Patience is key to Capricorn seduction

I'm a female Capricorn and I must say the pressuring thing is very true. My ex boyfriend (I dumped him :[ ) Was my friend first but when we started dating he went straight to flirt mode but I liked the way we were as friends and didn't appreciate him "teaching" me how to kiss and be romantic (As if I didn't know how, I'm shy not stupid). It was like a system over load of love that I felt obligated to return (It was also kind of a turn off), I would have rather he showed me how he felt more suddenly with kind gestures and less butt grabbing and saying he loves me (making it feel less special when over used and not explained) I needed time to warm up to him and returned it.

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Yes patience is key
by: Anonymous

I'm a Taurus girl, and i have know my Capricorn man for about 4 yrs. Our relationship did not begin with a good start, but after a couple yrs of
dating on and off, a few good arguments here and there. We realized we couldn't be without each other. Physical and emotional love has gotten stronger.

The key to wining his heart was lots and lots of patience, and forgiveness. Every time
he would mess up plans, he knew i was upset, but i couldn't stay mad at him forever, and he tell's me when i forgive him he falls in love with me more and
more. Now he gives me the talk of expanding the family. I couldn't be any more
happier.

true
by: Anonymous

Be his friend, for as long as it takes.. No mention of romance or flirting or pressure AT ALL... or he/she will step back then flee & he/she
hates confrontation.. Don't do it unless you wish to loose.. True Capricorns HATE being forced to speak or do anything so allow privacy and he/she will speak in time, even if you know they are upset, let them know you are happy to listen
without judging and advise without forcing, if and when he/she is ready..

Do not bombard him/her as smothering, calls or texts, as this is off putting to a true Capricorn.. Give him/her a chance to call YOU.. Do not stray too far while giving him/her that space.. He/she doesn't even though it may appear so..

When he/she is stressed, suggest ways of assistance or that you are there to assist, come rain or shine & step back to let your Capricorn breathe and if you can, offer a de-stressing remedy.. A deep tissue massage or book him.her in as a gift with a low cost but good specialist if you can.. Do the things he/she has no time for.. E.g a nice CD because he/she does not have time to buy them.. A pair of gloves because he/she is out in the cold for or too and from work but
only if this is really who you are as Capricorn is not a stupid sign, and likes a realist..

Capricorn Crap
by: Anonymous

This comment does not sound like a relationship. This particular girl sounds like a eggshell walker to the moods of cap crap. These caps are workaholics, want a family life, but do not want to do any of the home life domestic responsibilities. They want to look high/mighty in the social arena, want a wife/girl who dresses great in the public place? If family means so much to this sign, then they need to be there and contribute as well. If they want to be so successful, let them control their bosses, and push them around, not the wife/woman at home. Sounds like cap crap. I think they EXPECT all to understand their 80-90 hours a week, and then the woman to do their domestic stuff. Sound like a JOB to me. Then women have to wait for them to open up? In reality, like a alcoholic drunk with beer, they are drunk with work of a workaholic. Emotionally unavailable. How can a workaholic be emotionally available when drunk with work? Sounds like a sickness...as I think a Capricorn needs another Capricorn so they can brag of their 80-90 work week, their distance,be in control, and wait for their name in the city news, with their 6-8 children, mother.father hanging on their legs, waiting for compliments, while the wife puts his picture all over the house to remind her 6-8 children what the father looks like. But he LOOKS great in the town square. Then when he comes home whenever HE wants, he wants dinner. Sounds like a sign that needs to GROW UP!!

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by: Anonymous

whoa, whoa, whoa. that's just insulting, man. were you the victim of a cap or something, it sounds like it.

lol victim of CAP crap!
by: Anonymous

I just have to comment about victim of Cap crap, sounds like a bitter person to me. Anyway I just want to say i love my cappy and yes he works too much but he makes up for it in more ways than one! When you are not compatible and can not undersatnd or appreciate why a man wants to work for his family to the extreme then he is simply not for you. Thank goodness you are done with him I'm sure he will find someone who will fall in love with his work ethic and his sexual energy and what ever other qualities you were not able to see aaaaaaaand to you I wish you love as weLl :D

From a true capricorn woman
by: Anonymous

I am a capricorn woman, and pretty much everything that this entire artical has said is true...besides the pessimistic part. I am the most optomistic person and inspire others around me to be so as well, however I, as other capricorns, always have a guard up. I never expect anything, but always hope. As far as a partner goes, patience is definitely the key. We thrive on feeling stable, so we need to know our partner is as committed as we are, even if we don't show it as often. The best thing a man can do is be understanding of the walls we have around us and not back away because of it. Us capricorns do work A LOT, I for one work upwards of 60 hrs a week, and spend sunday evenings preparing for the week, but I also love to take care of my partner. Just be patient, help us unwind from the day and our stress with a glass of wine or a back rub, and once the walls come down, you will have the most loyal capricorn partner who will do anything in the world for you.

