Just met a beautiful Gemini woman

by Linkon
(Canada)

I have just met a beautiful Gemini woman at work. Against my better judgment (because of dating in the work place), I have taken an interested in her. When I saw her for the first time, I had just walked through the door in a stairwell and there she was! I was instantly taken by her and we chatted for about 10 minutes. I considered asking her out but, didn't right away. She invited me to join her and some friends on a Fri night but, I declined. So on Sat I went out with some friends and invited her. She opted out but, she then asked me what I was doing on Sunday. So we ended up going out for dinner and had a great time! The conversation was easy and she really opened up to me a lot and told me a lot about her life. She has had some big challenges and has come through well from what I can tell so far. I have had my fair share of challenges too and have learned much through my own life experiences so far.

I have spent a few moments reading other posts here and it appears that they have been a lot of successes and also some challenges between Scorpios and Geminis. What relationship (with whoever) doesn't have some? I'm a guy who would be a wealthy (or very poor) man in a poker game if I could used the same "all in" approach that I have when I'm in love (which has only been twice so far-in my 40's). They're both risky! So do I go ahead with what has begun...? I'm a passionate man with deep emotions but, I'm afraid to let them show. Will this lady be right for me, or will she be too aloof about things?

I am very attracted to her and think we would do well on a social level which is important to me. I have been burned badly by a couple of other women in my life who were supposed to be a "10 out of 10" match for me - Pisces. I'm curious to see if maybe I've found a real Gem! Your thoughts are appreciated....thanks for reading!

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Just met a beautiful Gemini woman

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gemini girl
by: Anonymous

go for it don't to your heart

Your gonna enjoy her
by: Anonymous

I would say go for it and be flexible. I'm a gemini and I adore, cherish and crave romance in a relationsip, along with true communication and a committment. As I read on the two signs I laugh because everything in life is a hit or miss but you will never know unless you try. Gemini's are a GEM I know because I'm one....LOL

BTW I wish u love and happiness with this union

u know what to do
by: Anonymous

just because u have to go all in...doesn't mean u have to go all in NOW....give it time...i'm sure your scorpio intuition will tell u the right answer....
of course you didn't need me to tell u this....it kinda feels like ur looking for answers in the wrong place....u know the right thing to do....we don't want to be responsible for any wrong decisions...
listen to your scorpio gut/heart....not ppl. on some random site...

i always root for gemini and scorpio matches....so i hope u find one that ur able to have a succesfull relationship with.

ps. just wondering (your opinion)....does gemini's analytical thinking make up for her lack of emotional feeling....

So
by: Anonymous

How are u guys doing now? Did it work out?

Go for it!
by: Anonymous

I know a lot of the posts don’t necessarily favor this match but i say go for it slowly, but proceed with caution. Please let me explain. I am a Gemini woman. We are complicated this is true, but it is not true that we are not capable of real emotion we are just not with everyone. For me personally I am a great communicator, but I don’t let everyone see my true emotions. I am capable of real deep love but only to someone who will take the time to figure me out and be patient with me. I met a Scorpio when i was 17-20 that i fell absolutely in love with. I was really young then and didn’t not understand myself and Gemini ways as i do now as a 24 year old woman, but I remember that he understood me more than any man I have ever dated or married to date because I am recently divorced. I didn’t have to teach him he just got it. He knew how to love me perfectly in the way that I now as a woman crave. I do get bored with guys easily because most of the time the lack either passion or not able to mentally stimulate me, but he was different. He took absolute interest in everything about me on his own. I never had to ask him to. We had separate interests; he was pre-med and I was in school to be a journalist, but he found my passion and creativity exciting, and supported me 100 %. Most of all sometimes with ppl especially now that I am aware of my nervous energy I always felt like I frustrated ppl. He never seems to get frustrated with my indecisiveness or nervous he would just anchor me in a way no other man has been able to. We are not together, but that is one of my biggest regrets, bc it is my fault. So my advice is go after her, but give her some time. I am not saying she is definitely the one for you, but there is definitely potential. I believe there is a special quality about Scorpios that is innate. They just seem to be able to balance out what we and positively guide some of our quirks. I know he did for me. However, once you decide she is what u want you have to let her in. Not quickly but eventually, but keep the element of mystery alive somewhat because I must admit that is something that kept me drawn to him. Let her in bc he never did fully which is something which used to frustrate me. Simply bc I wanted to love him and be there for him the way he was for me; I wanted to be his anchor too, but he made it difficult at times. Ok I am rambling, but give it, give her a chance and once you do she is capable of loving you passionately the way you can love her and she will be loyal to you because you can offer her that safe place she longs to be in with her mate, bc that is what he was for me and because of it, even if we don’t meet paths again I can never forget him because he showed me how good love can feel when its right!

