Scorpio Gemini Arguments

by Gemini
(Melbourne, Australia)

For the past two years I have been dating a Scorpio man. For the majority of the time, I would never describe him as less than amazing, intelligent, beautiful, and incredible. He is such a wonderful person to be around, and I can never get enough of him. He can get enough of me though.

I feel that we mesh on EVERY level except during arguments. OH MY GOSH! Scorpio's are without compromise, and it drives me insane. If you have a problem, they don't want to hear it. If they have to hear it, they won't discuss it. And if you force them to discuss it, they completely shut you out and close the door, literally. My Scorpio man will let an argument carry on for days. But I will not. My nature needs arguments resolved quickly, and a hug, a kiss, a forgiveness, a chat to promise to improve on the problem, will do it for me. My Scorpio man however will lament on this for days and make my life hell until he decides its okay to let go. He never comes to me, hugs me, and lets it blow over. Being a Gemini, it is rare that I put meaning into things I say when I am angry. But Mr. Scorpio will take everything I have said, bottle it up, and use it for vengeance the next time we fight. He never lets go, and remembers EVERYTHING. I am flighty, and feel-in-the-moment, so if I am angry, I express it, but i am so easily happy again. But Scorpio man will not, never, ever, apologies, take blame, or feel guilt. Or if he does, I have never seen it. I guess because Scorpio's are so passionate about everything, they are passionate about being stubborn. This is not something Gemini can fathom, because Gemini is unbelievably compromising.

But, in truth, my Scorpio man keeps me stimulated. He is always full of something new and interesting to talk about. He is so caring and so wonderful and sensitive, and loves so much to spoil. He is an incredible lover, and an amazing best friend. Just so impossible to have an argument with!

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Scorpio Woman Trumps Scorpio Man
by: Anonymous

Dear Ms. Gemini:

I am a Scorpio woman. Everything you said is on point with my nature, which is why I choose friends and lovers that don't push my buttons with reckless abandon. I do admire Geminie's for their quick-witted, energetic spirit. But I must say I find I am more likely to have a nice friendship with a Gemini than a long term love affair. Fighting sucks the life out of you; I choose my battles carefully as I get old and tired. I should also note that I am replying to a comment supposedly written by a Gemini and I'm not fully buying it. Sounds more like it comes from an arrogant Scorpio man who is explaining himself and praising himself at the same time. Factor in I am a female and all the astrology in the world doesn't trump female intuition. Best of luck to whoever you really are. ~B

gemini women... not to be taken seriously...
by: arcataman

Totally understand. I am a scorpio male and had a very intense, exceptionally loving relationship with a gemini woman. She's a fantastic person, but getting to substance, "cutting to the chase" and getting past games is not something she does lightly. I LOVE a challenge. And gemini's love, cannot help but love, due to insecurity I think, to play games... superficial, yet deep at the same time - which is a very intriguing combination for a scorpio... as we keep looking for sincerity. This for me is exceptionally difficult as my moon is in Gemini... but I have rising and sun in scorpio...
As such, and multiple recent relationships with gemini's (which, unlike many other signs, don't bore me eventually...) make dating a gemini for me, DEADLY - I have to be very careful with women of this sign... make them "put-up, or shut-up" if I'm serious... or turn and walk fast and hard ... and keep walking ... the only solution I believe has a reasonable chance of substance and not feeling "jacked around" mentally. You cannot give them too much of yourself until they propose and insist upon commitment... or you're wasting your time and sanity

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