Do Virgo men ever pursue what they want?

I'm a Capricorn female and fell pretty hard for a Virgo man at my University when we had a class together a year ago. Like everyone has said, he is incredibly smart with a great sense of humor and we always seemed to be on the same page. I would often catch him staring at me and although he is usually surrounded by girls, he seemed to have a really difficult time talking to me - really fidgety and talked too fast. But he would tell me how smart he thought I was and anytime we happened to be in the same place, he was always lingering close and staring. Why won't he make a move? Everyone says our connection is obvious and that I should just make the first move but I feel really uncomfortable pursuing men. Do Virgo men ever pursue what they want, or just wait for it to come to them?

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Do Virgo men ever pursue what they want?
by: Anonymous

I think Virgo men wait for the Capricorn woman to pursue them first. not exactly chase them, but make the first simple move to say 'hey im interested'. This is probably due to the fact that Virgo men are afraid of rejection. Although cold and reserved on the surface, underneath they are very sensitive and loving, very very warm and understanding and will do ANYTHING to please you. For a Capricorn woman, I believe she adores expressive language and obvious expressions of love etc..... but communication is always the key! Initiate first, and if it fails, who cares, NEXT! (Capricorn here...but I have a Sagittarius Rising moon) but in my experience Virgo men do express their feelings in a subtle way...by complimenting the right person for the right reasons... Capricorn woman always thinks negatively and wants to make sure the Virgo man is expressing these compliments to HER AND HER ONLY!!!!!!! be bold, blunt, honest and never ever beat around the bush!!! that's the key. No love games!!! just straight forward, you want to call him? call. good luck!

Do Virgo men ever pursue what they want
by: Anonymous

I am a Virgo female, but have a handful of Virgo male friends.... To the last question: Do Virgo men ever pursue what they want. Yes they do, but you have to make it CRYSTAL clear FIRST that they can, after that it's all full force.......One thing about Virgo's we are HIGHLY respectful and loyal so we will not want to break any boundaries, especially with someone we are interested in..... Once you have our attention you have us... Let your Virgo guy know how you feel and ASK if he feels the same way…

hi
by: A virgo

I am a virgo, i am 22. Girls keep telling me all the time i am great looking and they flirt with me and all. But everytime i tell a girl i like them, they reject me, everytime...so now i understand why they say virgo's never make the first approach. If i were u i would be honest with him, i dont know, if all of us get hurt as much as i have he wont make the first move ever. Just be honest, honesty is the last good thing in the world.

do virgos pursue what they want
by: Anonymous

i have been in and out of a relationship with a virgo male now 4 18 years he always comes back and they just need there own time sometimes to c if thats what they really want give it time and space and he will pusue what he really wants by the way im a scorpio and things always get better than before

I Truly Want Him
by: Mimi

I am an aries who definitely wants this virgo. I haven't seen him in thirty years,but we talk because he saw me on Facebook. i totally don't know why he wanted to talk to me. then he says it's because in high school he wanted to be with me,but didn't think I would want him. Are you kidding?I thought i could be his girlfriend from grade school! Yes I want him,yes,I have been waiting for this for years,and a reunion is coming up for the class from my school. YES,I want to be with him. And no he hasn't called me in a minute should I worry?I let him know I was really interested in him,what now?

"He hasn't called me in a minute."
by: Anonymous

"Should you worry?"

Don't worry about this Aries. If he in loves and wants you, he will call you or visit you some how.
Hang in there for a while if you don't hear from him, you may text him just to say hi! if he doesn't response, he must having a girlfriend or a wife to take care. Horay!! Virgo, you need to look and think deep. I believe Arise must be interested Virgo. You, no need to worry. I'm sayin' that- i don't mean that I like him, heh, heh. i'm not relate to Arise. Good luck to you!!

why he wont confront you
by: Anonymous

The reason why he wont come to you is because Virgo's are scared to see what you think or say back. Virgos rather perfer people to come to them and tell them what they want or think and usally they will agree with you.

do virgos ever pursue what they want...
by: Anonymous

im a capricorn woman who has been seriously crushing on this virgo guy. its funny how true the above articles are. :) yes, they do stare at what they want... i finally got frusterated with him and made the first move. (as a cap i hated that!) but in the end all i had to do was put my pointer finger out and signal him over and he took it from there. he schedules the dates, he calls when he says he'll call, he activly pursues... he just needed to know his efforts wouldnt be rejected. soooooo worth the first move. honesty is much appreciated by the virgos.

