Gemini men hard to understand!
(Gotham, LA, USA)
I'm a Sag girl and there's this Gemini man who I've been finding myself interested in. But there are some complications. First of all: he's a great friend, and I wouldn't bare to lose his friendship because of flirting. So, before doing anything, I'd like to know if he's the kind of guy who doesn't get away after breaking up, the kind that can separate friendship from all the rest in case all the rest doesn't work. Does anybody know about that?
Can the Gemini keep up with a friendship after breaking up? And do they usually see friends as 'men'?
Other hard point is: this Gemini in particular is very closed to himself, doesn't share his opinions all the time, in a way that, although we are very close in a circle of friendship, there are so many things about him I don't know! I can't seem to get through with him, because he seems not to trust me just for the fact of being a woman - he is usually much more open to his male friends. Besides, he is very frank with his opinions, and very extremist: if he doesn't like you, he's gonna say it to you, and you're very likely to think it's a joke.
I know that 'cause I see him doing it with a friend of ours all the time. And well, somedays he treats me like his best friends, doesn't let go of me all day long, while in others he makes those kind of jokes. And well, how am I gonna know if they're REALLY jokes?
I don't know, I find him just so hard to understand. People say you must 'seduce' a Gemini by his intellect, but how can I get through with him if he doesn't open up? How can I possibly get closer?
Hope you can help...