Scorpio man Taurus woman

My Scorpio boyfriend slept with his Aquarius female friend while we were separated. He was angry with me because he thought I was messing around with his accounts but it turns out the Aquarius female friend is the culprit.

He wants me back, says he realized he loved me, and says sleeping with her was a mistake and he doesn't want her in his life. I asked him to tell her off and he could barely get angry at her (whereas when he thought I was to blame, he was livid). I feel he's protecting her even though he doesn't want her. I know Scorpio's rarely beg and have strong likes/dislikes but I can't trust that he loves me 100 percent still.

As soon as I let him back into my life, he was sweet and improved at first but that went away after a month and he's back to being bitter, lazy and angry at me and the world for anything and everything. Is he playing games again or does this mean he really loves me? I am a Taurus girl by the way.

How can a Taurus female cope with a Scorpio man's games?

I'm a Taurus woman falling deeply in love with a Scorpio man. I love how masculine he is and he's quite traditional. Every time we spend any time alone together, I leave feeling as though we've gotten closer. His biggest issue is trust and asked that I never lie to him...no matter how small. I told him I wanted to take care of his needs (my nurturing self) and he asked if he could trust me to take care of him. It was a thought-provoking question and I appreciated that. All in all, things are going well. It has only been 4 months and we've had a couple of speedbumps but the speedbumps only made us stronger.

I'm a Taurus woman and am utterly infatuated (obsessed?) with a Scorpio man. He is passionate, intense and the sexual sparks just fly out of his fingertips (and other places LOL) when we are together. He is also very interested in me but we both have "situations" and it makes it difficult right now for us to be together all the time. How can I be sure this isn't just a "fling" for him? Aren't Scorpios deeper than that?

I'm a Taurus woman currently involved with a Scorpio man. All I can say is...WOW! Every time we touch each other, it's like an electrical current passes through our bodies. When I look into his eyes, I instantly feel exposed/naked. He is so passionate, intense and sexy. Combined with me being sensual = HOT AND STEAMY!!!

My personal experience with a Scorpio man was nothing but mind-blowing (I am Taurus). He was the classy type: deep, dark, intense, hugely intellectual, insightful, unforgiving to extreme and sooo sexy it was almost criminal! He enjoyed his complicated mind games with me because it amused him to test the will and power of an emotionally strong woman. he was definitely not into seducing a doormat of a girl! No challenge - no game! Domination in his world didn't involve whips, collars and chains, it was far more intelligent on a mind level and somewhat sinister even.

Did I fall for him? No, it was no ordinary love when you feel comfortable, close and secure with a man. It was an incredible attraction of strong minds. I got drawn to him against my will, logic and common sense but without losing my dignity and self-respect at any point. He didn't attempt to drag me into his bedroom for some good poetry reading for a good few months, but kept stirring my emotions on such a deep level that I felt totally blinded by this connection and desired him immensely. Sometimes I got the impression he was in this just for the pleasure of a chase. He loved the fact that I could tell him in no terms that he was so bloody arrogant and selfish that no sane woman should be allowed near him (he was very wealthy and powerful).

In the end I couldn't take any more and got committed to a more down to earth Taurus with whom I could be open, feel relaxed and secure. Never heard from my Scorp again, even when sent him a Birthday wish! After almost 2 years of an emotional rollercoaster I am glad to be back from those scorpion jungles and enjoy the pleasures of the world of mere mortals, but I do not regret knowing him, as he provided me with one hell of an experience.

Can it work between a Scorpio man and a Taurus woman?

I'm a Taurus, and my man was born on a cusp (Nov 21), and in the beginning everything was fine. We had so much in common, and it just felt right. Now it just seems to be a 180, we're arguing, he has been flirtatious with other women (one of them a Gemini), and he's not the guy that I fell in love with. He says he doesn't want to lose me and gets jealous if another guy tries to pursue me. What can I do to make this Scorpio come home again?

I met my Scorpio friend about two and a half years ago, and only see him about every few months because he moves around a lot. I'm a Taurus and although it bothers me that Scorpio is so mysterious, I prefer not knowing some details of his life for fear of partial heart break due to jealousy and envy toward other woman he may have. Mr. Scorpio and I are very open and honest with each other, so I'm well aware that a "real relationship" would not work out between the two of us at this time in our lives. As lovers and friends, I'm sure we will continue to see each other for many years to come because the lust we have for each other is like nothing I have ever experienced. Seriously! All I can think about is that next time I see him, I'm sure we will be making up for lost time over, and over, and over again.

