Thoughts of a Taurus male

by The Bull
(Washington)

I know not all of us Taureans are the same but for the most part I think we share some strong tendencies and thought patterns. If your Taurus is like me then he will do the math before the relationship gets too far along.

A Taurus male doesn't mind an independent, successful woman who has guy friends. But even if you would be great for him and vice versa, he might never give it a chance because of that "math" he was calculating before. I think many times we tend to stereotype women and situations because we become so confident in our "read" on people. He might think you would be too much work and a possible liability. Unless he knows how utterly in love with him and only him you are and how that could never change then good luck. Once a Taurus feels secure and both parties are obviously involved in something special then he will really open up. A Taurus man wants a lady in the street and a lover in the sheets.

He would give up his life without a second thought to protect his wife or children. If he ever found out you didn't feel the same or equally passionate about him then he will die inside and so with it the relationship. Also if he is like me then he wont normally make the first move when it comes to being sensual or sexual contact. He loves sex and touch but normally waits (not from lack of intuitiveness like some have said) for the woman to make the first move and then gladly joins in or takes the lead. He wants it to be proper and not forced. Once a relationship has been established there will be times of intimate love making and also times of just passionate sex. A true taurus feels inadequate if he cannot please his lover. He wants to be your everything while at the same time boldly telling you to leave if you can find better somewhere else. But you must remember he doesn't really wish for you to call his bluff and if you do he will surely shed tears over the situation.

Just remember, once you've been with a Taurus and leave him to be sexual with another man then the odds of ever having a relationship with him again, no matter how badly you want it are slim. Almost anything can be fixed but the thought of that image in a Taureans head. When these souls are in love they will give up their lives for the beloved.

A mature Taurus knows the human condition very well and they value life and the feelings of others. They truly are like Ferdinand the bull who sits in the field smelling the rose and enjoying the beauty of nature. But he will gore you to death before you even know what happened if you threaten him or those whom he loves. So be gentle, honest and kind to your Taurus. For these are some of his most enduring characteristics and what he looks for in friends or a mate.