Pisces men hard to understand

I have been in a relationship with a Pisces man for 3 years on and off may i add..I do love him to bits but there are things he says and does which i cannot work out.

I have never meet a man that contradicts himself more than he does,he says one thing but really means another, he can go from loving the ground you walk on, to disappearing and not hearing from him in a flash.. When we have fallen out which most of the time is caused by him,its never his fault he lies about me,and he will drag stuff up that upset him a long time ago,its any excuse but what he did.Then when he has calmed he will be honest and admit it was him.

We do have a great relationship and the root of our problems,are how he behaves when he has alcohol,he gets drunk very quick and becomes abusive and very changeling towards any other male that may talk to me even if i've known them for along time,he is very jealous and controlling but yet again this isn't his fault i make him feel insecure,when i try and discuss his actions he doesn't like hearing anything negative and yet again he will run,because deep down he knows how he's behaved is wrong,i'm at the point with him were i don't like going out with him and when i do i cannot be myself as im so worried what he might do!i have tried to help him but things will be ok for a few months then it happens again.
Two weeks ago i lost a baby due to ectopic pregnancy and had to have a major op he was there at the hospital with me, but the day after the op we had a little row and he walked away saying he couldn't cope with this, i haven't seen him since then we've spoke twice on the phone,now this is a man whom wanted a baby,but later said to one friend i wish the pregnancy hadn't turned out like it had,then to another friend he said he didn't want a baby!!

i just don't understand how somebody can change there mind so much..has anyone got any advice will he be back in touch,is he hurting like i am...HELP x

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run, run, run
by: Anonymous

anyone who is dating a pisces man just run and never look back. They are negative, they contradict themselves, selfish, rude, and impatient. So just dump him he is not worth it there are more fish in the sea.

understanding the man u r with
by: Danielle Hull

Well I am a Pisces and I am also married to a pisces male. Pisces r people that will run and hide their feelings. They will leave you quickly to safeguard their hearts. Once you have trust from a pisces, they will slowly allow u into their world. But pisces men r afraid of expressing their feelings and the hold everything in to the last minute. If you turn a pisces off you have to be very persistant in your qwest to get them back. They love to play hard to get. But I can say this pisces make excellent partners and lovers. Its just a lot of working dealing with us emotionally. We love time and attention. We hate lies and we r one of the most people friendly beings. But the moment you betray our trust we can go from NICE TO NASTY. But be patient because a pisces is only upset temporary and just really need a persistant partner willing to sacrifice time and attention!!

answer back to danielle
by: Anonymous

well danielle i think your wrong im a cancer and the pisces man i experienced just started being rude to me after we had sex, well in this case he new before hand that i was married but he jumped in and still wanted to have sex. He said it was awesome he wanted to see me again but i told him i could but no sex so he got pissed off and started to insult me. And why because he couldnt have it his way. To me pisces are so damn negative and they just wear you out. Now in my opinion i think he fell in love with me but i know he will never tell me that. But it would of been nice if he could be honest with me instead of being so pissy at me. I wanted us to stay as friends but he refused to and basically cut me off. So now ive learned my lesson and stay away from pisces men, even as friends.

comment on run run run
by: Anonymous

I am a Pieces man and I have never mistreated any woman be it physically, mentally, or spiritually, I have ever been been with.More often then not I am the one who gets burned in all my relationships so far. There are good and bad people in all the signs. Not all Pieces men are bad to be with. It just sounds to me like she found one of the bad ones. Please don't judge all Pieces men badly, we are not all like that

on the pisces man
by: Anonymous

I'm the one who said run run run. Its because you guys don't know what the hell you guys want you treat someone really special and then all of a sudden your mean. Now pisces man tell me why is that? why would a pisces man be sooo sweet one day and then the next there cold hearted? Actually the one that i was with just flat out stop keeping in touch with me he started out insulting me until he pissed me off then i did the same to him so now he cut me off. I understand you guys are sensitive im a cancer so i know, but you could only take so much of insults until this cancer person blew up and said what i had to say.

I don't understand either
by: Anonymous Pisces Girl

i agree with the guy who says not all pisces men are bad. i'm dating one, mind you this is my first pisces man. it was all sweet and innocent when we first met then everything started to change. namely, i felt uncomfortable with him talking about sex with me, knowing that i was a virgin. and i told him how i felt about it, he got so pissed. cuz i was into it at first but it started to creep me out, making me think he only wanted me for sex! everything went down hill. we keep arguing over stupid stuff. and it continues. i dont understand him most of the time. he would say he can't live without me and the next if i didnt meet his needs/wants, he's moving on. he thinks i contradict myself, well i do sometimes cuz i get confused with him. but he is a contradictor himself. i dont know what he means is true, i dont know if he wants to be with me or not. he gets so moody and nasty often, and i'm tired of it. its taking a toll on me, i'm emotionally drained. what can i do? i really do love him, i want this to work!

pisces girl
by: Anonymous

just leave him if he is draining you, which that happened to me with a pisces guy, He is not worth your time. They are drama queens i think they are worse then us women.

commenting on the Pisces Man
by: Anonymous

I have been involved with a Pisces Man for almost a year and over the past few months we have gotten closer and now we are a relationship. But I sometimes don't feel like we are, because he is so in and out. One day its "I love you and I am so glad you are in my life, I love being around my baby, etc." then the next day he acts like he is too "tired" to be bothered with me. When I pull back, he pushes in hardcore. I have never been confused as to if I am in a relationship with a man in my life!! Then when I don't acknowledge him as my man (in conversation with him) or if I talk about our future hypothetically and not as if I believe that we will get married as he says, he gets all offended. He's like "oh so I'm not your man, or so you don't want to be my wife". I don't get him at ALL. I've given him time and space, but even with that he just pulls away sometimes like I am smothering him and I am not clingy at ALL. He is sweetest and most romantic man I have known, and the first man that I ever allowed myself to fall in love with and not play games with, but his actions sometimes make me feel like I made a mistake by letting him in like I did, but then again, he MADE me love him by being such a good man. He is not mean or rude to me at all just too evasive and confusing. I'm trying to be patient, but this relationship starting to drain me.

to commenting on the pisces man
by: Anonymous

as i have said just leave you dont need all his drama.

RE: Anonymous Pisces Girl
by: Pices Guy :)

You should've told me you were a Virgin at first and not lied about it. Why would you have sex with me and not tell me your a virgin, then have sex with me and not want to have sex after?

Sex is part of being in a Relationship.

hope that helps Pisces Girl, lol :P

Confusing Pisces Male
by: Anonymous Taurus Girl

I've been dating a Pisces male for about 4 months (it took about 3 for him to actually be my boyfriend) and he is the most complicated person i've ever dated. He's sweet, romantic, great in bed, and ha some very classic Pisces traits. What gets me is his moodiness...he can be amazing one weekend, and as soon as the work week starts he's basically awkward and detached. It is draining and has been since I met him. I do know that he's been single for a few years and has gone through "dating" several women and then letting them go without the hope of them being a girlfriend. He says i'm the first in years that he's actually wanted to be a boyfriend to. This makes me feel like it's worth the confusing emotional merry-go-round. As long as I don't get too sensitive or take his mood swings personally, it's always fine the next time I see him. I guess my advice to women dating Pisces men is this; don't take the mood swings personally, don't smother, accept their romantic gestures, and give them space when they need it. If it's too draining, don't waste too much time, because you will fall in love FAST and it will be hell on the heart when you do finally give up on it.

Dating a pisces man
by: Picses woman

I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months now... but I have known him for about 5 years through a mutual friend. He has always been someone I was interested in. Distance kept us apart until recently when I moved pretty close to where he lives. We started our relationship off as 'sex only' because we were both afraid of getting our hearts broken (as typical fish would). As time has gone on I have questioned his motives, his intentions and even threatened a few times to end it all together. We've had little arguments but always seem to come to an understanding about how each of us feels. I don't see him often at all... if anything about 2 times a month and I don't expect anything more simply because we have nothing serious. We just can't seem to let it go... even when I tell him I can't do it anymore and its draining on me not understand what he wants he is eager to explain himself but never actually does anything to show his feelings. I have learned that he will need my patience and support for his sensitivity is his downfall and he's even told me he "loves everybody but always ends up hurting them" I don't necessarily think it is his intent to hurt anyone... he just does not know how to show his love and his insecurities get the best of him. Pisces men can be very hard on themselves. I don't think of him as a boyfriend and I expect nothing of him... but I love him as a person and I am going to choose to be here for him whenever he needs me. Just because hes not giving me what I might want does not mean he isn't a human being with feelings and thoughts. I have empathy for him because him and I are probably a lot alike in all of those ways. He definitely needs space and for a while I didn't want to give it to him but I understand why he NEEDS it. I have chosen to trust him and his intentions because its been so long and even when he won't see me much... he still wants to be around. The Pisces man is complicated, if you like to piece together puzzles... it will be right for you. Patience is key and unconditional love will bring you everything you want from him.

pisces man
by: Anonymous

Some, pisces men are possesive, controling, and malnipulaters. They are depressive people. There're moody, unpredicable, and selfish, when they want to be. Some, are users of women. What I mean by that is they will love you as long as you do what say(slave). The worst kind of pisces, is the one that builds a women up or should I say mold them into what they want you to be. Ater they have won your heart then they take control over you. Asking for money and any other thing, they want in the name of love. They know how to suduce the women thier experts at it. Yep, they are something else I must say. If you fall in love with a pisces man your in for a hell of a ride. Some, women kill me saying "his so sweet and loveing" his all I want in a man. He never did me like that" the list goes on" they are molded and probably havn't been with that pisces long, or has excepted their crazyiness because they have became enablers, weak minded and in love. Thats were the ride comes in hell on wheels. Pisces men are lazy, liers, cheaters, and down right mean, and arrogant too. Women love the romatic side and all that bull**** they tell you. Oh! lazyness comes in when they lay around the house everday, not working but yet he will want you to work and give him your money. And again, some women will use this as a excuse "At lest he stays at home, and doesn't run the streets. If you happen to have one for your boyfriend look out, cause you will get hurt hard. Their cold and heartless men,wearing a smile. My grandfather calls this type of man "Pretty Boy Floyd" cause they can sweet take there way with any women. Why do I say these things about a pisces? While, My mom and dad taught me about the "birds and the bees" They school me about these types of men and be strong minded against this type of man. And don't let no man bring you down. It helps when you become an adult. A pisces man challenged my mind against his and I won. He wanted to much from me, and he gave too little back. His quotes were always "another women will do it." I would say good run her crazy. I'm not going to let you run me nuts. His my ex now,I see my ex every now and then. I look at him and her, she looks like a dog a a lease. Crazy, sad, angry in love. He really has molded her. If you don't believe me tell me about it in a year or maybe sooner. Old saying "the cat jumps out of the bag real fast". Good Luck Too All You Female Fans Of A Pisces Men!

yup,yup, yup!!!
by: Anonymous

Anonymus girl,been there with a pisces man, too and It's so funny how so many make similar comments about pisces men. I understand not all pisces men are same but many resembles similarities... dissappearing act is very famous one... some suggest, one needs to be patient, takes his/her time with a pisces but you know what? Why bother? I can't understand why would anyone dedicate his/her valuable time on someone you have no guarantees that he will be a suitable match down the road; after all, your best chance is no more than 50/50 when everything seems awesome...

