Expected Cancer Woman Reaction?

by Jim
(NY)

Hi, I am young Pisces Male, my spouse is young cancer girl. I am very sincere to my cancer mate, i mean extremely sincere with her, but in my earlier years i had a sexual association with another person. Now, i am sincere with my present Cancer girl. i want to raise a family with her, but i cannot keep this fact from her, as i believe in spiritual connection, we are married now, i wanna know any possible reaction or expected response of my Cancer Girl when i tell her this. But now i am with her and i am sincere to her forever. What is a expected response or reaction from her?

Any advice on how should i tell her the situation, i am afraid as cancers are sensitive, she may leave me forever in which my whole life will be ruined? ? Any Advice ? Suggestions ? Zodiac Behavior Response?

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Expected Cancer Woman Reaction?

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Forget it happen!
by: Anonymous

I'm a cancer women and have been cheated on when I was really in love ..... It hurt so bad it's been 10 years and I'm still not over it. We forgive but we don't forget!!! I suggest don't tell her!!!!!! It ruined everything .. I stayed with that person but never treated them as good as I could because I felt like they didn't deserve it after cheating and never ever trusted them again with anything!
Cancer female reaction
by: Anonymous

I, too, am a cancer female. I suggest you ask yourself whether there is any possibility that she may find out, should you choose not to tell her, and whether you feel you can carry that weight upon your shoulders for the rest of your life.

I agree with the comment above, it will scar your partner deeply but if she loves you enough, she will forgive you. Just be aware of the fact that this will inevitably take a toll on her self-esteem.

Good luck!
ur choices are..
by: Anonymous

she will respect you for telling her, but she wont be able to trust you. take it to the grave, or have her dig you one up. its your choice.
Yikes!
by: Anonymous

I am a Cancer woman in my early 30's. My advice, don't tell her unless you truly believe she will find out. It's best not to bring it up otherwise, or dig your own grave. I agree with the person above. It will scar her the rest of her life and she will never be able to trust you again. Even if she says she forgives you, she won't trust you..and it will never go away.
If you don't think she will find out, then I'd say keep your mouth shut. I dated a man and had a "hunch" he was cheating on me..I didn't even want to know the truth from him and instead I just broke up with him..that is how us Cancer woman deal with cheating. It's an unforgiven sin.
The Earlier Sexual association was before this marriage with the Cancer Woman.
by: Anonymous

Thanks for the comments so far.

The Earlier Sexual association was before this marriage with the Cancer Woman.

Does this changes anything in above QUESTION?
tell her!
by: Anonymous

i would hate if a guy kept a secret like that from me, it would make wonder what else he was hiding~
unless you want a huge rift based on mistrust, tell her.
reassure her that she's the one you love, getting it out in the open is so much better than having her find out in a horrible way.

and btw i'm saying this as a cancerian!
hmmm
by: Anonymous

I'm so disagreeing with the comment above.I'm a cancer girl and if I found out my man was cheating...I would be hurt for life and really insecure.In the back of my mind I would always wonder what that woman had to offer that I couldn't give you.Btw with us Cancers when we start dating you and the moment we decide to love you in our heads were already married.lol.so it still burns.To me that makes it even worse.I actually married you and now you been lying to and yet you took vows and tricked me into thinking you love me(at least thats how i would react.im very dramatic.lol)

Hope things go well with you and your wife
Coming Clean
by: Anonymous

The time to "come clean" was before your marriage, don't you think? You have not cheated on her, given that your experience was BEFORE getting married. Don't ease your own guilt now at her expense. You will feel better, but she will be scarred. Be careful that you are not simply trying to create emotional drama/intensity. There is no undoing it once it's done.

My only disclaimer is that if you are feeling that it is taking a toll on your intimacy, then do tell her. If you do tell her, bring it up ONCE, ONLY ONCE and be willing to discuss as many or as few details as she needs. Give her the room to bring it up as many times as necessary...but YOU - BRING IT UP ONCE! Then let her process it however she needs.

I am a cancer woman and have overlooked many of my pisces man's mistakes for the sake of a physical and spiritual love like no other. Do what you need to do to keep it alive. Follow your heart.

no no no
by: Cancer Lady

If you tell her, she will forgive but will never forget. We are very sensitive and loyal,and hate liars. She will become very insecure and may never trust u again, which could harm the relationship ultimately. I would keep that 2 urself unless ur heart cant take it. You love ur wife and chick is a distant memory.
HER WILL BE DONE
by: SUNNY CANCER

see if she were a true cancer woman... she would have picked up that something was wrong/ or bothering you. we are sooooo intuned with the people around us & our environemnt. travel on vacation to another state, no better yet to another continent and tell her via telephone. Then listen to her curse you and talk all the trash she wants because you deserve it!!! that way, although there would still be a chance for her wanting to leave you. she may also consider staying when you allow her to vent & carry on. if you tell her to her face, there might be a chance of physical violence. where she may attempt to disemble your body parts. cancerian do not accept deception very lightly, GOD help you. start praying NOW!

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