Scorpio confused by Aquarian

So I'm a stereotype scorpio with an Aqua man and I'm so confused.
He was the first one to say I love you and he can be so loving at times but then he's really distant and I feel really used and then he makes me feel like a queen. It says that sex is a three which is the highest in the relationship but with him it's probably the least enjoyable. Which is really wierd because I LOVE sex. Do any other scorpios not enjoy sex as much with their aquarius?