Pisces men hard to understand
I have been in a relationship with a Pisces man for 3 years on and off may i add..I do love him to bits but there are things he says and does which i cannot work out.
I have never meet a man that contradicts himself more than he does,he says one thing but really means another, he can go from loving the ground you walk on, to disappearing and not hearing from him in a flash.. When we have fallen out which most of the time is caused by him,its never his fault he lies about me,and he will drag stuff up that upset him a long time ago,its any excuse but what he did.Then when he has calmed he will be honest and admit it was him.
We do have a great relationship and the root of our problems,are how he behaves when he has alcohol,he gets drunk very quick and becomes abusive and very changeling towards any other male that may talk to me even if i've known them for along time,he is very jealous and controlling but yet again this isn't his fault i make him feel insecure,when i try and discuss his actions he doesn't like hearing anything negative and yet again he will run,because deep down he knows how he's behaved is wrong,i'm at the point with him were i don't like going out with him and when i do i cannot be myself as im so worried what he might do!i have tried to help him but things will be ok for a few months then it happens again.
Two weeks ago i lost a baby due to ectopic pregnancy and had to have a major op he was there at the hospital with me, but the day after the op we had a little row and he walked away saying he couldn't cope with this, i haven't seen him since then we've spoke twice on the phone,now this is a man whom wanted a baby,but later said to one friend i wish the pregnancy hadn't turned out like it had,then to another friend he said he didn't want a baby!!
i just don't understand how somebody can change there mind so much..has anyone got any advice will he be back in touch,is he hurting like i am...HELP x