Pisces are good men when mature
by: Virgo

I dated a Pisces who was a recovering alcoholic; he would binge drink in college, but then he got caught with three DUIs. When I knew him, he had just got his license back after three years.

He is a civil engineer, plays drums awesome, is sweet and thoughtful, awesome in bed, quality-time oriented (played basketball with me, cooked breakfast with me, went through his family albums with me)...and I ruined it because I wasn't over someone I had a deep love for. I thought I was. Honest. I wouldn't try to hurt anyone, especially not him. He ran. It was my fault. I regret it, but I couldn't help it. I wasn't ready and didn't know it. He deserved someone who could be there 110%.

anonymous
by: Virgo

I knew an 87 year old man who was married for 64 years. He is a Pisces. His wife was a Capricorn. They were soulmates. He was faithful to her. Everyone I talked to said they never raised their voices to each other. He is an amazing painter. Very gentle. Does not like conflict.

It is all in who you get. If they are mature, they are good men.

Pisces boy
by: RR

I've been knowing a sweet Pisces boy for 4 months now. We're both 19. He's all so sweet and romantic. I'm a capricorn and it's so hard for me to be that sweet in a relationship. but he takes out this side of me. He's so mysterious, like he doesn't reveal many things not because that's his intention, but that's just how he is. He does need his space like we all do, but he's the one who was always afraid i would run away or be "stolen" by someone else. So far, he hasn't shown me that thing you all say. (-> one day he's like that, the other he's like that/he runs away)
We're both so faithful to each other and I've already clarified to him that even if we part in the future, i'll always love the person he is. I'd never EVER want to hurt someone like him. He seems so naive and innocent... so detached from the reality. and that's actually what I needed, even if i'm a realist and I feel secure only when I have my feet on the ground. It's not like it sounds.. I meant that we sometimes talk about people and society and it's like he never knew people who treated him bad. like he doesn't really know what's out there. I feel I need to protect him in some things even if I AM the woman. But I don't mind that at all. I'm willing to give him time, to be always there for him, try to make him open up 'cause I know he gives me back care, trust, love and always makes me feel good about myself (: I feel blessed I have him.

for RR
by: Anonymous

Both of you are young and of course both of you are naive as well but give him time to experience life and what is out there then you will see the characteristics come out as we are all saying. Im thinking when they get hurt thats when they lash out and they lash out to anyone not knowing that may be some of the people he lashes out some of them may be good people. And usually they attach themselves to the wrong people. And they treat the good people bad.

Re: to all
by: Anonymous

wow omg..you all are on the same wave lenght when it comes to dating a pisces man.im going through every single thing thats being said here.the thing drives me crazy the most is the disappearing acts you here today gone tomorrow or "i love you so much and "i want to get married and have a "baby with you and "lets move in together" too, total opposites of those all in the next week.look im a capricorn woman and i love the crap out of my pisces man but damm it.... its a battle being with him sorry to curse but its sooooo frustrating when one minute you sure your in a real relationship and the next your not cause of they mood swings.i feel they make amazing lovers and long term companions for us capricorns other then the taurus male.but im feeling alot better now reading all of you guys comments cause i was feeling like i was the only one going through this stuff and i been with him for almost two years but these last few weeks no im sorry the last three months has been crazy.we argue bout nothing simple li stupid stuff but its all him starting the arguing and what ever issue comes up its cause he caused it straight up.when he get mad its always my fault and he gives me the cold shoulder and the silent treatment.but like i swear he just takes it tooo far.see he not my first pisces he actually my third one and they have simular traits but id say i feel more for this one then the others i had although they made me feel like id never want to deal with they kind ever agin but um here i am ten years later and i got another one.but now id tell you i think you just need to de-code them to be with them.i noticed when i played hard to get and mysterious but gave just as much attention and affection that was needed and nothing more at the moment it was needed all was great and his love shined always and he opened up to me and let me slowly come in his world so once he did i then stop being a hard ass and let my gaurd down and started falling in love with him and once i voiced it and then it was showing thats when he closed up and started this mood swing stuff.so if you want things to work out i say the best thing to do due ya homework on they turn on/off's and personalities or what ever as a guide.

Pisces Man
by: Anonymous

i am a Cancer woman with a Pisces rising. i recently met a Pisces man who is the same age as i am. he "rescued" me and provided his much needed help when i was faced with a dilemma. he saved the day! our meeting was very random, it came out of nowhere and blew me away, completely.

the moment i saw him, i was thinking "oh my gosh, who IS this guy?" and every minute we stood by eachother, i felt like a magnet, pulling away and trying to resist him. whenever he would come and stand next to me, i felt the need to run and move around because i felt like he was tuning into me and i didn't want him to know i thought he was hot!(maybe it's my Pisces rising, the way i want to appear, i'm not sure)

throughout the 3 hours we spent together, he spoke in the sweetest voice and had the most sincere smile. he kept saying "don't worry, we'll get this figured out". he was very positive and right on top of my thoughts and feelings before i could say anything. he made himself late to work just so he could help out!

my experience with him, was a positive one. the only negative thing, i would say, is that this random encounter has left me completely head-over-heels for him. i sent him a simple thank you card with some gift cards inside(as i would for anyone). didn't leave a phone number or anything, because i did not want to come on to him.

the reason, is because it turns out he lives on the same street and he works directly across the street from one of my jobs. yes, these coincidences freak me out all the more! i don't want to get involved and for there to be that awkwardness, with being so close geographically, you know? lol

at some point he received the card. i got in my truck one day and when i was reversing, i saw his truck pull up behind mine and he had his window rolled down. he thanked me for the card and expressed much appreciation. i thought it was cute how he was there in a flash. like he saw me leaving and just HAD to catch up to me. i didn't see it coming.

while he was thanking me, i had this "play it cool" attitude. i didn't bat my eyelashes or flirt with him. i put my wall up, for sure. i'm not sure what to do about this guy, except go on with my life for the time being. it seems that if we both like eachother, his Pisces sun and my Pisces rising will make the wait a little bit longer. because we both won't let it on right away! i am currently going through my Pluto trine Venus transit, to make our encounter even more questionable! in a good way. *SIGH*

run away is right!
by: Anonymous

I thought pisces being moody was just a stereotype - how about pisces man most likely to be a psychopath! Is there mental illness in this sign, if so, I found one - rude, selfish, and lazy as anything. A woman would have to take care of him. And he got so nasty as to put his hands on me (but they fight like a girl).

pisces male
by: Anonymous

I have been with a Pisces man for 8 years. He has never cheated or disappeared and is not particuarly moody. He is kind and generous and a really nice person. However, this has come with time and at the beginning he was a little unsure of what he wanted. I believe Pisces men can be amazing when they truly give themselves to you; until then good luck!

answer to anonymous cancer on run run
by: pisces man

Well a cancer and a pisces should be able to get along well..i have to say it is very unusal that a married cancer woman would get involved sexual with anyone else. Especially when she is married. After having sex the pisces man knew that there was never going to be a bond between you and him..because u have already established that bond with someone else..thats why he started becoming stand offish...pisces are very intuitive..not to mention the pisces knows that cancer women can become moody and irritable and in those times it is best to leave you alone and thats what we do. Cancers hold on to family and memories very strongly and he knows he is not apart of your family or memories thats probably why your pisces friend is tryin to avoid u now.

Pisces man
by: Anonymous

Ok if that cancer woman was married and the pisces man knew all along that he knew there would never be a bond. And that it would of been a good chance that he would of gotten hurt why did he go ahead and have sex with her? Lets say that way back when in high school he always chased her and wanted to be her boyfriend but she wasint ready at the time. But then decided to date him but never really treated him like a boyfriend. And now that he knows she was married after all these years why would he take the chance and have sex with her knowing he couldnt have her and then treating her mean after the fact?

little tip
by: Another Pisces Guy

All we want is a girl who can make us feel like a man... we love it when a girl tells us what to do, because all we want is to satisfy you ... to ensure and know that you care... if we disappear it might not be you, everything effects us... everything friends the mood of the environment whats been going on lately.... we don't forget things... but we tend to over think things, we can forgive but never forget. we want a stable life if we feel threaten... i don't know how but are basic instincts coming in to play to defend our selves because we know we are emotional. when Pisces disappear its because we need to regather our thoughts... but the bad thing is we like to do this alone... we need a girl who can kind of shape us... and in return will love you like you never been love before. The zodiac sign for Pisces is 2 fishes heading opposite directions but are tide together... we tend to be able to understand both sides of things... but we don't always know what to do right. we need an aggressive girl.. who wouldn't mind taking over us sometimes.

Runner
by: Buttercup

To all ladies trying 2 figure these men out is fighting a losing battle!3 yrs. this man has ran, and vanished like a unicorn.When we are together i feel a connection.I felt in love to only be rejected.He is very selfish,arrogant and weak.They will never fight for anything.Great lover though,but can't stick around long enough to love anyone!Moving on chics!

Adding to my prior post....
by: I am "commenting on the Pisces Man"

Good luck to all of you who are dating a Pieces man. I am not going to say that they are all alike, but the one I had resembled alot of "your Pieces men". When I commented a couple of months ago, I hadn't experienced he rude and mean part, but boy oh boy, mine was a pill. He actually still is. I just had to get out!!! I had fallen deeply in love, and he wasn't giving me any act right. He wants the best of both worlds, and I cant live like that. He does what he wants to, when he wants to, but expects me to be there on point at ALL times for him. Its like loving two different men. On one side he is sweet, kind, compassionate, loving, giving, attentive, all of that. But on the other end he is moody, mean, rude, discourteous, nonchalant, unconcerned...until I say "f" it, then comes the "sugar down" (as I call it)..gifts, hugs, kisses, compliments, quality time, dinners, all of that. And he is such a dreamer, he is slick as a can of oil, he not honest. He will sell you the world, yet he doesn't have it to give to you. And this may sound bad, but I still think he has to potential to be a wonderful man to any woman. I am not sure if being born a Pieces ruined him, but something did. And he is so charming that my family from my Mom to my best friends, seem to be on his side, as if I am being unreasonable for leaving him alone. They say, "be patient" "thats just how men are", if I hear that again...!!! They don't get it, and they don't have to, I am done!!! So again, good luck to all of you dating Pieces men, I hope it works, but if you see things about him now that does not line up with what you want from your man...leave his a** alone!!! Its more important that YOU are happy, all the time, and not when he wants to act right.

