Is Leo acting like this because he's still in love?

by Trisha
(Austin, Texas)

I fell in love with this Leo guy because he treated my like a queen, constantly telling me how much he loves me, met his family, best friends and we were inseparable for months. He was in a relationship with his child's mother when I met him but I pursued him because I knew he loved me even before we ever slept together. He never came on to me, but his demeanor around me and the fire in his eyes were the tell tale sign. I recently left him because his ex continued to harass me about the relationship so I suspected he was still seeing her and fidelity is extremely important to me so I left him and relocated. He continued to give me gifts and money after I left because I needed help with getting my fresh start although one day he hurt my feelings by asking me if I was using him.

Recently I told him that we could never be together because I was certain that he is still seeing his ex. He said he made a mistake in seeing her a couple times and was very distant in the conversation. He was more concerned about his current situation and said that I wasn't there for him while he is going through a difficult time on his job, He said he thought I would be more supportive. So recently I began calling regularly to support him as he was there for me during my rough times, but he is ignoring me.

I admit that I went many weeks ignoring his persistent calls because I was so angry about his disloyalty...is this pay back? He wanted me to be more supportive and now that I am trying he is ignoring me. I'm just trying to be a nice person, and am over the relationship and cheating so why is he ignoring me?