Tips for dating a Virgo man
From a Virgo man: please remember we seek perfection in everything including our mate. This is why we can all of the sudden disappear. We may like you more than any other woman... the moment something comes up that doesn't fit our vision of what we seek in our woman... our engines shut down. I didn't say cool off or take a time out, I said shut down. Much like a cracked glass, the odds of us placing you back on the pedestal we had you on are close to zero.
This is not your fault. Its our damned Virgo nature. We don't like it either. You think I like it when after months of having amazing times with a beautiful woman, I lose all the attraction for her for the smallest thing!!! Yes my feelings and memories are still present, but we are ruled by our minds, so if our minds don't give us the go, our feelings stay locked in.
Perfection is equally infinitely beautiful and delicate, this is why it is unattainable. yet , us Virgo have it built in our minds that we should only settle for this. We don't like it either but we're built this way.
Now some tips:
Communicate honestly and clearly with your Virgo man. When you trust us, we feel proud and protective over you, thus we want you in our lives. Do not try even for a minute to deceive us.
I wish I were dumber sometimes, but my unstoppable brain always figures out the schemes of those around me. Its like a supercomputer analyzing everything you say and your actions, telling us if it all matches or if you are full of bologne. Don't try to play any mind games, because as soon as you make us think, you awaken our mind - the gatekeeper to our hearts... and you miss out on an incredibly loving man.
Second, if you have any defects (smoking, laziness, cheating) just open up and talk about it with your Virgo man. We love open, honest communication - it shows you trust us and are willing to at least put your cards on the table. Plus it will save you time. If you hide your defects and have a great time with your Virgo man, as soon as your lies comes up, he will drop you at the snap of the finger.
Be genuine. Us virgos can see right thru fake people and we don't want them around us.
If a Virgo man is with you, then you are already on the right track because we don't waste our time. Likewise, if we don't make a move, we already thought it thru and don't want you as our mate.
Be loving. We might appear cold and calculating but underneath we are full of warm feelings for those we love. I love being held and kissed for hours and love doing so in return.
Good luck to all of you Virgo chasers.... be patient.. in the end you will have a loyal, caring man like no other.