Pisces men hard to understand

I have been in a relationship with a Pisces man for 3 years on and off may i add..I do love him to bits but there are things he says and does which i cannot work out.

I have never meet a man that contradicts himself more than he does,he says one thing but really means another, he can go from loving the ground you walk on, to disappearing and not hearing from him in a flash.. When we have fallen out which most of the time is caused by him,its never his fault he lies about me,and he will drag stuff up that upset him a long time ago,its any excuse but what he did.Then when he has calmed he will be honest and admit it was him.

We do have a great relationship and the root of our problems,are how he behaves when he has alcohol,he gets drunk very quick and becomes abusive and very changeling towards any other male that may talk to me even if i've known them for along time,he is very jealous and controlling but yet again this isn't his fault i make him feel insecure,when i try and discuss his actions he doesn't like hearing anything negative and yet again he will run,because deep down he knows how he's behaved is wrong,i'm at the point with him were i don't like going out with him and when i do i cannot be myself as im so worried what he might do!i have tried to help him but things will be ok for a few months then it happens again.
Two weeks ago i lost a baby due to ectopic pregnancy and had to have a major op he was there at the hospital with me, but the day after the op we had a little row and he walked away saying he couldn't cope with this, i haven't seen him since then we've spoke twice on the phone,now this is a man whom wanted a baby,but later said to one friend i wish the pregnancy hadn't turned out like it had,then to another friend he said he didn't want a baby!!

i just don't understand how somebody can change there mind so much..has anyone got any advice will he be back in touch,is he hurting like i am...HELP x

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run, run, run
by: Anonymous

anyone who is dating a pisces man just run and never look back. They are negative, they contradict themselves, selfish, rude, and impatient. So just dump him he is not worth it there are more fish in the sea.

understanding the man u r with
by: Danielle Hull

Well I am a Pisces and I am also married to a pisces male. Pisces r people that will run and hide their feelings. They will leave you quickly to safeguard their hearts. Once you have trust from a pisces, they will slowly allow u into their world. But pisces men r afraid of expressing their feelings and the hold everything in to the last minute. If you turn a pisces off you have to be very persistant in your qwest to get them back. They love to play hard to get. But I can say this pisces make excellent partners and lovers. Its just a lot of working dealing with us emotionally. We love time and attention. We hate lies and we r one of the most people friendly beings. But the moment you betray our trust we can go from NICE TO NASTY. But be patient because a pisces is only upset temporary and just really need a persistant partner willing to sacrifice time and attention!!

answer back to danielle
by: Anonymous

well danielle i think your wrong im a cancer and the pisces man i experienced just started being rude to me after we had sex, well in this case he new before hand that i was married but he jumped in and still wanted to have sex. He said it was awesome he wanted to see me again but i told him i could but no sex so he got pissed off and started to insult me. And why because he couldnt have it his way. To me pisces are so damn negative and they just wear you out. Now in my opinion i think he fell in love with me but i know he will never tell me that. But it would of been nice if he could be honest with me instead of being so pissy at me. I wanted us to stay as friends but he refused to and basically cut me off. So now ive learned my lesson and stay away from pisces men, even as friends.

comment on run run run
by: Anonymous

I am a Pieces man and I have never mistreated any woman be it physically, mentally, or spiritually, I have ever been been with.More often then not I am the one who gets burned in all my relationships so far. There are good and bad people in all the signs. Not all Pieces men are bad to be with. It just sounds to me like she found one of the bad ones. Please don't judge all Pieces men badly, we are not all like that

on the pisces man
by: Anonymous

I'm the one who said run run run. Its because you guys don't know what the hell you guys want you treat someone really special and then all of a sudden your mean. Now pisces man tell me why is that? why would a pisces man be sooo sweet one day and then the next there cold hearted? Actually the one that i was with just flat out stop keeping in touch with me he started out insulting me until he pissed me off then i did the same to him so now he cut me off. I understand you guys are sensitive im a cancer so i know, but you could only take so much of insults until this cancer person blew up and said what i had to say.

