Should I try to be friends with my ex Virgo man?

I dated a Virgo man for about 6 months. I by the way am a Scorpio. It started out really sweet. He told me that he had been admiring me for over a year but never had the courage to ask me out. Finally we ran into each other downtown and he asked me out. I said sure. He was really nice, handsome, has a great profession and also very spiritual.

As we got to know each other we found we had lot in common. Things started getting serious very fast. He actually wanted to move things very fast. While I was flattered I wasn't ready to "jump" into bed with him with out really knowing if he was serious about me. Still the time we did spend together was intense. Anyway, he then told me that he went through a really tough divorce ten years ago and that he was not over his ex. She had cheated on him and revealed this to him when their son was 3 months old.

He told me he tried to talk her into working things out but that she wanted to be with this other man. He then told me that he had not dated much since and that he still loved his ex. Then suddenly he got really cold with me and said he was positive I would one day cheat on him too. I told him not to compare me to his ex but he had made up his mind and that we needed to break up. We actually continued to go out but then he told me that he couldn't date me anymore but still wanted to be friends.

When I mentioned something like.. so you just can't let go of your ex can you? He said..Oh..I've been over my ex for years.. I let her go years ago. I realized at that moment that his stories were not consistent. I have other examples of these inconsistencies but don't have room..

I told him I didn't want to be his friend and pretty much said have a good life. I've ran into him twice and both have ignored him because it hurts to see him. At the same time I don't want to hold on to this grudge. I'm debating whether or not to maybe try and be friends with him... I'm so confused by him.