Do Virgo men ever pursue what they want
by: Anonymous

Not really sure. I've been with a Virgo guy for almost two years and still a puzzle to me. Until now i am still putting all the pieces together.I don't know if he's playing games with me or really serious bcoz he always tell me he wanted to spend his life with me and he wanted future with me. There are times he would tell me he loves me. I really don't know if i would believe him bcoz he would not hold my hands in public and everytime were together his eyes would be wondering around other girls. He moved to a different state bcoz of the job so I came out there to see him. What i didn't understand he never introduced me to his family. There was one time we went to his grandma's house he told me to stay in the car.I was in the car for 30 mins. He never introduced me to his grandma. The next day we went to his cousin's house to pick up a key. He left me in the car again and told me not to go out. I was in the car for an hour. Everything felt so weird. It looks like he's got a lot of issues. I really don't know. Now he said he's moving back home and he wanted to spend a lot of time with me. I really don't know if i wanted to believe him. I always have a feeling that he is seeing someone else there and everytime I would asked if there was someone else he would not answer my text and then after a few hours he would text me and he would say he was at work and he's tired of my accusations. He would never answered my calls or my texts a lot of times and then the next day he would text me as if theres nothing happened. But if i never responded on his calls or texts right away he would quickly accused me and would tell me I was shady. I do love him so much I don't know what to do sometimes. My mind and my body wants to leave the relationship sometimes but ther are times that I wanted to stay and wait I am really confused and lost...

I'm a Virgo dating a Virgo that is my best friends cousin
by: Anonymous

We have been dealing with each other for about 4 months now and about a month ago he said he thought it would be better not to sleep with each other. I didn't want him sleeping with other women, but he said he didn't want that much obligation. He travels a lot, but some how he still manages to see at their family events. We go out from time to time and talk on the phone, but I have to be the one to call.

The thing is I'm REALLY close with his family and he doesn't want to risk us going there then it doesn't work out. I LOVE being with him and even with no sex there is still something very special about him. We joke around a lot, we communicate with each other and we don't judge each other. I feel he is the one, but he hasn't given me any real reason to believe. I just no he isn't like any man I've loved, he is different.

Since we are open, I want to tell him I love him but I'm not sure!

long lost love VIRGO
by: Anonymous

i have bee in love withavirgo man for over forty years. I just found out he divorced and remarriwd about 18 months ago. In my life time I just want to tell him how I have always felt this is just something Ihave a deep deep desire to do be fore i check out and go onto glory.

BenLoveJones
by: Anonymous

16 years ago I met a Virgo man who is incomparable to any other man I've ever been with. I am a Virgo woman we were young and were together on borrowed time. we were together phyically for 2years. He then moved away. We were back and forth in eachothers lives, when we'd loose contact he would find me. I've been trying to find him but, as I already anticipated, it has been impossible. I just ended a 9year relationship and for the last 9 years he has been in my mind. Through him I learned what a potential soulmate might look like...I still love him and always will. However, I had to move on with my life even though a piece of me, he'll always possess.... When a man pulls back, take a step back into your own life. Do what makes you happy :) Be strong and Keep It Movin'

is it him, or the women he married
by: Anonymous

I met a Virgo man, online, born Sept. 13, he is an older guy in his 50's but I youthful looking & physically fit. We hit it off , & he did pursue me with calls & invites to meet him for dinner. After a few months into seeing him we became physically involved. It's great, and I feel a connection, but he is fickle. He has been married 3 times, & his last wife is way younger than me. He sees her a lot coz they share a young son. He does the disappearing thing, I stay at his place, I have met his young son, & another grown son. Things seem to be going well after spending quality time w/ him, then no txts no calls, the out of the blue he calls, I go & we hang out. He tells me he's glad to see me & have me with him, but he always says maybe he should stay alone & not get involved because he is broken. He knows I truly care 4 him, & I called him out on it & told him I dont think I'm the one he wants, but he said that's not true. I haven't heard from him. I dont know what's going on, and its hard to know if I should wait to see if he will pursue me or if he does care for me or move on. He is very aloof, but we have very personal and candid talks. He tells me things he has not or will not tell another. I feel close, then he pulls back & says maybe he should stay alone. What's going on ? Please anyone, help shed some light on this. Should I stay or should I move on ?

