Confused by Pisces man

I'm a Scorpio woman and I've been involved with a Pisces man. I feel very connected to him on so many levels, but still confused . He plays mind games, strings me along . And just finally admitted were only friends. I want to know what took him so long to tell me this, and is there hope for us in the future, because if there is one thing I'm sure of , I touch him on a very emotional level, and my personal opinion on him is that he doesn't know what to do with his feelings, and probably doesn't want a serious relationship. Please any comments would be greatly appreciated!

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Confused by Pisces man
by: Anonymous

I also want to know why a Pisces man took 4 months to let me know he only sees me as a good friend, but won't even talk to me anymore. In the past I asked him so many times are we just friends and he would mislead me and say no not friends, but then what? I'm confused as to is this typical bevaviour of a Pisces man? Someone please respond and help me out. P.S. We were dating for 4 months!

Sooooo confused
by: Anonymous

My pisces man chased me for months, calling constantly etc etc. We met up and hooked up. He says he is going to call at certain times and always calls an hour or 2 later than he says. I travel long distances to see him and he barely makes time for me, which makes me think he's not that into me, but then he makes a big deal about introducing me to his family, he is confusing. When I ask him if he likes me because by the way he treats me I can't tell, he laughs and says, 'of course i do, what are you talking about?'. He was the one who pushed for us to become exclusive but then doesn't make time to see me. I can't tell if he likes me or not, he has only had one other girlfriend before, so I am not sure wether he just seriously has no idea at all or if he doesn't really like me or if that's just the way he is. I am seriously running out of patience. I really like him and we get along sooooo well on the phone but when we meet up he is really quiet. I have no idea what to do.Break up or give him another chance??

pisces men love a little mystery.
by: Candice

Ladies pisces men love a woman who gives them a taste of their own medicine. Be hard to get. Have some fun & while ur at it don,t be predictable. If he does,nt spend at least 50% of the effort u give him hes not interested. u deserve a man who is.

LoL... sorry for the laugh, ladies...
by: Anonymous

but your experiences with pisces men shows a character trait, it's hysterical. At least, your stories makes me feel a little better and allow me to take a step back and see what's really happening between my pisces and me. Thank you for that.

I am gay so I met a guy 3 months ago, met 3times once in every 4 weeks. I don't know if it was coincidental. My story is not much different than yours. We never chat online, call each other or send messages except he calls me 2-3 days prior to meeting. I can almost guess what date and time it's going to be..lol. He calls and says "hey bud, I am calling to see how you are doing, what you'been up to," I answer briefly and then he says" ohh I have been busy, I was away. Do you think I can get to see you this weekend?' It's hysterical.
When he comes over, he is completely different person that he is all over me...compliments, constant flirtation, gives me expressions as if he wants to be with me for life. When we are intimate, he never let it go, wraps his arms around me and kisses me as long as we are together to a point that the next a few days, I have sore muscles as if I just came out of a heavy workout session. Before, I couldn't understand why I had sore muscles when I didn't work out.

To make it short, I can understand the affection they show(probably more than anyone else), but what's it that a pisces stop communicating until the next hook up? Is he waiting for me to make the first move and ask officially whether he wants a relationship? Anytime, I overcome my feelings about him, and think "I am okay, I don't really want to get together again or not this weekend", it is the week, he calls and wants to get together. Sex and the time I spend with him so amazing, and intoxicating, I can't say 'no'. But I will let him taste his own medicine next time. I assume he may get in touch with me on the second weekend this time around, he said his vacation days are over, if he does, I am not going to be around for the next a few weekends, and I'll see how he feels. :)) It's said that they tend to be introverted unlike leos but this fish tells me always that he is going to a party or invited to a dinner etc. Yes, he has many relatives and friends around as he is now a mature person and spent all his life in the same area, but still, partying and having some activitiy to attend every single weekend tells me he is not an introverted person....

anyway, I just wanted to share my own experience with a pisces with you.

mature minds
by: Anonymous

Hi I'm a male Pisces who has done the run around with women's heads too. What happens is we male pisces don't always have both feet firmly planted on the ground and are only thinking with one of our two fish. What we need and believe me this works, we need a slap in the face or a wake up call. Next time your pisces is playing with your head or heart, cut him off from any communication for a week. This will send him crashing down to earth and reality, it'll get his attention and this is the time in which you sit him down and say look....this is what your doing and what do you really want. you see we pisces are dreamy and it's not that we don't respect you it's just we're not always thinking about our actions and how they effect others. So bring him down to earth, sit him down and look him in the face with one hand on his shoulder and put it on the line. Be strong and tactful with your delivery and this will get his attention, at least for a while. I'm a 41 year old male who's left a trail of broken heart for 28 years, I recently had my heart broken for the first time and well it forced me to confront my weaknesses and consider others heart and not just my own. I find its a constant battle to remain in a state of reality not jump into a stupid situation. We pisces are emotional so try the no communication thing and it'll send him crashing down as he needs that attention more then you think.

