communication thing and it'll send him crashing down as he needs that attention more then you think.

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Hi I'm a male Pisces who has done the run around with women's heads too. What happens is we male pisces don't always have both feet firmly planted on the ground and are only thinking with one of our two fish. What we need and believe me this works, we need a slap in the face or a wake up call. Next time your pisces is playing with your head or heart, cut him off from any communication for a week. This will send him crashing down to earth and reality, it'll get his attention and this is the time in which you sit him down and say look....this is what your doing and what do you really want. you see we pisces are dreamy and it's not that we don't respect you it's just we're not always thinking about our actions and how they effect others. So bring him down to earth, sit him down and look him in the face with one hand on his shoulder and put it on the line. Be strong and tactful with your delivery and this will get his attention, at least for a while. I'm a 41 year old male who's left a trail of broken heart for 28 years, I recently had my heart broken for the first time and well it forced me to confront my weaknesses and consider others heart and not just my own. I find its a constant battle to remain in a state of reality not jump into a stupid situation. We pisces are emotional so try the no communication thing and it'll send him crashing down as he needs that attention more then you think.

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eff pisces men!
by: Ms. King

Personaly I think that all pisces men are just weird as hell. It's like they dont know what they want, they play mind games because they are insecure about who they are,cry babies, need attention,think the world revolves around them. I'm a pisces female and I have a pisces male friend and you would think that we would get along fine! But truth be told I just dont get his ass sometimes. He make up lies to make his world sound so exciting!when in actuality his world and lifestlye is soooooo boring. I mean he lies about simple shyt. like one time he told me he was going to new york with a friend because a family member had died on her side. then i called him to see how his trip was playing out (they drove supposedly)..so he picks up the phone and he tells me he lying down in his friends lap in the car. so the next day comes and i call him again, he picks up and he's in his dorm room and im like hold up! dont you suppose to be in the ny? he's like girl you dont listen! i told you i was thinking about going! im like clearly we JUST talked yesterday and you told me you were on your way to nyc. why lie? boring ass mf....no life...gay ass...lol

For all women, who needs a long term relation with Pisces(Confued ones)
by: Anonymous

I am a Pisces man, and I can understand the feelings of all of you ladies. We like to play the mind games, but actually for us, its not deliberately done by us. It is just that, pisceans are always unsure of what they want in life. They love thier girl madly and deeply, still they wont be sure whether this relation will work out on long term. Pisces are mostly attached to thier families, so if he thinks that the family will get hurt due to the Choice of his girl then He will be in real Dilemma. In a Dilemma, Pisces men is the last one in earth who can come up with "one" solution. Even if he comes up with one, he wont be able to do that because of the strong emotional waves in his heart.He always belives that sticking to his love is RIGHT and WRONG at the same time. It is not because the that we dont love our Soulmate, its is because we are just like that, scared and confused to take any decisions while confusion.
No one can even imagine, how much a Pisces person can cry and hurt himself thinking about his love, which easily makes him addictive to Cigratte, drinks and even Drugs.. cause we just cant 4get our love..
As an advice to any Scorpio gal, or Cancer gal who is dating Pisces, if you are really serious about your relation and want to marry him. Just analyse the problemsthat a Pisces man will have to go through, if he invites you to life. The more problems he face, the more chances are thier to watch the inconsistency and mind games from Pisces. Never try to threaten him, because he will be hurt like anything that he will scare about a life with you in future and wont come back (for Scorpio women). If a Pisces is not able to take a stand about you, and plays mind games, just act a break up with him and he will bring the solution or a final reply. It can be either favorable or unfavorable to you. But dont hurt them because of thier helpless/hopeless behavior, because they are so innocent that they will cry for a life time thinking about you. They cant really hurt any one who loves them, but unsteadiness is thier feature that others have to cop-up, give them confidence, and come up with solution..I hope this will gave a better idea to all of you..

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I am a Pisces man, and I can understand the feelings of all of you ladies. We like to play the mind games, but actually for us, its not deliberately done by us. It is just that, pisceans are always unsure of what they want in life. They love thier girl madly and deeply, still they wont be sure whether this relation will work out on long term. Pisces are mostly attached to thier families, so if he thinks that the family will get hurt due to the Choice of his girl then He will be in real Dilemma. In a Dilemma, Pisces men is the last one in earth who can come up with "one" solution. Even if he comes up with one, he wont be able to do that because of the strong emotional waves in his heart.He always belives that sticking to his love is RIGHT and WRONG at the same time. It is not because the that we dont love our Soulmate, its is because we are just like that, scared and confused to take any decisions while confusion. No one can even imagine, how much a Pisces person can cry and hurt himself thinking about his love, which easily makes him addictive to Cigratte, drinks and even Drugs.. cause we just cant 4get our love.. As an advice to any Scorpio gal, or Cancer gal who is dating Pisces, if you are really serious about your relation and want to marry him. Just analyse the problemsthat a Pisces man will have to go through, if he invites you to life. The more problems he face, the more chances are thier to watch the inconsistency and mind games from Pisces. Never try to threaten him, because he will be hurt like anything that he will scare about a life with you in future and wont come back (for Scorpio women). If a Pisces is not able to take a stand about you, and plays mind games, just act a break up with him and he will bring the solution or a final reply. It can be either favorable or unfavorable to you. But dont hurt them because of thier helpless/hopeless behavior, because they are so innocent that they will cry for a life time thinking about you. They cant really hurt any one who loves them, but unsteadiness is thier feature that others have to cop-up, give them confidence, and come up with solution..I hope this will gave a better idea to all of you..