Welcome to my World
by: Anonymous

The word "Fickle" in the dictionary should mention Virgo men. And if you expect him to call you- you can just keep waiting. I was married to a Virgo man or 20 years and they are the weirdest men in the Zodiac. They never phone you, never say they are sorry for anything (it's always your fault even if they stepped on your toe- you caused it) and the pull the disappearing act and vanish for no apparent reason making you wonder. It is as if they are not human with real human emotions. They say they love you but treat you like nothing with no concern for your feelings, The best was to date one is to maintain your own life and take him when he comes if you feel like it.

In love with a Virgo man
by: Anonymous

I am a Taurus woman and have been friends with a Virgo man for 6 yrs+. In the begininning During the first 2 yrs of our friendship I went thru some very rough times in my life n he was always there n volunteered his help without me asking. He saw me thru bad breakups and broken hearts n said how those guys didnt deserve me. We use to go out dancing, beach, dinner, we did everything together but as stricly friends. I then moved to another state but things went bad over there n when he found out what I was going thru, he decided to go get me n I started staying at his place. My female best friend would insist that he was inlove with me, because he would do things for me that only a guy in love would do, but I dismissed her thoughts all the time. I couldnt even imagine us being a couple.During the course of me staying w/him, I met this guy n fell headover heals for him n when my friend found out, he was very upset I didnt take the time to get my life together before getting involved in a relationship. I ended leaving w/this guy n my friend n I spoked talking. He was right all along tho, the new guy turned out a nightmare. After 3 1/2yrs of abuse. I left him n decided to rekindle my friendship with a very heart felt letter saying how sorry I was for not listening to his advise n how I missed our friendship. He responded back saying he was happy to hear from me n how emtpy he felt when I left. Well we started comunicating again n needless to say, this time was different, we both discovered we had feelings for each other n decided to start dating n became physically intimate. Problem is that now that we're intimate, he only texts whenever he was to see me. We go out on dates n our sex is great, but then he disapears for wks, until he wants to see me again. We both had agreed to take things slow, how slow is slow. Well I got tired of feeling in the dark n I wrote him a letter calling him out on it n asking what are his intentions bc I really have my heart in this n I dont want to be a booty call n I rather not see him anymore if thats the case. Well its been 3 days since n no reponse. I wonder if he will ever respond n if he ever cares losing me. I love him with all my heart n I dont want to lose him!!! Can someone please share their honest opinion...

VIRGO
by: Anonymous

there are different truth about a virgo, there character, there thinking, its had for them to lie to anyone, when a virgo cant tell you the truth be sure he will be able to tell you the joke, virgo find its hard to love anyone and the moment you gain a virgo heart be sure he will do anything to secure you.its had to convince a virgo cos they seems to have eyes for everything, they can be so charming maybe by words or charater and that the major reason a virgo seems to be ladies dream. but the truth is they are not what they seems to be cos a virgo is not sure of his emotion, they are perfect with words that why its so easy for them to decieve you. if you are in love with a virgo you just have to be careful cos a single mistake can make him withdraw his love and he wont regret and be sure he will find a reason to be saint in such situation. the truth about him is never told. the love in his eyes is nature cos he goes around with care and charming face but its all a false of his true self.(am a virgo and what i have learn from the virgos)

Internatonal love mix up. S.O.S.
by: Anonymous

Okay so i am a pisces woman interested in a virgo man who lives overseas, we met through a dating site. We talked for a while and then he started getting busy with work and school but now that he is done with school he is totally ignoring me. Did i door say something that scared him? I told him how i felt and he hasnt said anything back. S.O.S. What do i do?

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