Taurus men in love

by EMPRESSSCORPIO
(TX)

After 1 year and 2 months my Taurus finally wants a relationship. I'm nervous about this. I have been patient and recently lost hope. Then he tells me your my girl.. Mind you he has been telling me he loves me for 5 months now and just says it in passing on the phone. He moved on to saying it face to face. He has money and I don't but work hard and am educated. He pulled disappearing acts for the first year now I haven't seen him in a month but we talk and text throughout the week. I don't know what to think. I love him but the sex is not good. But my love for him makes it good. He is selfish I am a Scorpio and I'm use to really good sex. He is on the small side but its still nice being with him. I just don't know about the long run. I started having sex with someone else recently because he missed Valentines Day and didn't respond. Now he wants me to be his... I dont get it ... I do want to be with him but after all this time he has been distant and unsupportive so Im scared! WHAT SAY U THE MASSES? LOL

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what?
by: tons o scorpio in my chart

So you cheated because he's small? Or what? I don't see this working anyways, but if you tried you would need to get him help-there's tons of possibilities out there for him to grow his size, and you could learn to pick up slack with toys, is he good at foreplay? If you were so desperate because he missed one holiday, i don't see this working out anyhow. A lot of taurus I met didn't take many holiday's seriously, i agree, a lot are just ways to make money for silly trivial things, commercialism. Also, though my taurus was most amazing in bed. Maybe he's just not the one for you!

Going through the exact same thing!!!
by: Anonymous

I have known my Taurus male for a few years. When we first met, he proclaimed his feelings for me, but I was invovled with someone else. When I was ready, he was involved, but he promised me that his feelings for me never changed and that he still loved me. I waited for 14 months to be with him, then as soon as I gave up hope, he asked me to be with him! We got together, but it only lasted a month because of the time I had to wait. For him being so distant for all that time, when we did get together, the thrill was gone and I could not get it back. Its the downside of the Taurus nature. Taking FOREVER to make up thier minds! I do beleive that they live in thier own "selfish worlds" and they honestly do believe that time will stop until they decide what they want to do. Even though we were together, and he was a good man, I personally could not live with someone so selfish. So if its not too late, move on, because the selfishness, added to the sex not being that good will only cause the relationship to end anyways.

The REAL side of Taurus Men!
by: Aphrodite Bull

Taurus men are actually the MOST conservative men in the zodiac. Seriously. Do not let the 'playboy image' or outgoing personality fool you. This man is very shy and introverted. This means do not expect any verbal communication of Shakespeare sonnets to transmit to you. He is silent, observant, and very protective of himself. Because Tauruses set high ethical standards, they're under the impression that the entire world is dishonest...but them. Which is why he thinks he is ALWAYS right and knows the most! He will keep you at arms length because of this. But this is just the slow initial stage. When he is not with you or calling you, he's doing his homework, which includes gathering info about you. You may see him at a location, and he may just merely say 'hi' and nothing else. This will leave you baffled. But the entire time he's watching you when he thinks you're not looking. He's observing how you interact with other people...and carry yourself. Loud, vulgar, disrespectful, and cheap women turn him off. Also, this man has a jealous streak. The thought of you flirting with another man will drive him nuts. In his presence, avoid this at all costs!

Persistence and patience are the two key factors to attract a Taurus man. This man will have no problem holding your interest. Although he is shy and introverted, he carries a strong silent confidence. His magic? Working you with his sensual kisses, spoiling you, making you feel as if you're the most important person in the world, and then...DISAPPEARING for a couple of days....

He's not playing games with you. Tauruses are 'old mature souls' and beyond game playing. He's assessing you. But he needs a break from you to do so. Pick and choose your words wisely. Avoid being pretentious. He can spot a phony with his eyes closed. He has an impressive memory, and is perceptive to bullsh$t. So if you're someone who lies or manipulates, the two of you won't last very long.

How to keep a Taurus interested? Taurus is ruled by Venus. I hate to admit it, but you're dealing with a vain man. Be very attractive, and take personal pride in your appearance. Be a great cook. This Taurus LOVES to eat! Suggest art shows, jazz concerts, wine tastings, but couple them up with sports, beer, and buffalo wings! An all-nighter sex romp would be a definite bonus.

What isn't said to you will be shown through romantic gestures and plenty of affection. Why? Because he wants to be with you, and no one else. If he feels that you're whining about non-verbal emotional communication, then he will sense you're either insecure or a pain in the @ss! His response "I'm here aint I?"

