HELP......HE HAS PLAYED HOUDINI ON ME BUT PROMISED TO RETURN

by LIBRA LADY77
(SOMEWHERE IN TEXAS)

i met an aquarius man some time ago..we kicked it off so well. he made me laugh,sparkle and shine. we were so compatible and never ran out of conversation. he ventured off into a new business and began his new selfemployed company. well he changed his number and never gave me his new one!! i was so devastated. He reappeared at my job and told me he had to take a break for awhile until he got all his ducks in a row, that he does like me alot and feels like we can go somewhere in a relationship because of the great chemistry we both felt...well he never called, never came by and left me high and dry. 2 months passed and he called "private" i recognized his voice but i pretended to be upset with the anonamous call (lol) and hung up on him. He redialed 3 times and left a voice mail that said "who loves you?? have you missed me yet?" and i have been so heartbroke because i should have answered and spoke to him but as a libra it upset me that he had the nerve to call but private and that he is still hesitating to give me his new number! each and everyday i think of all that we did and shared and i have a major crush on him and cant move on...help! what do you get of this? will he still try another attempt to contact me? or did i blow it by playing hard to get? i know yall love challenges??

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HELP......HE HAS PLAYED HOUDINI ON ME BUT PROMISED TO RETURN

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your houdini is prob...s a cowardly clown
by: No more tears 4 Aquaman

well, I am going to be blunt...I think your Houdini is just a coward. more often than not, these Aqua guys behave like this...they are just immature and enjoy playing that 'hard to get' game with a willing partner/victim.

the more you enable him by catering to his "shy" "scared" BS, the less he feels he needs to be an adult.

by pretending not to know it was him, that wasn't the best bet, because ambiguity reigned (they love that so they can keep playing). call a spade a spade and somehow (in that diplomatic way that is natural to Libra)...mention his behavior ...not bitchy, just frank & breezy.

you can't do the growing up for him, anyway, and you deserve not to waste your time on this BS. it's not you, it's him (not just saying that--I just have seen so many Aquarius man games...)

Again, sorry to be so blunt. I've seen women waste years playing these games with Aquamen (I might even be one of 'em hahaha)

Hope this tough love helps...


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