I met this Scorpio guy when I was at the age of 13, when he was 15 or 16. Originally he had been my best friend's childhood friend and I had heard so much about him that I was intrigued to meet him. Big mistake. After hearing about how much he had messed my friend around, I thought meeting him would only make me hate him more. Instead I found that on meeting him it was like magnetic, and we engaged in a conversation that felt like we'd known each other for years. On that a couple of more times we met up by chance and I fell for him more and more. On the outside it seemed like he had no personality, not even that good-looking and just messed me about continually but there was something that connected us in a really weird way. At one point he asked me to be his girlfriend, when I was probably at the age of 14 and he was 16 going on 17 and I thought he liked my other best friend (not the one who originally introduced us) and declined. A few months later he found himself a girlfriend and I found myself fine with that and It didn't bother me- it saved me from wondering if he liked me or what could happen. He dated her for nearly a year but in that time still talked to me, invited me over etc. I then started to wonder If I had said yes to his offer of being his girlfriend would he have played me too. But when they broke up, he was so interested in what I was up to, constantly asking my friends where I was etc. So we met up early this September and it was the same feeling over again that we both really liked each other. It was all fine, until he started to mess me around again to the point where he was in front of my face flirting with my friends just because I was talking to one of his. In between the times we have met up there has been long times of not talking at all, but when we were together it was like we were a couple and nobody else mattered. Then recently after 3 years, me at the age that he was when we first met and him nearly ready to go to university we kissed for the first time on an important date completely by chance, and I thought that maybe this time it meant we'd get it together. However a few days later he also kissed a girl from my class and I decided I'd have enough. Only two weeks later did he come crawling back.. now im completely lost. My friends tell me he's just a player and I should leave it and meet other guys, believe me I have met other guys but nobody has really come close to the way he makes me feel, and I feel myself becoming putty in his hands again, I just wish he would commit to something better than just meeting up with each other. I can't tell whether he likes me or not, it seems when he is with me he really does but I just don't know anymore.. help :/

All I know is that Scorpio men are master game players! Mind games is what turns them on...Thanks, but NO THANKS...They constantly put you down whether blatantly or subtly, but it's there...and don't even think of getting the best of them, because you'll never win! They're nasty, cutting and vindictive...No more for me! Been there, done that and don't want to ever again!

I have been with my Scorpio man for two years now and he is fantastic with everything.

Only bad point is they distance themselves a lot from time to time. And then they like Crazy in love with you all over again.

For a Taurus women to be with a Scorpio man is not that easy, its hard in the beginning because we are totally different. But you learn to except each other. And if you want to keep your Scorpio man, let him lead because if you don't he will leave you because of your bull headedness.

My Scorpio man and I are both very committed in our relationship and we stand up for each other. So there is a bad and a good point. But if you can grab a Scorpio man's heart, you will never be more happier. Scorpio men are loving, caring, trustworthy and honest but bear in mind they can also be secretive.

I have been dating a Scorpio man for 3 years, not an easy go at times, but when it is good it is fantastic! but when it is bad its nasty. Roll coaster, however it comes from both sides, although his nature fair out rides mine for the nasty. But when its good it is so damn good I can't walk away. It'll make sense to those whom have dated a Scorpio male. My problem is I need to walk away, I am not handling very well emotionally, the 'waiting' for him to quote 'fall in love'.

I'm a Taurus woman, been talking to a Scorpio man for a few months... He seems to need his own personal space, so I only see him once every couple of days... in other relationships with Virgo or Leo, they were with me practically everyday, all the time, so it's a little different for me, but he calls me and texts me all the time. It did take some getting used to. In the beginning I felt really insecure about the way he felt about me, even though he told me he had "his eye on me" for years before we started dating (we were both in relationships with other people when we met). Maybe I'm just naive, but I don't see him as "playing games," with me, although he is a little flirtatious with my friends and it drives me insane. I think he seems to have a harder shell to crack, and isn't as open about his feelings. He won't blatantly come out and say that he has feelings for me, but he will be affectionate towards me and wanna touch me, etc. We were at the grocery store the other morning and he ran up behind me with flowers and then he cooked me dinner later that night. Maybe he's not like other Scorpios. He says "I'm sorry," a lot, almost too much. He makes me laugh all the time. Likes to paint. Plays guitar. Is very very sexy, not just physically, but in every subtle way. I don't know how long it will take for our relationship to go to the next level, but I'm pretty much assuming that I have no say in it because he wouldn't want a woman to make that decision.

