Scorpio The lover you dont want to cross

by Robert
(Indiana)

I am a Scorpio and I love hard when I find someone I choose to love. The Scorpio will give his all but if you cross us, walk out, or cheat be ready for Hell on Earth. Revenge is are middle name and we are very good at it. Its part of our nature and we learn to embrace it. We don't physically beat you around. We inject a poison that destroys from the inside out. Many call it emotional abuse. We call it sweet revenge for being crossed. I have done it unintentionally on three different occasions. Its natural for us since we very well may be the most in tune with emotion sign out there. My advice, don't cross a Scorpio unless you are ready for a long emotional war that we will win. Everything you say will fuel our fire and become our emotional ammunition. You become the our icon of pure hate and we let it all out before we stop. Good luck trying to hurt us at this point, but if you do, Congrats you just made things 100 times worse for you. Best thing to do is have no contact with us and let us forget you exist as much as we can. From a Scorpio that allowed himself to marry a Libra that ended badly. Sure you can put the rest of what happened together. Cheers

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Agreed
by: Anonymous

Yes you are right-agreed. I prefer to be alone without the one I loved. In the Zodiac signs, there are two sign are distant which is the six house and the eight house. I am not too sure if other sign are good as Scorpio. I meant what I meant. From: a Virgo woman.

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by: Pisces02

Wow.
You make Scorpios sound so scary ...

Reply to Pisces02
by: Robert

Don't mean to make us sound scary or anything. It is just not a good idea to play head games with us or bad outcomes such as ones I mentioned in my post can very well become reality.

To Robert
by: Pisces02

I see.
Well,crossing or cheating is not right in general,I guess.
But the Scorpios I met so far weren't as dangerous and vengeful as you describe them. ( Or maybe I never gave them a reason to show me that side of them? ).
They were extremely jealous,doubtful,showering me with questions and they seemed like they always had they guard up and ready to attack. But beyond that I could see a very deep and sensitive side to them,which was what charmed me the most.
Despite what most people wrote here,I've never been afraid of a Scorpio,really,even though they're such short tempered individuals. The Scorpio women were always kind and loving towards me,and the Scorpio men ... well,no offense,but they were a bit difficult and intimidating sometimes. However,that never stopped me from seeing their good traits : loyal,protective,and most importantly,making me feel like such a beautiful,useful and important person.

That's why I was a bit confused about what you wrote about Scorpios. I see them from a different point of view. But,since you are a Scorpio yourself,I think you know better.
:)

Pisces02
by: Robert

all of the things you mentioned are also very true. there is a very loving and compassionate side to us. Since i just recently got out of a rough marriage and have not had a chance to really enjoy the other side of a Scorpio in a very long time you could say i have lost touch a little with that side of me. The primary purpose for the original post was for thoughts who are thinking about being vindictive to a Scorpio. I am glad to hear there are still good people out there that deserve the good qualities a Scorpio can bring to a relationship.

Hey Robert
by: Anonymous

I found the two of you and Pisces are debating about who made Scorpio sound scary. Well, I don't ever see Scorpio affect/negative on the other side.
The exterior of a Scorpio that I'm viewing is very compassionate, loving, dedicate, intelligent, and very safe and secure to be with. He is not that bad as you just describe yourself such as "inject the poison or revenge." But I believe that expression is just words that came out of you negative side. You just want to make yourself feel relieve from a bitter relationship that you been through. I'm sure all of us are having a negative side and will show or not show it depends on what the individual situation. I found nothing wrong with that. On the second article, I believed Virgo mentioned about something else. She/he tried to support Robert. That Virgo must probably feels upset-deeps inside her heart that she is very distant from some one she loved. such as the House of Virgo is six and the Scorpio Home is number eight; she just made a comparison for she loved Scorpio so much, I guess. When you read the Astrological charts, those two houses are apart from each other. Though they are bonded very strong unbreakable. This is how I translated the Virgo's comments above. That doesn't mean to Scare Scorpio. It's hard to imagine, Virgo is down to earth but never betray herself. Her little word has a lot of meaning. This is how I see Virgo. I hope the two of you understand; the debate is done, Lol,lol.

To Robert
by: Pisces02

Ah,I see ...
I'm sorry to hear that. I guess you have all the rights to feel a bit upset. You must've been in a bad mood when you wrote the original post. :)

But yes,I guess Scorpios are generally temperamental,even if they often show a cool and detached exterior. I don't blame them for being like this and I'm sure I would still love them even if they would erupt and pour their anger on me one day. For all the good things a Scorpio has inside,it's worth it to forgive them.
After all,true love is accepting a person with their goods and their bads.

And when I think about my female Scorpio friend ...the number of good things I see in her is infinite.

But to be honest ... I've had a hard time getting along with other Pisces. ):

Hey Robert
by: Anonymous

I won't blame you. I understand more than understand. Also, you are absolutely correct about all of us are having two sides; however, we're handling it differently. I'm some how is fragile in the interior and feel pretty upset when I heart someone mentioned about Scorpio because we are always too distant such as the two houses are in the middle which separated by Libra house. Yet I still love Scorpio and will be always accept the way he/she is. It is not his fault; it is nature. Other hand, I think Pisces didn't think deeply of how Virgo or other signs may feel about a personal relationship stuff. Anyway, at least both of you and Pisces are talking- tried to figure it out,lol.
I hope Pisces will understand as much as we do. Best wish for you, both. ~Virgo~

Continued
by: Robert

I did not look at it as a debate for the person that decided they had to be a know it all. I except your thoughts for what they are. Pisces, you dating or having Scorpio friends would be natural for you as a Pisces and Scorpio are considered to be one of the most compatible matches with us. Your right up there with Cancer if not a little better off. As water signs we all three naturally get along. A Libra on the other hand is different. Everywhere I have looked it states a Scorpio and Libra should not marry. I did not pay attention to that at the time and wish I had. To Virgo, Glad you understand unlike the unnamed opinionated person.
My original post only spoke of one side of a Scorpio as a reply to the bottom portion of the seducing Scorpion page. I could spend hours writing about a Scorpio's passion, love, and loyalty but that would not have fit the topic I was discussing. I was being honest and open which is rare mainly because of people like Mr. Opinion above. We don't open up for a reason and i believe that point don't need to be explained. All of you have a wonderful day and best wishes to you.

Hurting people
by: Anonymous

Who would win in your opinion. Someone who can read people's emotions or someone who can read people's mind. What are the pros and cons of each?

To hurting people
by: Anonymous

Heh,..someone can read people. In psychological, yes! we can read people mind, weakness, or to understand their emotional. It is logical. Words, behavior are the main traits and even though without expressing any single word and action. Also, the drawing of a picture has a lot of meaning. I'm not too sure if this response to your article is right. From a Scorpio Lover.

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by: Pisces02

Even though I'm not sure this is the right place to talk about 'hurting people',since it's a post about Scorpio ...
But,if you're referring to Scorpio men hurting people,well,I don't think you guys should be afraid,really.

Scorpios may be intimidating,but they're not evil. Of course they'll spit venom and want to 'teach you a lesson' if you disrespect them,break their trust or their hearts. Anyone would get angry if those things happened to them,and Scorpios just have a little bit of aggressive way to express their anger.
However,it doesn't mean they will go on a killing rampage for no apparent reason.

