How to know if a Virgo man is serious about you?

I am a Capricorn woman, and I've been having a "thing" with this Virgo male. we got into this fight, and it seems like he wants to make up with me, but im not sure if I want to make up with him yet. I have heard that he played girls before, and im afraid if he might play me. im not sure if he likes me... and I would like to find out, but I don't know if he wants to get serious or not. help!

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response to capricorn woman with virgo man
by: Anonymous

You're his perfect match unless there is something else in your charts that may cause you not to get along. Hang in there, this one may very well be the one.

virgo & saggitarious
by: Anonymous

i am a saggitarious woman tryn to hook up with a virgo man it was hot & heavy at first then he started actn cold & distant i live in another state so it is a long distant relatioship im willn to move but i need to know if he really cares for me he is a very fragile man who has bn deeply hurt in his other relationships!!we communiccate by textn only no phone conversations but im not going to push him i will wait for him but i dont know for how long?is this worth the wait? this has bn going on for 8 months!

How to know if a Virgo man is serious about you?
by: Anonymous

It is easy to tell, in my opinion, if Virgo man serious about you: He never loses contact with you and if he loves you he will do something for you and will look for you no matter what the distance is.

However, if there is something wrong, he will back off to think about it. This guy is hard to someone to win him; he is too picky and fussy; also, he analyzes every thing. You must have the right words; words are a great impact on him. Remember, he doesn't play mind game; he is very serious!!!

If you are lucky enough, you will have him. When he gives love to someone, he wants it equally in return. If you love him for real, keep callin' him. That shows for you are a caring person or it is going to fade away if you give up. I don't know for how long but will he opens his love to you. Virgo both men and women have a lot of sympathetic and understanding for the right partner once he chose. It is very true. I believed he thinks at least similar as I'm a Virgo lady. So stick with him with the right attitude.

Virgo & Scorpio
by: Anonymous

I have recently reconnected with a Virgo man from my past. We dated a few times back then & i didnt think was very interested in me or a relationship at that point so I had moved on. I met my husband right after we broke up & now going i am currently going thru a divorce. I have always had a thing for this virguy & over the years i had often thought of him. He just broke off an engagement from his girlfriend of 10 yrs and now we are both single. He has been very supportive & helping me get through a nasty divorce. We have talk mostly thru text & email there are ocassionally phone calls. This has been going on over the last 7 mos. He lives out of state & we have actually visited & seen each other 3 times over these 7 mos & things went really well. I even met his parents & his friends and he told me that they really like me. We had a great time & got along wonderfully. I really do miss him & would love to have more of a serious relationship with this guy. I know the distance thing makes it hard & we are both coming out of bad breakups but i am now noticing the emails, texts & calls are becoming less frequent since my soon to be ex has signed the papers. In the begining he asked me if things got serious between us would i consider moving to his state but i told him I would have to see how things go. When I tell him I miss him he doesn't say it back & if i ask him if he misses me, he says "sure". theres no strait yes or no answer with him.
I have read that you need to be very patient with a Virgo but I am not sure if I should continue on with him. Anybody have any advise on how i should handle this?

to answer the woman's question who loves a man and is getting her devorce final.
by: Anonymous

Your are getting a devorce and and that makes most men not get serious until that is done and gone out of the way and when that is done don't be afriead to ask him if he just wants to be friends or take to the next level. The question is could you except that he just want to be friends. I'm a pisces and I'm in love with a man born in september and he's unlike anyone i ever met and when we met 2007 and our friendship didn't kick off until 2009. Our friendship is real and we are very connected and if your friendship is strong and your willing stick out as I have you will see that things take time. It took this guy to open up about his life to me in the fall 2009 and it's been a little at a time and now he's comfortable talking about it and trusts me as I trust him and if this man makes you feel happy with who you are and encourges you why not. I have expressed to to this guy how much our friendship means to me and nothing more because we are not ready for that next step yet.When the time is right he and I will know. Now as for you two you both got out serious relationships and he probbley doesn't want to rush it. Are you okay with that? Have patience and give him space and yourself. You will love eachother more for that and by my experince your friendship and communication will become stronger. that's my advice.

patience is key
by: Anonymous

after a 12year platonic friendship with a virgo man,and i am Capricorn woman, we are now both single, and became romantically involved.

Not only is he my lover, but he's been my bff for 12 years. Its a relationship like none I have ever experienced before:)

You will know when hes serious..he won't hide it. He'll make u a priority. He'll tell he loves you. He'll do anything for you. He may be a little possessive and jealous(mine has venus taurus).

He likes his freedom too..not the ball and chain type relationship. Let him have some freedom(especially if they have aquarius moon), they won't cheat, and he will always return to you. He'll let you have yours too!

surprising Virgo man Leo woman
by: Anonymous

Im dating a Virgo man....wow its been a very difficultbut rewarding relationship. We are completely different in personality but we are incredibly in tune with each other...and seem to have the names thoughts about things at the same time....he is jealous and protective of me....but he is loyal and I trust him like no other...he showers attention on me no matter what he may be doing....I had to learn to understand his personality because our communication in the beginning was like a animal(me) and a human(him) trying to communicate...he is deeply in love with with me and i him...he does over analyze things at times but he has slacked up a lil because I dnt take his critical behavior well....but he tells me I am perfect for him....overall im sure there are better compatibility in other signs than a Leo woman...but a mature Leo who truly loves a Virgo like mine can with stand it...and a Virgo who sees all the wonderful qualities in a Leo woman can stand her bossy aggressive nature but both still require much compromise..btw I am almost 27 born August 6 and he is 34 born September 8.

Venus in Virgo and love
by: Anonymous

The question was how do you know when a man with venus virgo no longer loves you? Simple. He never did!

Different experience. .
by: CRIS

I am a Scorpio woman. I've dated Virgo's in the past (before I got married and after I got my divorce) and they were September Virgos. With them, things started off slowly, I was in a state of "does he like me or not." My past Virgos (with the exception of one) were also all very critical, nit-picky, jealous, possessive and thus, a lot of arguments took place. I am now engaged to a Virgo (August 27) and he is so different than the ones in my past. He's very easy going, affection, has no problem expressing how he feels, patience, kind, considerate, always is looking out for me. I'm a Scorpio and I can by myself with him. There's times I'm so silly and we just lay in bed and laugh. . it's heaven. He gets me. I guess I was blessed this time. .

LOVING VIRGOS
by: Anonymous

Probably has venus in leo.

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