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Well said...
by: Anonymous

Well said man...I m also a Pisces, and I also feel the same way...No one knows what we go through, when we want to take such a serous decision, when we are in dilemma.. I was never a confused person in my life, until I end up in a relation and where I have to Choose between my loving family and my caring Scorpio... I was never ever able to take the decision, and stick to it even though I loved my girl like hell..Atlast, because of the huting words from her, I had to let her go for my family...But I still love her as much as I loved earlier..I know she will never understand me, but as I can understand myself, my love for her will remain the same...Well, I hate to be Pisces, as god shudnt have given such a feature in us that makes ourselves and others hurt...

Thanks for the heads up
by: Anonymous

I am a Scorpio woman and have met a wonderful Pisces man. We talk for hours and have so much in common its unbelievable. Sex is out of this world even for me and I just can't get enough of him which is totally the opposite of what usually happens as I love my own space and time to myself. He just fits into my life so easily. He too does the non communication between meetings! I just can't work that out at all. Its the most bizarre thing. Normally guys would be smsing and calling 10 times a day at the beginning but with this one there is nothing! Its a real shame really as I can take him to places - mentally, physically and financially, he would have never dreamed about. All I want is to be reassured that he is here with me whether I see him or not and be supportive when I need it which isn't much at all. Scorpio and Pisces are meant to be the perfect match. I am beginning to wonder how true that is. He is totally playing with my usually very stable head. I hope he snaps out of it. So thank you for your advise and the heads up for what I am in for. I don't know that I really want the games.

Cancer & Pisces man
by: Anonymous

Thank you all for your great comments & advise. I am currently falling for this Pisces man but again I find myself keeping a distance when he acts weird. We have so much in common, its like no other. He knows when i'm feeling moody as a cancer of course, and he adjusts by simply making me laugh. Cancers we are moody, and sentivity often one minute we can be romantic, next we can be competitive or just hurt. Anyways, i find that my pisces can adjust which i love. HOWEVER, this man will sometimes if not often say things like ooh!! i'm really busy this weekend & come to find out he did nothing but stay home. He also seems to be so absorbed with his family, if they get him upset, it seems like his whole world is broken down. I've also learned to give him a dose of his own by shutting him down when he tries to act like his world is so important than ours or mines. Thank you all

Pisces II
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PISCES II - MARCH 3rd - MARCH 10th - The Week of the Loner

Often living in a private world of their own, they make their home a retreat from the vicissitudes of life. Possessing a strongly soulful side, apparent in their love of music and in their empathy for all forms of human suffering, they are great admirers of beauty, particularly in people and paintings, and their homes and surroundings generally show some personal touch.

Grace, honesty and an unassailable aesthetic and moral code prevent them from acting underhandedly or, in particular, hurtfully. They generally believe that life is not just there to be enjoyed, and that one must in some way pay one's dues with a certain amount of suffering. Rarely will those born in this week escape at least one severe trauma in their lives.

In the workplace, they do well as free-lancers or operating outside the office.

Generally speaking, they ask only one thing from the world, and that is to be accepted as they really are. To comfort themselves, and to shield themselves from disappointment and rejection, they may surrender to the pursuit of money or retreat into a fantasy-full interior life. Those born in The Week of the Loner usually have few friends.

In love, they are more prone than others to be snagged by a pretty face, sensuous voice or alluring body. Friends and mates of a practical nature tend to bring them down to earth. Meanwhile children will help them share their sense of wonder and awe at the natural world.

STRENGTHS: soulful, intimate, graceful
WEAKNESSES: reclusive, disappointed, suffering

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PISCES II - MARCH 3rd - MARCH 10th - The Week of the Loner Often living in a private world of their own, they make their home a retreat from the vicissitudes of life. Possessing a strongly soulful side, apparent in their love of music and in their empathy for all forms of human suffering, they are great admirers of beauty, particularly in people and paintings, and their homes and surroundings generally show some personal touch. Grace, honesty and an unassailable aesthetic and moral code prevent them from acting underhandedly or, in particular, hurtfully. They generally believe that life is not just there to be enjoyed, and that one must in some way pay one's dues with a certain amount of suffering. Rarely will those born in this week escape at least one severe trauma in their lives. In the workplace, they do well as free-lancers or operating outside the office. Generally speaking, they ask only one thing from the world, and that is to be accepted as they really are. To comfort themselves, and to shield themselves from disappointment and rejection, they may surrender to the pursuit of money or retreat into a fantasy-full interior life. Those born in The Week of the Loner usually have few friends. In love, they are more prone than others to be snagged by a pretty face, sensuous voice or alluring body. Friends and mates of a practical nature tend to bring them down to earth. Meanwhile children will help them share their sense of wonder and awe at the natural world. STRENGTHS: soulful, intimate, graceful WEAKNESSES: reclusive, disappointed, suffering

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From a real Pisces Man
by: Anonymous

If you want to understand your Pisces man, just think of…. YOURSELF! Pisces is the most feminine sign. When (not if) his behavior confuses you, just look at yourself. Why would YOU behave that way? The answer is within you.

- When I do play games, it’s quite obvious. If you're not sure, I'm not playing. I'm probably feeling indecisive, and don't want to hurt your feelings.
-That's also why I wouldn't tell you we're just friends. I wasn't sure what I wanted, and/or didn't want to hurt your feelings.
-Touching him on an emotional level is the surest way to a relationship with him.
-I'm always late, don't take it personally. It has nothing to do with you. Unless I was trying to look good for you. Yes, it could even be a fashion emergency. More likely, its just a result of poor planning.
-I like to be PURSUED, but I like my space too. If I didn’t call, I might have been waiting for your call.
-Yes, APPROVAL is important to me. Yours my family, friends, etc. If I took you to meet my family early on, I was testing the waters. If they didn’t like you, or you didn’t like them it’s a deal breaker.
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