I am a Taurus girl who always goes out with Scorpios. I'm not the typical I'm not the typical Taurus girl because I love adventure and I am very complicated to figure out. A Scorpio guy I used to date a while back was 5 years older than me and our relationship was very good at the beginning. I got completely over his dominant and jealous persona that I begun cheating on him on purpose; I guess it was a way to "get back." I now go out with a different guy, who is also a scorpion...who figure, and I really like him!!!! He is more understanding and is able to hang on even when I go through a emotion rollercoaster! He is by far way more compromising and patient. I love him!!

I lived with a Scorpio man for a year after dating for 4 months I'm a Taurus girl). It didn't work out. He was 32 and I was 23 at the time. He had a child from a previous relationship and ex drama. Didn't really know where I stood with him for most of the time I lived with him, weird! But he bought me gifts and took me to baseball games. Our sex life was FRICKIN AWESOME but it didn't seem like we had a future together, when he went out with his friends I didn't know where he was going and he never answered his phone. I dumped him back in 2004 because I wanted to settle down and stuff. We talk on Yahoo Messenger now, Im married to a Cancer now. My Scorpio ex says he misses me and says I had the least drama compared to other girls he dated. He keeps telling me to visit him in FL and that he was sorry for pissing me off. I'm like dude I'm married, should have thought about then, lol.

I'm a Taurus woman dating a Scorpio man. Whirlwind doesn't quite describe our relationship. We had a chance meeting at a group event and from that moment on, it seemed like we were connected at the hip. We've been dating less than 3 months and he's now moving in (might as well since we've been living together unofficially for at least 2 months now). Magnetic is not a strong enough adjective to describe this guy. He's personable, friendly and very attractive (women throw themselves at him all the time). I trust him completely though, but his brutal honesty is sometimes just that. Brutal. One thing that has begun to surface is that he takes it to heart if I'm not in a good mood. He withdraws completely and then I feel responsible for both my bad mood and his. What gives? Talking about unpleasant (but necessary) stuff makes him run in the other direction. It's frustrating, but I believe we can eventually find a happy medium. What's the best way to break through to this guy without making him run?

I told him I loved him and he said he doesn't love me, but has feelings ..what does that mean exactly? we are working on seeing how it goes he says he needs more time together, to know. To me that doesn't make sense, as its been 3 years already.

I don't mean to sound rude here but yes the sex is excellent, as you all mention here. but hey its not everything, is it worth the disrespect, meaning the head games, my heavens, the waiting games, waiting for THEM. Who in hell died and made them God. I mean seriously. Personally I am fed up, and have had it completely with this relationship of 4 years. I'm done!. Maybe mine is a bad apple in the bunch don't get me wrong but wow. I'm outta there...Maybe I'll meet a decent scorp male one day, not looking though. I'm done.

I have been involved with a Scorpio male for the last 3 years and have lately been reading about the Scorpio personality and traits... I have to say that I am so relieved actually that so many women say the exact same things as I have myself felt... my Scorpio drives me mental!... but I love him like no other... but honestly as mental as he can drive me... I am somewhat relieved to know that there are so many common traits amongst Scorpio men, I too would love to know how and what he is feeling and as a Taurus woman I have a need to know... his mind games frustrate the hell out of me and someday I wonder what the hell I have gotten myself into... but again it comes down to love... and I just can't see myself not having him in my life in any capacity... I am really drawn to him and we definitely share a special connection, even when we have been torn apart for months we always seem to find our way back into each other's lives... anyways, that's my two cents... I wish us all well, those who are involved and those who have warned us about these little boogers.... lol....

I have loved my Scorpio my whole life, well since I was 16 and he was 18. I am now 43 and am more deeply in love with him then ever. It isn't always easy but what in life is? My best advice is to not try and change them other just except them for who they are and ask that they do the same. If two people come together with trust and understanding as well as forgiveness. It can work and it is a beautiful union.

I have been with a Scorpio nightmare for the last five years and he's not the first male Scorpio who has exhibited poor personality traits with me. For some reason Scorpio males and female Taurean are not a great combination and that is based on several experiences. Perhaps it's communication styles or whatever. I agree with what was said earlier, sex could be great but it's not everything and it's not worth the heartbreak of going through a waste of time with someone who won't appreciate the love you have to give them. Next time I meet someone of the "Scorpio" background I am running miles away in the opposite direction and that is no word of a lie.

I knew (almost started seeing) a Scorpio man about 10 yrs ago... For some reason it didn't work out...the last time I saw him we had a great time... 10 yrs later and I still think about him 24/7.. I had 2 short term relationships and none of them could take my emotions as high as he did... I don't think I'll ever be able to be happy again...If any one has some insight on how I can heal this open wound that I have had for over 10 yrs. Please let me know.... I know I must have done something wrong but I have suffered long enough, I did my time for whatever crime I committed... I deserve my sanity, life and heart back... Please help if you know

how...nobody deserves to hurt this much for this long

as a Taurus girl I really like to be dominated, the weaker one, even though I will put up a fight.....

