My Pisces ex is always on my mind

by N/A
(USA)

I was with a Pisces man for a short time; he was amazing, so romantic and great. Even though our relationship was brief it was the best I ever had. I fell hard! As soon as our relationship hit the rocks he became a totally different person. I do not see the romantic side I use to, instead he is hostile, rude, and plain out mean. Saying he does not care as a response to any truce I try to make.

What does this mean? is he hurt or flat out angry? What should I do to make it better? I really want to. I miss him and it has been two years later!!! I hate being a Scorpio, no matter what other man comes along he will always be the one I loved the most.

I have tried to move on, and other relationships have been great but he is still always on my mind. I want to tell him how I feel but I feel as though he won't care. HELP!!!!

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Pisces man
by: Anonymous

Dont waste you time on him not even thinking about him. Pisces men are like drama queens. Just move on.

IM A PISCES MAN
by: NICK

yea i hate to say it but if he is acting like that hes immature. im pisces male and ive been feelin alot different ever since 2011 hit!! me and my girlfriend are comming to an understanding of things that i never thought could happen. i told her i think about other females and lust and shit and she went to a strip club with me when we were walking on bourbon street! keep it honest with yourself and your mate. pray and ima pray for ya too baby girl. keep positive

try begging on your knees several times
by: Anonymous

i think you are at a point where you really screwed up to make him feel this way. something tells me that he is right and you are wrong, but your ego is what's holding you apart. get on your knees. acknowledge the fact that you are nothing without him, regardless what you think of yourself. beg, beg, beg for forgiveness. then, make the promise to fix all the problems that you created and never cross that line again. otherwise, forget about him. he may have feelings for you too, but he will not let you close to him, because you have not offered him the solution he was looking for and without that offer, he will not make the move himself as it will strike him.

Problems
by: Anonymous

I understand where the guy is coming from. I myself am a pisces and I went through the same problem with a girl. It was a girl i liked and I later found out she had a boyfriend and lied to me. I forgave her and we agreed to be friends, but everytime we talked, I was always rude to her. I don't really know what it was that came over me. It just got me mad that she used me when I liked her a lot. We still talk once in a great while, not much though. I'm over things and better towards her. Now I don't know what happened between the two of you, but somethings getting to him and he doesn't want it to happen again. I guess its kind of like a defense mechanism. You need to find the root of the problem and fix it. You have to know what's bugging him if you wanna have any chance.

trying to beg on your knee
by: Anonymous

man! dont give stupid advice like that. For the person that had this relationship with the pisces guy just leave his ass you dont need him. He is a waste of your time find yourself a guy who will love you for you. Hes the idiot for acting like an ass.

I would love you miss.Scorpio
by: Triple Pisces Man

Well I'm sorry to say he has very short EQ span as far as his personal emotional development is concerned. You mean he was slighted, and now he holds a life long grudge against you? I don't believe that true love no matter what happens would ever reach that summation. I know some Pisces are capable of holding fat ugly grudges, and some for very long. Its unhealthy. Some just cant talk about their feelings and instead go all dickhead about it. Pretending to be tough when actually they clearly havent gotten over their hurt. Some people would rather run away from their own weaknesses than confront it.

But now I begin to question what type of grudge outweighs the value of a gorgeous and wonderful relationship... Lets compare the weight of each, and ask yourself where did you contribute to this imbalance?

What really happened, May I ask? (insert your details of the torrid events leading to your separation if you dare) It doesn't explain the details of how and why you guys ended up in perma-cut-throat. Obviously you said it was 'hit the rocks' which I'm assuming was not a one off event now was it? You must have been playing with each others' circuits and you burnt one of his critical fuses. Or was it the other way round? Do you guys fight clean, or fight dirty? When emotions are involved, they are almost always dirty. Scorpions aren't famous for their clinical basis on arguments. Its always their emotions first, and they forget the original point. That being said, I know few grown ups who are above that. When emotions and 'factuals' get thrown into the mix, you end up getting more mud in a pile than you can separate the moisture from the actual dirt. Clarity is lost, and what you thought you could win, you're now sinking in it. When you fight with the one you love, there are no winners after all.

I would love you miss.Scorpio Part 2
by: Triple Pisces Man

(continued from above)

So... according to your middle paragraph, have you actually told this pisces guy EXACTLY what you wrote here? Such as, "For the last two years I've still been in love with you, and all the way up to now I have not met anyone else who has touched me the way you did, I'm sorry and even though I know you probably don't care or have decide to move on with your life, I at least think it would be worth to let you know truthfully how I feel and where I am today. And if you can find that in yourself to forgive what happened between us. I dont believe it is beneath you to totally ignore me as a human being and that is the person I fell in love with two years ago and I don't think I made a mistake".

Say that first, or send it in letter signed off only the bottom of the page with your name on it.

My gut feeling tells me you are feeling guilty and you know that somewhere, somehow, you went overboard -you did something wrong. Whether you wish to disclose that or not is entirely up to you. But you DO know. That is why you are on here. Oh well, we are the last things to conquer on earth, OURSELF. Love hurts, but thats part of the human experience huh? Not even Saints are exempt from the rule, I think, so consider yourself not alone. (tongue in cheek said)

libra woman encountered a pisces male
by: Anonymous

To a pisces man, I am a libra woman whose dated a Pisces man and it was the best romantic, sensitive connection. He has 2 children and I dnt have any, so the question I have is why was it okay for me to meet one mother and not the other if they aren't together??? i always felt that he was hiding something to I had to remove myself form the situation....Don't get me wrong he was always available and never played games with me and I have met the family and me and his mom became very close...I miss him though just don't know if it's worth giving a second chance...

Thanks everyone but...
by: Anonymous

Hey everyone its your Scorpio girl here (who wrote the post). I am flabbergasted by the comments, I never thought anyone would respond. I appreciate your advice it means a lot to me that you care and don't even know me (except for the person told me to beg on my knees for forgiveness; if you know Scorpios at all you will know THAT WILL NEVER HAPPEN, we would never sink so low. That being said, although it is hard I AM MOVING ON. To be honest I realized how stupid this is. I deserve better and thank you all for helping me come to that realization. Since the Pisces I have been linked to Virgos (who are so complicated) and Tauruses. Lets just say my life is getting more interesting ever since the Pisces left. I still believe that the Pisces feels bad about the situation but we were young and immature at the time. The past is in the past for me now...on to the next one :).

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