I don't understand either
by: Anonymous Pisces Girl

i agree with the guy who says not all pisces men are bad. i'm dating one, mind you this is my first pisces man. it was all sweet and innocent when we first met then everything started to change. namely, i felt uncomfortable with him talking about sex with me, knowing that i was a virgin. and i told him how i felt about it, he got so pissed. cuz i was into it at first but it started to creep me out, making me think he only wanted me for sex! everything went down hill. we keep arguing over stupid stuff. and it continues. i dont understand him most of the time. he would say he can't live without me and the next if i didnt meet his needs/wants, he's moving on. he thinks i contradict myself, well i do sometimes cuz i get confused with him. but he is a contradictor himself. i dont know what he means is true, i dont know if he wants to be with me or not. he gets so moody and nasty often, and i'm tired of it. its taking a toll on me, i'm emotionally drained. what can i do? i really do love him, i want this to work!

pisces girl
by: Anonymous

just leave him if he is draining you, which that happened to me with a pisces guy, He is not worth your time. They are drama queens i think they are worse then us women.

commenting on the Pisces Man
by: Anonymous

I have been involved with a Pisces Man for almost a year and over the past few months we have gotten closer and now we are a relationship. But I sometimes don't feel like we are, because he is so in and out. One day its "I love you and I am so glad you are in my life, I love being around my baby, etc." then the next day he acts like he is too "tired" to be bothered with me. When I pull back, he pushes in hardcore. I have never been confused as to if I am in a relationship with a man in my life!! Then when I don't acknowledge him as my man (in conversation with him) or if I talk about our future hypothetically and not as if I believe that we will get married as he says, he gets all offended. He's like "oh so I'm not your man, or so you don't want to be my wife". I don't get him at ALL. I've given him time and space, but even with that he just pulls away sometimes like I am smothering him and I am not clingy at ALL. He is sweetest and most romantic man I have known, and the first man that I ever allowed myself to fall in love with and not play games with, but his actions sometimes make me feel like I made a mistake by letting him in like I did, but then again, he MADE me love him by being such a good man. He is not mean or rude to me at all just too evasive and confusing. I'm trying to be patient, but this relationship starting to drain me.

to commenting on the pisces man
by: Anonymous

as i have said just leave you dont need all his drama.

RE: Anonymous Pisces Girl
by: Pices Guy :)

You should've told me you were a Virgin at first and not lied about it. Why would you have sex with me and not tell me your a virgin, then have sex with me and not want to have sex after?

Sex is part of being in a Relationship.

hope that helps Pisces Girl, lol :P

Confusing Pisces Male
by: Anonymous Taurus Girl

I've been dating a Pisces male for about 4 months (it took about 3 for him to actually be my boyfriend) and he is the most complicated person i've ever dated. He's sweet, romantic, great in bed, and ha some very classic Pisces traits. What gets me is his moodiness...he can be amazing one weekend, and as soon as the work week starts he's basically awkward and detached. It is draining and has been since I met him. I do know that he's been single for a few years and has gone through "dating" several women and then letting them go without the hope of them being a girlfriend. He says i'm the first in years that he's actually wanted to be a boyfriend to. This makes me feel like it's worth the confusing emotional merry-go-round. As long as I don't get too sensitive or take his mood swings personally, it's always fine the next time I see him. I guess my advice to women dating Pisces men is this; don't take the mood swings personally, don't smother, accept their romantic gestures, and give them space when they need it. If it's too draining, don't waste too much time, because you will fall in love FAST and it will be hell on the heart when you do finally give up on it.