I've noticed that a lot of people are talking about the dark side of the Scorpio,which saddens me,really.
I think Scorpios are wonderful people,but that's maybe because I appreciate honesty,loyalty and true love. But there is more to a Scorpio than just his short temper and anger outbursts. I think people should analyze a Scorpio more deeply before commenting on them. I know that beyond that cool exterior there may be a volcano ready to erupt,but there also may be a heart of gold.
If you know how to appreciate a Scorpio,I'm sure they can make you feel like the King or Queen of the world. But for that,you have to be loyal,respectful and honest.

My opinion,of course. :D

Pisces
by: Robert

Very well put Pisces and I agree 100% with you. Sad though that few people will truly be able to see this side of Scorpio. You understand the good side of Scorpio. I just wish more people were able to do the same. Since that most likely wont happen, most people will see the aggressive side. Its heartbreaking, really.

I love Scorpio
by: Anonymous

No offense. I love Scorpio, no matter what. My Scorpio never shows me of his aggressiveness. But if he shows me, he showed in a funny way that make me want to laugh, and of course, we laughed together. I found him very loving, loyal and caring for me in the world that I can't ignore and never lost my respect to him at all. We understand each other sooo well. I cannot replace anyone in his absenteeism. In my mind, I admitted, that I can't live or breathe without him. He is my every thing from the beginning to the future. Virgo Loves.

never cross him
by: Anonymous

Never hurt a scorpio emotionally, for you will feel his wrath. They never forget and he will never leave you, and he will make sure it is hard for you to leave him,but he will inflict so much heartache that you will wish he had. One minute he will be loving and caring and the next Dr. Jeckel and Mr. Hyde. Never cheat on them, once you have his heart keep it that way, unless you want royal payback with a never ending process. They know what your going to do before you actually do it, but against their better judgement they wait until you hang yourself. When they love they love hard, they want to always be under you and need to know your every move. They are very secretive but want to know everything about you. very possessive and very clingy. But watch out for that sneaky side of them especially if you hurt them. Other than that once you capture a scorpio heart it is yours until you mess it up. Take it from someone that has been there and done it for 7 years..Walk away if you can....(doubt it) but try like hell to unless you glutten for punishment. NEVER EVER HURT A SCORPIO...Its always okay if they hurt you though..

For the Anonymous person ...
by: Pisces02

I'm sorry to hear that you saw that side of a Scorpio.
But you did mention ''Never cheat on them, once you have his heart keep it that way, unless you want royal payback with a never ending process '' - Of course. NEVER cheat on them,or anyone else,because cheating in general is just wrong and unfair. It's only normal for a short tempered Scorpio to unleash his wrath on you when you break their trust.

Also,you said '' When they love they love hard '' - And this is precisely why they're so effected by cheating and lying. Because Scorpio people are very intense and passionate,they put everything they got into a relationship. They are loyal,protective (this could explain why they're clingy and jealous),they're interested in their partner (this could explain why they want to know everything). And they expect their partner to do the same.

And as for the 'vengeance',well ... that is a trait Scorpio has. So we can't really blame them for it. It's how they are and what makes them different.

If you don't want your Scorpio partner to 'punish' you,then why not try showing him / her some respect,love,trust and loyalty ?
I doubt you'll be having any problems if you do that.

I'm sure a Scorpio doesn't spit flames unless provoked,but I think a lot of people are curious to see how 'dangerous' Scorpios really are and they push the wrong buttons,then they complain.

I'm sorry if this offends any other sign here,but this is just ridiculous. It's not fair to point out all the bad things in Scorpio ALL the time,when there are so many good traits to him. I know he has his flaws,but don't we all ? :/

Virgo devotes to someone she loves
by: Anonymous

Holy Macaroni! I don't understand what are you talking about in the article above Pisces. I'm a Virgo, the most fidelity toward someone who I have selected for a partner and to cherish. I never been wasting my time to think of someone who that I never love. Also, when I love someone, I love very hard. I knew I'm very smart-never hurt myself. I'm a kind of a person that never fall easily or trust someone. I rather spend time alone to meditate and get more Cosmic Energy from the Cosmos to gain the power in order to stay healthy and happy. I'm a Virgo lady won't cheat someone who I love very hard in my life. This Virgo is not a rigidness.
I respect everyone's opinions. I'm an open mind and wish someone to understand. Please, guy out there don't just guess or let someone to put the words in your mouth. You need to see the truth and the fact.
I'm a loyal Virgo but not to the point that I give myself away. No!! not that. Wishing all of you good luck.

Dear Virgo ~
by: Pisces02

In the article I previously wrote I was talking about how people always point out the bad traits in a Scorpio.

The reason I don't talk about other signs isn't because I'm ignorant of them,it's because I keep responding to an article about Scorpios,so it's only logical to focus my whole attention on that sign.

I don't want to be mean or rude,but I don't think this is the right place to be talking about Virgo.
Virgo has its own 'place' on this site,where articles and comments are written about it,so if you want to talk about Virgo,or any other sign that doesn't directly concern Scorpio,I think you should go there.
:)

Oh,and on a side note - I've always cherished Virgo,since one of my best friends is one and we get along rather well. :)

To Pisces
by: Anonymous

Thanks Pisces! That is very interesting. I knew where the site for Virgo. But, when I heard someone talked about Scorpio, I feel that I want to protect him since I have a relationship with him because I knew Scorpio is always very nice and loyal. My article refers to the anonymous which is on the top of your article. Okay, Pisces. So long now. Lol..

Definitely agree.
by: Lauren

Scorpios can be extremely cruel if you cross them. The worst part is...they don't even have to try. It's just in their nature.

Me and my Scorpio had a rocky start. After about a month and a half of dating he started recoiling when I tried to get close. What I thought was a lack of interest was actually an intense fear of getting close to another person. Around this time I made the mistake of kissing an ex. I felt horrible about it and told him almost immediately. He was very hurt. That was almost 7 months ago and he still brings it up to hurt my feelings every time we get in a petty argument. I've confronted him about it an he knows he says things to retaliate for what I did.

He is making a real effort to trust me again, though. Our communication has gotten better. We still manage to laugh with each other and have an emotionally deep relationship. The simple fact that he's actually willing to forgive (a trait the Scorpios aren't normally capable of) shows that he really loves me.

I wouldn't trade him for anyone.

Not all Libras are gonna be like that
by: Anonymous

Hey there Robert, I couldn't help but notice how... negative you were towards Libras.

I'm a Libra and -I don't know if it was just your hurt and anger talking there- I just want you to know not all Libras are bad, sometimes it depends on a Libra's Rising sign and their cusps if they have any.

A Libra with an Aries Rising sign -like moi- can be really stubborn and hard to negotiate with, I know because I've had my Scorpio boyfriend tell me that.

Also, I think things would work better for you -friendships and otherwise- if you associate with a Libra with a Virgo cusp, you'd most likely get along better with them.

No-one is ever completely bad, sometimes you have to make mistakes like with your marriage with your Libra ex -I'm not trying to attack you, I just hate to beat around the bush and I get straight to the point- and use it for future reference on how to get along with different tryes of Libras.

Am I babbling, I feel like I am.

But anyway, like I said, not all Libras are bad, maybe you just got unlucky and had a Libra with an Aries rising sign.