If your man is a Taurus, consider yourself LUCKY! He is very dogmatic,quick temepered, non-communicative, stubborn, and at times can come across

Taurus Lover
by: Anonymous

Taurus lover is inevitably stubborn, my boyfriend is Taurus also. At first he will shower you with love, affection and caress. However after months or a year, i dont see him that much, but he still continues his never ending "what he's doing messages" from my celphone...

Sad to say i am Leo, i just hope that i will still have the patience to survive in this relationship....

Huh?!
by: Anonymous

Aw hail naw....Here we go again...

Huh!?
by: Anonymous

Well maybe, its not the sign that is needed to understand, it is understanding your needs and the needs of your partner.

We all encounter same concerns but after tomorrow it waits a better day...

Waaaaaaaaaaatch?!
by: suomynonA

"Well maybe, its not the sign that is needed to understand, it is understanding your needs and the needs of your partner. "

Haha..Say Hello to my friend..."REALITY!"

Okay,Pardner.. What does the following mean?

We all encounter same concerns but after tomorrow it waits a better day...

Hold on or Move owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwn??


Maybe..
by: Anonymous

"LOVE" OR "LUST" OR "DONT WANT TO LET GO" ??

You are right on Aphrodite Bull!
by: Anonymous

I read Aphrodite Bull's post and it's pretty right on from my experience. I have to add that Taurus men can be extremely selfish! I ended a relationship with a Taurus man last year and he still comes around. Once they love somebody they have a hard time letting go. This sign is very loyal no matter what... My ex was not good with money although I think most of them are.
I just started dating another man who's also a Taurus. He is very stable in all areas of his life and loves routine. This guy made it clear on day one that he wasn't out to play any games and wanted the real thing from the beginning. He calls regularly and lets me know what's going on with him and how he feels about me. With this guy you never have to wonder when he's going to call and you never have to feel insecure in any way. I dated an Aquarian for a very short time in between my Taurus men. All I can say is that I'm so glad to be back with a Taurus!!!

Taurus Lover
by: Anonymous

You are precisely correct, we're now on our 2nd year with my Taurus man, happy and now planning and saving for our future to have our own family... He is also helping me to process my annulment so that we can plan for our church wedding. He even accepted my daughters as his own. Taurus are really loyal in nature and hard to let go of his love one...

Taurus
by: Anonymous

Yes, taurus men disappear around the holiday's for sure. They don't share their feelings at all.
I've been with a taurus guy, on and off for 8 years, only because the sex is the bommb! I stop talking to him for like 6months-1year, and he came to my house looking for me, because I changed my number. Taurus men are full of games, and they don't know what the hell they want.
I need to distanc myself and leave him alone for good. I clearly don't understand him. I get so mad, but I keep letting him back in.

Taurus I'm in Love
by: Anonymous

I've been with a taurus guy for about 4 months now he's really caring, considerate and all of the above when we first met i was dating someone else but that relationship was going sour anyway, he was really persistant until he got his way.He always tells he me how he feels about me saying that he has fallen inlove with me. But the thing is I don't know if where together or not, he takes me places introduced me to some of his friends & family members I even met his son, but i'm still confused to as where are we in the relationship are we together or not? P.S. And i'm a Taurus too.

tauras men are selfish
by: Anonymous

i dislike taurus men, they play mind games, they are selfish, they dont care how you feel and dont even ask you, all they care about in a woman is good looks, and they take ages to decide if they want you or not!! i just dont like them, even as a friend they are not very good

