Pisces man keeps coming back into my life

I dated a guy about 3 years ago who is a Pisces.. Prior to that I was in a five year tumultuous relationship with another Scorpio. I liked this Pisces man from the start as he was a breath of fresh air from my Scorpio man experience. We started going out and felt a really strong connection. We would have these deep conversations that would last for hours and just had fun. Then he started acting flaky and standing me up, then telling me he forgot about our date because he was tired. I figured if he was really into me he would not forget.. So I dumped him right there. A few months later he came back into my life and asked for another chance..so I did and he pulled the same stunt of standing me up..So I dumped him again.. vowing never to see him again. That was a year and half ago..I then dated a Virgo man which was a disaster. Last weekend I ran into Pisces and he started talking to me right away acting all sweet and wanting to know how I have been..I was very stand offish but he followed me out of the place we were at and said that he misses me and it felt so good to see me again. He added that the past is the past and that he wants to be friends and then take it from there.. I don't get why he keeps coming back into my life. I don't want to be his friend let along date him again.. Are Pisces usually this persistent or clueless? I don't know why he can't just let me go. He hasn't dated anyone since me..plus he is the one who kept standing me up..

Anyone have similar experiences with Pisces?

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Pisces man keeps coming back into my life

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Pisces man
by: Anonymous

I'm a cancer and pisces men are the most confusing signs of all. You are right there are times they are sweet and nice next they turn mean. They are the typical dr. jekeyll and mister hyde. But what i have learned too about them is that when they fall in love they fall in love and i think that scares them and that may be why he stands you up. He is basically protecting his heart. If you don't want to be with him keep being clear about it and maybe eventually he will go away.

You have offended him
by: Anonymous

As a pisces man I can tell you that you have offended this man. He keep coming back to see if you have changed. He love you or he would not come back.

same problem
by: Anonymous

Yeah i guess was the only 1 facing confusing pisces.... but listening to u guess they all r same... they keep coming back sweep u off ur feet n dissappear showing mean face.. LOL and come back again... confusing u like hellllll

i disagree
by: Anonymous

i disgree agree with the pisces man says about offending him. Pisces men are just not worth anyone's time because they are like little boys and don't know what they want. I'd like to know from the pisces guys that said that she offended him, in what way did she??? Pisces men like to play with people's emotions. All they care about is themselves. So my advice is lose him you don't need him.

hardly...
by: Anonymous

i dated a pisces man 3 years ago....dumped him then never seen or heard from him until lately. i made the first move cos i missed him n then i treayed him like dirt again.
one thing i can say for sure is a pisces mans heart should not be played with!!! and people with views like urz r wrong! everyone can be selfish n u sound like u r!
pisces men r the best u can get if u want to settle down u just have to know hoe to treat them.
i think any man is like that but depending on the woman they r with....and i am female btw, whether or nor u get the full potential of them.
women can be nasty n that is exactly the kind of attitude that gets ur heart broken!
u obviously need to grow up and get a grip!

Same Situation
by: Gemini

I've been in a very similar situation. I started seeing a Pisces a year ago. It was nothing serious and a month later I left on vacation to another country with my family for 2 weeks. We didn't have any contact while I was gone until I came back and when I got back I tried talking to him and things felt different. A few days later I found out he had gotten back with his ex girlfriend. At first I kept on telling myself I shouldn't be upset about it because we never set to be in a serious relationship but it did hurt me a lot so I distanced myself away from him. A month later, he started calling me again but he would just call me when he wanted to hook up. He never really told me he had a girlfriend now and I didn't think I had the right to go off on him for hurting me because honestly we never formed a serious relationship so I just acted as if nothing had ever happened. I would talk to him occasionally when he would call me but that's all. He stopped calling me for about 3 months and then one day he just called me and he continued calling me daily just to talk and we started becoming closer again. I realized soon that he had just broken up with his girlfriend so I figured that's why he was coming back to me now. Its been 7 months since we've been talking again and we've become a lot closer but I don't see us going anywhere only because he's so indecisive and I don't want to get more attached to him then I already am because he's hurt me plenty of times. I've tried avoiding him but he just keeps coming back.

Original poster update..
by: Anonymous

I am the original poster- life's been busy so I just recently caught up.. Pisces man also goes to my church so I have been seeing him more than I had anticipated. I decided to just keep it a friendly aquaintence and that's it.. Well one day I had to leave the service early because I had to help with set up of a ministry fair and the next Sunday he asked me straight out why I left the church early. He said he had been looking for me everywhere.. So he asks if we could get together for coffee and asks me to call him to set up a time. I was reluctant but finally decided why not.. So when I did I figured we would get together in the next week or so. But then when I called he said..well why don't we set a time next Sunday at church..maybe we can meet in a few weeks..I was like..what? Isn't that the point of me calling you? To set up a time now? I asked if he was busy with work..and he said a little but that he NEEDS to spend his weekends with his brother and sister in law and was usually too tired after work to do anything. So now I'm all confused about what he wants.. Anyway I don't think I'm selfish..to whoever made that comment...that was pretty ignorant to say with out knowing me or the full situation.. Since when am I selfish for dumping a guy who kept standing me up?? Oh..and by the way..one of the times he stood me was to go plumb picking with his sister in law...while his brother was out of town for work...and...she cooks him dinner all the time.. So obviously he has time.. I might just say never mind to the coffee..I can't take this hot and cold..yes then no... Maybe Katie Perry had a point when she wrote that song... lol..

the real deal
by: sex apeal

Let me explian something to all y'all who think y'all know pisces I'm am a pisces that got a baby by a pisces man and dnt show them two much love balance them out they love to be rejected if u are real easy they will hurt u very bad and wnt think twice about it because they know u will take them back I was all mess up and I am a pisces but the women just wnt a lot of more attention we are nothing a like trust me we got a lot in common but I'm not that tricky and another thing when they disapear for weeks they are wit another woman that's the truth they try to live a double life and they do it well trust me wife and and baby ma mas that just majority of them not all I was chopped and screwed and did not understnd why me but since I' am a pisces I adapt to things very quickly I have bacame a night mare to this man and he cries and I dnt care I shut off all feelings and put my emotional side up lol because I was ready to play his game and he couldn't handle it and he continue to stalk me tell him lies and wnt he wnt to hear sometimes if u love some one u got to give them a taste of they own medicine they can dis it out but cnt take it just sometimes realize wat its worth and I say these men are good in the bed that's I ever saw ha ha

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