I wish you luck for the future. :D

I love Scorpion Men
by: Anonymous

I have to comment here because I think Scorps are getting such a bad rep for being vindictive. Truly, many people are if hurt and betrayed but Scorps just take it one step further. That's not a bad thing. It's a necessity for them. My opinion is, if you don't want to feel the wrath, then you don't treat a Scorp badly or anyone for that matter.

They are the one sign that lives what they feel. How more honest can you be than that?

my scorp
by: aries woman

I love my scorp bf, as an aries he is the only one who can control me when i got so stubborn.He did this by not talking to me for DAYS i mean like a week or more and pretending not to care but i know he was just teaching me a lesson if we had a fight (:-)mostly my fault)He can be so cruel at times by ignoring me but I know that after that when his mood had changed he will contact me again. We've been together for 9 years so im probably got used to it :-). Scorpion are loyal and protective to those they love, they have a big heart to those people that are not fake. They're so secretive and hide their feelings like my scorp. But of course everybody has good and bad signs and scorpion is not all bad i actually like how they are..

clearing up misconceptions
by: Logan M.

It all depends on the Scorpio. I'm one myself. I'm an 18 (almost 19) year old male.

It's such an egotistical thing to talk about, but I'm completely fascinated with my own sign. We're commonly known as the least understood sign of the 12. Here's some important things for anyone to remember about Scorpio:

1. They're one of only three signs that have two ruling planets (the other two are Pisces and Aquarius). Our two ruling planets are Mars and Pluto. Does it get any more opposite than that? The fiery intensity of Mars, the iciness of Pluto, and all the mystery there. It's like a huge fucking metaphor!

2. Scorpio is the ONLY sign with more than one totem to represent it. In fact, we have THREE:

The first is the eagle (or the phoenix), which represents the higher path; true righteousness, justice, fair treatment and everything that's good (think Theodore Roosevelt). This is truly what we strive for, in most cases.

The second is the scorpion. This is where we get our bad name from. The scorpion totem embodies our full potential for hatred and revenge. While the eagle/phoenix will triumph his opponent once, and let him walk away, defeated, with his dignity; the scorpion will either publicly humiliate and UTTERLY destroy his opponent, to an exponential degree; or, it'll wait forever, plotting revenge, and waiting for the perfect moment to set the plans in motion. Truly, we can and will wait forever. I speak from experience. When a Scorpio is being embodied by the scorpion, he's vicious, stinging, and always hurtful. And it's never a blow for a blow. It's always ten blows back to whoever hit us. I have yet to encounter a sign that possesses the same magnitude for malignancy that we Scorpios do. If you think the men are bad... watch out for the women. Whoever wrote that quote about a woman's wrath being worse than hell probably knew a Scorpio woman.

(more in next comment)

more
by: Logan M.

The final totem is the gray lizard. To me, this is the most interesting, and hardest to define. When we're the lizard, we're in a shell, completely isolated from the world, and at our absolute lowest. I've been here a few times in my life, and I hate it. Hmm. The best way to describe this is when we're at the absolute pit of our existence, when our own fearful apprehensions and self-consciousness eats us inside out, and makes us completely pathetic. Rather than draw on our Pluto powers and hurt whoever hurt us, we put ourselves in a shell and hope fate will take care of it. A Scorpio embodied by the lizard is a pathetic thing to witness... but it's never too late to follow the phoenix.

This is a very poor summation of the planets and totems and their effects on Scorpio, but hopefully the general idea gets across.

The double ruling planets and three animal totems might help some people to understand Scorpio. Every day, a Scorpio can be a completely different person, and motives and intent can be hard to read in a Scorpio who's constantly shifting between the three totems. I know that I'm always shifting between them.

Apart from that, there's all the general characteristics, like loyalty, faithfulness, intense sexual drive, etc. Despite being incredibly loyal, I'm ashamed to admit that I cheated for the first time a month ago. I was in a relationship with a Leo girl for a month and a half, and believe me... it left something to be desired. We just didn't click on a very deep level, and I'm painfully aware of that, because I've come to fall deeply in love with a Pisces girl (very complicated situation, long distance... only reason I'm not with her every day).

Anyway, I ended up cheating on her with a Taurus female. We have a lot of history, this Taurus female and I; we've known each other and lusted for each other for six years. Every time we've seen each other, one or both of us have been tied up in a relationship, but she was always pushing to get me to take my pants off. I swear, it was the hardest thing in the world. What finally pushed me over the edge was the combination of this dull relationship, and with the realization that both she and I had matured to a point that our relationship had more potential than purely physical. It was at this point that I broke, and had some of the most passionate sex of my life (that's saying something, most of the sex I've had was with my Scorpio relationship of 2.5 years). The Scorpio-Taurus connection is absolutely marvelous. The only thing I like better is Scorpio-Pisces.

Anyway. Completely off topic at this point, just illustrating that of course, basing EVERYTHING off of sun signs is stupid, but there's some useful knowledge to be gained for the purpose of generalization.

Ms Libra says ur right!
by: Sara

Hi there,

What you posted shows that u are a typical scorpio or remind me of someone who would use those terms in disclosing some rare details about scorpios..
I want to share my experience with my scorpio and what changes i saw in myself before and after ive met him..
Im in a relationship with one, and oh boy what do i have to say, that its been three years and im still in love with his heart.. Well sometimes it hard to continue with such and complex is suitaeble in describing him, but trying so hard to understand his moves, reactions in some circumstances, even his eye contacts as a sign of agreeing or disagreeing in something ,that matters alot. Reading and gaining knowledge about this type of sign traits, i try to avoid what might bring hell in my mind and soul or learn how to attract that side of him and bring the smile to my face and blossoms in my heart..and im telling you, frankly speaking thats not easy but challenging and its the eagerness to whom wants them in theirs lives and knowing how precious this person who i love, getting deep inside of his thoughts when sharing our feelings and emotions itsa chance when he lets me in gives me a change to sense that..truly its a rollercoaster if i might say, either a joyfull ride or a person might get sick and experice a hurtful ride.
I personally find it that its worth the effort, time, energy and deep thinking for being in a relationship with one.
Its an emotional experience i dont wanna miss nor i wanna to exchange or envy anyone else who is living an -easy get easy let go- or whatever a cinderlla story ...!

Regards,
from a libran women who learnt abt scorpios from experience, knowledge and patience..

All Scorpio's not the same
by: Master Scorpio

My reply is all scorpio's react differently depending on his maturity. YES, we do not like having our minds and emotions F**ked with. Nor do we deliberately play mind games with others. The only time a Scorpio male will resort to emotional torture is when we have been DELIBERATELY used and taken for granted and NOT respecting us. The best way to end a relation with a scorpio male is just be honest. We will lick our wounds and move on because its easy for us scorpio men to attract another women....most likely there was a women waiting in the shadows anyway to take your place....we love NEW CONQUEST....

it happens
by: ts

im an aquarious and i can be just as vindictive if addressed with the same issues as the scorpian. who wouldnt. dont cross me either. i may forgive a lot easier but still watch out if you piss me off. Im dating a scorpio mand and let me tell ya it has been quite interesting to say the least. The times we have are great, when we r together its wonderful. he just hasnt let down his guard all the way with me. I learned patience with scorpios are the best. Give the space and the time they need. let them control the initial relationship. I hope im right about this cuz im head over heals and wont tell him cuz i dont know how he truely feels about me, its still a mistery.