eff pisces men!
by: Ms. King

Personaly I think that all pisces men are just weird as hell. It's like they dont know what they want, they play mind games because they are insecure about who they are,cry babies, need attention,think the world revolves around them. I'm a pisces female and I have a pisces male friend and you would think that we would get along fine! But truth be told I just dont get his ass sometimes. He make up lies to make his world sound so exciting!when in actuality his world and lifestlye is soooooo boring. I mean he lies about simple shyt. like one time he told me he was going to new york with a friend because a family member had died on her side. then i called him to see how his trip was playing out (they drove supposedly)..so he picks up the phone and he tells me he lying down in his friends lap in the car. so the next day comes and i call him again, he picks up and he's in his dorm room and im like hold up! dont you suppose to be in the ny? he's like girl you dont listen! i told you i was thinking about going! im like clearly we JUST talked yesterday and you told me you were on your way to nyc. why lie? boring ass mf....no life...gay ass...lol

For all women, who needs a long term relation with Pisces(Confued ones)
by: Anonymous

I am a Pisces man, and I can understand the feelings of all of you ladies. We like to play the mind games, but actually for us, its not deliberately done by us. It is just that, pisceans are always unsure of what they want in life. They love thier girl madly and deeply, still they wont be sure whether this relation will work out on long term. Pisces are mostly attached to thier families, so if he thinks that the family will get hurt due to the Choice of his girl then He will be in real Dilemma. In a Dilemma, Pisces men is the last one in earth who can come up with "one" solution. Even if he comes up with one, he wont be able to do that because of the strong emotional waves in his heart.He always belives that sticking to his love is RIGHT and WRONG at the same time. It is not because the that we dont love our Soulmate, its is because we are just like that, scared and confused to take any decisions while confusion.
No one can even imagine, how much a Pisces person can cry and hurt himself thinking about his love, which easily makes him addictive to Cigratte, drinks and even Drugs.. cause we just cant 4get our love..
As an advice to any Scorpio gal, or Cancer gal who is dating Pisces, if you are really serious about your relation and want to marry him. Just analyse the problemsthat a Pisces man will have to go through, if he invites you to life. The more problems he face, the more chances are thier to watch the inconsistency and mind games from Pisces. Never try to threaten him, because he will be hurt like anything that he will scare about a life with you in future and wont come back (for Scorpio women). If a Pisces is not able to take a stand about you, and plays mind games, just act a break up with him and he will bring the solution or a final reply. It can be either favorable or unfavorable to you. But dont hurt them because of thier helpless/hopeless behavior, because they are so innocent that they will cry for a life time thinking about you. They cant really hurt any one who loves them, but unsteadiness is thier feature that others have to cop-up, give them confidence, and come up with solution..I hope this will gave a better idea to all of you..

Well said...
by: Anonymous

Well said man...I m also a Pisces, and I also feel the same way...No one knows what we go through, when we want to take such a serous decision, when we are in dilemma.. I was never a confused person in my life, until I end up in a relation and where I have to Choose between my loving family and my caring Scorpio... I was never ever able to take the decision, and stick to it even though I loved my girl like hell..Atlast, because of the huting words from her, I had to let her go for my family...But I still love her as much as I loved earlier..I know she will never understand me, but as I can understand myself, my love for her will remain the same...Well, I hate to be Pisces, as god shudnt have given such a feature in us that makes ourselves and others hurt...

Thanks for the heads up
by: Anonymous

I am a Scorpio woman and have met a wonderful Pisces man. We talk for hours and have so much in common its unbelievable. Sex is out of this world even for me and I just can't get enough of him which is totally the opposite of what usually happens as I love my own space and time to myself. He just fits into my life so easily. He too does the non communication between meetings! I just can't work that out at all. Its the most bizarre thing. Normally guys would be smsing and calling 10 times a day at the beginning but with this one there is nothing! Its a real shame really as I can take him to places - mentally, physically and financially, he would have never dreamed about. All I want is to be reassured that he is here with me whether I see him or not and be supportive when I need it which isn't much at all. Scorpio and Pisces are meant to be the perfect match. I am beginning to wonder how true that is. He is totally playing with my usually very stable head. I hope he snaps out of it. So thank you for your advise and the heads up for what I am in for. I don't know that I really want the games.

