My Virgo man is aloof

I am a Scorpio woman married to a Virgo man. we had an arranged marriage and now we are in trouble. I find him very aloof and not caring. His criticizing nature and cutting humor had undermined my confidence completely and I was very depressed till one day I left him.

The part I don't understand about him is why he is so aloof to me after a 2 years of marriage, that when I am sick he pretends not to notice till such a time when he has to take me to a doctor, and then again goes back to the same aloofness. According to him getting me medicines was all the care he could provide. It hurts me no end.

He wants the relationship to continue now though her is unwilling to change indicating my attitude should be changed. I am not sure what to do now. Is this all the care that I can expect from him, or is it that he is uncomfortable around me just like I am around him?

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My Virgo man is aloof
by: Anonymous

I am a Virgo man of thirty. From what I can deduce the young man is only interested in the sex.
But you can use this to your advantage by making a bit more hard to get. Try getting him indoors next time he sweet talks you, then seduce him to the point where you know he wants to just devour you.... then withdraw and don't let him touch you till your cloths are on.

Then tell him this: Sorry, got to rush somewhere we'll do this next time. Make him crave for that day to the point that he's wanting to give up, then give him a call yourself and give him the sex of his life.

Trust me, do this, and you have your man.

My Virgo man is aloof
by: Anonymous

A young Virgo man, under 31 years old, may act very aloof when he is not ready to commit and settle down and have a long term relationship with any sign, I'm a best guess. I think he likes you but he feels very skeptical some how. He took you out for a leisure time as a movie and dinner during your vacation. Some how, this guy has no confident; it is simple: look, he has no driver license and how is it possible that can he has a federal job?

This job requires ed. and qualifications. You, Scorpio woman, met the wrong/no talented Virgo guy. That is horrible!! You are smart, Scorpio lady- not all Virgo male or female are born with skills or educated. I know how you feels as a Scorpio woman. I would say it is better to be back off from Virgo man for awhile to observe for the result. You loved him; I understands. You must deserve the best love and care from him when you are in need as an emergency or a hard time. In my opinion, Scorpio lady best match is a Pisces man.

I'm a Virgo lady blessed-Virgo woman is very different from a male. I'm very responsible, loving, and caring, for my partner regardless of the Astrology Signs; he is my friend and lover. But it's all depend; I expect those qualities in return. If you want him back to you, go easy; no pressure on him; communicate is a plus. Virgo is very hard to win, so you have to work hard; show him that you are interested only him. That is all I can say. I'm not too sure how Virgo guy feels. Okay, girlfriend! Best luck! Virgo

My Virgo man is aloof
by: Anonymous

What I've read so far about Virgo male and being aloof is soo true! Im a Scorpio gal myself. I was in a relationship wit a Virgo man for about 4 mos but he became aloof and said he wasn't sure what he wanted so I told him I would make up his mind for him and broke it off! im not da type to beg at all so I didn't call or txt him. A couple of days later he started texting...I would reply but casually not make it seem like I was excited to hear from him even though I was...I decided to keep it casual wit him since he seems to appear and disappear. It is true about his feelings varying a lot.

I do notice he gets bothered when others seem to have some interest in me. He acts like my boyfriend around people but acts like a friend when we r alone. To me, it's a game he's prolly playing but I will not show he has da upper hand. like they say...the person who cares less in a relationship has the most power! that I will never show to him! it makes me feel better when im not da one after him!! and that I can truly say!

My Virgo man is aloof
by: Anonymous

I'm a young Scorpio woman who is dating a Virgo male.

Now when I mean young, I mean teen, alright? Now I have read some of these posts about the Virgo males being aloof at times and sometimes very flitty. I have also been advised on how sex derived the male Virgo's mind works.

I have been in a relationship with my Virgo for nearly a year and a half, and considering our age, we have not had sex once. He is a very committed person, and refuses to leave me for no particular reason. We broke up for a very small amount of time, and he pursued me. He refused to leave me as I am his girl, (that's how he puts it.)

My point is is that not all Virgo males are flitty and sex focused.

I love my Virgo ;)

My Virgo man is aloof
by: Anonymous

I was talking to a Virgo man at first it was all good I thought I find someone that gets me and like me for who I am he can be aloof and sometime I can take it and sometime it was so annoying like ewwww I really liked him and we would talk every night about everything under the sun and the sex was great but with something good therea always something bad we would argue like once a week and it was become so annoying when I want to hang he was on his ohhh Im busy or I don't feel like hanging bs so I was feel so hurt and I wanted for him to want me cuz I felt that he didn't things finally look like it was getting good until he told my friend something that turned me off and we having talk since I do miss but I can't keep playing this game I deserve better.......I do wish the best for him

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