Scorpio A Lifetime Friend (or) Enemy
by: Anonymous

What was written is true I read about 1/2 the responses and to simplify the article being a Scorpio myself we will protect,love, and be very loyal to those we let into our circle. Once we have made our mind up your worth having in that circle rarely does one need to worry about being stung as we chose wisely and you have passed our exhausted application process. If you treat us right we will return the same 10X more and not just walk with you thru the gates of hell we will do everything in our power to protect you and lay down our life for you but if you cross us you will never see our sting coming and its gonna be very bad for you. If u know a Scorpio and think he isnt this way or behaves in this manner thats because hes protecting you congrats u made his inner circle its part of our mysterious way to not show what we are truly thinking inside. We must always win and that means we will silence our moves, our closest friends wont know as the exterior of us stays the same but inside we are strategically planning and waiting on the right time to release destruction against the opponent. An abusive Scorpio is 1st stage and definetly shouldnt be messed with a mature Scorpio in 2nd or 3rd stage is what u really want to search for.. I know for me with women I love/love/love women and will give all the spoils to them, if she makes me happy and strokes me the right way I will walk to the ends of earth to protect and care for her nobody can change my mind about her......

Scorpio Betrayal
by: Anonymous

Scorpio man likes to be secretive and hates cheating...i agree.
However in my experience the secretive nature was to hide a whole deal of betrayals and cheating that was going on in his world. Yes i did cross him a whole lot harder than he crossed me and it became cat and mouse for a while, as he was trying to suck me in to more games. I decided it was not worth it and that he was trying to screw with me further.
Scorpions are honest...however something very sure to look out for. First when you ask them a question and they dont want to disclose, they will go round the houses not to give you an answer (so in their eyes, they havent lied) because they havent answered. Secondly they do not practice what they preach, they are controlling manipulative but extremely cruel with their emotions. I would like to believe that everything that was said to me was true, but when i saw in black and white the same emotions and conversations being relayed to many women, i doubt i will ever know the truth.
If you believe in trust and honesty, tread carefully, they are great at lying. suggest no matter how hard nd whatever happens, it will always be your fault and you will always be blamed for their inconsistencies and you will never get a sorry for it, as they continue to turn their lies and blame back on to you. Before you scorpios start to curse me, i would like to add that this is usually an unevolved scorpio that could act in this manner. This particular guy loved the idea of being a scorpio but didnt have the balls to grow but used the energy of others to stroke his ego. So if you are emotional, not into sordid game playing and sexual acts..i would give this one a wide berth.
And believe me i have been to these darker depths as i have been placed on an emotional rollercoaster, i wish you well....from the recovering Scorpionic!!!

The Scorpio Mans sting
by: jc

Reading many of these comments, there is a little truth to all, but not in the same fashion. Im a very strong Scorpio and match the loyalty and passionate side that Scorpio men are known for. Often I have the ability to know what people are thinking before they act. This is an asset to me, because I am naturally suspicious of everyone until I have your trust and ever-dying loyalty. 25 yrs of marriage to a Capricorn failed, because she betrayed my trust, but now back into dating the last 6 yrs, my Sign has taken over to rule me. Some Scorpio Men talk about the stinging or revenge if they are hurt by a Woman. I have had a few cheat on me and several others lie. Bad news for them, but for me, I do have a good heart and havent seeked revenge in a way that detroys their lives, or by not letting them go. I find that the greatest tool I have to satisfy my pain is guilt. Guilt can eat a Womans heart out if she truly deserves it. I have dated a few that betrayed a love (that I was still a little protective of), but they really ended up hurting me by lies or cheating. It takes me time to give my whole heart and to love a Woman, but crossing me is a show stopper.

I tend to plant the seeds of guilt and let her be angry with herself, thus wishing for my foregiveness. Thats when I walk away. "Cold?" probably, but everyone has to be accountable for their own actions. It's not easy for me either, when I start to really love someone and then get my heart shattered. Those are the pains that I carry and carry alone. I keep those things to myself and then keep myself even more guarded when a new Woman takes interest in me.

I guess this is an insight that I wanted to share about being a Scorpio. Meet me for coffee and I'll deny I said any of this

Cheers / jc

Scorpio Woman weighs in
by: Anonymous

We are ruthless (both the men and the women), yes....but only when crossed.

Meaning Scorpios do NOT harm people who have not INTENTIONALLY waged some sort of war on us. Although our sense of revenge is higher than average, so is our sense of justice.

The reason a Scorpio man/woman will become so full of wrath is if we genuinely feel that the person hurt us intentionally. Our feelings are much deeper than they appear on the surface and although we'll forgive a million accidental hurts and insults....we'll NEVER forgive being lied to, being cheated on, and especially ....being manipulated.

Never do those things and you'll be one the receiving end of a loyal, fierce, fun, deeply adoring friend/companion.

Remember that Scorpios consider "mind games" to be any sort of fake flirting, insincere compliments, or "gaming" of their emotions. While these things may work on all other signs...or at least not be a big deal...they are VERY insulting to Scorpio and will make them go from loving you to almost hating you in an instant.

Never make the mistake of insulting their intelligence with nonsense. That's what changes them from passionate and loyal....to an icy, cold enemy.

i<3MyScorpio
by: Itzel<3

Scorpios arent scary you can argue and fight and they will forgive they arent as bad as ppl make them sound believe me. Mine is really amazing and now is when he has shown me the worst of em because he is stubborn and hates for me to tellem anything because he thinks iwanna tellem what to do...
Dont missunderstand them! They wont tell u they love u alot and u might not think they act like it but if u really look into it theyr doing their best to show u and giving it their best shot. Theyr hard to understand but then again every sign is and truthfully idont reget getting inolved with him iTottally Love him and he knows that<3

Pisces&Scorpio so are the best match ever.

Vengeful Scorpios
by: Anonymous

You sound very much like a double crossed Scorpio. I am a Virgo woman with Pluto [Scorpio's ruling planet] conjuncting my Sun, Mercury, and Mars. I can say that depending on how strong Pluto and Mars are in a person's chart, this can depend on how far that person will go for revenge.
The Scorpio will wait and watch and pray for the complete downfall of the one that wronged them. I had read of a Scorpio man chasing down a teen who side swiped his car. The Scorp caught the unfortunate teen and killed him. Scary stuff.

Pisces Woman and My Scorpio Man
by: Anonymous

My Scorpio man is my soul mate, lover, best friend. Yes, they are very intense, magnetic to the max and love deeply and sincerely...when they find the right female. Physical love is not enough as to these Scorpio men, when they find the love, that love is for life...deeply emotional and their physical lovemaking is combined with deep, deepest spiritual, and, yes, sacred aspect...it's incredible! He can, of course, be controlling to those who can be controlled or wish to be controlled, is possessive and can be very jealous. As an ultrafeminine "dreamer" Pisces female, he is my 'knight in shining armour' and loves being it! Of course, he has his negative traits (don't we all?). His intensity of emotions, his spirituality, sensuality, is very compatible with this Pisces girl. He's also super intelligent and a born leader (has to be the 'boss'), but is fair and just (cannot tolerate liars, cheats, etc.). Scorpio males I've known are most attracted to 'traditional' females and want to be the 'protector' and relish that role and are great 'providers.' I guess what i am saying is that if you are 'the one,' you will not regret loving/marrying a Scorpio man. To me, the 'ultimate' male, who has a deep sensitive, emotional and spiritual side combined with the 'macho' as well. To me, the perfect mate...love my Scorpio man... my husband forever! (ps--I know for a fact, he has never cheated on me and I would trust him to be away from me for any length of time--so loyalty is also a trait of a Scorpio man, if he has found the 'right' woman)