I am "commenting on the Pisces Man"
by: Anonymous

This is in referencr to the previous posting Ma'am you are on point!!!!! I am dating a Pisces man and you have named every characteristic that I am now encountering.

The Pisces male afraid of his feelings?
by: Scorpio girl

I met a Pisces man who I had absolutely no connection with physically in the beginning. However mentally we could finish each others sentences.It started out slow and sweet.Movies,dinners,poetry, and music. To say the least he grew on me:)He put in so much work to break my walls down and trust me this was alot of work. I wouldn't even kiss him until 4mnths into it.After becoming more comfortable with him (letting him in). I decided that we could take our relationship to a more sexual level. We were clearly ready for it, you could cut the sexual tension between us with a knife at the end of 6mnths.

Then all of a sudden the infamous Pisces silence sets in. No more phone calls,no more texting each other at un godly hours anymore.I felt like I was drowning in his silence:( It was cruel! It hurt more then the harshest words ever could. The man I could finish sentences with just disappears without a trace. Finally a week later after a few texts I sent him that went without reply. He finally reply's to me. This is what he says:"I'm sorry, I want you to know that you have done nothing wrong. Its me,I'm scarred of my feelings for you. I realize I'm not ready for anything serious right now and need to be single and independent and I don't want to hurt you."

My Scorpio temper did not handle this well. lol I wasted soo much time with this man. He encouraged me to let my walls down with him. He worked really hard at it. Now that I finally feel open and trusting enough with him to be something more and now he is scared of his feelings for me? You have got to be FU***** kidding me!I would preferable like to hear a male Pisces opinion on this.However, I'm open to all opinions that can relate to this ridiculous behavior.The saddest part to this story is that I feel like I lost my best friend:( Thats how we started out and this is really all I wanted in the beginning,just his friendship.He is the one that made it more than that and he is also the one that ruined everything! Friendship and potential relationship.

Urghhh, So hard being patient with my pisces
by: Aqua Lady

Everything you said is so true "I am commenting on pisces guy"... I'm trying so hard to be patient with my pisces man, I must admit it is difficult, but with prayer and patience I know it will be ok. I just don't understand his mood swings... urghhh, one day he is sweet as can be very affectionate and passionate and loving, immediately the following day he all of a sudden is moody, rude, nonchalant, bold, kinda of mean, and just the total opposite. And he does'nt want or expect me to get mad or something. Then he needs his space like every month! It seems as though as if like once a month he gets in this weird mood where he does not call me all day or for days, and does not feel like talking, then a few days later he acts as if nothing happened and he's back to the guy I fell in love with sweet, passionate, affectionate and just oh so sultry, which is what keeps me around. He does not verbalize his emotions, I guess fish can't talk so that explains that, Its so hard to figure him out. I don't know what he wants. I want to love him and give him the world, but how can i if he keeps going into his space every month and keeps changing??? urghhh. Patience Patience Patience!!!

my Pisces man
by: Aquarius girl

finally coz of the comments now i understand.. the all of a sudden.... disappearance, quieteness.. neways he's FWB i hope still works.. idk they're so confusing...

he's my friend..

tough to say
by: Anonymous

He really does love you. He's not making excuses, he wants to protect you; he thinks that everything he does is for you at first, he's moody by nature, impaired by alchohol doesn't help at all. He isn't lying when he tells two people different things, he doesn't know himself. But one thing that's for sure is that even when he's mad at you for no real reason he does still love you. There's a lot of ups and downs with someone like this, it comes down to being willing to understand that they aren't bad people but just someone who makes a lot of bad mistakes. Jealousy comes from not wanting to share you, even then it's an act of worship more than of greed. Most of his anger comes from feeling betrayed when he's accused, it doesn't matter if he's wrong he wants someone that will stick with him. The best way to handle that is to tell him he was wrong but remind him how much you love him, what a good person he is.

RE: The Pisces male afraid of his feelings? by: Scorpio girl
by: Anonymous

I saw this after posting my first comment, figured I could answer you here. (Yes I am a pisces guy)

He does care, it's all for you one way or another. He isn't leaving you because HE doesn't want to get hurt. He's leaving because he wants to protect your feelings, make the breakup easier.

You just need to let him know that he's everything, and you need to make him talk to you about his feelings. It's not easy for a pisces man to tell you things but he will give you ANYTHING. Nothing he does is an act, but it is not persistant in any way.

We want romance and for you to be happy, that's all we ask for. That's what makes it so shocking when something like this happens, we don't ask for what we need because we don't realize. We need a shoulder to cry on, we need firm direction, and we need to know that you're happy.

I know I'm missing so much here, and I feel extremely self centered defending myself like this, but it's hard to see my own flaws. High-Maintenance by itself seems pretty generous for breaking your heart like that, but it's all I have. If anyone disagrees with me on this, or would like to add I would LOVE to hear it.

Pisces afraid of his feelings -response to Pisces male
by: Scorpio girl

Thank you....I'm starting to understand Pisces men more but the fact is nobody ever can. I think thats what makes the Pisces male so mysterious to me. I'm very smitten by them. My Pisces male despite his abrupt stop sign still cannot seem to stay away from me.We remain "friends" and I think we would be miserable without one another for too long. If you look at our signs we are clearly moths to a flame with one another.However,no matter what sign you are everyone has their own story and some people just need to take a plunge in order to discover that the water is not so cold after all.
Pisces men are very selfless creatures and are suckers for anything outside of reality.My advice to anyone in a relationship is to just be yourself more people should love each other for being individuals.I have learned to stop trying to figure him out and just embrace him for what he is "wonderful"...no more and no less.Whats meant to be will always find away.

Pisces man.
by: Anonymous

All men act like this when they are tired of women smothering them or they are too immature. My father is a Pisces and he is not lazy. He works in an auto body shop fixing dents and painting cars even though he is 60 years old. He has many artistic talents, plays the accordion, and piano and has a drawing talent. They are loving and kind men and will do anything for the ones they love. My cat died at 2 am and who other than my father got up and drove me and my cat to the vet. He did cheat on my mother but so did my boyfriend and he is an Aquarius.

Pisces man.
by: Anonymous

All men act like this when they are tired of women smothering them or they are too immature. My father is a Pisces and he is not lazy. He works in an auto body shop fixing dents and painting cars even though he is 60 years old. He has many artistic talents, plays the accordion, and piano and has a drawing talent. They are loving and kind men and will do anything for the ones they love. My cat died at 2 am and who other than my father got up and drove me and my cat to the vet. He did cheat on my mother but so did my boyfriend and he is an Aquarius.

angels and demons
by: Anonymous

I have been seeing a pisces man for 18 months. he is the most loving man i have ever known. He is romantic too. But he is hard to understand sometimes. He can go off and want to be alone and not want to talk to anyone, me included ,even though i have done nothing wrong to him. He shows in many ways he loves me and i trust him completly. But he says one thing and does the opposite, wich i find frustrating. He can be jelouse too. But despite his funny ways , i could never not have him in my life. I guess every star sign has their faults. I am a scorpio and i can be firey when i want to be. He doesnt like to think anyone is trying to help him . So the best way to do it is to suggest something then let him go off to study ,and if he decides to take my advice , let him think it was his idea. Good luck to anyone with a pisces man. They do make good lovers and are very attentive.

angels and demons
by: Anonymous

I have been seeing a pisces man for 18 months. he is the most loving man i have ever known. He is romantic too. But he is hard to understand sometimes. He can go off and want to be alone and not want to talk to anyone, me included ,even though i have done nothing wrong to him. He shows in many ways he loves me and i trust him completly. But he says one thing and does the opposite, wich i find frustrating. He can be jelouse too. But despite his funny ways , i could never not have him in my life. I guess every star sign has their faults. I am a scorpio and i can be firey when i want to be. He doesnt like to think anyone is trying to help him . So the best way to do it is to suggest something then let him go off to study ,and if he decides to take my advice , let him think it was his idea. Good luck to anyone with a pisces man. They do make good lovers and are very attentive.

confusing indeed
by: pisces man

confused and confusing at the same timeL:)

hard to know
by: another one

confused and confusing:)

hard to know
by: another one

confused and confusing:)

Pisces Ughh...
by: Buttercup

At first he ran me down at work.I fought it off ,because I was on the verge of a marriage break up.I mean he pressed hard as hell.After a month I was like why not your unhappy,and marriage was over anyway we were roommates.So I made love to starting 2008.It's 2011 and I decided he will never love me or want a relationship.The day I said I lo
Ve him it went to sht..I felt a bond like none other before.I loved Greg,but my dumb a** didn't play the game right.So I'm seperated,and decided not to see him anymore.Somehow we bonded without words,or spending time with one another.Honestly for someone to express their feelings like that,and you just say I don't know what to do with it is cold as hell!I never in 37 yrs. did that ,and to have him crush my soul was awful.I learned to not say I love you to a man,and don't expect him to get emotional just because you do!Be warned of their vanishing act cause they will never appear!

Silly wabbit trix are for kids:)
by: Scorpio girl

They are definitely indecisive and great Houdini's in the vanishing act. The point is not to care! Let him go into his own world and find himself. Pisces men are lost. Don't help them either because they really need their space and alone time to figure out what they are losing which is you "someone incredible." If he doesn't learn this sooner then later-move on. It is not a game that you played wrong it is his game and he needs to play it alone! My father is a Pisces and I have several friends that are Pisces.It took my dad his entire life to be a man worth admiring "he made lots of mistakes."I see the regrets in his eyes.

My Pisces friends are females but still uncertain of where they belong or how to get there. Attention spans are little to none unless your talking about aliens or astrology.Sex is a great topic too but anything else and you will see them swim away. They are just sad and need to fall and bump their head. My advice is let them! You just focus on you and your dreams,don't let them steer you off your course.

Thank u...
by: Buttercup

Thanks 4 the message mi angel n disguise.I hear what u are saying n I have backd off.I can't say I don't think about him like now @ 1:29 am.I askd GOD 2 send me a angel, a gud man that will appreciate me.I'm so lonely now n sum days i just cry myself 2 sleep.So misunderstood,n treated unfairly bi mi brother's.But n mi heart love is mi gift n i guess u can't help u fall n love with.I just wish the veil wuld b takn off Greg's eye's I love that arrogant,selfish,muth***!

idk anymore
by: Anonymous

I've known my pisces males 4 yrs.and we fought for y yrs.n normaly I would chase him down n hed cuss me out. But now I just let him come to me n every time he runs off I get more n more indepent. He barly talks anymore I miss the guy who just wanted to be held and just to have a gf n just to have me. Now all he wants is me to b submissive.to him.but every argument just ends in him saying were over.its hard when I've saved him from himself for years n he turns around n treats me bad. But I still want him.n I've learned not to love him. But to make him love me till it hurts him.but doesn't he sorta remind you of a small upset child who can't say how he feels so he has a tempertantrum

Final 37
by: Anonymous

WELLL..GREG finally drew tha last straw last nite.Valentine showed me how sorry he was.Thankfully...I don't want his ho a** no more.I nevr ben with such a deceitful man.He can never swim my way again!This man will get just wat he's lookn 4!It'z call karma suckr!!!

