Considering an affair

Considering an Affair

In an ideal world no one would have affairs. In reality however it's common to find yourself in a situation where you are trapped in a bad relationship. It can be due to financial reliance, emotional neglect, putting children's needs ahead of your own, or any combination of similar factors. People rarely talk about affairs, so they appear less common than they really are.

I hate myself for wanting more. I hate myself for not demanding more.

This quote sums up the dilemma well. At what point do your own needs trump those of your partner or children? This is your life too, and you have the right to be happy. If you met someone and suddenly feel alive for the first time in years it can be very hard to ignore it.

Why do people have affairs?

The short answer is because something is missing in their main relationship. In most cases affairs aren't caused by sexual desire. It's far more common for them to be caused by emotional neglect or a lack of intimacy. It's not uncommon for people to cheat simply because they haven't hugged, kissed or been told "I love you" for a very long time. It's not about sex, it's about wanting to feel needed, wanted, human, alive. Those are basic and healthy needs, which some marriages and relationships don't provide in the long term.

Is an affair right for you?

There is no easy answer to that. Sometimes an affair opens the door to a new life which would otherwise be closed to you if you waited for a current relationship to end. Sometimes an affair fills the void in your life and lets you stay in an unhappy marriage which you would otherwise leave.

A sensible first step is to examine your current relationship and to understand where it's lacking, or at least to understand why you're considering having an affair. Sometimes a relationship can be significantly improved just by better understanding your partner. A sensible second step is to investigate whether the affair will meet your needs. The last thing you want to do is to gamble your current relationship if the new one will actually be worse.

How can astrology help you decide?

Over the past 20 years I've developed a unique relationship reading designed to explore every facet of a current or future relationship to help objectively answer the above questions (and many others). The most accurate and thorough relationship reading available it highlights both the strong and weak areas of a relationship and objectively measures them so you can see what you stand to gain or lose more clearly.

The reading itself is objective, however my subjective opinion is also available. In all cases the service is confidential and steps are taken to guarantee your privacy. For example I use a third party payment processor, so your full name or billing address are never associated with the results, and no information is stored online at any point.

What does the reading tell you?

The reading first explores your unique personality and your partners, and then moves on to examine your relationship together in areas ranging from sexual attraction to problem solving. The relevant astrological charts are included, together with notes on how the information is derived from them.

Understand your relationship

In this section I examine everything about your relationship and how well you mesh together in different areas. I look at both the rough and the smooth edges of your interaction and use scores to highlight any unusually strong or weak areas compared to averages.

Understand yourself

Unless you understand yourself it's much harder to know what you want and need from a partner, and it's much harder to recognize the right partner when you find them. This section explores everything about your unique personality.

Understand your partner

Similar to the section on you, though typically with a lot more surprises! What needs must be met in order for your partner to be emotionally fulfilled? What layers of their personality do you need to understand in order to deeply and passionately connect with them?

  • How do they view you?
  • How do they view your relationship?
  • What are they motivated by?
  • What do they find most attractive in a partner?

Be more attractive to your partner

You'll be given a lot of information about your partner which you can use to communicate with them on a deeper level, or to showcase the traits which make you more attractive to them.

To order a reading for your relationship

This reading is available exclusively from this website. Delivery is by email within 24 hours. It's designed to be easily printed in case you prefer a hard copy. The complete 100 page reading is $27.

To order a reading for your relationship please complete the form below. I include a free revision for birth times and locations, so don't worry if you need to guess or estimate those for now.

Frequently asked questions

How long does it take to get my reading?

All readings are delivered by email. I promise delivery within 24 hours. The average time is under 6 hours if ordered during US business hours.

Why isn't this free?

Free astrology readings are a bait and switch sales trick. The free report is 1-2 pages of generic text advertising automated astrology reports. Those reports are around 1/10th the size of my readings and typically cost $15-40 each. They're not astrology readings and they're not free.

Do you offer instant delivery?

No. Only automated systems can produce reports instantly. Those aren't nearly as accurate as professional astrology tools due to multiple corners which must be cut during the automation process. They also can't answer questions or tailor advice to your unique situation.

Do you need precise birth times or locations?

Ideally they should be as accurate as possible, but I can work with the best information you have. I include a free revision in case you find more precise birth times or locations later.

Do you offer a guarantee?

Yes. A very high percentage of my business comes from repeat customers and personal referrals because my goal is to over-deliver in every area. All my work has a 60 day full money back guarantee if you're not totally satisfied.

About me

My name's David Moore and I'm a professional relationship astrologer. Since 1993 I've prepared over 70,000 compatibility readings and published over 3,000 articles on relationship astrology. My clients have included psychologists, relationship counselors and several of the worlds largest dating services.

No hidden costs or additional reports to buy

It's common for online astrology reports to be just a few pages long and include an "upgrade" offer for additional reports. This up-selling process can cost hundreds of dollars for a complete reading.

I never charge for additional reports. I offer a complete relationship reading which includes all the astrological information for your relationship. There's no need to compare features or buy multiple reports from me, as I never hold information back to sell you additional reports later. Due to this complete coverage my readings have a wide variety of uses...

Other uses of this reading:

Soulmates - Is he or she the one?

It's exciting and new, but that little voice is asking if this will be another dead end relationship? You don't need to wait months or years to find out. My structured analysis can show you today whether he or she is your soulmate.


Astrology has no magic tricks to make someone fall in love with you. However, by understanding someone, how they view things, what their goals and motivations are it's very easy to make yourself more attractive to them by highlighting what they want to see, early and often.

Online relationships

I describe and score hidden factors such as sexual chemistry alongside visible ones like friendship and communication, so you can see the whole picture of your relationship and judge its potential. Should you meet? Would things be different in person? You can find out today.

Get your ex back

Need to know how to turn your differences into strengths? How to avoid arguments before they start? How to deal with a passive aggressive partner? It's never too late to begin again. The right information can radically change the dynamics of a relationship, how you view and react to someone, and how they view and react to you.

Considering an affair

You met someone, and for the first time in years you feel alive! An unbiased and anonymous analysis can often do what your friends can't... help determine what's right for you.

Relationship help and advice

Each reading includes my personal email address if you have questions or want additional help. I have over 20 years experience solving real problems for real couples. Information and understanding is the first step. The unique format and features of my readings help solve real problems for real people every day.

Learning about someone you recently met

Life can be infinitely more enjoyable and satisfying with the right partner. The single biggest factor in obtaining that happiness is not wasting years of your life on dead end relationships, and not settling for second best. True love does exist. Astrology isn't required to find it, however it's the most powerful tool I've found to predict it far in advance.

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