levels of tolerance
by: charles swann

I'm writing principally to affirm a slightly earlier comment from
"Scorpio woman weighs in". What touched me in this comment was the suggestion that a Scorpio HATES to have his/her intelligence insulted. And with me, in the context of 'betrayal', its this aspect which provokes my vengeful nature. I am typically scorpion in the sense that I have a high level of emotional intelligence, and an intuitive grasp of how a partner 'thinks' and 'feels'. I can sense lies and disloyalty and I despise evasiveness and obfuscation. I'm just at the end of a long relationship with a Libran woman, to whom I was utterly devoted. Over time, it became clear that she was incapable of reciprocating the intensity of my love for her. For a while, that passion was important and attractive to her. In fact it kind of helped her out of deep despondency which she was suffering when we met. It was a healing influence and she truly welcomed it. At the time she was still in - though coming to the end of - a very unsatisfactory marriage to a very wealthy man. And she was ill, felt unwanted, and very low on self esteem. She saw me as an antidote, an escape route, and very quickly, she was restored to health. I was able to give her exactly what she needed. And so I was 'useful' to her. But once restored, her ex began to make overtures, and basically she missed the benefits of a high income context. Slowly she began to withdraw. All the promises which were made in the beginning evaporated. She evaded direct questions, was economic with the truth, became secretive and unreliable, and my trust in her disappeared. I felt betrayed, rejected, and most importantly insulted. When I first began to sense her shift I actually predicted to her that she was heading back to her ex. But she lied, trying to suggest that our relationship was foundering because of my attitude. Within weeks of our coming to an end, she was once again connected to her ex. I even have a strong suspicion that it was happening while we were still formally 'together'. That she was double dealing, balacing the two contexts, keeping options open until she had decided which way to go, instead of being open and honest with me about how she felt. I was resentful because I had suggested that this was happening, but was met always by a categorical denial from her - insulting my intelligence and intuition. And so the lower scorpion kicked in. I hate and despise her, and am seeking the means of inflicting revenge upon her. Never make a promise to a scorpio unless you have the intention of honoring it. Don't lie to a scorpio. They don't forgive. Not when they have invested themselves totally in a relationship. Unless you want to suffer - and she will - be straight, direct and honest. And scorpios, watch out for librans. They are shallow, superficial creatures driven principally by self interest. OK, the sex can be sublime. But ultimately they are 'creatures made of clay'.

awsum!!
by: Anonymous

wow well that iz ture i should know im 1 lolz

Dangerous Scorpios
by: Tonya-the Virgo

i<3MyScorpio
by: Itzel<3

Scorpios arent scary you can argue and fight and they will forgive they arent as bad as ppl make them sound believe me. Mine is really amazing and now is when he has shown me the worst of em because he is stubborn and hates for me to tellem anything because he thinks iwanna tellem what to do...
Dont missunderstand them! They wont tell u they love u alot and u might not think they act like it but if u really look into it theyr doing their best to show u and giving it their best shot. Theyr hard to understand but then again every sign is and truthfully idont reget getting inolved with him iTottally Love him and he knows that<3

Pisces&Scorpio so are the best match ever.
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Scorpios are very scary when they are done wrong. Pisces is a good match for Scorpio because they both feel each other's moods and they can soothe each other. The typical Scorpio never forgets or forgives, even if they look you straight in the eye and say they may forgive but they can't forget. They feel everything passionately and this can be either good or bad depending upon circumstances. Yes, they can be kind, gentle and they'd die for the one they love without batting an eyelash, but if crossed they will hunt and haunt the one that wounded them. Sometimes, it is a good thing if they just coldly ignore said crosser and shut them out of their lives forever. This is the other extreme that can happen with the Scorpio. True they don't go around telling you they love you constantly because they are sure their actions speak loudly. Never try to boss a Scorpio around...shudder! The Scorpio man will not be told what to do or nagged, that is something a Pisces can do quietly at times but it can get him riled up enough to cut their throat with his switch-blade tongue. Brr! I have an Aquarius/Pisces Ascendant along with my Sun, Mercury, Mars, and Pluto in Virgo-not to mention a Gemini Moon. I can see both sides pretty well. It's great that you get along well with your Scorpio. :-)

HELL YEAH
by: xx (female, 25 y/o)

omg everything in the original post is 100% right (i'm a virgo sun, venus scorpio, plus ARIES rising!)......my venus scorp is ALL OUT in the realm of love/sex/relationships (it will never be 'off' even for a second!)..........

and i have no qualms if a relationship isn't working out....and if the other person wants out...just have the DECENCY and courtesy to let me know why/what happened...what you need...that is an amicable split...i'll have no qualms letting you go so that we both can find something else more fulfilling.

but if i'm provoked/insulted/attacked first, for no good reason (i was accused of being "disrespectful" -- WRONG word to use, seriously!)....i'll whack you 100% (as a warm-up).....then collect my thoughts, then shred you to pieces later to settle the score by REALLY giving you a piece of my mind (which will make you wish you were dead).

in my case, it was something that played out over many years (with an unevolved libra sun/gemini moon individual -- mature types of any sign are fine ^_^]...........and i now know what i need/want in a r'ship, and what i will and will not put up with. those realizations make all the pain/confusion worth it. and i am able to walk off, at peace and in one piece (though potentially at the expense of the other person, who 1. started it, and 2. deserves it).

p.s. agree with everything "The Scorpio Mans sting
by: jc" said up there in the comments too!

crazy
by: Anonymous7

dont mess with scoropio, this is not a joke if you scar them they will wait for years. let me make this very clear, you will have no idea what youve got urself into.ever hear of 20\20 hind sight.

Scorpio who??
by: ScrewScorpio

I am a pisces. I have 2 children for a scorpio. First off let me say..I MUST NOT BE A GOOD PERSON WHO DESERVES A SCORPIOS LOVE. No I must be a horrible person. I loved him with all my heart. I was married when we met and he had a girlfriend and 2 kids. He told me he was leaving his girlfriend, before we had sex mind you, and wanted me to leave my husband and marry him. I did leave. He did not. I loved him. He did everything he could to make sure I loved him. We worked together. He constantly made advances. I begged him to quit so I could move on, my father owned the company so I could not. He wouldn't. After 4 years I was pregnant. He got fired for aggressively charging at my father and changed his number when I was 4 months pregnant. Cut off all contact leaving me alone pregnant. When I talked to him after baby born he convinced me he still loved me. I took him back. We got pregnant again. 6months in he had wrecked his truck, lost his job for stealing and became a meth addict. He blamed all this on me. EVERY LAST BIT.NONE WAS MY FAULT. 7 months pregnant he grabbed and bruised my face. I broke up with him. I cut off contact this time. Then I had the second child. Again I tried to help him. To find him to sign the paternity so the dna test would not go to his house and get him in trouble. And because I think it is better for the children if the parents get along and can come to an agreement out of court. He called me a stalker for trying to find him after having 2 kids with him over an 8 YEAR RELATIONSHIP. He called me a pig, bitch, cunt, that he wanted to kill me and I was lucky he didn't because I had the kids, that I ruined his life, that he would make me suffer and if I EVER filed for child support he would kill me. And this is the nicer version. And then the dna request was sent and the girlfriend found out. You can imagine his rage now. They are not together now and now he blames me for not being able to see their children. I thought it had something to do with his drug use but nah his ex girlfriend confirmed he SHOULD blame me, because of me she won't ever be with him again so she won't let him see their children. But I made the best out of the worst situation. A situation that I was wrong, a lot my fault, I should have said no when he didn't leave her. I am stupid, no doubt about that. I am a single mother of a 3 and 1 year old. I am finishing my degree full time. I have no babysitter, I pay for daycare with student loans and I love my children. I have not been out by myself in over 2 years. And I enjoy life. But the emotional abuse, the pain of having loved someone who made me feel worth nothing, who has not seen his children since the baby was 6 weeks old and the only time he saw her, is unbearable. Never once helped financially. Nothing. This is the kind of love I want to be worthy of? A good person so lucky to have this love bestowed upon me? YES I must be a horrible person. I AM NOT WORTHY OF A SCORPIOS LOVE.......FUCK SCORPIO