Pisces man
by: Anonymous

We just need a woman who is strong enough for us. That is the one who we will marry. Honestly we are just scared of everything that makes us feel helpless. We are ardent lovers and extremely passionate to, nevertheless don't ever depend on us to fill an empty void that only God and self love can provide. All of you women can have a good man; he is out there!!

yup!
by: Anonymous

I just started dating a pisces man. I met him 2 weeks ago and he's already driving me nuts. I met him at a restaurant....he saw me and thought I was so cute, he kept saying how cute I was. He was very attractive, my type....but I wasn't going to give him my number. He was adamant that I give him my number so I did. He text me as soon as I got home. Then we added each other to fbook. Then I realized, he was a huge socialite, up to almost 2000 females on his friends list. I wasn't going to go out with him. Some things were questionable on his fbook page. For instance, he had in relationship...when I asked him about it, he said "I created my fbook a long time ago" not a direct answer. Then I noticed a girl all over his fbook. He's big into the party scene....so he invited me out to a party. I said I was going to go then stood him up at the last minute. He made me feel so bad about that....he said I got his hopes up and he was expecting me to come. I felt bad so I told him I'd make it up to him. I thought he'd never ask me out again. But he did two days later. I'm glad I went. I had a great time with him.....he was a gentleman. He told me he was a relationship person but I couldn't shake the feeling that he was older than he said he was and that he had a girlfriend. We hooked up two days later and he's been acting strange since then. Its like he disappeared. He claims he was sick but I'm not buying that. He has been texting me from time to time but I just feel so used in a way. He just text me a few seconds ago saying "I don't want you to forget me"...so I said "I was beginning to think you wanted me to" and he was like "don't do that"...don't do what??? I told him when he's ready to be totally honest he should let me know...and he hasn't responded. I wonder if that got to him. The disappearing act is killing me. I'm not accustomed to this. I swear I thought he was done with me and he texts me out of the blues to tell me he doesn't want me to forget him? Pisces men are weird. I'm noticing the same behavior as described on this forum. They are difficult to understand....He is sweet one minute and then distant another minute. Craziness!I don't get it...I don't know if I should stay and ride this crazy roller coaster or just peace out!By the way, I'm a libra, so I'm always over-analyzing these little things!

Never Again!
by: Heart Broken Caner

I have never in my life have come across a more cut throat human ...until I dated a Pisces man.

This was my first and last Pisces experience.

Just like many of the posts I have read on this page...they will make you feel safe, warm, and loved.

But DON'T BELIEVE IT! These mean are good at making you feel important, and special. In reality...no one matters more to a Pisces man than himself. I had no idea what I was getting myself into.

They will fill you up with their fantasies about marriage, and a secure life...and home...filled with happiness and adventure. This is TOXIC. Especially for all my Cancer sister's who above all value security.

The truth is...they are the MOST sensative sign in the entire zodiac.
They have NO COPING SKILLS...and when faced with real life situations...they can't handle large doses of reality...and swim away! They will leave you effortlessly with your mouth hanging wide open...not knowing what just hit you.

If you try to work it out...he will take zero responsibility for anything he may have done...even if you take full responsibility for your wrong doing. He will NEVER forget when you hurt his feelings...and he will always bring it up.

My Pisces...(although he was never really mine) has lied on murmurous occasions, and he's a story teller.

God forbid you should offend him or hurt his feelings...there will be hell to pay.

And when he leaves....you better believe its going to hurt like hell.
Be careful, they can go from LOVING you (or at least make you feel loved) to NON EXISTENT in a hot second.

Stay FAR FAR away.

The root reason why Pisces men perplex us...
by: Pisces Lover

Ladies,

I love my Pisces man but do not always like him and here are my discoveries about why.

Pisces men truly do NOT understand themselves and know the reasons for their actions.

He avoid confrontations so much in the attempt for himself be accepted and liked by everyone, he fails to realize you as his partner could be sacrificed in the act.

They need space because they feel bound and conflicted by what he personally desires and what he knows his partner requires from him. When these 2 aspects come to head, know he will always chose his own serenity over your displeasure of his action.

Although they claim they want a strong willed woman to guide and aid them, they fight this surrender to maintain the illusion of power/control/maleness for societal status quo.

To see the world in true realistic light is not possible since their assumed realism is more real to them than the factual reality.

If they express something, it is the TRUTH as it is perceived by them. They do not see omission as deception because he did not state it. Challenging their perception is not welcomed so it is best to express your acceptance of his view and add "this is how I see it..." He will listen without interaction and will reflect on it in solitude. If he adopts/accepts this new view, he will claim it as his own without giving credit where it is due.

Once a Pisces man has a goal in mind, he will do whatever it takes to have it come to fruition, dictating each step as he desires without any consideration for others. He will never admit or own this negative trait, so don't even waste your breath.

Hope these help...

MY PISCES MAN
by: Anonymous

OMG, I have just broken up with a pisces man, we had been together for a little over 2 yrs. I moved in with him eight months ago...what a mistake. I should have known better. I did so much for him, I really loved him but never felt like I could get close to him. He would never tell me he loved me...except in emails, but I needed to hear it and feel it. He was hardly ever affectionate with me. He never ran off on me though, only when we had a fight he would ignore and not talk or look at me for a week or sometimes two! He always said he had to heal...what? He was the one hurting me but he had to heal? He always claimed to be so sensitive but I think he is only sensitive to himself and not others. He wanted me to do everything for him but when I wanted something he would say he could'nt because he had to be himself. I found him so selfish, he said it was because he was hurt in the past and had many bad experiences....well what do you expect with this behavior? And he often contradicted himself, whatever was good for the moment. I finally got fed up and left...and of course he claims he never wanted to hurt me and feels awful...not that he is trying to get me back, he has not even made an effort. Too busy sulking in his corner, healing I suppose. But I always found he would never give me anything that he could not benefit from, even when he gave me a gift it would be something about him, like he paid us trip together for Christmas, another time he bought me a garden tool but asked for the one I had already. I found him very cheap. Anyways, I could go on and on with the ways he hurt me terribly but now I just NEED TO HEAL! I don't know if they are all like this but I know mine was.

MY PISCES MAN
by: Anonymous

OMG, I have just broken up with a pisces man, we had been together for a little over 2 yrs. I moved in with him eight months ago...what a mistake. I should have known better. I did so much for him, I really loved him but never felt like I could get close to him. He would never tell me he loved me...except in emails, but I needed to hear it and feel it. He was hardly ever affectionate with me. He never ran off on me though, only when we had a fight he would ignore and not talk or look at me for a week or sometimes two! He always said he had to heal...what? He was the one hurting me but he had to heal? He always claimed to be so sensitive but I think he is only sensitive to himself and not others. He wanted me to do everything for him but when I wanted something he would say he could'nt because he had to be himself. I found him so selfish, he said it was because he was hurt in the past and had many bad experiences....well what do you expect with this behavior? And he often contradicted himself, whatever was good for the moment. I finally got fed up and left...and of course he claims he never wanted to hurt me and feels awful...not that he is trying to get me back, he has not even made an effort. Too busy sulking in his corner, healing I suppose. But I always found he would never give me anything that he could not benefit from, even when he gave me a gift it would be something about him, like he paid us trip together for Christmas, another time he bought me a garden tool but asked for the one I had already. I found him very cheap. Anyways, I could go on and on with the ways he hurt me terribly but now I just NEED TO HEAL! I don't know if they are all like this but I know mine was.

bedroom problem
by: Anonymous

he says nothing to do with him ive been to the doctor but im ok. but he says whe need to sort it out i said you do never blame him self.he said im more attractive from the back.because its better for him.dont know what to do

pisces sucks!!!
by: Anonymous

I know all about these types and I can relate ..thought we had a special connection blah blah blah..after so much time crying I realized this type isnt worth it....especially for a scorpio like myself,where are all those caring and loving pisces we read about who dream of true love.. anyways long story short..I found me a taurus...for a scorpio THATS WHERE ITS AT!! GREAT SEX,HONESTY, AND LOYALTY LIKE NO OTHER..keep singing,,.... forget you pisces !!

My pisces
by: Anonymous

He tricked me, lol. He wasnt even my type and he was so good to me in the beginning that I fell in love... and for the most part everyone is at their best. My pisese waited until he got me and that's when things changed.We spent so much time together cause he wouldnt have it any other way. So, I learned him and when he started to cheat it was easy to pick up because his patterns changed. To make a long story short, I moved on and changed my number and a year later he called me on my job and now I cant get rid of him, BUT he doesnt want to be with me. No matter how mean and disrespectful I am he gives me time to cool off and here he comes again. He will never let two weeks past without talking to me and for what. He doesnt want me... it has been four years, he told me that he loves me, Im good to him, very much attracted to me, GREAT chemistry in bed, he even said I'm perfect, but he would never be with me. I said, okay then go away...I wouldnt sleep with him and he begged me for six months straight and I mean begged, but he doesnt want me. He'll come over drunk and pour his heart out and the next day its out the window. He always talks about what if I got you pregnant. Stupid! Why would I have your child? He'll even ask do you want me to pukk out, but if I got pregnant by him...oh he would go off on me. I will never understand this man. I love him, but I dont need him and I wish he'd go away.

It's just men in general
by: Anonymous

Seriously, I think it's not a "pisces" man you are all describing but men in general. You all describe what ALL men do and are like. It's not the star sign you should be compatible with but the actual personality. Get real and change your stars, figuratively speaking, instead of bitching about this. Ultimately it's only your decision that can make you stay or leave.

It's just men in general
by: Anonymous

Seriously, I think it's not a "pisces" man you are all describing but men in general. You all describe what ALL men do and are like. It's not the star sign you should be compatible with but the actual personality. Get real and change your stars, figuratively speaking, instead of bitching about this. Ultimately it's only your decision that can make you stay or leave.

i agree
by: Anonymous

This is men in general ive known my Pisces for years and hes gotten better and sure he gets pissy every 4 month butni let him leave in he will come bk in 4 or less days.