Dating a pisces man
by: Picses woman

I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months now... but I have known him for about 5 years through a mutual friend. He has always been someone I was interested in. Distance kept us apart until recently when I moved pretty close to where he lives. We started our relationship off as 'sex only' because we were both afraid of getting our hearts broken (as typical fish would). As time has gone on I have questioned his motives, his intentions and even threatened a few times to end it all together. We've had little arguments but always seem to come to an understanding about how each of us feels. I don't see him often at all... if anything about 2 times a month and I don't expect anything more simply because we have nothing serious. We just can't seem to let it go... even when I tell him I can't do it anymore and its draining on me not understand what he wants he is eager to explain himself but never actually does anything to show his feelings. I have learned that he will need my patience and support for his sensitivity is his downfall and he's even told me he "loves everybody but always ends up hurting them" I don't necessarily think it is his intent to hurt anyone... he just does not know how to show his love and his insecurities get the best of him. Pisces men can be very hard on themselves. I don't think of him as a boyfriend and I expect nothing of him... but I love him as a person and I am going to choose to be here for him whenever he needs me. Just because hes not giving me what I might want does not mean he isn't a human being with feelings and thoughts. I have empathy for him because him and I are probably a lot alike in all of those ways. He definitely needs space and for a while I didn't want to give it to him but I understand why he NEEDS it. I have chosen to trust him and his intentions because its been so long and even when he won't see me much... he still wants to be around. The Pisces man is complicated, if you like to piece together puzzles... it will be right for you. Patience is key and unconditional love will bring you everything you want from him.

pisces man
by: Anonymous

Some, pisces men are possesive, controling, and malnipulaters. They are depressive people. There're moody, unpredicable, and selfish, when they want to be. Some, are users of women. What I mean by that is they will love you as long as you do what say(slave). The worst kind of pisces, is the one that builds a women up or should I say mold them into what they want you to be. Ater they have won your heart then they take control over you. Asking for money and any other thing, they want in the name of love. They know how to suduce the women thier experts at it. Yep, they are something else I must say. If you fall in love with a pisces man your in for a hell of a ride. Some, women kill me saying "his so sweet and loveing" his all I want in a man. He never did me like that" the list goes on" they are molded and probably havn't been with that pisces long, or has excepted their crazyiness because they have became enablers, weak minded and in love. Thats were the ride comes in hell on wheels. Pisces men are lazy, liers, cheaters, and down right mean, and arrogant too. Women love the romatic side and all that bull**** they tell you. Oh! lazyness comes in when they lay around the house everday, not working but yet he will want you to work and give him your money. And again, some women will use this as a excuse "At lest he stays at home, and doesn't run the streets. If you happen to have one for your boyfriend look out, cause you will get hurt hard. Their cold and heartless men,wearing a smile. My grandfather calls this type of man "Pretty Boy Floyd" cause they can sweet take there way with any women. Why do I say these things about a pisces? While, My mom and dad taught me about the "birds and the bees" They school me about these types of men and be strong minded against this type of man. And don't let no man bring you down. It helps when you become an adult. A pisces man challenged my mind against his and I won. He wanted to much from me, and he gave too little back. His quotes were always "another women will do it." I would say good run her crazy. I'm not going to let you run me nuts. His my ex now,I see my ex every now and then. I look at him and her, she looks like a dog a a lease. Crazy, sad, angry in love. He really has molded her. If you don't believe me tell me about it in a year or maybe sooner. Old saying "the cat jumps out of the bag real fast". Good Luck Too All You Female Fans Of A Pisces Men!

yup,yup, yup!!!
by: Anonymous

Anonymus girl,been there with a pisces man, too and It's so funny how so many make similar comments about pisces men. I understand not all pisces men are same but many resembles similarities... dissappearing act is very famous one... some suggest, one needs to be patient, takes his/her time with a pisces but you know what? Why bother? I can't understand why would anyone dedicate his/her valuable time on someone you have no guarantees that he will be a suitable match down the road; after all, your best chance is no more than 50/50 when everything seems awesome...

Pisces are good men when mature
by: Virgo

I dated a Pisces who was a recovering alcoholic; he would binge drink in college, but then he got caught with three DUIs. When I knew him, he had just got his license back after three years.