Revenge
by: ScrewScorpio

Oh and by the way. I got revenge. Pure sweet revenge. He never saw it coming. Scorpio is no match for pisces..the only sign stronger than scorpio. They may think us weak, and therein lies our strength. I mean no harm, I know the scorpios love and it is great. But this man almost destroyed me.

Scorpio guy i knew about
by: Sarah

(PART 1)We work together and still do, I was married and he was single, he was fun and i liked him like any normal individual, others liked him too. Nothing inappropriate happened between us until a day he called me and said "I know ur falling for me" I couldn't deny it yet I told him I'm married and ur a nice guy and fun to talk to, unfortunately things escalated between us months later as we worked together, I could not avoid him, his charm, intelligence and a lot more. I'm sure it was the same with him (I'm a libra) irresistible as well and he fell hard for me that what made me follow my heart. Our relationship started secretly and I knew it was very wrong but I could not stop my feelings for him, it is the first time I fall in love with someone in my life and with him I fell very hard(my husband was an arrange marriage, we lived together like room mates and we have one daughter and he lives abroad, he comes occasionally that made me feel like he is staying with us as a guest in a hotel and travels to different countries for his job purpose ) my scorp was aware of all of that. After 3 months we had the first kiss... later on we use to hangout in his car...we supported each other at work mostly without anyone's knowledge of what's happening, we kept it very low as we both are very discrete both in our lives separately. 9 months later we slept together and it went on multiple times later he told me he loves me and wishes to marry me things went insane and I was head over heels for him and he said that in return but could not do anything abt the situation he said it many times and I cannot believe what he said to me(its hard for me to talk abt this but I need to let it off my chest)Later on our relationship had its ups and downs and I was the glue putting it together I dunno why since I had my own life with my husband. I lived my life as a partner with my scorp more than I did with my husband, scorpio men are hard to deal with, very hard to understand, but I was able to be with him for more than 3 yrs and talk abt various discussions, his personal life and problems, he trusted me enough to handle his personal work outside the office and I knew a lot abt his family issues he trusted me to stay in his house alone, and watch out for many things around at a personal and professional level.(cont......)

The scorpio guy i knew
by: Sarah

(PART 2)What I know from our relationship is that we made a pact not to break it off in a bad way and be able to put effort in ending it mutually, I have put my 110% for him in the entire relationship and devoted myself to him, I didn't forget his family, work, financial issues ,covering up for him in some days at work, I almost did everything he wanted and even on his birthday, I gave him presents and told him how much he meant for me, supported him in every single thing and cared for him like I never cared for anyone in my entire life, but unfortunately he did not even give me a birthday present not even once!! Nor did he support me during my black days, all I wanted in mind is to be happy with him, and keep things smooth until we end the relationship mutually without creating a huge drama, I was insanely mad abt him It made me forget abt my other life, i could be called dumb, unfaithful, and irresponsible but here... my husband was having a good time away from me and keeping me lonely at night and in my life and in that age I was 24 back then. Problems started to increase and flood on us until one day we fought and things never went back to normal, on the contrary it escalated and gotten worse so I saw that breaking up mutually was far from our goal and my life was on the verge of falling apart literally, all my efforts I put has gone zilch, seeing each other every morning was inevitable and a daily torture and resigning was hard as market condition was bad, so it was crucial and most hardest part that I've every dealt with in my entire life, I felt lured and deceived by him, lost my life, shattered my dreams, screwed my love life and yet enjoys seeing me hurt. He turned completely different than the person I fell in love with, he tortured me emotionally, mentally with his mind games, he kept going on and on and I felt like being his punching bag throwing his anger on me in work, AND feeding his heart and ego of ending the relationship the way he likes. I had to bear of all his bullshit and i knew he was going thru what's called as the scorpio grey lizard phase they are the worst, a scorp can go thru phase in life( I have friends and family members that went thru that phase and it is unbearable to be around one literally).(Cont.....)

The scorpio guy i knew
by: Sarah

(PART 3)I finally has a discussion with him talking abt us and were do we stand... He called me names like self centered, narcissist and immature..... the worst attitude that I've ever seen from him, treating me like shit using his own methods screwed my life over and over again.. I could have hurt him too but ill be digging my own grave(they can wait for yrs and get even on someone out of the blue and start an other journey of his revenge plan) I said alot to take it off from my chest what I was feeling abt things without hurting him as much as he hurt me and told him it can't work anymore around u, he refused to give me a closure before and until now he won't he said its bad u have to live with it.... At the end of this convo he asked what else could be done, I was extremely broken and unable to stand on my feet, I held on and told him "nothing, I wish u have a good life" and walked away without looking back, I heard him saying behind me "u too."
Its a heavy burden carrying it, I lost my marriage, love life and dreams for a someone like him, who could have all of that with someone else(single), I feel that he swiped me like a credit card. I pray to god every night when I lay my head on the pillow, as I pray to god to forgive me for my mistakes. Thank u for who is reading this and I'd appreciate ur comments.

So true
by: Anonymous

Haha I so agree. So funny, this just happened to me today with a libra. Not so funny... for him anyways. I doubt he will sleep tonight without any nightmares and this is just the beginning. Shame on him!

Already in trouble with a Scorpio
by: Anonymous

My exgirlfriend is a Libra sunsign with Scorpio ascendant and I am a Gemini in Both aspects. I don't know if it is because of Saturn in libra but 2011 has been hell: a nasty breakup with emotional abuse by my ex. I don't know if things will change in 2012 but right now I feel that she is leaving me emotionally completely drained. When Saturn moves to Scorpio in October 2012, will things get even worse, I wonder. Will she ever change and realize how much hurt she has caused me.

me as a scorpio
by: humanmind

im a 30 scorpio man. analyst as a profession. i follow rules but not if they confine me. im totally jealous in general. when people try to upset me badly I just crush them. Hate people who feed me lies - I can read them so why bother. Dont they know im obsessed with body language. when i see people i just profile them. its scary but i cant help it. if something scary happens in public everyone reacts but i find myself detached from the situation as they describe the scorpio. im not scared of death but facinated. i spend all my time reading about everything esoteric or the unknown. i could never tell people about this. i also hide me emotions until im upset then people see me explode and are shocked. when im in love then i give every single part of my life to my other half. i was cheated on and felt broken. my world was nothing. im now still recovering after four years and havent gotten close to anyone since. i find life a struggle but given the chance to live again and to experience this facinating world around me, i'd do it all again. scorpio - yep i know i am.

