Thoughts of a Taurus male

by The Bull
(Washington)

I know not all of us Taureans are the same but for the most part I think we share some strong tendencies and thought patterns. If your Taurus is like me then he will do the math before the relationship gets too far along.

A Taurus male doesn't mind an independent, successful woman who has guy friends. But even if you would be great for him and vice versa, he might never give it a chance because of that "math" he was calculating before. I think many times we tend to stereotype women and situations because we become so confident in our "read" on people. He might think you would be too much work and a possible liability. Unless he knows how utterly in love with him and only him you are and how that could never change then good luck. Once a Taurus feels secure and both parties are obviously involved in something special then he will really open up. A Taurus man wants a lady in the street and a lover in the sheets.

He would give up his life without a second thought to protect his wife or children. If he ever found out you didn't feel the same or equally passionate about him then he will die inside and so with it the relationship. Also if he is like me then he wont normally make the first move when it comes to being sensual or sexual contact. He loves sex and touch but normally waits (not from lack of intuitiveness like some have said) for the woman to make the first move and then gladly joins in or takes the lead. He wants it to be proper and not forced. Once a relationship has been established there will be times of intimate love making and also times of just passionate sex. A true taurus feels inadequate if he cannot please his lover. He wants to be your everything while at the same time boldly telling you to leave if you can find better somewhere else. But you must remember he doesn't really wish for you to call his bluff and if you do he will surely shed tears over the situation.

Just remember, once you've been with a Taurus and leave him to be sexual with another man then the odds of ever having a relationship with him again, no matter how badly you want it are slim. Almost anything can be fixed but the thought of that image in a Taureans head. When these souls are in love they will give up their lives for the beloved.

A mature Taurus knows the human condition very well and they value life and the feelings of others. They truly are like Ferdinand the bull who sits in the field smelling the rose and enjoying the beauty of nature. But he will gore you to death before you even know what happened if you threaten him or those whom he loves. So be gentle, honest and kind to your Taurus. For these are some of his most enduring characteristics and what he looks for in friends or a mate.

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Question for the Bull...
by: Anonymous

I'm a pisces woman who has had an a long crush on a taurus that I went to grade school with. We have had a few encounters but never have fully committed. When we were in gradeschool I was his first girlfriend... over the years we have always been drawn to each other but for uncontrollable reasons it hasn't ever been the right time... now we are trying to go for the relationship. We are both not wanting to rush into a relationship for good reasons (both got hurt pretty bad in our last ones) So that is a mutual agreement that we're just going to hang out and go with the flow of our relationship. There is a very strong physical attraction on both ends, and when we do hang out together we both agree how natural it feels and just how relaxed it is... that being said I'm a pisces & can be a little sensitive at times and my taurus is the strong silent type majority of the time... so I want to know if he's opened up to me and told me things about how he feels about me, sharing some intimate things he doesn't share with just anyone and seems to be interested in my well being... Could I be that one girl who he'll always be after? I've done a lot of research on Taurus men and theres always that one girl who has their attention, who they go back to so much... or am I just a back up girl who he's just comfortable with?

Totally Agree
by: Anonymous

I read the comment by Washington Bull. Spot on! 100% accurate.

Confused by this Taurus man
by: Leo Woman

I am a reasonably intelligent woman in my late forties who is baffled by the actions (or maybe I should say inactions) of a Taurus man (45). He contacted me on an internet dating site almost 6 months ago and he was so sweet whilst we chatted that I felt drawn to him. We have both been on our own for some time and are single parents. My son has now left home, as has his elder daughter but his 16 year old is still with him. It's fairly rare for a father to have sole custody of his children since they were 3 and 7 respectively. He told me he was divorced over 12 years ago and I feel he may have been badly hurt in the past.
We have chatted several times. although not as much as I'd like because he doesn't seem to be on the site too often. He has told me he's shy, comfortable with his own company but also a tad fussy which adds up to being alone and wary of who he "let's into his life". I can relate to this as I'm very similar. Although I'm a Leo I'm not a party animal I enjoy being home and I like my own space.
After a 7 hour online conversation in March he messaged me his mobile number and I sent him mine. The following day he texted me, we messaged back and forth for a couple of hours and he finished by saying "speak later honey". Then nothing! Two weeks later I texted him no reply. Three weeks after that I tried ringing him late one night but number went direct to voice mail. I didn't leave a message. Two weeks after that he texted me late at night to say he was sorry he'd missed my call, he was sleeping and he hoped I was okay! I texted him back and we chatted for another 2 hours during which he asked if I could meet him for a coffee during the week. I agreed to this. He said he'd text me the night before to confirm and guess what - he didn't. I have never chased a man in my life but 10 days later I texted him saying I was sorry we hadn't met and I wouldn't bother him again. I was hoping I'd get an answer but no.
I don't know why, at my age, I am so attracted to a guy I've never spoken too. Most of the men who contact me on that site I have no interest in whatsoever. He just drew me in he said he was looking for a relationship of "some substance" not a casual fling, he also said he'd been impressed by my profile initially but was more attracted to me every time we chatted.
If anyone has any insight as to whether I've been played or whether I'm likely to hear from this guy again I'd appreciate your help. Thank you.

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