He is a civil engineer, plays drums awesome, is sweet and thoughtful, awesome in bed, quality-time oriented (played basketball with me, cooked breakfast with me, went through his family albums with me)...and I ruined it because I wasn't over someone I had a deep love for. I thought I was. Honest. I wouldn't try to hurt anyone, especially not him. He ran. It was my fault. I regret it, but I couldn't help it. I wasn't ready and didn't know it. He deserved someone who could be there 110%.

anonymous
by: Virgo

I knew an 87 year old man who was married for 64 years. He is a Pisces. His wife was a Capricorn. They were soulmates. He was faithful to her. Everyone I talked to said they never raised their voices to each other. He is an amazing painter. Very gentle. Does not like conflict.

It is all in who you get. If they are mature, they are good men.

Pisces boy
by: RR

I've been knowing a sweet Pisces boy for 4 months now. We're both 19. He's all so sweet and romantic. I'm a capricorn and it's so hard for me to be that sweet in a relationship. but he takes out this side of me. He's so mysterious, like he doesn't reveal many things not because that's his intention, but that's just how he is. He does need his space like we all do, but he's the one who was always afraid i would run away or be "stolen" by someone else. So far, he hasn't shown me that thing you all say. (-> one day he's like that, the other he's like that/he runs away)
We're both so faithful to each other and I've already clarified to him that even if we part in the future, i'll always love the person he is. I'd never EVER want to hurt someone like him. He seems so naive and innocent... so detached from the reality. and that's actually what I needed, even if i'm a realist and I feel secure only when I have my feet on the ground. It's not like it sounds.. I meant that we sometimes talk about people and society and it's like he never knew people who treated him bad. like he doesn't really know what's out there. I feel I need to protect him in some things even if I AM the woman. But I don't mind that at all. I'm willing to give him time, to be always there for him, try to make him open up 'cause I know he gives me back care, trust, love and always makes me feel good about myself (: I feel blessed I have him.

for RR
by: Anonymous

Both of you are young and of course both of you are naive as well but give him time to experience life and what is out there then you will see the characteristics come out as we are all saying. Im thinking when they get hurt thats when they lash out and they lash out to anyone not knowing that may be some of the people he lashes out some of them may be good people. And usually they attach themselves to the wrong people. And they treat the good people bad.

Re: to all
by: Anonymous

wow omg..you all are on the same wave lenght when it comes to dating a pisces man.im going through every single thing thats being said here.the thing drives me crazy the most is the disappearing acts you here today gone tomorrow or "i love you so much and "i want to get married and have a "baby with you and "lets move in together" too, total opposites of those all in the next week.look im a capricorn woman and i love the crap out of my pisces man but damm it.... its a battle being with him sorry to curse but its sooooo frustrating when one minute you sure your in a real relationship and the next your not cause of they mood swings.i feel they make amazing lovers and long term companions for us capricorns other then the taurus male.but im feeling alot better now reading all of you guys comments cause i was feeling like i was the only one going through this stuff and i been with him for almost two years but these last few weeks no im sorry the last three months has been crazy.we argue bout nothing simple li stupid stuff but its all him starting the arguing and what ever issue comes up its cause he caused it straight up.when he get mad its always my fault and he gives me the cold shoulder and the silent treatment.but like i swear he just takes it tooo far.see he not my first pisces he actually my third one and they have simular traits but id say i feel more for this one then the others i had although they made me feel like id never want to deal with they kind ever agin but um here i am ten years later and i got another one.but now id tell you i think you just need to de-code them to be with them.i noticed when i played hard to get and mysterious but gave just as much attention and affection that was needed and nothing more at the moment it was needed all was great and his love shined always and he opened up to me and let me slowly come in his world so once he did i then stop being a hard ass and let my gaurd down and started falling in love with him and once i voiced it and then it was showing thats when he closed up and started this mood swing stuff.so if you want things to work out i say the best thing to do due ya homework on they turn on/off's and personalities or what ever as a guide.