HELP. I'm a Libra...
by: UpSh1tCreek

HELP !! I'm a Libra in big trouble with my Scorp...

My stupid indecision and rash decisions put me right up shit creek.

Now I have to walk out on him.

But he's going to be PISSED, and no amount of explanation will save me. He'll assume I was playing head games when really, I just made a dumb decision that I now regret!!

How can I snip him cleanly out my life immediately WITHOUT making him angry and vindictive?

He's not going to change his mind, I'm so screwed.

forgive
by: Deadharvest

If you do push too hard - do they ever forgive? I pushed too hard for an answer, which he was not ready to give and I got the sting end of it.

Scoripio
by: Anonymous

I'm a Libra dated two Scorpio men. They both were great, instant attraction right away. Let me tell you they both were moody and depressed more than they were happy.

One was never married and he's 42. The other was married in his 20's for only two years but still single and he was 46.

What does that tell you?

I felt like my energy was being drained trying to please them or figure them out. The last guy said he was busy every time I tried to plan things.

I said ok, I will move on and date others. I get a big FINE!! go ahead. text with a goodbye!

They love to put the blame back on you. Never admit it's partly them to blame.

Ladies I don't care what sign he is but if your spending more time being unhappy with them get out.

It's a control thing and Taurus men do it too. I just met a wonderful Sag, man and he is light and fun like us Libra's.

Scorpio men are sweet but deep inside is a smoldering mean man.

to Humanmind
by: Anonymous

Hey I see you've been through tough time, I'm cancer and share with you same nature water sign behavior and I've been there too it hurts and take a while to recover. To tell you the truth you never will. However, you can't keep yourself locked inside your pain because this is worst. Thing is, if somebody that you love so much did that to you it means that this person do not deserve your love. 4 years is enough don't you think? Let it go and move on, there is always somebody out there looking for someone to love and as a water sign I have an advice for you, use that special gift that only us (cancer,pisces and scorpio) have that is see through peoples mind to find the right person. Be more practical and less emotional before fall for somebody. Ah try not to make the next girl pay for the mistakes of the other one ok...People are different, don't loose the opportunity of meeting a nice lady just because you are afraid of being hurt and just remember you are stronger than you think. Good luck to you

Scorpio only end up stewing in their hate and poison
by: Anonymous

Yes, scorps are cruel and vindictive. However, scorpios are known to sting themselves with their own poison because of so much hate and intention to hurt and manipulate a lover, even when they might have caused that relationship breakdown. I might be wrong, but I notice some of the scorpio men here almost declare with pride, how mean they can be 'if crossed.' Well, I wouldn't be so proud cause you don't get away with shit like that, trust me 100%, I know. My experience-a mean and vindictive scorpio father and kind aquarius mother who divorced him because he was so mean. He tried everything to make her life hell which just made her the strong woman she is today, albeit emotionally needy toward me and suspicious in general. Anyway, he's now very, very poor, whilst he used to be wealthy, and shamelessly asks for money from the kids he never took care of whilst he used to be so arrogant. And I know he regrets every single day how he treated my mother. So there you have it my mean and vindictive scorpio friends, THINK before 'injecting'a victim with poison, you'll only end up stewing in your own hate and poison. That, I know to be an ineviteble fact...no two ways about it.

Luv Scorp's
by: LibraLady

To the Scorpio man (Robert) that was married to a Libra.

I'm a LibraI have been researching astrology for years, after my failed 20 yr marriage. I dated a Gemini, Taurus and a Scorpio. Libra's have a tough time with tust an getting close to someone,just like Scorpio.

Scorpio and Libra want the same things out of a relationsip but we speak a different language.

Libra's will date a man and play over and over in their head ( is this real?) ( does he really care?) we do it so much we talk ourselves out of a relationship. Scorpio's do the same thing in a diferent way.

I need space at times, a true faithful partner just like Scorpio. I would never dream of cheating.

It may take time to fall in love because of fear of getting hurt. I have been accused of not in the man. The entire time I'm so head over heels for himbut affraid to really say the words.

Please don't blame all Libra's for your past hurt. I think if the Scorpio men would truly show more emotions on the outside, tell their partner how they really feel and what they need. The outcome might be a great deal better.

As a Scorpio let me imply that we HATE flaky people
by: Anonymous

Dont Everrrr tell a Scorpio one thing or have a Scorpio become close to you then twist it around when you get around "new" people. We'll resent you for it and then we'll distance ourselves forever, thats it, no more friendship/relationship.
Another thing: We really dislike when people try to compare themselves to us or others, be yourself and stop trying to out-do or one-up other people, we value those who are about the walk more than the talk. Being humble and free is the best way to keep a Scorpio cuddled up and by your side. Another thing: We really can't stand to be around phonies! Actually it's one of our pet peeves. Be real or stay away from us, or we'll stay away from you, either or you'll never be in our company again once we decide to let you go, we'll make sure of it. To us your no longer worth the energy. We will move on diligently and enjoy ourselves somewhere else.
Another tip: There is [NO] literal way of holding on to a Scorpio. Why? Because, if we decide to let you go, your finish. Thats it, party is over between us, friend or foe doesn't matter, we become indifferent and feel no type of emotion for you what-so-ever. No love nor hate, just nothingness. You no longer exist.

Good Luck Folks, and always always stay true, especially around your Scorpio.

im falling to peices without my baby
by: my wounds

Enjoy your scorpio as much as you can while you can. Once they gone they really dont come back and you will miss them when they not around no more, it hurts deep. believe me i know

Scorpio Men
by: Anonymous

I am currently dating a Scorpio man and I have read most of the comments posted here. My scorpio boyfriend is kind of controlling but he calls it strict. He says he doesn't love anybody and doesn't care about anybody but that just means that he does because he speaks the opposite of what he really feels/thinks. He told me this. He also told me that he has cared/felt the same way about all of his exes which included me (the current one). I was going to break up with him because of lack of affection and we discussed this and he told me to think it over, so that I don't have any regrets about my decision. I take that to mean that he really does care about me and doesn't want me to leave at this time. I mean, we can both attract someone new, but why do that, when we can continue in our relationship and learn something from it hopefully? lol

own experience
by: bart

only one thing i can say about scorpios whe never forget whe can forgive bud that wil take a long time whe can read people like a book even there darkest places whe feel at eas my own experiance is such that i think whe scorpios are to mutch in touch with are feelings whe can really feel emotions line physcicalle thats what so intens .
whe dont open easyly bud when whe do whe give it 100% whe dont go like only 50% it is 0% are 100%
sorry for the poor englisch

Scorpio VS Pisces
by: MegaPisces777

first girl in high school i crossed was a Scorpio. She liked me... I knew it but I wanted her and I to be friends first... I told her flat out I did not like her. 21 years she still hates me. But ive forgiven her and asked for her forgiveness...I can only see that her vengefulness is only destroying her. Yes Scorpios are intense...they make great lovers for a Pisces if they can catch one.

you are sooo right!
by: Nov17th

I am a true Scorpio... And (smiles) to who began this post because you hit the nail on the head.
A Scorpio is the most passionate, romantic sexual sign out there. We are honest, faithful, and give the shirt off our back. Most of us are long fused.. And most of us will love you like you've never been loved before
But if you do cross us, acheater and a liar are whom we hate most.
But when u cross us, lie to us and especially cheat on us, its in our nature to revenge. No most of us don't beat women, It's not our nature.. But we will destroy those who crossed us, and especially cheat on us... We stop at no legal measure to completely destroy you from the inside out. We do things that last a lifetime, not like a bruise tha t goes away in a few days. We will and I have on an occasion, ruin your careers. And just as he said, when you try to retaliate against us, it only fuels our fire. We see it and react as a war, and its a war very few will ever win against us.. our mission once crossed, is simply seek and destroy... As in all relationships its always best to leave or split before you even think about having an affair or cheating and lying. But with a Scorpio this is a must!