GURL IMA A DATING A TAURUS
by: ARIES WOMAN

ok honey ive done my research and notice alot of him a taurus man wants there woman with them at all times and ask ur where abouts and to and from by him dissappering i can honestly say that the person he is not going home every nite is his back up!!now let me tell u my story idated my man before and we broke up he eventually stop showing up lil bitch lol my heart was broken didnt know what was up but he eventually had someone else he dissappered out of my life and i was out of his and we reconnected at a club we didnt care about just sumthing to do we talked but he was talking to other people and so was i he den eventually got hit by cupided cuz he wanted to know what where when and what time and why ima not with him!! see the diff. they are slow chick they dont know there emotions till later later! also i went in his phone he was leading a gurl on how i found out i called her i neededd to know who the fuck was she!!! now she told me she doesnt see him and where did he work at! at nite i said honey he doesnt work he stay with his daddy and i stay with him!! ooo gurl she was shocked i was like yeah so i told him i was done with him with his cheating ass and he got mad cuz i was in his phone but let me remind you he is always in my phone i go man i done with you he goes he was sorry and told that bitch he was done with here and to stop calling but he eventually still talking to her i know but i have dig in it i just leave it up to god it hurts but my dad always said dont ever tell someone how much u love them they will take advandage still kind of teaching my self u knoww but bottom line keep ur eyes open watch but i say if i was in ur situation talk to him see where his mind is and u will see ask question digg in his ass lol u see but move on sister gurl taurus man are the best man for u in zodic acts but dont give up that person will come to you!!!

intresting
by: Anonymous

well I am a cancer an I have a very special intresting taurus in my life he came right on time. we got along like we had always been together we did everything together with each other alot all the time to be not together felt funny mightI add he is alot younger than I things were great his friends were giving me great feed back then he gives me news about his ex he said he knows that it is not a healthy relationship and that he loves her still but he has found alot in me and Im what he needs in his life he told me Im confused an I never been in this situation. so we had decided not to call talk or anything I didnt want to continue caring an maybe falling in love with a man I could not have. that lasted abuot 2 weeks he called I ingnored him called ingnoe he text saying hope you are ok. next thing you know he called we talked he said he missed me and we were around each other he advise he wants to be firends with the ex in my head I know this will not work until he deals with his feelings. (having trouble ) I told him that he knows how I feel I will not play second an that he needs to leave me alone until he know I asked why he cant let me go an he just said I worriedif I do I will never find what we have again yet he has not let go of her???

I Have Zero Closure!
by: Anonymous

I am a Leo and he was a Taurus. We met in July 2011 and it was love at first sight. He wasn't the type of guy I would normally gravitate towards. We start up a hot and heavy romance. He confides in me after I fall for him,about prison records, being kicked out at 14 and living on the street. He tells me he dropped out of school at 14. (no wonder he can hardly read good/write). He tells me these stories after I fall for him. But...why I stayed? Sex was Great! That's the only reason. He didn't want to know much about me. I was just happy to be with someone I guess. I felt I could do no better. He stared at other women in my presence. When we met and I went over to his house the first time he had pictures of women who were his type on calendars. They looked nothing like me. I ended up moving cause I was exhausted trying to please him. He had a severe anger problem, and in the end he never loved me, used me for $ and changed my whole sparkly personality to gloom and paranoia. He was supposed to come visit for Thanksgiving but I haven't heard from him since Nov 14th. So in my mind he went back to his old pimpin ways and already replaced me. I will never date a Taurus again!

Taurus Men Lost 7 Confused
by: Anonymous

I dated a Taurus man for a short time. I was a widow so maybe I seemd like easy prey to him. I slowly starting to trust him until I found out he was seeing a married woman.

He would call me and text me just to keep me in suspense or hanging on. He used other ex's for money I found out latter. Thankfuly I didn't have any to give so he couldn't use me that way.

Taurus men are looking for a second mom and they are very good at playing head games. I dated two other Taurus men in the past both were to a 'T' the same way. Ladies just ask about their marriage or dating track records that will speak for itself.

Hey Good Luck!
by: Anonymous

I like your story and must say I understand. My partner is Taurus and it took him 5 years to decide. The same story, i stopped all communication, then he said "you're my girl". But... be careful, watch after yourself, once fallen into his arms, he can be very whimsy and slippery... unfortunately. Don't show your fear, just go with confidence! There is another guy, even better, he must fight for you then. Good luck!

Taurus
by: Anonymous

I have had my share of Taurus men. I dated one man in 2004 for about six months and found out he cheated on me. with his ex wife. Cheating is the one thing I will not forgive.

When he tried to come back six months latter after dating several other women, I said no! He kept coming back for the past four years after marrying three times. The answer was still no! He came back one last time telling me he could not forget me. He went on to say cheating on me was the biggest mistake of his life. He remarried for the fourth time last year.

I then met another guy 2006 and Dam! he was a Taurus too. We hit off right away but I have come to realize this is the Taurus man's poison towards us women. He lure's you in and bamm! he's gone back to his home town.

My last Taurus was in Nov,2010. He was wonderful to me but my gut said watch out. We spent Christmas & New Year's together.

