Sagittarius man - experience from an Aquarius

by Val
(KS)

I met and dated a Sagittarius man, for over 10 year's now, and we recently broke it off. Let me start by saying, I have NEVER in my life felt such an intense physical/ emotional attraction to a man in my LIFE!

We hit if off SO well, amazingly, from minute ONE. I have never felt so much attraction for a man in my LIFE! However, he is one of THE worst communicators I have ever known. That is a major problem. He also HAS to have constant attention by the opposite sex, ALWAYS, so while in public, if not flirting with, he is eyeballing (hard...staring, to try to get the girl's attention) each and every girl he comes in contact with.

It is unnerving. He has a way when we are ALONE to make me feel like I am the one, but I don't trust this guy. I have caught him in sooo many lies over the years-and he always blames others, it is never him. He cannot say sorry, he cannot admit fault. He is very charming but also, deceitful. I honestly think he is a sociopath, now that I found out what that means! How can a guy who is so passionate in bed be soooo unfeeling and mean/cold/hard? I love him, I think I always will, and I for sure won't forget him, but he cannot commit to just me. (Many of his lies include how he meets and 'gets to know' other women...while he tells me I can't have other guys as friends?

VERY controlling and bad temper to boot!) He seems to want a girlfriend on the side for when he wants to see me, but really likes to go about his life as if single. So, after a very UP and DOWN/stormy/steamy relationship, it is finally over. (We even broke up 2 year's ago, and after about 7 months, he begged me back!) I have to move on, but it has been one of the most difficult things ever to do. He didn't treat me nice AT ALL and yet, the close chemistry connection keeps me emotionally tied to him. I don't even think about other guys and not sure how I'll date again. :( He was not good for me in SO many ways, treated me badly all the time, and yet, I was and am CRAZY for him? MAKES NO SENSE!!!!!!!!!!