A Scorpio in love is typically both bold and mysterious. When they fall in love they fall hard and completely, while demanding only as much as they give... which is everything.
Be prepared for intense love making and intense conversation. Not likely to just have casual one night stands, a Scorpio in love is quite traditional in their intimate relationships, preferring to be in committed unions. They are devoted and fiercely loyal to their partners. Being excellent listeners, you will find yourself sharing intimate details of your own story with them even if you are normally reserved. Don't worry, your secrets are safe, as their loyalty prevents them from spilling any beans.
A Scorpio in love does not respect a weak lover, preferring someone that knows their mind and heart. Female Scorpios will likely be very good at making you come to her, being the traditional vixen that she is. Male Scorpios will be very forward and let you know exactly what they want, whilst helping themselves to it. Enjoy the ride!
Although typically Scorpios get accused of being controlling, they are really just trying to make everything okay for everyone. A Scorpio in love is very eager to please and they are very loving once they love you. They will literally sacrifice themselves to ensure your happiness often putting your needs above their own. This applies in sex as well. Never prudish, you can feel free to get down and dirty with your Scorpio as nothing is likely to shock them. Bring on the fantasies! They eagerly explore nuances and details of love and love making and will likely love to hear details of your sexual experience. Simply as a way of getting to know you more.
Their memory and attention to detail can be frustrating especially if you are prone to stretching the truth a bit. Expect to get your bluff called by your Scorpio. This can all be in cheeky fun, but can turn serious if they sense you are outright trying to mislead them. On the flip side, their memory and attention to detail will make you feel a very unique sense of being cherished as they seem to know you so well and act accordingly. Don't expect to be taken for granted when a Scorpio has given you their heart.
The intense attention of a Scorpio in love can be very alluring and enticing and frankly irresistible. But take caution in not betraying your Scorpio, as they have very high standards and are less likely to quickly forgive and forget than most signs. Love, trust and loyalty are things that they give freely, but if you err against them, they are likely to really make you earn it back, IF you ever even get that far.
Scorpios are never wishy washy and are very much "all or nothing", in love and life. This is highly beneficial for those that hate mind games and prefer to know exactly where they stand. Scorpios are very articulate and great conversationalists which adds to their allure. When in love, they will want to know everything about you and will pierce you with their all knowing' eyes and fall deeper for you the more genuine you are in sharing details of your life.
Although in social situations a Scorpio in love may appear at ease and vivacious, privately they'd rather just be alone with you. They prefer "one on one" quiet dates where the conversation can run freely and without interruption. Fireside dates, quiet dinners at home or in intimate restaurants, or a scenic drive are easy dates that will entice your Scorpio. Basically they need less fluff as they are mostly just interested in YOU, not the surroundings. They can quickly see through BS so if you claim to know about something, you better actually know about it.
When trying to find a love token for your Scorpio, give it from the heart. They are very sentimental and will cherish anything that is given with true thought and attention to detail. Less impressed with logos and flash, they will likely notice if you remember their favorite scent, gemstone, or book/music preference and gift them something in that realm. With Scorpios, it truly is the thought that counts, and they are so good at reading people that they will instinctively know if you just had your secretary ship them something randomly or if you personally put thought into it. Please see the article on Scorpio man gifts or Scorpio woman gifts
For details of the most common pros and cons of relationships with each of the other signs I have a separate index of articles on Scorpio compatibility
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Scorpio and Scorpio compatibility
Scorpio and Sagittarius compatibility
Scorpio and Capricorn compatibility
Scorpio and Aquarius compatibility
Scorpio and Pisces compatibility
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