Misreputation
by: Anonymous

I am a Pisces man, and found myself very shocked, and almost hurt on behalf of all other Pisces in general. There are some straights that I admit we do have: sensitivity, insecurity, being complicated, and needing space when faced with opposition. Yet, those shouldn't be seen as negative traits. They are but a part of what makes up individual Pisces. As far as the rest, that's just the man you were dealing with in itself. You would think by now that everyone would realize that when you generalize a particular group of ppl based of negative experience with one person, that's All your going to see. If you can't handle the traits of a Pisces, walk away, we will promise and fight to give you the World, but only if we feel like you earned it. Which does take a lot of patience.

Still loving him!!
by: Buttercup

Well....I've learned how to love him from a distant.I saw him again n it was so natural after 7 mts.Time has no place when we come togather.Our souls have eternally locked n sum profound way!I'am moving forward still hopeing after 4 yrs. we can become serious.Yet I pray for a Godly
man because...Im open to life possibilities.Damn!How do I love someone not n my life.What has this man done to me.A scorpio who finally curved her sting.My piscean frend has conqueored my heart!

Still loving him!!
by: Buttercup

Well....I've learned how to love him from a distant.I saw him again n it was so natural after 7 mts.Time has no place when we come togather.Our souls have eternally locked n sum profound way!I'am moving forward still hopeing after 4 yrs. we can become serious.Yet I pray for a Godly
man because...Im open to life possibilities.Damn!How do I love someone not n my life.What has this man done to me.A scorpio who finally curved her sting.My piscean frend has conqueored my heart!

Scorpio woman
by: Anonymous

We all want what we cannot have! This goes for most signs. Pisces cannot be kept they must be free to live and let live.I dated a couple Pisces Males and I was raised by one (My father). Here is what I have learned; they are artistic and sensitive. Never ever ever try to point out any wrong doing on there part or be serious. They will change the subject quickly or dissappear. If you want them to speak or swim back they will only respond to senserity.

Pisces carry their heart on thier sleeve.You have to tell them exactly how much you care about them,exactly how it hurts when they are away. Use poetry and music,Create an illusion and if you cannot do that then use humor. These sensitive creatures love to laugh:)However, in all honesty they are only worth keeping as a friend in my case. Their dispairing waves of indecisivness is exhausting for me. I could play tennis for the rest of my life if I was into that,but I'm not (back and forth). Excuse my language but F**k that!

Let him silently reflect in his solitude... that he just lost the best thing that could or can ever happen to him. Ladies don't let good sex confuse your heart! He was only good for one thing:) You want a pleaser and an Alpha Male you need to check out an Aries man...they deliver and won't jerk you around. Another recommendation for the more logical helping sort is Virgo. Virgo males are smart and honest with amazing notice to detail.If they don't get it right the first time they will keep trying until they will. I likes that in a man;)

Pisces men hard to convence
by: Anonymous

Here goes me Capricorn breaking a trust and love of my pisces man for my stupid acts.But yeah i agree on one point they are very faithful to you.
at the end i lost he's trust over me,now i dont even know how to get him back and he told me on my face im your friend and incase if we marry i will be you friend forever thats a promise i wont even touch you. it hurts soo bad is there anyway i can get him back to love me as he was before??

more on angels and demons
by: jay

Ok its been 2 years now and i still dont understand him.Reading some of these comments it seems all these pisces men that we love are all the same. sweet and charming one minute and selfish the next. I still love mine with all my heart , but he can be very hurtful. That seems to be a trait with them. Also yes , they promise you the earth at the start , but quickly move the goal post.
So all you pisces men out there please stop confusing us with your mixed messages, and make loving you abit easier once you have got us to love you in the first place !

What is the problem?
by: Totally confused

I met my Pisces friend about 3 years ago and we have had a on and off relationship ever since..More off than on due to circumstances (I was going through a separation) but also because of his indecisiveness and elusiveness. He says he wants to be freind coz sex complicates things...then he treats me like a friend and I treat him the same for a while. Then we will not hear each other for a while but when we do meet up it is clear that there is a chemistry there. Most people think we are a couple when we are out even though we are not. I want this man but I am not sure if he feels the same about me. I know he loves me as a person but for some reason he will not go any further than that...He says he does not want to hurt anyone or get hurt (he is divorced)but he also knows that I am a loyal person and would NEVER hurt him (unless he gave me reason too). WHAT IS HIS PROBLEM!!! He is so hot and cold it gets me sooo annoyed sometimes but I can't seem to let him go. I wonder if I am wasting my time or if it will change. I know he runs from confrontation and mylife is little complicated at times but I am not sure if he leads me on or if he does really want a relationship but is scared to commit......Any advice???

OMG!!!!!
by: NekaVon

All I can say is...WOW!!!! I am a Scorpio. I am a great woman, but I do have a temper when I'm messed over! I just broke up w/ my Pisces bf after about 9 months. I met him @ church...and he really was a great man! I'm 36 and he's 56, but the age didn't bother me.

Ok....the conversations were great, the sex was WONDERFUL, and he was very romantic, much like myself...Scorpios love romance...so it just turned me on and I fell so in love w/ this man!

***THE DRAMA***

(SMH will I'm typing this)This man was "supposedly" a minister a few yrs ago, but a lot of drama went on with that (according to him). I was going to school for Christian Counseling, so we had a lot in common, inclding other things. This man is a straight up WEED HEAD..and convinced himself in believing that God put it on the earth for us and if he wants me to stop, then I will and that there's no where in the bible that says its a sin. Ok...then he quits his job b/c of child support and he said that he didn't owe it...ok. Then he tried to convince me, by saying "I'm the person w/ the finances and he's the person w/ the Spiritual Gifts"...SMH. We talked about marriage all of the time. This man has taken advantage of me!!!! I have a giving heart and he knew that. I'm a single parent of 2 girls...and this man had the nerve to ask me for $200 for a ticket he owed! On top of that, I was the one to pay the majority of the times we went out. He has stayed in my home and cooked and cleaned and thought that he could do that FOREVER!!! I guess since I was working, that was his way of cotributing...HECK NO!!!! Everytime I mentioned the word "J-O-B" he would get mad and pout for DAYS!!!!! He's moody, a minpulator, plays the victim, always puts the blame on me, never apologizes, he's thinks he always right and everyone has the devil in them...but he's the one w/ the DEVIL!!!

It's so easy to fall in love w/ him, but HELL to break free from because your feelings will be wrapped up. I thank God for y'all responses and I feel a whole lot better now!

Picses men act like women
by: Candace

I've been dating a pisces man for about four months. I have never had so much drama in my life. Told him I felt like I was dating a woman.Turned out he was seeing four other women at the same time. One of them was a married woman. These men are so confusing, I think they need there egos stroked constantly. He tells me "I love you" I think he's so full of crap. I am a Aries I see right through him. And I told him this. He's not fooling me with all his charm...and boy they are charming. Will charm your panties right off. I don't know what I really want to say here. It does feel good writing and expressing how I feel. I am just really frustrated I guess because I do really like him. I want to see the good in him. But I don't trust him and don't see a future with this man. I will never date another pisces...they are scary. They will look you in the eyes and lie to you. Damm you pisces men!

frustrated scorpio girl
by: Anonymous

I always thought of the Pisces male more like a con artist they suck you in until you fall for whatever it is they are selling you.them they disappear until you chase them down. Amway you will always be the one to have to take initiative. I have had this experience with a Pisces and felt like I was alone in a fantasy relationship. From a Scorpio female point of view, I don't understand what type of woman would be suitable for these Pisces males...maybe better to play the same game
.cause I would never consider marriage or having kids with this type...sorry for generalizing but I haven't met a good Pisces for this Scorpio gal yet...and according to astrology we are a match!
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What a ruckus
by: Anonymous

Im currently dating a Pisces man (30) for a year now. He is extremely charming and yes very loving and caring and well all of what everyone has been saying in all of these posts..... he is by far the most confusing male I have ever tried to be in a relationship with and that says a lot after a 5 1/2 year marriage to a cancer who turned out to be the biggest liar and cheater I have ever met. I am a Capricorn and stand true to my sign to the T. I have been hurt by my ex husband and a few other men before and after my marriage and divorce.... So MY trust issues seem to take a toll on any relationship.... (duh). As much as I'd like to change and fix them its takes more then a few years to fully get over sh*t like that. I was friend with my pisces for a whole before we started dating, he was charming yes, attractive beyond belief, but at first my outlook was this dude is a cocky A$$hole and he then thought of me to be a complete bit*h, even though we'd never spoke the first 3 months of knowing one another. After 8 months we grew a wonderful, helpful, trusting friendship and things took off from there. He is still to this day and extremely loving man, very caring, extremely sensitive, wait hold on EXTREMLY SENSITIVE lol. But I love him. He keeps me on my toes and no, not to manipulate me or hurt me or string me along, but because he loves me and truly does want to be in this together. I am NOT an easy person to be with, shi* look up is capricorns and you'll understand, but he doesn't give up on me so why should I give up on him when he has what I call ( his time of the month)??? Lol. Fuck buy them a kitkat bar and play some badass music tell them you love them and let them be alone for a few hours, after that you'll have your normal Pisces back!!! He's moody as hell worse then a female yes, but from reading all of these posts every single one of you is clearly just on giving up and walking away.... Life is complicated, relationships fucking suck, but when did giving up become an option when it comes to the one you love?... As a Capricorn I am stubborn as hell, add Italian into the mix and I almost feel bad for my picese. NOT all these guys are the same.... I am now the wife of a Pisces and EXTREMLY happy. Fuc* the bad days Every relationship has them, a REAL relationship finds a way to work through them.... Thick or thin, big or small. Don't give up just because these guys act like girls want to run and hide when they are scared or being moody. Women do it every month and or men still love us no matter what our sign is right???

Think about it, stop caragorizing Pisces as horrible guys for a relationship, take a look into your self and your own sign and figure out how to handle it... Of not your clearly NOT the strong person this sign needs by their side to PICK them up when they FALL....


Off to bed with my husband (picese)

Most of this is incorrect
by: Anonymous

I am a Pisces man, and I am kind, considerate, and caring. What most of the ladies here are describing are the traits of a narcissistic male. These traits have nothing to do with your sign, and they have everything to do with trauma and upbringing. It is very easy to say all Pisces men are evil and manipulative, but I just dated a Libra wooman who was all of these signs your described here. I sometimes have a hard time expressing my opinions but that is if those opinions might hurt someone. It has nothing to do with a desire to be cruel to a woman.

How do I get a pisces man back??
by: Anonymous

I'm a scorpio girl and I've been dating a pisces man for a month. Up until now, he's been really lovely, saying how much he likes me, that we have a great connection etc. Just recently after one night, I wasn't my usual self - we didn't really connect and things were dull, so the next day he dumped me saying we didn't have a connection / I'm not the woman for him. How can he like me loads for a month and after a dull night change his mind, if someone really likes you they don't flip like that - doesn't make sense. I didn't say or do anything bad, just not my usual self. He's been ignoring me now for a few days, what's the best way to get him back?