Pisces Man
by: Anonymous

i am a Cancer woman with a Pisces rising. i recently met a Pisces man who is the same age as i am. he "rescued" me and provided his much needed help when i was faced with a dilemma. he saved the day! our meeting was very random, it came out of nowhere and blew me away, completely.

the moment i saw him, i was thinking "oh my gosh, who IS this guy?" and every minute we stood by eachother, i felt like a magnet, pulling away and trying to resist him. whenever he would come and stand next to me, i felt the need to run and move around because i felt like he was tuning into me and i didn't want him to know i thought he was hot!(maybe it's my Pisces rising, the way i want to appear, i'm not sure)

throughout the 3 hours we spent together, he spoke in the sweetest voice and had the most sincere smile. he kept saying "don't worry, we'll get this figured out". he was very positive and right on top of my thoughts and feelings before i could say anything. he made himself late to work just so he could help out!

my experience with him, was a positive one. the only negative thing, i would say, is that this random encounter has left me completely head-over-heels for him. i sent him a simple thank you card with some gift cards inside(as i would for anyone). didn't leave a phone number or anything, because i did not want to come on to him.

the reason, is because it turns out he lives on the same street and he works directly across the street from one of my jobs. yes, these coincidences freak me out all the more! i don't want to get involved and for there to be that awkwardness, with being so close geographically, you know? lol

at some point he received the card. i got in my truck one day and when i was reversing, i saw his truck pull up behind mine and he had his window rolled down. he thanked me for the card and expressed much appreciation. i thought it was cute how he was there in a flash. like he saw me leaving and just HAD to catch up to me. i didn't see it coming.

while he was thanking me, i had this "play it cool" attitude. i didn't bat my eyelashes or flirt with him. i put my wall up, for sure. i'm not sure what to do about this guy, except go on with my life for the time being. it seems that if we both like eachother, his Pisces sun and my Pisces rising will make the wait a little bit longer. because we both won't let it on right away! i am currently going through my Pluto trine Venus transit, to make our encounter even more questionable! in a good way. *SIGH*

run away is right!
by: Anonymous

I thought pisces being moody was just a stereotype - how about pisces man most likely to be a psychopath! Is there mental illness in this sign, if so, I found one - rude, selfish, and lazy as anything. A woman would have to take care of him. And he got so nasty as to put his hands on me (but they fight like a girl).

pisces male
by: Anonymous

I have been with a Pisces man for 8 years. He has never cheated or disappeared and is not particuarly moody. He is kind and generous and a really nice person. However, this has come with time and at the beginning he was a little unsure of what he wanted. I believe Pisces men can be amazing when they truly give themselves to you; until then good luck!

answer to anonymous cancer on run run
by: pisces man

Well a cancer and a pisces should be able to get along well..i have to say it is very unusal that a married cancer woman would get involved sexual with anyone else. Especially when she is married. After having sex the pisces man knew that there was never going to be a bond between you and him..because u have already established that bond with someone else..thats why he started becoming stand offish...pisces are very intuitive..not to mention the pisces knows that cancer women can become moody and irritable and in those times it is best to leave you alone and thats what we do. Cancers hold on to family and memories very strongly and he knows he is not apart of your family or memories thats probably why your pisces friend is tryin to avoid u now.

Pisces man
by: Anonymous

Ok if that cancer woman was married and the pisces man knew all along that he knew there would never be a bond. And that it would of been a good chance that he would of gotten hurt why did he go ahead and have sex with her? Lets say that way back when in high school he always chased her and wanted to be her boyfriend but she wasint ready at the time. But then decided to date him but never really treated him like a boyfriend. And now that he knows she was married after all these years why would he take the chance and have sex with her knowing he couldnt have her and then treating her mean after the fact?

