Does my Aries man just want me for sex?
About a month ago, an old friend (Aries man) from several years ago found me. From day one, it's been endless communication via text messages. I am unsure what he wants. On the first day, it was all about rekindling our friendship.
Day two, it was a totally different conversation. He started in on the intimate questions and possible sexual encounters between us. I am thinking he's only after sex. He swears he's not - he's interested in developing more. "I'm his, I just don't know it yet."
In my presence, he wants to cuddle and will shower me with compliments. "I adore you." However, over the phone, he gets upset when I tell him no or refuse to give him the answer he wants regarding intimacy between us. It usually causes an argument. It gets to the point where I think he has given up and he won't call or text for several hours. Then, all the sudden, he calls. I know he has a woman or two that he sees dates but he makes it seem like I am the one he really wants. He says a lot of things that I take with a grain of salt.
I'm thinking he is telling me what I want to hear. I am really confused. Is it just sex? I've read many things that says Aries men are very aggressive and highly sexual. Also, suggesting it doesn't necessarily mean you are not the object of his affection.
Even though he seems annoyed, is he really excited by my refusal? I am a bit shy sexually. I like to take my time.