CHeated on her
by: Anonymous

Hey everyone, I love my scorpio and she loves me profoundly. After 9 months of the greatest times of my life, I went out with some friends with her consent and got drunk. Stupidly, I let alcohol take over my judgement and kissed a girl.
Unable to keep a lie to myself and loving her so much (Im a capricorn), I broke up with her telling her about the cheat and confessing my mistake.

Today, about a month later, I truly regret everything from cheating to breaking up with her. She has completely taken me out of her life, blocked me from facebook and will not take my calls.

I know she loves me and I truly want her back..and I never intended to cheat. I sent her a txt mssg asking me to actually tell me that we will never get back together so that I can move on with my life... but I got no answer. I know she does not hate me, but she is truly hurt. Shame on me. She knows I love her and she is certain of that, but I dont know if she would be willing to try again.

I know I do not deserve her. But if we get back together, I will truly care about her like I always have, and will never let myself get drunk again.

As a scorpio woman, what would you do if you truly love your man, and you know he loves you as much?

Scorpio friend or foe
by: RJL

A Scorpios revenge is NOT DELIBERATE, again key factor is crossing a Scorpio to began with, we are loyal and expect the same. But if you're unloyal or suggest walking a way would be best. We live what we feel and love with great depth. If you are truly ready for a great love affair and up to the physical sexual endurance of a Scorpio then put your love to the test. We are mind body an soul. But unfaithfulness will not do. You either love us or inlove with us. Scorpios being loners and valuing their space wants to share ourselves but with someone who knows how to endure closeness, genuine love to the depths.

Scorpio commits act of spiritual death against libra
by: Anonymous

I am libra woman. My ex scorpio man committed an act of spiritual murder against
me.I loved him deeply and did not see it coming. He nearly destroyed me but GOD LIFTED ME OUT OF HIS wicked grasp. In the middle of a four year relationship he began loving someone else and conspired secretly to help him financially to win this g i r l. W h e n i did not go along with his secret plan he started abusing me on every level.

To Robert Scorp expert/ the lover who i dont want to cross
by: Sagi2Bhad

Im SO SICK AND TIRED OF HEARING ABOUT THE DONT AND DO'S OF STUPID ASS SCORPIOS....its actually sad and pathetic how immature you guys are. Your feelings are not made out of gold alone. You play all these mind games and test and do damn sensitive and insecure. Im a Sag and have no problem with crushing y'all stupid emotionally draining cry babies egos. I've cheated on my scorpio with his friend just because these dumb ass blogs day NOT too. You need weak minded females who fear and get caught up in them stupid lil mind games. I welcome the sting because at the end of the day your gonna leave emotionally damaged messing with my love.

simpl overated
by: Anonymous

people here are overating scorpios, well i am a virgo with a leo moon and mars venus in leo and i ve always seen through their game and i know how to punish them ruthlessly, if they do injstice. i ve already punished two scorpios in my life without any emotion, the thing to deal with them is if they cross you then they need ruthless punitive action which will ensure that they do not cross your path again, this is a creature which understand only power and is scared of the fire, so give it to them, this is a creature of the dark harnessing powers of injustice and the devil, if you are on the right side do not fear and deal with them ruthlessly for you will win and do not fear these overated fools.

Indeed
by: LILO

Indeed the words you used to describe that scorpio is me to a teed I'm in love with my husband so deeply that I couldn't even phantom the thought of him crossing me or cheating on me just thinking about makes me think of doing something awful but strange as it seems I could never hurt him but only GOD could forgive miss yoyo

Its not like that
by: Anonymous

I am Gemini and I had SCORPIO BOYFRIEND we where really good couple Until my bf screwed up hurt me a lot of times, despite the thing Im a typical Gemini I am some what very emotional and VERY loyal...as much as he stung me I paid him back twice as much in the end we broke up now he tries to reach me and have his revenge via manipulating other people around me but the fact is that WE have a SUPREME mind that scorpios can not match, so I just cleanse those people from the CORRUPTION he injects to manipulate some mutual friends to destroy me but his efforts are in vein. SUN MERCURY ASC VENUS in Gemini(1st house) Moon in Libra(5th house)

Scorpio (Good and bad)
by: Anonymous

All signs have good and bad to them. I'm an Aquarius female, and I have a great deal of experience with Scorpio. My grandmother was one, her second husband was one, my ex-father-in-law was one, my best friend is one, and I am currently dating my second one. First I would say that sun signs aren't the largest factor in romantic compatibility. The Moon, Venus, Mars, and Ascendent signs have much more to do with that. I have never been attracted to any of the signs that match my sun sign because my other compatibility signs are all earth and water signs hence my attraction to Scorpio. I have heard it said there are two types of Scorpios, good ones and bad ones, and in my experience I agree totally with this. Both my grandmother and my ex-father-in-law fall into the bad category. They were both verbally and emotionally abusive people even sometimes physically. One did not need to cross either of them to receive that sting. They were both very cruel even to their children. Ruthless is a mild adjective to describe them. My ex was an Aries and he learned from his father and could be almost as bad. My mother is a Virgo and she can hold her own as well, so environment has a lot to do with it, too. My grandmother's second husband was one of the good ones, but he could handle her, lol. The other three in my life are of the good kind. My best friend is a wonderful woman and has the greatest capacity for love of anyone I know. Yes, she can be vindictive to those who cross her, but nothing like the bad ones. The first Scorpio I dated wasn't a bad one either, but we just didn't click that well. No hard feelings between us, and we parted on good terms. I've been involved with the current one for a year and he does have the moodiness, and jelousy, and he is vindictive but again not like the bad ones. It's a rollercoaster ride, but I love rollercoasters, lol. I have the utmost respect for him, but he can be hard to handle, and it takes a strong will to go toe to toe. Likewise, I am much the same, so we match pretty well. All and all I would say Scorpio can be the greatest friend and lover, or they can be the worst people you ever want to meet. I think that can be true of all of us if we had the right influences in our lives.

scorpionation
by: scorpionation

Yes scorpio is passionate but wat happens when u play with their emotions? When u stir the pot every thing gets heated, when u make it boil u get burned but when a scorpio erupts, its a scary sight in the eyes of hell. The way i sometimes think of us is kind of like a turtle we have a shell to protect not us but the people around us, all of our outer traits are great its wats inside u got to worry about. We are not really violent people when we are not hurting but u know wat they say. The wounded is always the dangerous one cause they will do anything to survive they have no mental thought non but one, revenge, and for us revenge is serve ice cold with no facial expression. We are deffensive fighters, but we will sacrifise ourselve trying to survive

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