little tip
by: Another Pisces Guy

All we want is a girl who can make us feel like a man... we love it when a girl tells us what to do, because all we want is to satisfy you ... to ensure and know that you care... if we disappear it might not be you, everything effects us... everything friends the mood of the environment whats been going on lately.... we don't forget things... but we tend to over think things, we can forgive but never forget. we want a stable life if we feel threaten... i don't know how but are basic instincts coming in to play to defend our selves because we know we are emotional. when Pisces disappear its because we need to regather our thoughts... but the bad thing is we like to do this alone... we need a girl who can kind of shape us... and in return will love you like you never been love before. The zodiac sign for Pisces is 2 fishes heading opposite directions but are tide together... we tend to be able to understand both sides of things... but we don't always know what to do right. we need an aggressive girl.. who wouldn't mind taking over us sometimes.

Runner
by: Buttercup

To all ladies trying 2 figure these men out is fighting a losing battle!3 yrs. this man has ran, and vanished like a unicorn.When we are together i feel a connection.I felt in love to only be rejected.He is very selfish,arrogant and weak.They will never fight for anything.Great lover though,but can't stick around long enough to love anyone!Moving on chics!

Adding to my prior post....
by: I am "commenting on the Pisces Man"

Good luck to all of you who are dating a Pieces man. I am not going to say that they are all alike, but the one I had resembled alot of "your Pieces men". When I commented a couple of months ago, I hadn't experienced he rude and mean part, but boy oh boy, mine was a pill. He actually still is. I just had to get out!!! I had fallen deeply in love, and he wasn't giving me any act right. He wants the best of both worlds, and I cant live like that. He does what he wants to, when he wants to, but expects me to be there on point at ALL times for him. Its like loving two different men. On one side he is sweet, kind, compassionate, loving, giving, attentive, all of that. But on the other end he is moody, mean, rude, discourteous, nonchalant, unconcerned...until I say "f" it, then comes the "sugar down" (as I call it)..gifts, hugs, kisses, compliments, quality time, dinners, all of that. And he is such a dreamer, he is slick as a can of oil, he not honest. He will sell you the world, yet he doesn't have it to give to you. And this may sound bad, but I still think he has to potential to be a wonderful man to any woman. I am not sure if being born a Pieces ruined him, but something did. And he is so charming that my family from my Mom to my best friends, seem to be on his side, as if I am being unreasonable for leaving him alone. They say, "be patient" "thats just how men are", if I hear that again...!!! They don't get it, and they don't have to, I am done!!! So again, good luck to all of you dating Pieces men, I hope it works, but if you see things about him now that does not line up with what you want from your man...leave his a** alone!!! Its more important that YOU are happy, all the time, and not when he wants to act right.

I am "commenting on the Pisces Man"
by: Anonymous

This is in referencr to the previous posting Ma'am you are on point!!!!! I am dating a Pisces man and you have named every characteristic that I am now encountering.

The Pisces male afraid of his feelings?
by: Scorpio girl

I met a Pisces man who I had absolutely no connection with physically in the beginning. However mentally we could finish each others sentences.It started out slow and sweet.Movies,dinners,poetry, and music. To say the least he grew on me:)He put in so much work to break my walls down and trust me this was alot of work. I wouldn't even kiss him until 4mnths into it.After becoming more comfortable with him (letting him in). I decided that we could take our relationship to a more sexual level. We were clearly ready for it, you could cut the sexual tension between us with a knife at the end of 6mnths.

Then all of a sudden the infamous Pisces silence sets in. No more phone calls,no more texting each other at un godly hours anymore.I felt like I was drowning in his silence:( It was cruel! It hurt more then the harshest words ever could. The man I could finish sentences with just disappears without a trace. Finally a week later after a few texts I sent him that went without reply. He finally reply's to me. This is what he says:"I'm sorry, I want you to know that you have done nothing wrong. Its me,I'm scarred of my feelings for you. I realize I'm not ready for anything serious right now and need to be single and independent and I don't want to hurt you."