I did ask him too slow down and not rush me. Well in April 2011 he met a women and moved in with her. I think they just want a place to eat, sleep and have sex forget love from the Bull's.

Taurus #1 married four times
Taurus #2 married three times
Taurus #3 Married twice

So Ladies what does that tell you? Don't let the Taurus man inject poison in your heart. It took me a long time to get over these men. Any other sign piece of cake not Taurus, ugh!!

Cancer falling in love with a Taurus
by: Anonymous

I am a Cancer, who reconnected with a Taurus from my past. It has been about 15 yrs, since we have seen each other. In the past, he had always tried to be with me in a romantic way, but I knew he was young and a player then, so we just stayed as friends. About 3 yrs ago, I left the father of my kids. During the time previous to us reconnecting, I just knew how ready I was to settle down and find my prince charming, or wait on him to find me. So here, we go 15 yrs later, never saw each other, until the father of my kids and I broke up and I am fully over him. Through a friend, of a friend we reconnected. Once we did reconnect, it felt like it was all meant to happen this way. We have been seeing each other since then, we are in a relationship now. He is married but has been separated for some yrs now. When we first reconnected he threw this all on the table. Him and I spoke about how we are both ready to settle down and be happy. He has kids, and so do I. My kids love him. I rarely see him. Although, when he comes back, it seems as if I just saw him yesterday. All my feelings are still there, as well as his. We have a bond, that just keeps growing, although we do not spend plenty of time together. The more and more we spend time together, it seems, as if what he is doing, is giving me enough to take in, space afterwards to process it, and giving himself time to understand his own feelings. He then comes back and tells me why he will never let me go. I think he is getting close to telling me, how he truly feels, or maybe this is just the way of telling me he loves me. I do love him. I have told him so, as us Cancers are opened with our emotions. I am just following his steps, so that we are both on the same level at all times. Just wondering, do think he loves me?

Cancer falling in love with a Taurus
by: Anonymous

I am a Cancer, who reconnected with a Taurus from my past. It has been about 15 yrs, since we have seen each other. In the past, he had always tried to be with me in a romantic way, but I knew he was young and a player then, so we just stayed as friends. About 3 yrs ago, I left the father of my kids. During the time previous to us reconnecting, I just knew how ready I was to settle down and find my prince charming, or wait on him to find me. So here, we go 15 yrs later, never saw each other, until the father of my kids and I broke up and I am fully over him. Through a friend, of a friend we reconnected. Once we did reconnect, it felt like it was all meant to happen this way. We have been seeing each other since then, we are in a relationship now. He is married but has been separated for some yrs now. When we first reconnected he threw this all on the table. Him and I spoke about how we are both ready to settle down and be happy. He has kids, and so do I. My kids love him. I rarely see him. Although, when he comes back, it seems as if I just saw him yesterday. All my feelings are still there, as well as his. We have a bond, that just keeps growing, although we do not spend plenty of time together. The more and more we spend time together, it seems, as if what he is doing, is giving me enough to take in, space afterwards to process it, and giving himself time to understand his own feelings. He then comes back and tells me why he will never let me go. I think he is getting close to telling me, how he truly feels, or maybe this is just the way of telling me he loves me. I do love him. I have told him so, as us Cancers are opened with our emotions. I am just following his steps, so that we are both on the same level at all times. Just wondering, do think he loves me?