Contiued....
by: Anonymous

continueed....oh and btw ur possesiveness and intensity is ok for a gemini it makes her feel safe, but dont forget to let her be an indiviual, which is essential to her very nature! Good Luck!

Exactamundo!!!
by: Anonymous2

I say...GO FOR IT!!!

I completely agree with Anonymous who just posted before me! The love of my life is a Scorpio man, and I suppose I would be the most classic Gemini you could describe (I share a birthday with Marilyn Monroe, am a superb communicator, have been told I can charm the pants off anyone, and well, consider myself misunderstood 90% of the time)

Having said all that, I think what always goes unspoken about the Gemini/Scorpio match is that there is a "magic" that can keep the two together and make them damn near invincible as a couple if there is mutual respect and adoration. My Scorpio man balances me. I have found with age that I don't really want someone like me, more like someone who can understand, accept, and allow me to be me and show me another view. Scorpio does this. He "gets" me in ways I never have to explain, we BOTH HAVE to be allowed to be who we are, we need room to miss the other and operate as who we are authenticly. Since we appreciate and adore our differences, it adds to the longevity of our now only friendship (I know, takes time to see and work out the kinks) At no point however, was our relationship ever toxic, always encouraging, understanding, and QUITE passionate!! Gemini is FULLY capable of loyalty and commitment, it just takes a PRECISE recipe and fit, and when we know....we know. For me, the BEST match, has been in the "supposed" unlikely relationship I had with a Scorpio. I love his power, commanding presence, intensity, and successful demeanor. I feel he can lead me and helps me see another side of myself. I believe this balance act can work and DOES work, for me! Our indifference makes us the same!!! LOVE me a SCORPIO man!!! I say, you know when you know!

scorp/gem
by: Anonymous3

I agree with the anonymous 2. There is something magical between a Scorpio and a Gemini. I am a Gemini woman. Your right, Scorpio men are very understanding. My problem was that I did not understand myself which caused our end. But don't worry we will reconcile and it will be an inseparable union this time around. I love him with all of my mind, body, and soul, and it still can't hold a candle to the way he feels for me. WOW

GEM AND SCORPIO?
by: LA LA

i definitely think these signs can work since were both passionate signs but I know alot of scorpio's an have been in 4 romantic relationships previously and the only problem was that Scoprios are possissive. Gem's crave freedom to be independent and roam where we feel. It's dosent mean we want to date anyone else. I just dont like to have to explain why I went to the store or mall, or why I want to have some alone time. I mean Scorp's get moody and want their space but feel like they have to know everything upfront and that can bore a Gem quite easily.

I dated a Scorpio
by: Anonymous

I am a Gemini woman and dated a Scorpio for three months. The sex was absolutely incredible. I was addicted to his mysterious nature. Trying to figure him out was like going on a hunt. I found him incredibly hot and sexy. The only issue was is the communication issues. I found him serious and I love having fun and I do not tolerate being bored. Many times when we were together we would hardly talk. Relationships are not based on sex alone. As much as I love sex. I found him very jealous and possessive. I don't like that either. I do like room to breathe. For me as much as I am attracted to Scorpio mens sex appeal and have that sexual experience again it drains me emotionally. Hope things work out better for you.

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