My Scorpio temper did not handle this well. lol I wasted soo much time with this man. He encouraged me to let my walls down with him. He worked really hard at it. Now that I finally feel open and trusting enough with him to be something more and now he is scared of his feelings for me? You have got to be FU***** kidding me!I would preferable like to hear a male Pisces opinion on this.However, I'm open to all opinions that can relate to this ridiculous behavior.The saddest part to this story is that I feel like I lost my best friend:( Thats how we started out and this is really all I wanted in the beginning,just his friendship.He is the one that made it more than that and he is also the one that ruined everything! Friendship and potential relationship.

Urghhh, So hard being patient with my pisces
by: Aqua Lady

Everything you said is so true "I am commenting on pisces guy"... I'm trying so hard to be patient with my pisces man, I must admit it is difficult, but with prayer and patience I know it will be ok. I just don't understand his mood swings... urghhh, one day he is sweet as can be very affectionate and passionate and loving, immediately the following day he all of a sudden is moody, rude, nonchalant, bold, kinda of mean, and just the total opposite. And he does'nt want or expect me to get mad or something. Then he needs his space like every month! It seems as though as if like once a month he gets in this weird mood where he does not call me all day or for days, and does not feel like talking, then a few days later he acts as if nothing happened and he's back to the guy I fell in love with sweet, passionate, affectionate and just oh so sultry, which is what keeps me around. He does not verbalize his emotions, I guess fish can't talk so that explains that, Its so hard to figure him out. I don't know what he wants. I want to love him and give him the world, but how can i if he keeps going into his space every month and keeps changing??? urghhh. Patience Patience Patience!!!

my Pisces man
by: Aquarius girl

finally coz of the comments now i understand.. the all of a sudden.... disappearance, quieteness.. neways he's FWB i hope still works.. idk they're so confusing...

he's my friend..

tough to say
by: Anonymous

He really does love you. He's not making excuses, he wants to protect you; he thinks that everything he does is for you at first, he's moody by nature, impaired by alchohol doesn't help at all. He isn't lying when he tells two people different things, he doesn't know himself. But one thing that's for sure is that even when he's mad at you for no real reason he does still love you. There's a lot of ups and downs with someone like this, it comes down to being willing to understand that they aren't bad people but just someone who makes a lot of bad mistakes. Jealousy comes from not wanting to share you, even then it's an act of worship more than of greed. Most of his anger comes from feeling betrayed when he's accused, it doesn't matter if he's wrong he wants someone that will stick with him. The best way to handle that is to tell him he was wrong but remind him how much you love him, what a good person he is.

RE: The Pisces male afraid of his feelings? by: Scorpio girl
by: Anonymous

I saw this after posting my first comment, figured I could answer you here. (Yes I am a pisces guy)

He does care, it's all for you one way or another. He isn't leaving you because HE doesn't want to get hurt. He's leaving because he wants to protect your feelings, make the breakup easier.

You just need to let him know that he's everything, and you need to make him talk to you about his feelings. It's not easy for a pisces man to tell you things but he will give you ANYTHING. Nothing he does is an act, but it is not persistant in any way.

We want romance and for you to be happy, that's all we ask for. That's what makes it so shocking when something like this happens, we don't ask for what we need because we don't realize. We need a shoulder to cry on, we need firm direction, and we need to know that you're happy.

I know I'm missing so much here, and I feel extremely self centered defending myself like this, but it's hard to see my own flaws. High-Maintenance by itself seems pretty generous for breaking your heart like that, but it's all I have. If anyone disagrees with me on this, or would like to add I would LOVE to hear it.

Pisces afraid of his feelings -response to Pisces male
by: Scorpio girl

Thank you....I'm starting to understand Pisces men more but the fact is nobody ever can. I think thats what makes the Pisces male so mysterious to me. I'm very smitten by them. My Pisces male despite his abrupt stop sign still cannot seem to stay away from me.We remain "friends" and I think we would be miserable without one another for too long. If you look at our signs we are clearly moths to a flame with one another.However,no matter what sign you are everyone has their own story and some people just need to take a plunge in order to discover that the water is not so cold after all.
Pisces men are very selfless creatures and are suckers for anything outside of reality.My advice to anyone in a relationship is to just be yourself more people should love each other for being individuals.I have learned to stop trying to figure him out and just embrace him for what he is "wonderful"...no more and no less.Whats meant to be will always find away.