Cancer & Pisces man
by: Anonymous

Thank you all for your great comments & advise. I am currently falling for this Pisces man but again I find myself keeping a distance when he acts weird. We have so much in common, its like no other. He knows when i'm feeling moody as a cancer of course, and he adjusts by simply making me laugh. Cancers we are moody, and sentivity often one minute we can be romantic, next we can be competitive or just hurt. Anyways, i find that my pisces can adjust which i love. HOWEVER, this man will sometimes if not often say things like ooh!! i'm really busy this weekend & come to find out he did nothing but stay home. He also seems to be so absorbed with his family, if they get him upset, it seems like his whole world is broken down. I've also learned to give him a dose of his own by shutting him down when he tries to act like his world is so important than ours or mines. Thank you all

Pisces II
by: Anonymous

PISCES II - MARCH 3rd - MARCH 10th - The Week of the Loner

Often living in a private world of their own, they make their home a retreat from the vicissitudes of life. Possessing a strongly soulful side, apparent in their love of music and in their empathy for all forms of human suffering, they are great admirers of beauty, particularly in people and paintings, and their homes and surroundings generally show some personal touch.

Grace, honesty and an unassailable aesthetic and moral code prevent them from acting underhandedly or, in particular, hurtfully. They generally believe that life is not just there to be enjoyed, and that one must in some way pay one's dues with a certain amount of suffering. Rarely will those born in this week escape at least one severe trauma in their lives.

In the workplace, they do well as free-lancers or operating outside the office.

Generally speaking, they ask only one thing from the world, and that is to be accepted as they really are. To comfort themselves, and to shield themselves from disappointment and rejection, they may surrender to the pursuit of money or retreat into a fantasy-full interior life. Those born in The Week of the Loner usually have few friends.

In love, they are more prone than others to be snagged by a pretty face, sensuous voice or alluring body. Friends and mates of a practical nature tend to bring them down to earth. Meanwhile children will help them share their sense of wonder and awe at the natural world.

STRENGTHS: soulful, intimate, graceful
WEAKNESSES: reclusive, disappointed, suffering

From a real Pisces Man
by: Anonymous

If you want to understand your Pisces man, just think of…. YOURSELF! Pisces is the most feminine sign. When (not if) his behavior confuses you, just look at yourself. Why would YOU behave that way? The answer is within you.

- When I do play games, it’s quite obvious. If you're not sure, I'm not playing. I'm probably feeling indecisive, and don't want to hurt your feelings.
-That's also why I wouldn't tell you we're just friends. I wasn't sure what I wanted, and/or didn't want to hurt your feelings.
-Touching him on an emotional level is the surest way to a relationship with him.
-I'm always late, don't take it personally. It has nothing to do with you. Unless I was trying to look good for you. Yes, it could even be a fashion emergency. More likely, its just a result of poor planning.
-I like to be PURSUED, but I like my space too. If I didn’t call, I might have been waiting for your call.
-Yes, APPROVAL is important to me. Yours my family, friends, etc. If I took you to meet my family early on, I was testing the waters. If they didn’t like you, or you didn’t like them it’s a deal breaker.
-

confused
by: chika bonita

OMG......its like your talking about what I'M going through.I'M
Also seeing a pisces man he also likes to play these phone games.When I'm with him he makes me feel like I'm the hottest chick in NYC He compliments me on everything from my legs to my lips,clothes , shoes , bags.
Me being a virgo woman......I'm
Truly getting tired of he's
Sh....t. we've only dated for about three months.
This week I'M breaking out the scissors and cutting he's ass offf.......
Bye bye fish boy LOL

I love my pisces man but...
by: Anonymous

Hello all,

I'm also dating a pisces man, great guy! He's loving, kind, generous, he cooks for me, and he makes me laugh. I don't have a problem with him spending time with me or calling. We are together everyday! He asked me to move in with him next month. The problem with him I have is, one minute he says I wanna start a family and the next minute he says, if our relationship don't work out take care of our kids. No, we are going to take care of our kids. I"m a libra woman, we don't won't to be alone or we will fall into a state of depression. I have always been in a relationship, so I have to decided what to do. Any suggestions?