Amazing how accurate...
by: Lisa

It's amazing how accurately these traits and behaviors descibe the guy I just broke up with. They are completely confusing and make you feel unsure of where you stand. And him and I are still seeing each other about once a week even though he broke up me to be with a new girl. I can't seem to let him go. And like everyone keeps saying, they can be very mean, but also very charming when they want to...they play on your feelings and emotions. Although I reconize it's happening, I can't seem to stay away from him. He gave me affection and reassurance that I so desperately needed and they are very fun people to be around. However, I can't speak for all pisces, but mine is a HUGE cheater...although he admitted this was a problem for him from the beginning. The one thing that upsets me the most about him is that he kept talking about honesty right from the start and I am a very honest person...and he ended up cheating and then lying for the last week we were together. And now that we broke up, when he decides to be mean, he says it was all bullshit and he was lying to me the whole time about ever caring about me. A few days before we broke up, he said he was getting too close and needed to step back or he would just leave all together. I gave him a couple days. He came over and we were together one more time, then I found out he'd been seeing her. He broke up with me when I confronted him. Now they're together, but like I said, he sees me about once a week. I asked him why he said he was getting too close and needed to just step back if he never really even cared about me and he says, "just to keep you close and prolong it". What does that even mean? Why would you do that if you didn't even wanna be with me? Can a male pisces please explain this behavior to me. I need to know if he does care and was getting too close and got scared or if it really was all just a game and a bunch of lies. Thanks for your input.

An honest gemini : )

Amazing how accurate...
by: Lisa

It's amazing how accurately these traits and behaviors descibe the guy I just broke up with. They are completely confusing and make you feel unsure of where you stand. And him and I are still seeing each other about once a week even though he broke up me to be with a new girl. I can't seem to let him go. And like everyone keeps saying, they can be very mean, but also very charming when they want to...they play on your feelings and emotions. Although I reconize it's happening, I can't seem to stay away from him. He gave me affection and reassurance that I so desperately needed and they are very fun people to be around. However, I can't speak for all pisces, but mine is a HUGE cheater...although he admitted this was a problem for him from the beginning. The one thing that upsets me the most about him is that he kept talking about honesty right from the start and I am a very honest person...and he ended up cheating and then lying for the last week we were together. And now that we broke up, when he decides to be mean, he says it was all bullshit and he was lying to me the whole time about ever caring about me. A few days before we broke up, he said he was getting too close and needed to step back or he would just leave all together. I gave him a couple days. He came over and we were together one more time, then I found out he'd been seeing her. He broke up with me when I confronted him. Now they're together, but like I said, he sees me about once a week. I asked him why he said he was getting too close and needed to just step back if he never really even cared about me and he says, "just to keep you close and prolong it". What does that even mean? Why would you do that if you didn't even wanna be with me? Can a male pisces please explain this behavior to me. I need to know if he does care and was getting too close and got scared or if it really was all just a game and a bunch of lies. Thanks for your input.

An honest gemini : )

Amazing how accurate...
by: Lisa

It's amazing how accurately these traits and behaviors descibe the guy I just broke up with. They are completely confusing and make you feel unsure of where you stand. And him and I are still seeing each other about once a week even though he broke up me to be with a new girl. I can't seem to let him go. And like everyone keeps saying, they can be very mean, but also very charming when they want to...they play on your feelings and emotions. Although I reconize it's happening, I can't seem to stay away from him. He gave me affection and reassurance that I so desperately needed and they are very fun people to be around. However, I can't speak for all pisces, but mine is a HUGE cheater...although he admitted this was a problem for him from the beginning. The one thing that upsets me the most about him is that he kept talking about honesty right from the start and I am a very honest person...and he ended up cheating and then lying for the last week we were together. And now that we broke up, when he decides to be mean, he says it was all bullshit and he was lying to me the whole time about ever caring about me. A few days before we broke up, he said he was getting too close and needed to step back or he would just leave all together. I gave him a couple days. He came over and we were together one more time, then I found out he'd been seeing her. He broke up with me when I confronted him. Now they're together, but like I said, he sees me about once a week. I asked him why he said he was getting too close and needed to just step back if he never really even cared about me and he says, "just to keep you close and prolong it". What does that even mean? Why would you do that if you didn't even wanna be with me? Can a male pisces please explain this behavior to me. I need to know if he does care and was getting too close and got scared or if it really was all just a game and a bunch of lies. Thanks for your input.

An honest gemini : )

8.5.12
by: Anonymous

Pisces men. I have been with my pisces man for a long long time. The pros. He is nice, can clean and cook, kind, excellent father, good friend, smart, skilled lover, very knowledgeable, excellent listener. Now the cons. He is mean revengeful, liar, cheater, bad money manager, lazy, procrastinator, doesn't like to work, doesn't like the responsibilities of bill paying, will spend his money and mine, gets mad if I don't say something right, very very sensitive, spoiled, did I say mean, doesn't like to be questioned, never apologizes, lives in the past, deflects, disappears but wants you to tell him where you are, insecure, needs needs time alone, smokes weed, smokes cigarettes, disregard for insurance costs, sensitive about my tone but speaks to me any way he wants, very hypocritical.my advice, run run run.

Wow
by: Kelly

I've just ended a 5 year relationship with a pises.( thank god) everything I've read in here is so true it's scary. I use to think it was me but now I fully understand that this is what he is like. I've contemplated trying again and I've been the one who has said lets he has ignored me which is his way. After reading this I will be running and running and never looking back!

Thank you to everyone's comments it's really helped me :)

i do not like Pisces
by: Anonymous

I feel the same way.I was talking to a pisces men he was trying to get with me for a long time. So I give him mi number we started talking on the phone and I liked what we had in common so I had came And kicked with
him. So like two weeks pass by we talk for so long I was rally filling for him so i end up having sex with him. So we have been going back and forth so a have been together for 3m.so he ask me for some money so I told him no so he got mad. So he stop talking to him.but I im so crazy. About him.I text him and he tell me that. I hurt him but I im so fucking mad at myself for leting a men fuck with
mi mind like that. I do not like pisces men's

Wow!
by: Anonymous

So many comments, and all along the lines of "oh i am so perfect and never do anything to piss him off" . Let me tell you something, nothing happens without a reason. You have pathetic memories and are good at forgetting all your mistakes while going to some hate site exaggerating some one else's mistakes.

Well if you are so damn good, just freakin buzz off and shower someone else with all your "love".

*Blank stare*
by: BornaGApeach

This thread has been a very interesting read. Pisces boggles my mind. When someones vies for your attention and then turn away running scared is confusing only to come running when you walk away, it is a hot mess. The trick is knowing the game and not riding that emotional roller coaster with them. They need freedom to to go with the flow of their hearts which is full of contradictions and inconsistency. Nothing wrong with loving Pisces because they tend to be very caring people, but you still have to live your life and take care of yourself and not get so caught up in what they are doing or not doing, while still loving them without being judgmental.

I am a Virgo woman, but I can identify with the Scorp women, because my moon is in Scorp.

Pisces Man is a Wimp
by: Anonymous

I've known this Pisces man for 7 years. He pursued relentlessly me for 2 of them. I'm married and he didn't care UNTIL I started to play along. Before that he was laying it on thick- telling me I was the most gorgeous, sexy and beautiful woman in the world and yada yada. Constant flirting, texting, lots of deep convos.

We made out one night and never went any further than that. Then all of the sudden he started being the biggest effing ahole I've ever seen in my life. It ended really bad with me telling him to go eff himself. He got involved with & married another woman. This was back in '08.

Then, this last Nov he msgs me on FB- wanting to see me & "catch" up. He even said he loved me. I told him I'd see him under the impression we would pick up where we left off (hint: sex). I told him I wanted a physical relationship & he tried to go along.

I've tried earnestly to seduce him. But he won't sleep with me. I'm a Taurus & he knows he can't keep up with me sexually yet he still tries to play these stupid cat & mouse games. I think he may have performance issues and my sexual prowess frightens him to death. What a cowardly, immature, weak ass punk. I even told him that & he STILL keeps coming back. I on the other hand will never speak to him again. I don't deal well with teaser jerkoffs.

frustrated scorpio girl
by: Anonymous

Haha well said!

Totally frustrated
by: Totally Frustrated

What's up with these Pisces men that for some reason "Do not want to complicate the relationship with Sex"!!! As an Aries this is very frustrating for me. We party,hang out and pretty much behave like a couple when we're together but we're not a couple.

I have neva met a man that after being emotional involved for THREE YEARS - 2 sexual encounters during that didn't work out coz he was too drunk, We partied hard those nights far too much red wine ;-) - Refuses to get sexually intimate although he the most caring, respectful and lovely guy I have known for a LONG TIME. YET if someone else looks at me in that way he gets jealous, will drop remarks if I speak of other men in 'more than friends' way.

I don't believe he is gay, I know its not me coz i don't have probs attracting men and he has told me that he is attracted to me but that " his life is complicated and we are too emotional" WTF does that mean!

Sometimes I just blank him for a few months/weeks/days coz i get frustrated but we always end up linking back up...can't stay away from each other....BUT still...NO effing Sex!!! What is up wid dat??????

Anyone else have a similar experience please let me know coz I can't work this one out!!

Scorpio woman who was with Pisces
by: Scorpion woman

In my experience, these comments about Pisces men are 100% true. I have dated 2 pisces guys with the most recent being my ex. I am a strong woman and I think this comes across and attracts them but then they try to change me. I feel that they take every thing far too personally too and are extremely sensitive (NOT IN A GOOD WAY).
They are controlling and manipulative to the point where it is bi**hy like a woman. I could not tolerate all the lies and cheating and detachment.
And then there is all this idealism and "want to marry you" crap that comes too soon in the relationship and is overwhelming and scary. Pisces men behave like sociopaths and their star sign is way over rated. With the last one even the sex was selfish and crap. I told him so when we insulted each other and I gave as good as I got or worse. You don't upset a Scorpio and hope to get away with it without being stung!
What really got me was the fact that I dumped him but he liked to imagine that he had dumped me! What a freak!

The real answer
by: Anonymous

Gemini and Picies other signs you need Beyounce ( If U Like It Then U Should Of Put A Ring On It ) Life is so great with all signs we live n it together through work, school, public learn the good an bad an try to get back on good

CONFUSED cap.....
by: UMU

Yep thanks to all the comments. Im currently dating a piceas man, 10 years younger than me, a reall charmer who had completely swept me off my feet.His 24, good looking and a good guitarist. I love this man but his playing around with my emotions with his coming in and out of my life. Last night we were at a bar, we gotten drunk and thats it, he started blaming me for his wrong actions, his drinking supree with me, he brought up the bad past...I felt so small, I turned around and he had taken off with one of his friends to another bar. I was meaning to take him home etc....this did not happened.. Im a capricorn whos in love with this man...dont know if his genuine or its just a game... Im tired of bieng hurt and falling in love again was not on my side for this very reason.