Scorpio men know how to fight me....which I love...fall for etc......

BUT PLEASEEEEEE.......FIND YOUR SELF A Cancer OR SOMETHING....

it is not worth it.....he is all about the conquer.....for your own sake just trust me on this one.....cancer men can be really sexy too....look at Megan Foxes bf/fiance/w.e...look at Penelope Cruz and Mathew....u really think he ever loved her....now she's with a Pisces....

I know it's silly using celebrities....but I find it's better than giving you personal examples

we are magnetically pulled their way....but we have to fight it....

the whole only a Scorpio man can make me happy is a lie we have convinced ourselves of...and will suffer greatly for.....

I am involved with a divorced Scorpio. we are about to take our relationship to the next level. he lately been asking me often: are you sure I am what you want? you have the desire to be with me? are you really ready for this? etc. I told him many times over how I feel, but occasionally those question keep on coming and when it comes up in conversations its always: "this cannot wait, need answers now". help, I need some opinions where he is coming from. last note: his marriage was a loveless one and his wife was awful to him for 20 years.

if you want something that might help aid you into gaining a deeper understanding of the Taurus Scorpio relationship I think it would be enlightening to read about hade's and pheresphone's relationship ..if you google "hades peresphone relationship" the first wiki article is really informative

also from the Scorpio guys that have been in relationships with Taurus women, why did/didn't it work out....what did/didn't you like about her....please don't hold back...taurus girls are strong....the crueler you are, the kinder you'll be...holding back and keeping us in the dark is actually a lot meaner than any criticism you may have to offer us....

I hope you enjoy the article, and thx for any comments in advance

I am a Taurus female and I dated a Scorpio male for 25 months.

When I first met him, it was like he set my old life on fire and forged me a new life with him at it's center. For the first handful of months, I was blissfully happy.

But my Scorpio hand wandering... well everything. I attempted to forgive and forget, but my obstinate made it quite hard. The Scorpio claimed he wanted commitment, marriage, etc. but continued to roam that pasture.

Scorpios are too good at lying, but I see the potential for an amazing relationship if both parties are willing to be loyal and honest on the important stuff.

I think it's because we're too boring for them

also the first post with the Aquarius g/f further confirms my belief that Scorpios hate Taurus's the most, apparently we're the sign they're most likely to kill (literally) .Lol.

I agree with all the posts saying to stay away from Scorpios. Obviously they don't want anything to do with us (if they are with us they're cheating) -experience. We just need to let them go, as hard as it may be. We deserve a real love, not this pretend love (aka lust) that they control us with for their stupid pleasure.

regarding the whole Aquarius vs Taurus thing.

I'm a Taurus, my sister is an Aquarius.

When I was in grade 9 I had a silly hotmail. It was cutie or something of that nature. I got beat and called a whore for that by my (Scorpio dad)

my sister went out one time got so drunk that she started stripping in a bar and my dad didn't do anything to her, no one was allowed to say or do anything bad to her. He didn't look down on her one bit, he didn't lose any respect for her, he just loved and accepted her unconditionally.

why was he so vindictive towards me, but with my sister, nothing.

why am I not deserving of any compassion (in Scorpios eyes). I think you guys are real dicks for that.

There's this guy I see around. I've never talked to him, probably never will but there isn't a doubt in my mind that he is a Scorpio. Now I see what people are talking about when they bring up the whole Scorpio intensity thing. Not in my wildest dreams would I have thought that it would be that much of a powerful force. He makes everything from my blood to posture freeze completely. I try my hardest to hide any signs of emotion but he has had a huge impact on me. For one, he has some how transformed me into a more honest, ambitious person (keep in mind we've never talked and I've made sure to make as little eye contact as possible). As a Taurus girl I'd never be brave enough to be close to something so (Devine?) for more than 3 sec. I don't understand how other Taurus girls do it, you guys must be really strong. The energy this guy has given me is enough to last me the rest of my life and then some. Def. A transforming experience. I really wish I was strong enough to allow my self to feel/ face his presence.

