Taurus Scorpio the good and bad parts

I'm a Scorpio woman dating a Taurus man (we are both 20). We have been dating for six months. We knew each other years before we began dating, but I had been in a 3 year relationship with a Libra (BAD OUTCOME!!!) A year and a half after my Libra relationship ended, my Taurus and I met at his house to catch up after high school. Now that I was free from the commitment of the Libra, the physical and magnetic emotional connection could no longer be ignored, and we connected on EVERY level almost immediately. Needless to say, neither of us have forgotten that night.

Problems I see in our relationship: both very stubborn and set in our ways. I'm a Christian, he's agnostic and criticizes the Christian God. I'm pro-life and very political, he's pro-choice and not-so-political which causes interesting, yet very aggressive arguments. He is possessive and likes to have control over some of my actions. I am also possessive and many times DO NOT enjoy being controlled - although there are moments I enjoy traditional gender roles. I'll continue below.

How we are compatible: We are both responsible financially and express better through touch than words. I often struggle with explaining how I feel, and do much better showing someone how I feel through my actions. He is very similar. We both enjoy smaller crowds and are not into giant parties, huge get-togethers, or late, binge drinking nights. We enjoy a small group of close friends and staying in. He is EXTREMELY PATERNAL and I'm drawn to his protective, father like qualities. All in all, he is everything I've craved since a child - a sense of security and protection. I feel I offer him support and encouragement, something he has lacked in his home life. I also feel I help pursue his goals. I'm a very feminine and polite Scorpio in public, and I know he loves that. However, behind closed doors I am more relaxed.. and a little more feisty ;) HE DEEPLY ENJOYS that balance.

I hope we stay together for years to come.

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Taurus Scorpio the good and bad parts
by: Anonymous

I am a Scorpio woman married to a Taurus man. our relationship is good and bad at times. does that make any sense? we argue a lot!! I think we love each other too much. we've only been together for 9 months. we got married in 4 months. both of us are very stubborn, jealous, and possessive. we argue about the most stupid things ive ever heard of in my life. but he's so bull-headed and im not willing to let my pride down, that at times, we could say "ok lets just drop it" and end up arguing again about the same thing. my thing is for him to know that im not going anywhere and that im not going to hurt him what-so-ever and I think that that's the same thing with him. I just know that we have a lot of hurtful arguments but we're still together. ive always been that "if your love is that strong, then you'll stay" type of person. im just hoping that our love is strong enough for this relationship. I love him too much. I know he's loves me but I just want him to quit think ng that everything I say is a lie or part of me playing a freaking game. this man is truly the love of my life and I don't plan on losing him!!

Taurus Scorpio the good and bad parts
by: Anonymous

I am a Scorpio (21)....and I am so in love with this Taurus guy (26).I met this Taurus guy as my lab demonstrator. I do not even know if he knows if that I like him...sometimes he gives this impression and sometimes he seems so innocent about it. I find that he is so helpful to me... very
intelligent..and he likes snacks! Where do I go from here? I feel so miserable without him..

The red flags
by: Anonymous

OMG where do I begin! First off let me say that I am a 38 year old Scorpio woman who had multiple relationships with Taurus men when I was in highschool and in my 20's. The last one nearly killed me emotionally and I swore off Taurus men for good. Well, fast forward to 2009. I meet a guy on FB and we start talking. Hit it off famously, literally spending 3 hours at a time talking on the computer or by phone every night for almost 3 months. I decide I am going to fly out to see him, we get along well, great sex, lots of laughs, lots of hugs ... one snag happens. He gets pouty and upset when I playfully refuse to hold his hand while walking into a mall. For 30 minutes he pretty much ignores me while walking through the mall, walking about 5 paces ahead of me with his son. Red flag #1. We hash it out on a bench in the mall, I am thrown by the incident, but eventually let it go in my head. I see him again 2 weeks later for New Years Eve everything is good. We decide I am going to move to his state to be with him. I move 2 1/2 months later. First week is good, perfect even. Second week we have a stupid argument about something we saw on the Maury Povich show about a couple. We dont speak to eachother for 30 minutes, he leaves for work without kissing me goodbye or saying anything. He ends up coming back to discuss it briefly(because I called him) and we hug and say we are sorry. The following week, today actually, we have another stupid argument about another tv show, divorce court. I couldnt believe how he raised his voice about something so silly or got so defensive about it. We dont speak again for 30 minutes, and when we do it is just back and forth and him saying he thinks I am trying to change the way he thinks. I'm not, I'm trying to understand why he is getting so upset about some stupid show that means nothing. It scares me that he is so emotionally charged about the littlest things, that it seems like if he doesnt like something that he is unwilling to see a different side, and that he immediately jumps to the opinion that I am trying to change his opinion if I give him information about the show or whatever it is. Lord help me, but I am getting the feeling that this is going to be rough at times. I mean, I dont want to be arguing over silly little things that mean nothing to our life together. I dont know how to navigate this exactly. He made a comment to me in the heat of the argument that I sound like everyone else who has always told him that his way of thinking is wrong ... or something. I mean, I dont know, that kinda makes me think that if lots of people are saying it then maybe there is a point there to explore ...?!?!

Confused about how we think.
by: Marty

Understanding the Taurus Male. I'm a 43yr. old Taurus male and some of these comments about being confused about how we think is amazing. Contrary to popular belief, we are not as jealous as some people would have you believe. All we really look for is the Respect that other signs (Individuals in life) crave. Yes we really are laid back kind of people and don't really care for a lot of bickering or nagging. When there is something on the t.v. shows that we see and we express our dislike for it, If You Really Listen To What We Are Saying - You would understand that the trigger could be w/the couple or people in general that we have experienced a bad situation & therefore even though to other people it seems petty, We to like everyone else are entitled to our feelings and not told that what we are saying is stupid to everyone else!!!

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