Pisces man.
by: Anonymous

All men act like this when they are tired of women smothering them or they are too immature. My father is a Pisces and he is not lazy. He works in an auto body shop fixing dents and painting cars even though he is 60 years old. He has many artistic talents, plays the accordion, and piano and has a drawing talent. They are loving and kind men and will do anything for the ones they love. My cat died at 2 am and who other than my father got up and drove me and my cat to the vet. He did cheat on my mother but so did my boyfriend and he is an Aquarius.

angels and demons
by: Anonymous

I have been seeing a pisces man for 18 months. he is the most loving man i have ever known. He is romantic too. But he is hard to understand sometimes. He can go off and want to be alone and not want to talk to anyone, me included ,even though i have done nothing wrong to him. He shows in many ways he loves me and i trust him completly. But he says one thing and does the opposite, wich i find frustrating. He can be jelouse too. But despite his funny ways , i could never not have him in my life. I guess every star sign has their faults. I am a scorpio and i can be firey when i want to be. He doesnt like to think anyone is trying to help him . So the best way to do it is to suggest something then let him go off to study ,and if he decides to take my advice , let him think it was his idea. Good luck to anyone with a pisces man. They do make good lovers and are very attentive.

confusing indeed NEW
by: pisces man

confused and confusing at the same timeL:)

hard to know NEW
by: another one

confused and confusing:)

Pisces Ughh... NEW
by: Buttercup

At first he ran me down at work.I fought it off ,because I was on the verge of a marriage break up.I mean he pressed hard as hell.After a month I was like why not your unhappy,and marriage was over anyway we were roommates.So I made love to starting 2008.It's 2011 and I decided he will never love me or want a relationship.The day I said I lo
Ve him it went to sht..I felt a bond like none other before.I loved Greg,but my dumb a** didn't play the game right.So I'm seperated,and decided not to see him anymore.Somehow we bonded without words,or spending time with one another.Honestly for someone to express their feelings like that,and you just say I don't know what to do with it is cold as hell!I never in 37 yrs. did that ,and to have him crush my soul was awful.I learned to not say I love you to a man,and don't expect him to get emotional just because you do!Be warned of their vanishing act cause they will never appear!

Silly wabbit trix are for kids:) NEW
by: Scorpio girl

They are definitely indecisive and great Houdini's in the vanishing act. The point is not to care! Let him go into his own world and find himself. Pisces men are lost. Don't help them either because they really need their space and alone time to figure out what they are losing which is you "someone incredible." If he doesn't learn this sooner then later-move on. It is not a game that you played wrong it is his game and he needs to play it alone! My father is a Pisces and I have several friends that are Pisces.It took my dad his entire life to be a man worth admiring "he made lots of mistakes."I see the regrets in his eyes.

My Pisces friends are females but still uncertain of where they belong or how to get there. Attention spans are little to none unless your talking about aliens or astrology.Sex is a great topic too but anything else and you will see them swim away. They are just sad and need to fall and bump their head. My advice is let them! You just focus on you and your dreams,don't let them steer you off your course.

Thank u... NEW
by: Buttercup

Thanks 4 the message mi angel n disguise.I hear what u are saying n I have backd off.I can't say I don't think about him like now @ 1:29 am.I askd GOD 2 send me a angel, a gud man that will appreciate me.I'm so lonely now n sum days i just cry myself 2 sleep.So misunderstood,n treated unfairly bi mi brother's.But n mi heart love is mi gift n i guess u can't help u fall n love with.I just wish the veil wuld b takn off Greg's eye's I love that arrogant,selfish,muth***!

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