This is why #1
by: FishMan

Those asking why would a pisces man worship you and be the nicest man you've ever met (one day) then cold, nasty and distant the next? Well as a Piscean man I can tell you - and it has nothing to do with playing games or being mean for the sake of it. It is all to do with something that has happened inbetween to put the piscean on his guard. He is worried, insecure and probably feeling 'sick' about some issue from your world (be it worry about another male friend or where you were last night etc). If you respond quickly and warmly to his 'fear' you will find your pisces man willing to relax and be his true self (the nice person). If you stand hard and fast, try to dominate him or tell him his fears are not worth answering you have effectively 'hurt him' in ways you won't even understand. As we live in a fantasy world much of the time, even the most trivial action or remark by you could be seen as deeper or meaning something by the piscean. The piscean then worries (often over worrying) but not because he's an idiot but because he cares TOO MUCH. He has obviously spent days, weeks months 'worshipping' you and showing you he loves you - so when it comes his time to be reassured, no matter how irksome or repetitive it may seem, it's of utmost important to get the same love and respect back as pisces man dishes out freely and without request. I can't think of many men who strive to ally the fears of their partner more than a pisces - up to the point of us feeling mistreated, taken for granted or feeling our problems are dismissed. It is then we recoil away from the situation/person through nothing more than an overwhelming sense of sickness, hurt, worry and injustice.

When pisces is nice you'll not meet nicer, but if you mistreat them or fail to accomodate their deep thinking (and search for knowledge) you will alienate yourself from them. They will see it as an imbalance in the love ratio, regardless of how realistic that is. Pisces want to feel wanted and appreciated once they have opened up to you, and that includes taking any and all of their problems seriously and with a warm attitude that will soothe and calm their pounding heart, then they will be strong again and good for you. The more often you are soft to them the more they will come to trust you, and not fear future incidents because they know you've got their back (just as they most certainly have yours and probably had yours since day one!)

I see too many comments here saying throw the pisces man away he is not worth it, and that is sad, because a pisces man can be a great lover, friend, companion and will be extremely loyal if he feels he is being treated with the same love and attention (and respect) he gladly dishes out with zero ego or motive.


This is why #2
by: FishMan

It is this reason pisces men feel 'hurt' often by some colder or more 'realistic' female signs. Where as mutable pisces will bend and twist gladly to learn the ins and outs of his female partner, putting all his effort and mind into it, many fixed signs can't and won't do that back. To many pisces it feels like talking to a brick wall to get a fixed sign to understand even the most basic of emotions. Many pisces requests or cries for help are seen as manipulative, moody or nasty (or trivial and not worthy) which couldn't be further from the truth. Pisces are hard to understand and even hard to be (I should know) but I'm sure the majority are only trying to please and trying to find a peaceful middle ground for all concerned. They hang in there time and time again until finally they feel totally abused or taken for granted, they may still be full of love for you but they simply have to retreat to the depths either temporarily to rebuild their strength OR permanently if they feel you've done something unforgivable (Cheat on them, betray them, do something really nasty to them then act as if it was the most normal thing and that he is over-reacting).

It would benefit all to think of a pisces man more as you would (emotionally) a woman, not to say pisces men are overly feminine they can be strong and silent and do manly stuff like any man but in their hearts and minds they are romantic, softer than usual men, and humility and altruism come naturally to them unless pushed/goaded in a social setting or someone tries to compete aggressively with them.

My best advice for any girl who genuinely wants to keep hold of a pisces man, and crucially keep hold of the NICE version of the pisces man is to ALWAYS keep your heart open, stay honest and be warm. Don't be a doormat of course - we are very compromising and not stubborn if we see some give and take - stand your ground but do it softly and by listening to his worries not talking over him or running away telling him he's insane (esp if it's over a very touchy subject such as jealousy or paranoia of other men - this can do irreparable damage as will more often than not be seen as admission of some wrong doing if you run away fingers in ears and go cold on him)

He very much wants to be treated how he treats others and is rarely evil or out for what he can get, when he recoils and goes cold it will be a mix 50% hurt at what you 'did' and 50% need to stop the painful thoughts/feelings. And I guess a lot of women just can't understand that as they assume all men should just be like bulldozers without feelings, taking anything they dish out while complaining if the man does similar (ie flirts with girls).

Also
by: FishMan

For many piscean men, when 'hurt' if they go cold or disappear it has very little to do with wanting revenge or to inflict pain on you - that would genuinely hurt them MORE if they thought they were causing someone pain, someone who genuinely loved them, we couldn't rest with that - we'd make it right so the other person could rest even to our own detriment.. so if we disappear go cold say nothing I guarantee it's nothing to do with desire to hurt and everything to do with genuinely not believing they are wanted. Words are easy to hear but actions and support are what count to a pisces. Telling them you love them, then repeating the same 'bad action' again won't work. You have to show it, the same way men are expected to 'show' something to women to prove they love them.

Fact is if a Pisces goes into hiding it's because they are not feeling great, nothing to do with mind games (maybe but would only be short lived, half a day) if longer it's because they are genuinely doubting you even want them around, they are probably feeling like someone who is unlovable and unlikable and it will have come from your reaction to his problem or worry. We generally do not think of ourselves as god's gift to women so even small issues can cause us to doubt ourselves - you can see that as weak if you like - but it's what gives us a great sensitivity and capacity to care and put others first, up to a point, where other men would be selfish and ignorant. If you want want the pisces man can do best that few other men do, then you also have to learn to respond differently to them and remove the stubborn 'mind games' exterior you may have built up over years dealing with other men.

I've said enough and this thread looks like the kind of place a pisces guy could get mobbed by angry women so I'll leave it there. :)

Other signs
by: FishMan

(one quick last addition, sorry)

There are certain signs I would say don't even BOTHER trying to get / stay with pisces cos we will see through you in the end (more specifically our viewpoints are so vastly different it will just be a pain to try to work) - gemini and leo may as well avoid pisces because once the initial novelty is over we'll tire of the ego and the lack of depth or the flighty showyness. Best for pisces man to get with another pisces (girl) or a water or earth sign. Scorpio can be ideal IF they are not too strong willed and super independent to the point of appearing cold too often. Scorpios are tricky (just like pisces) and take special understanding/handling - when these two get together it can be amazing but also hard if both of them refuse to understand (usually it's the fixed scorpio stubborness that will end the relationship because pisces will feel nowhere left to go against that brick wall - a wall they need not use with pisces as he really would have her best interests at heart no matter how she would view it otherwise).

Alternatively you can just forget everything I said and try your luck in your own fashion :)

frustrated scorpio girl
by: Anonymous

Very well put fish man..I can respect that ..sometimes communication is the best remedy and talking it through instead of running away or hiding feelings.In the end true love wins

yea
by: Anonymous

run away. this is what my sister did. always thinking it was something she did, and he would jump in on it and they would both start yelling at me. lunatic.

Pisces Up Down Attitude
by: Aquarian Girl

I have read each and every post up hear and I do see similar traits in my Pisces. We have known each other for 3 years and have dated for 2 years. In the beginning everything was new, exciting, fun, adventurous, just like I like my life to be. Then over time I started to notice somethings regarding his behavior and how he would handle his issues. He would mainly withdraw into his own shell to cope with his issues instead of talking them out. This is something I am truly not use too. Recently, we just had an altercation where he took something minor and blew it out of proportion. He did not take ownership of his wrong doings, instead blamed me and crawled into his shell of not handling the issue. After a couple of days I reached out to him and he stated he was glad I did, we needed to talk. We talked and he stated he love me with all his heart but he doesn't know if he could be in this relationship cause he doesn't like the way he blows up over little things. After him being cold and me expressing how I truly feel emotional toward him he said we would work this out. Not even two days later he asked for SPACE, but he still wants to be together. Smdh!!! Up and Down -- I have yet to call him.. I told him IT HURTS TO LOVE U! His reply dont say that. Im very caring and patient and thought I met my soulmate. This is the first time I have dated a Pisces. Do not know what to do, however as of know I'm pulling back. Any advice? Pisces Men?

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by: FishMan

I'm pisces male, I posted above. If you want my opinion I think firstly you should say what the fight was about. The 'minor' problem as you describe it? It may well be it wasn't minor to him even if technically it seemed it. Pisces men work on feeling and instinct not cold hard reality or even facts sometimes. If they feel someone's intentions were not looking out for them they can withdraw or confront. Not all pisces go quiet, I personally HAVE to have it out with people, I will argue/debate until the cows come home, probably my strong Libran side seeking justice :)

Other than that this could just be typical 'male stuff' rather than specific to pisces! There could be a number of reasons he's saying that, even using it as an excuse, or just to 'protect' himself from further hurt.

good luck and sorry you are having problems. Not all pisces men are so stubborn/quiet but usually it's the less expressive ones that feel they have no choice (they feel misunderstood so they shut up!).


My Pisces
by: Aquarian Girl

Responding back to the comment of what the argument was about. Friday we planned to go out to the movies. I rushed to leave a meeting, look great, and be on time. When I arrived to pick him up he wasn't dressed or ready to go. I was heated but laughed it off. When we arrived to the movie of course the movie was sold out. He said he wanted to go nck home. I stated, he wasted my time. He lives 5min from the theater and could have purchased the tickets earlier. He in turned said I was annoying. He had no care in the world for his comment. He also complained how he wanted to retire for the night at that moment and not do anything that night. Smdh once again I reminded him this was a waste and I asked to talk about what took place he wanted to leave out the car. He then said he was done with the relationship. (He exploded) I decided to give him space to cool down I never saw him like that. Scary! After a few days he said he was disappointed in his behavior and he truly loved me. We went out but he was pretty silent and I was trying to figure out why? What did I do wrong. He said he needed SPACE, and then he said no he didn't don't worry. I will give him space, I definitely don't want to lose myself in his rash decision making but I definitely don't want to lose him either. Who knows how long this space thing will take place? Any thoughts.....

^
by: Anonymous

Pisces men likes to feel important. They did not talk to you because they wanted to see if you will made the effort to talk to him first, making him feel important.

sort of...
by: FishMan

Kinda true but I think better worded as "like to feel they are actually wanted/desired/needed" as it's too easy for us to doubt ourselves, even if others can see something in us that we can't. It's not about mindgames or making someone 'work' for us, don't think we play hard to get at all. If someone goes silent on us, we assume they don't miss or or needed us in the first place. We do not assume they are hurting or wishing we would contact them. So yes the majority of the time the non-piscean will have to make the first move if they are even bothered.