I'm a sagittarius & have fallen for pisces
by: heavyheart

Hi there,
I am falling hard for my pices guy but i'm confused by his behavior. I am a sagittarius woman and also have a sensitive heart and fall for artistic, talented dreamy guys, my guy is so amazing, he is everything i could have ever wanted in a guy, we had an instant mystical kind of connecion. BUT i'm not quite sure how to approach him when he doesn't contact me for a day or two. What should i do? I can't think of anything that i would say or do to temporarily drive him away. He says i'm very beautiful and we have so much in common, we hit it off like no ones business and now i feel he's lost interest. What should i do? call him or not call him? give him space or let him know i care by saying something? Not sure how to deal because i don't want to push him but i want to know his feelings and calm his heart if he is confused.

wow so this is what a pisces man is like
by: kathleen

I have been dating my pisces man for 3 months. He texts me daily. However we don't talk on the phone. When we are together it is fabulous. I am a leo woman and I need to let this guy know I want more of his time and attention. He hasn't introduced me to family or friends yet. I know in the past his relationships are long term, which is what I am looking for. Right now he is having a family emergency and is basically shutting me out. I am frustrated!! I really see long term with this man. He is stable in his work and his life. We have tons in common. I simply am WAY more outgoing than he is. But I don't care and have told him so. He is quiet I am not but I also don't care about this either. HELP...what can I do to move this forward in the right direction with this man?

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by: Anonymous

I'm a female pisces, and we never try to be deceiving or give mixed signals. The problem is that sometimes we're not even sure of what we want, and I believe that most of us don't want to reject anyone and we're bad abuot telling people how it is straight up because we feel guilty and hate confrontation.

I have to say though, if a pisces is in love with you, I think that you will know.

STAY AWAY
by: red

I HATE THEM ! WEAK CRY BABIES

From a Pisces man
by: Anonymous

Hi,

I'm not sure if the other Pisces men on this site are trying to use their "dreamy" quality as an excuse for bad behavior or not being able to make a decision...but I find the majority of the comments here to be insulting or just plain weak. It seems to me that these comments are coming from weak men (and I'm sorry but also a lot of weak women) looking for an excuse for poor behavior, poor relationship skills, or poor communication skills and are trying to use astrology to justify it.

If a guy doesn't call you: he's not that into you. Or he hasn't paid his phone bill. Either way: move on.

3-months is not a terribly long time to be dating someone. So, if ur looking for a huge commitment after 90-days, I think that speaks more about you than it does the person you're
dating.

And to address the first poster: he was breaking up with you. It's not that hard to figure out. He was just doing it in a passive-aggressive way.

This shouldn't be hard to figure out, but apparently it is: if you don't like passive or passive aggressive responses, don't date weak men. Point 2: your zodiac sign does not determine your personality so please stop using it as an excuse for poor choices or behavior.

Honestly, I've never been into astrology until I met a women
who once she found out I was a Pisces, used it as an excuse
not to date me. I was so confused by that, that I had to do some research, and honestly, the way these so-called men are protraying themselves, I wouldn't date one either if I was a woman.

Thinking of Pisces all day
by: Antsy

Sigh. Where do I begin? This pisces guy contacted me first on a dating site. His approach stood out from the rest. We talked for a while online, he said that we had things in common and that I should call him. I called him. We talked on several spaced occasions. He doesn't talk very much at all. He kind of lets me do the talking as if he is trying to catch me saying something that will allow him to know me deeper. He won't ask, he will just listen. I try and ask him questions and he uses the least amount of words to respond, or halfway respond. I meet him. He said how fine and banging my body was. He said that I had a lot of energy that he loved. We meet a few more times and he is all touchy and flirty, and kissy and stuff. I will tell you that Pisces men sure do know how to make you feel so sexy when you're around them. Now....to the part when I'm NOT around him. 2-3 days will go by and (the classic trait) I don't hear from him. Now I already knew a little bit about pisces and how they like to retreat and figure things out in their head/daydream, whatever. So when he did that, it didn't bother me. I just don't feel that we are getting any closer. When he first met me, he asked would I move in with a guy for love. I told him yes. I guess that made him feel secure that if he decided to fall for me then he knew that I would move in. He doesn't talk much on the phone and he doesn't like to stay on the phone very long. He goes to bed by 10 because he has to get up for work at 4 am. I understand. But I have never met a man with such distant communication skills. I get so antsy because I think about him a lot and I wonder if he is doing the same. He is so passive and cool. He looooooves compliments. It gets his wheels turning but then what? What does he want? He is not by any means weak (although he doesn't watch football or sports), but I can tell that he is a sensitive guy. He may not want to show that part. I think that by him not being able to show his emotions easily, that it is tearing him apart inside. Meanwhile, I'm like, huh?

pisces man
by: Anonymous

its weird i can see my self in all the above stories, i guess thats the way we are,since well u have clues on how we behave u just have to come up with a plan of dealing with us.