Pisces Woman, Taurus Man
by: Rosemary

I have been dating my Taurus boyfriend for 8 months. It was extremely rocky because I was still with my ex of 9 years when I met him (the breakup process was very long).
I met my Taurus while on vacation while I was trying to get over my ex. Back home, pursued me intensely for 2 months before we started being exclusive and official. We started quickly planning our future together with aspirations of marriage and then we found out had to go away for 3 months.
When he told me he was leaving for 3 months, he looked at me to see how I would react and he said something about not knowing how it would affect our relationship. He didn't seem very optimistic so I told him that I can't do it and said that I would need to start dating other people and when he gets back we can see where it goes. BIG MISTAKE! I don't know WHY I said it but I just wanted him to say that everything would be fine and I guess it was just my defence mechanism but I definitely didn't mean it. I think I got scared. I have NEVER cheated and would never cheat. I feel like he knows that but he says that peoples words usually become actions.
This was about a month ago and last night he told me that he hears what I had said in his head every day and how he is disappointed in what I said after everything we had been through. He also said he is having a hard time further developing the feelings for me he has and that it just reconfirmed his negative views on marriage.
Since then, I told him I didn't mean it and I just blurted it out because I didn't know how to react. He's tried to get over it and told me last weekend he was over it but he said that he cannot. I've tried everything from being patient, not showing him what an emotional mess I am and telling him I love him and will wait for him and that there is no way I am leaving or seeing other people and that I've never been sure of anything in my life but it doesn't seem to be working. He seems to be testing me.
He's hot and cold, yesterday he told me he loved me and wanted to spend the weekend with me and the next day he was raising his voice and yelled "no" when I asked him to hang out. I can't help but being an emotional mess and he's told me to stop being crazy. He also told me that he just wants to prove me wrong when I said that I would wait for him. He asked me what my turnaround time (basically when I would start dating others) and that “girls like me don’t stay single for long”. He’s leaving for 3 months in 1 month and I want to know whether I should wait or just move him.
This was his full text a few days ago when I told him I loved him “Yeah, but you will eventually let go. I’m just here to prove all you’ve been saying wrong. You will move on. All those tears were to get me out of your system and you are slowly proving that point. Nonetheless I wanna see you doing better with or without me. Goodnight sexy (k).”
Since then, I am trying to be more calm and collective.... any advice? I am extremely depressed.

Gah, got a bad one
by: Anonymous

I'm married to a Taurus man. We've been together for 13 years, and married for 9. He was good when we were dating, but once we moved in he CHANGED. I was suddenly the mother cleaning up after him, paying the bills, and entertaining his/our friends.

Once we got married it was worse! We never had a lot of money, and he always wanted to spend whatever money he made on "fun" things for himself. My paycheck was solely for paying bills. I should have known it was going to be like this when we got married but I was stupid in love.

The only time I got extra money was when I made it at work, and all of our bills were paid. If it happened that that he got some extra cash, it's his "hard earned money" and he deserves to spend it on himself. So the equation: my money+his money=pay the bills. If there is a remainder that money should go to him.

I have to beg him for money to pay for bills if we were short and I didn't pay them on time. Literally in the last 5 months my husband has spent a lot of money. He's received 7800.00 and I had to beg for 1300 of it to catch up on our bills. And he doesn't even want to give me that.

I'm very close to leaving this selfish man who expects me to pay for everything leaving me with not enough money to buy food, or a decent pair of shoes that are falling apart. I really hate him.

Want to get rid of a persistant Taurus who keeps forcing
by: Aquarius Woman

Most of the Taurus men are self-obsessed, immature,introvert, attention seeking, arrogant, miser and very conventional. I had a Taurus friend, a childhood friend. Very calm, quiet and shy he was to outsiders. He used to chat with me, come to my house and talked continuously about himself. His way of talking was very boring and backdated. Most of the time he used to compare himself with others and liked to represent himself as superior to others. I was a silent listener coz I understood that he was suffering from inferiority complex. One day he indirectly proposed me. I said no directly as I didn't have any feeling for him, he was not my type and to me he was a brother like friend. He agreed and everything went back to normal. Eight years passed by. One day, I was in the washroom while he came to visit. I asked him to wait in my room. Suddenly I noticed that he was opening and looking into my cupboard without my permission. I strictly told him not to repeat that again. But later I caught him again searching my mobile message folder. I simply asked him to leave. He left but next day again called me and started to fight. He was forcing me to accept his proposal. I was already happily engaged at that time with my current bf, a leo. I told the Taurus about him. But he became very jealous and kept forcing, I felt suffocated and completely avoided him. He is still trying, forcing, sending me quarrelsome sms or calling. I don't receive his calls. I hope that someday he will get tired and stop irritating me.

confused with TAURUS MALE
by: Miss E

Me and the taurus guy I'm dealing with work together at a prison but we only see each other there maybe once a week. His ex use to work there she got fired for trafficking so he broke up with her and moved out. We have a fierce sexual connection and I'm very attracted to him. He calls me all the time at work. But then I don't hear much from him when we are off. I txt him and he may respond once but thas usually the end of his convo. I don't get it. He knew that I was in a relationship n he had a issue with that but I finally told him its done with the other guy and now he seems distant. I txt him the other day and said that I was just going to step back from him until he figures out what he wants. He did not say anything back. Ok what do I do now? I'm leaving the job we both work at n a few days n he knows but now what?

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