If a pisces makes the first move it's because he really cares or really misses you but doesn't mean he will crawl back without that needed show of desire on your part too. Pisces is very flexible and compromising when handled with love and sincerity, almost impossible for us to be cruel or remain mad at someone who is hurting or being honest/loving with us. That is the key to getting pisces man to respond, be honest and loving and don't play games or hide emotions. Simple.

Bastard
by: Anonymous

Omg everything said on most previous comments are pretty much accurate! I've been with a pisces man for 3years and 7months we've just separated a week ago. He was the most charming man I'd ever met until the true colours come out. We lived together for three years in different states of Australia we travelled the world he made he met my whole family my family thought the world of him, I never once met his family as they lived overseas. I thought he was the one we had experienced so much together. The disappearing, unusual behavior, one minute sweet next minute he changes! He was very difficult to understand, confusing, controlling, everything was his way or the high way, arrogant, heartless bastard, selfish, he put 90% into himself and 10% into the relationship, contradictive, moody, lives like he's single, secretive, never expressed himself bottles everything in and the list goes. He ruined my life ge played mind games all the time! Look obviously I'm very mentally, physically and emotionally drained as Im still trying to understand and accept the fact that he's leaving me he basically said it's because he hates his life! I think that's just a excuse. I'm not saying all pisces men are like thus but I know for a fact I will never date or be in a relationship with one ever again!!! He hurt me baddd..

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by: FishMan

Indeed not all pisces men are quite like that! We have character traits but everyone is unique! Some of what you said about him I can associate with but even the negative stuff isn't done (as a piscean) just to hurt you. He obviously has other issues NOT connected to him being a pises for him to want to leave for good. Or maybe you have things that he could no longer live with in you character/star sign? Of course I don't know for sure as I have no idea. Not wanting to talk about his feelings is not always a piscean trait. I always talk about my feelings though depends on rising signs etc not just the sun sign.

i am always interested in what star sign the other person is (you) though i know it's none of my business.

I've been with my wife for 14 years she is a pisces too. And as far as I know she is happy. so pisces are capable of long term happy relationships if both sides communicate and get along as friends on a basic level. You have to LIKE each other not just love each other.

Anyway sorry to hear you are feeling bad about it and hope you feel better before too long. Pisces can be very tricky yes but i'm telling you it does not come from selfishness but from insecurity or self doubt. Pisces are very empathic and considerate so long as they don't feel they have been talken for granted or taken advantage of. Your pisces sounds like he had deeper issues which could affect any star sign.


Pisces and Grief,
by: SadLunar


I would love some inside on how pisces men deal with grief. I have been dating this Pisces man for 8 months. I am cancer. We started out just having fun together, none of us looking for a relationship. We had both just gotten divorced. After about a month he declared his love for me and said he wanted to be more, I was his perfect match. We moved slowly, but as time went on he became more and more distant.
I fell head over heals for him, opened up my heart completely, I really felt we were meant to be, we fit together SO well in EVERY possible way.

About 5 months into the relationship his mother gets diagnosed with cancer, and her time left is unknown. He has no other family left, and is very close to his mother. His world falls apart. Me being a cancer want to be there for him in every possible way.
He comes by less and less, and one day I voice my concern for him and letting him know that I miss him, and that he can lean on me, I can handle it. He says he needs time to think. 4 days later tells me that he needs to be on his own with his grief, and since he does not know how long his mother has left, he wants to focus on her and let me go, which I get. He does not find it fair for me to have a 50% boyfriend, and at this time he was not ready to commit and wishes that he had met me 5 years ago, because then I would have been the mother to his children, and he couldn't give a bigger compliment.

Well, as cancer I have a hard time letting go, I write him an old fashion love letter, letting him know my thoughts and feelings. He tells me he loves me, but has to go, that he cannot do this. He does not want to leave me any hopes about a possible us in the future, He wants me to move on. But also says that he wants to have dinner and maybe travel together in 6 months, and see what that can lead to.

I am so confused, getting a lot of mixed signal. I am so heartbroken, I know that I have said and done everything I could. He knows how much I care and love him. I was not clingy, I am an independent woman with my own life, but I know that he could tell how much I wanted to see him more.

Now he has cut all contact, and I don't know if he is doing that for my sake, so I can move on (which I am not ready to do what so ever!) Im 37 and I have never in my life been more heartbroken. I know that Pisces need there space, and when they get in that dark space, it is not good. I also read that they are able to turn a switch on feelings, if they get too much. I am wondering if he really wants 6 months of space, or if I should drop him notes along the way saying that I am there for him still if he needs me. Let him know that I still care. I have such a hard time understanding why he would not want the support. I had removed all relationship pressure. We were so perfect for one another… why let go of that ?

Please… Can someone give me an inside of a Pisces mindset when it all goes black.

Oboy
by: lisa

Ok...I'm going to give it to u straight. U will never figure out what your pisces man is really thinking or doing. In truth he doesn't even know. He is in a complete dream world, & can make light of the most horrid of circumstances...unless some1 has screwed him over, u will never hear the end of it...never....he does love u, he really does, but he loves every1. Literally! U can have him on video w/proof of his infidelitywill simply run away or deny deny deny to the end. And somehow, its your fault! And of course it didnt mean anything.....My man is Pisces & anytime there is any sign of trouble (his drinking ect) he runs to the phone & calls old g/f's begging for sex, when our sex life is smoking hot! (I'm a Taurus)...& then the ex's call me & tell me..again denial, they are liars & want him back. (according to him, but they know details of which they could never know)...if I want to keep him, u musy keep him beside him, like a new born baby & coddle him just like a baby....why would u want to? Nothing is real, remember they live for fantasy.

Pisces and Grief,
by: SadLunar

Thanks for your comment, I can tell that you are really hurt by the actions of your pisces man, and I am sorry for that. I do not believe how ever that my pisces man is a cheater. He is warm and gentle and very giving. I was hoping for a deeper inside to how pisces deal with their emotions when grieving, if they are able to just turn their feelings off, for someone they really cares about, stuff them away, and "move" on… I get that that is probably impossible for him, to overcome the soon loss of his mother, that the hurt there he cannot run from, and has to face. I am just really hoping that my Pisces man will come out of his hole of dark times, and realize that he needs me. Wondering if Pisces men do return to a loved one, able to admit that they do need them in their lives.

will pisces come back to me?
by: leo hurting

Need some guidance... we were the best of friends... shared so many things together... ate off each other plates.. both of us a hot mess but it worked well.. he's a Pisces.. I'm a Leo.. I just gotout of a relationship and he held his feelings in for me and didn't tell me he liked me....so I jumped into it.. dated him for 2 weeks.. didn't work.. had a trip planned together and went.. came back and wanTed to give it another shot and failed...he did something hurtful to me and I couldn't bare the pain... in 3 months I managed to lose my best friend and get involved in a relationship with him.. he went the opposite and became distance with me.. my assumption was he got scare and commitment issues.. then I just ignores him for 2 years... during that period he was trying to reach o ut to me and I refused to talk to him..

Soon enough I gave in and we talked it all out.. I missed him so much and we gave it another shot.. i told him I wanted to take it slow within 3 months.. I met his family friends again and other groups he was associated with.. then it fell apart.. and now I'm left with hurt and pain especially because this time it. Was be that was scared.. I was guarded and so scare to get hurt by him again.. hr haven't met any of my family and friends.. I felt like we never gave the chance to rebuild our friendship.. he said he felt like he was walking on eggshell and I was selfish to use that as an advantage.. I just wanted my best friend back... we didn't talk for 2 weeks and iI gave in and told him I wanted to be with him.. I laid my heart out and still nothing.. he believed its our personalities but I think it was all my fault for not letting go of the past.. he Still told me not to blame myself.. he said he can't handle us being friends.. I was so use to ignoring him and now Ifeel like he left again .. I feel empty.. I shouldve giving him the chance becauee he did all he could to make me Happy and I was beyond scared he was going to hurt me.. I miss him so much. I miss my best friend.

Picses girl
by: Anonymous

I am a Picses girl and as a lover of a Picses man I can say that yes were handfuls and yes we are runners but I can say that us Picses have one of the deepest loves available and alot of the time our lovers can't handle the emotional outbursts and need for solitude it's how we heal our delicates hearts :) it's not that were crazy it just what most people see love as is a joke to us cause we have been their done that and it isn't real enough for us :-/..... The only love we know is unconditional and universal , nothing less than our soulmate will do ..... And when we are hurt badly we loose ourselves and when that happens chaos is the outcome :( the only way to heal after that is with the love of our soulmate ...and until we find them yes may hurt alot of people along the way unintentionally .....

im tryna run he wont leave
by: Anonymous

I have been with a pisces for 10yrs met him when I was 25 .he is 6yrs older then me.I agree with the fact very charming at first.butl u n and r lazy immature manipulative amd loved to b the victim. We share a hm together big mistake! He will not leave.I'm so draind and miserable.he has a great job.but spends money on alchohol n clubs.he lied to get me to date him.did not see his true side till we moved n together 7 yrs ago.I'm very unhapp y.y won't they leave.he charms outsiders.but behind closed doors his very emotionally and verballu abusive.he loves n adores me..but I'm love him enough to let him go.I tell him that all the time! He loves to disapper to.he's very immature and weird to me.I thank godgodwe r not married.he is not husband material

so im not crazy?
by: Anonymous

Wow! Thank u guys so much! I'm a cancer women.my pisces manipulator would love for me to think every thing is my fault.he will not come hm.blames it on doesn't wanna drive drunk..well he should stay his butt hm then!right? He does not know how to balance life btween fam and friends.he's 41 yrs old I'm 35 and he still acts as if his n college partying every weekend n we live n a small city so its not that serious.I'm so embarrased I've been with him this long.I feel like I have been desparate.when all it was was that I have kept enabling him thinking he would change.he toowants to spend his money and mine.I feel like the man off thehouse.he is weak and childishand like a tic on my ass that won't go away..how do I get away? I'm looking into relocating far away.I am sooo turned off by him.I could care a less about good sex..I want a real mature wholesome man.not a little boy who always plays victim..any more good advice ..please give me suggestions

Girl.....keep it movin!!!(what I mean is if this man has not had Jesus change him, then run!!!
by: Anonymous

I dealt with pisces for ten years. If people are true to their zodiac characteristics, that means they havent let Jesus change them yet. Zodiac characteristics are true, but only to people who havent reaped spirtual teaching. Jesus teaching. If this man is a pisces and true to those characteristics, he IS A SOCIOPATH! Piscea( and any other, zodiac sign that is true to zodiac characteristics),they need deliverance from Jesus. From my experiance pisces are especially dangerous. They seem to have characteristics that are not human. Be careful and ask Jesus for guidance...
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