I secretly hate my Aquarius

by Meek
(Pasadena, TX)

In the beginning we met and wondered where we had been all of each others lives. We talked on the phone constantly and really enjoyed each other and then one day things changed for no reason at all. When we first met, I did my research on Aqua men and knew that he needed his space so I went out of my way to make sure he had it. Things were fine... but after about 6 months it started to bother me that we would only see each other 1 or 2 times per month and we lived about 5 miles a part and spent so much time on the phone. One of us could have went to see the other.

Also, if the smallest, I mean smallest issue ever pops up, he disappears completely for about 3 weeks or until I call him - I think that's drastic. When things are good, they are good, but any little small argument takes place, he disappears. I have to walk on eggshells and hate it. I'm in so much pain inside when I'm waiting for him to call. He's a good man and I KNOW he cares about me, but dealing with him being so distant and his disappearing acts tear me up on the inside... Not sure if I can deal with it much longer. I wish I had someone else to spend time with when he disappears... then it wouldn't bother me at all when he when he does it.

All my friends have arguments with their men that last from 1-3 days and our lasts for 3 weeks for something small (sometimes I never even know why)... but it just hurts so bad. I want to leave him because of this, but other than that, we're inseperable. This really hurts... should this be a deal breaker?

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I secretly hate my Aquarius

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yes.
by: Anonymous

get your self respect and sanity back. i just spend 3 months with an aqua man. i ended it a month ago. your story is exactly the same as mine was. the sex and connection were better than anything i've ever experienced. (especially the sex). but the obsession was killing me. i felt a huge weight lift when i ended it. we scorpio women are just not built for the aloof nature of these men. remember, we're scorpios... we need control.
I secretly hate my aquarius
by: Meek

Thanks for your response. I am very suprised to report that I did leave him... BUT, he came back and proposed and we are getting married. When I left, I cut him off completely and once I did, he changed. He turned back into the man I met. I mean he pushed me beyond my limit. I do know one thing for sure, I wouldn't deal with that crap again. I would get rid of him with a quickness. It's a shame that I had to lose some of the great feeling I had initially and come to feel like this (but it's what works). I mean I love him (he has turned back into the man of my dreams again), but it's just not the same as it was. He's changed me. I still deal with him because he has held to everything he has said he would do (like building a future for us, working on communicating better, he stopped disappearing, and wants to spend all his time with me, etc.) It's a shame that it had to come to me changing my feelings about him for this to happen, but it happened. It was so nice when I could love him without fault.

Me 2
by: Anonymous

I secretly hate my aqua too :(

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