I NEED HELP WITH A CAPPY GUY- 1
by: OD

I need help with a Cappy guy.
I am a Gemini with Moon and Venus in Taurus.I am 43 yrs old divorced with no child living with family.He is 45 yrs old, leaving alone. He has 2 kids and takes them to his house every saturday night.I am a conservative type and do not chat or meet people on the net in general, I am divorced 7 yeras ago and I did not have any relatin before and after my ex. I am quite sentimental.

I met that cappy guy on facebook, we had common friends. We started to chat about music , cinema etc. We had lots in common.He was also a customer of my company so I felt secured with him. He works a lot and late.He is an architect.
He was very secretive.He did not have a clear photo on facebook at the beginning but I felt he was a nice guy.

I NEED HELP WITH A CAPPY GUY- 2
by: Anonymous

One month after we met, we both had tickets for a concert and said we can meet there, I said I would go with my brother and I did so.He did not say with whom he would go. During the concert I looked for him sent messages but he did not reply. At that time I did not see his face clearly but at the end of the concert I saw a man with a beautiful blond girl. I was sure it was him. Later I wrote him that I could not meet him at the concert etc. He said his phone was closed and he saw my message after. We continued to chat we had great fun.We both are full of sense of humor. One day I asked him if he was the guy I saw at the concert, yes it was him with the blond. He answered '' silence of the lambs'' but did not want to talk about it more, so I stopped. Later he called me to meet. We met after 3 months had dinner in a nice restaurant he choose the restaurant and he was very gentile, very cute, talkative ,we talked for hours to each other. It went well but very friendly.
He was divorced with 2 kids. He was married a scorpio for 17 years.She was bipolar and she wanted to divorce as he said. She was a very ambitious woman with a high career. He was not the one who wanted to divorce because he likes family status que etc.I told him I had only one boyfriend in my life I married him, he cheated me etc.I also said I do not like and I am not the type for one nite relations. I never go if I do not see a future as my general principle in life etc.

I NEED HELP WITH A CAPPY GUY- 3
by: Anonymous

After that date I felt that he would not call me as he did not like me etc. I just texted a thank you message and some information he asked for business. He replied telling that he had a good nite. I did not call him for a few days . One day he caught me at facebook and we chated a bit. Then he called me and said. ''You dont call me so I called you''.Then I felt more confortable. We continued to chat or talk on the phone. In general he calls me. and I send him sms messages to say have a good week or weekend etc.
After 3 month he called a sarturday evening to have dinner that night. he was going to take his sons at 10 pm and wanted to meet me around 8 pm then he said it would be difficult perhaps we could do another time. Then I said dont be crazy we can meet in a mid point etc.Finally we met that night had a great time talk talk laugh laugh. He said we would be very good friends and etc etc etc. Then he said our moods are good. he also told me about his private life. He divorced 4 years ago and had 4 serious relationships wiht beautiful women havind career. But once they asked for a committment he felt bad and left them. HE says his x-wife has psychologıcal problems and if he marries now his children will feel very bad. So he want to wait until they get old enough.( they are 11 and 16 now) His son asked him if he had a girl friend and he said he replied to have more than one. I did not understand if that was a joke or not. we stayed together until 11 pm that night.When we walk he is very kind and protective. After that dinner we kept calling each other in the same manner, jokes etc. Recently he started to make some sexual jokes , I showed I did not like them much but still can laugh.From time to time he said we should meet again. He called one night telling he bought a coffee mashine and if I canIshould go for a coffee but it was not very serious , I saidI was late andI had to sleep. For last 5 -6 days he did not call me, I messaged him 2 days ago and aske how he was. He replied he was ok and asked how I was. I send a confused smiley face. He called me and asked why I was confused. In fact I was confused with him, job and other issues but I did not tell him. I said it is just a crazy smiley etc. We spoke a bit, then he had to do something else he said he would call but did not for lat 2 days. He was more on facebook at the beginning but not much recently. Perhaps he works a lot or he has someone else. I have no idea and I do not know what to do with him. Any suggesstions pls.
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