How to proceed with a Taurus man?
(Va Beach, VA)
I am a Pisces woman, and have known Mr. Taurus since high school. After separating from my ex husband we reconnected & went on 1 date. The date was going very well, and then he took a phone call and it was over very fast (at his suggestion). He then started taking a very long time to respond to text messages. I got tired of this behavior & told him so.
I then started dating someone else (I'll call him Mr. Scorpio) who also went to high school with myself & Mr. Taurus. That ended after 3 months & then I started seeing Mr. Taurus. I made myself clear that I would date him but would not have sex unless he wanted to be in a relationship. He said was not ready for that, so we agreed to continue dating. A few weeks later he wanted to come over & spend the night. I said yes, and we had sex that night. I did not stop things in the middle to make sure that was ready for a relationship - I though I had made myself clear on that. We were talking/texting every day after that night. The next weekend we spent the entire Saturday together. He took me to his brother's art gallery & had planned to introduce me to his parents (without telling me first!). I felt so close to him. Then, it felt like things changed. We went back to not talking everyday. I asked him where we stood in a calm manner. He said he considers me "marriage material", but didn't know how he felt about me. I was really hurt & told him we should just be friends.
Since then I dated 1 other guy, and briefly got back together with Mr. Scorpio. I'm now single again & have started talking to Mr. Taurus again. I invited him over for dinner last weekend & we had a great time. We cuddled for quite awhile too, which I initiated. He still doesn't initiate much communication, and I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to bug him, but I want him to know I'm interested. I also don't want to waste more time if he will never feel "it" for me. Help!