Pisces Man
by: Anonymous

I love the comments that the Pisces men have made about themselves. But, it would be nice if they comment on why they lie or make up so many excuses. I'm a scorpio woman and there is nothing that we dislike more than a liar

pisces men lieing
by: Anonymous

ha ha...lies are told by most of the me to her woman no matter which star sign he is from.. A lie is said for many purposes. you got to understand what made him said that lie.. or why was he fearing to reveal the truth..was it because you not providing him enough freedom?? was it because he had felt the bitterness of saying the truth before which made him hurt..so many reasons are there..so go through a self introspection..and then have a free discussion with ur partner and assure him that being truthful is always better than lies..and tell him/her that even if truth is better u will not criticise him ever if he reveal that 2 you rather than hiding..thus create that behavior insise him and make him understand that its one main thing you look from your partner..and well I am a pisces man, I have also lied at times to my scorpio girl, but that was only to get something done from her...bcoz she is so arrogant that, truth wont many a times get things done..

It's more than a Lie
by: Antsy

See that is another thing about pisces men. They will lie to make a situation appear better, ok, or that they just want to go with the flow. They are trying so hard not to bring the drama that they do just that. Because after while of trying to make things run smoothly they crack. They can't continue to be what they are not. It's a fight that they have with themselves. To the guy who answered above about choosing between his family and the love of his life. When your family has moved on, married or passed on, who will you have then? You have to keep the family going and you won't if you are always running to family even though you truly still love your woman but let her go. Then, pisces men are always complaining that they can't find a good woman but they let the ones that they love go AND THEN love them for the rest of their life BUT can't be with them. Lies are lies even when you lie to yourself, your woman and whether it is to avoid confrontation or drama.

Never date them
by: Anonymous

They are psychos! I was in a relationship with one for 4 months. In the beginning he was the kindest and nicest man in the world, he was doing everything for me and kept telling me I was the woman of his lifetime. I was a little bit skeptical initially, as I couldn't pace up so much and needed time to know him better. After 3 months, I truly fell in love with him and I thought everything would be smoothly. Then one day he stopped calling me. Just stopped any contact, out of blue sky. I was so upset and puzzled. The next day he told me he needed to talk to me. However, he kept buying time and disappeared for a week making me extremely worried and anxious. Then he called me and was saying almost nothing, so that I could not stand him not answering my questions and giving me exact explanations on what was going on, so I told him myself we needed to break up. He didn't even accept it properly or opposed it! I felt so stupid, it seemed I broke up with myself! Then after a couple of days, I texted him again and asked if we could clearly talk again and find out what was happening. He ignored my message and answered just after one more week. He told me he didn't love me anymore, we are just friends and he would need 2 more years to recover to be again in a contact with me as friends... I think I was truly an idiot believing this man's promises and feelings. My initial skepticism proved to be right. I will never again date pisces men. I had other boyfriends before, but I have never felt more confused and dumbed than now...

hurt by pisces guy
by: Anonymous

i helped a pisces out of a mess for 2 months we got very close,we fell hard for each other,he got close to my children and my family we got along amazingly.laughed joked just towards the end he was always lying standing me up then he moved out.Found out later he went back to his wife and he told me so many lies,but he hated his ex wife she treated him bad but they have kids,so i am not sure if that was his reason,he was still texting me saying he misses me and loves me,but then all contact ended,he wont even text me now i dont know what to do,i am crazy about him

hilarious
by: marc

I am a Pisces man.I am from South Africa.I am a
a guitarist.I play in a metal/rock band. I have a deep interest in military history and have a decent collection.
I used to do motocross but work etc. no longer permits the privilege of riding at the 'mo.
Soft and wimpy?? My Mothers left cock!

bedroom problem NEW
by: Anonymous

hello i am also with a piseces man.been togeather 3 years.dose int take me to his house.in the mornin he ruffled my head whe i done the same to him he said what the hell are you doing he dose not take me to his house he says its in a mess.we fell out while ago he did,int hear from him for about 3 month.know how you are feelingihe even has problem in the bedroom.he eaven said to me im more atractive from the back thats becaues thats the only way it keeps but i thought he was being nasty

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