I have a Scorpio younger brother, and am a taurean girl. . Many stuff said about Scorpio traits here r true, we nvr ever agree wit each others view, argue most of the times over all the stuff s we read, hear get to know trying to analyze in our own ways, both stubborn refuse to lose argument. . . But one thing I can say honestly, if there s anyone who can really convince him on anything, or solve his mental complications easily, its only me!! I have made him realize, I really care for him yet he can open his Scorpio tail sometimes when I chose to ignore him to cold . . He will always smile next day or come talking nicely. . . Am strong and he knows it!! He s my brother and all I can say to you girls is if you feel, passion, commitment, possessiveness , is what you want and can ignore silly stupid arguments , called mind games by them , go for it! For they r thousand times better than cheating Gemini s :) good luck

I am a 42 yr old Taurus woman and have been dating my Scorpio boyfriend for 4 yrs. Before him I was with a Cancer for over 15 yrs. My Scorpio boyfriend has this power over me that I can't shake. The weird thing is he's not that great looking and doesn't have a great body but I'm so incredibly attracted to him! We've broken up several times over the last 4 yrs (mostly due to trust issues...him not being able to say no to the attn from other females) but we both can't stay away from each other. In the beginning he was very attentive, loving and affectionate. Now he seems to purposely hold back, BUT I still know he loves me and doesn't want to lose me. I think unless you're willing to "play the game" with them AND know how, you should definitely stay away from these men because it will be a hard...emotionally draining. road.

hmm Taurus girl here dating a Scorpio guy

Amazing but emotionally draining !

great sex but not really worth it.

very passionate but the mind games are stressful

if you're not a strong Taurus go the other way immediately he will break you down inch by inch . he can read right through you he loves us because were innocent by heart but! hell never say so till take forever for him 2 if he's a bad Scorpio he'll seduce you and then attack you mentally and only mind games .

if he's a good Scorpio then you're very lucky with urfind-

u have to be strong willed in order to fuQ wit a Scorpio guy mentally.

there really good but also really bad-

so I stand by my words if you're a strong Taurus girl and you cant take things to heart and learn to dismiss all his useless remarks then it can work but if not you gotta run lol run the other way he's no good for you girl im telling u.

Taurus female deserves much better and the Scorpio guy knows that's why he wants you all to himself but then don't wanna stay committed and even when they are there mouth issent such a potty mouth .

I'm a Taurus Woman, and I just recently started noticing Scorpios. Before, I used to have an obsession with a Scorpio guy who lived far from me, he liked me but he didn't want to be in a relationship because of the distance. (Vegas vs Miami= very far.)

Then In this year, all of a sudden, he who has not had contact with me in like 3 years because I took my myspace off, suddenly adds me on Facebook.

I ask him "How'd you find me!" And he told me he remembered my Pen name and searched for me on google.

That sounds very special to me.

I also met a Scorpio recently who is 2 years older than me, and is very fascinating type of person. At first we hit it off great, we were talking, he gave me advice with a break up I was going through (A Cancer), and he was there and all.

Then he disappeared for three days, he comes back, and he isn't talkative anymore O_O

I figured, because I tried talking to him like I usually do, and he only says a word or so.

So I just stopped talking to him, I didn't ignore him though.

So my question would be, how the heck can I get him interested in talking with me again?

I just want to flirt around, but if the right guy comes along, I'll end my single trip early.

I thank GOD or whoever I came across this site. Almost every Taurus woman/Scorpio man experience is the same in most aspects and I am no different going through the same. I almost fell out my chair reading the same emotional effects and similarities we've gone through. We are both seeing different people ( I am involved with a Taurus) but the polar magnets makes me so drawn to him! UGH I hate it! I am emotionally strong and never break in front of him. even seem aloof about us but he got me. and I am aware of the outcome! I guess time will tell..

ive been with three Scorpios and there all nut cases you just have to be strong and have a thick skin also a lot of times they mean the total opposite of what they say .just don't put up with there stuff and they will respect you .this one ive been with nine months but seems like years ,he drives me crazy as hell and if he wasn't so loyal the sex wasn't so dam good id leave him .weve broken up many times but cant seem to let go, he swears he loves me wants me but says he cant make a commitment because I keep breaking up with him. hats because he's an arrogant a hole and I tell him so with is one of the reasons he loves me because I want take no crap off of him ......

I had Scorpio boy friend and we were going to get married soon. everything was going good but suddenly I came to know that he proposed my friends and he crossed his limits by proposing my own real sister. after this he slept with my own best friend......when I asked him about all this, he simply said "I don't know, what you are talking about!

'in short he was nice only in front of me. I cried but later I realized that its of no use and I broke up with my boy. now I miss him too much but we are good friends FROM TWO YEARS..........but believe me guys its very difficult to be friends with EX.......NOW I CANT TRUST ANYONE.......