Understanding Aquarius men

I am a Scorpio and my boyfriend is Aquarius. He is already committed with another girl. But still he has some feelings for me. We have physically involved sometimes. But sometimes he is so unpredictable. I don't understand him. Please advise how should I attract him? How should I communicate with him?

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Understanding Aquarius men
by: Anonymous

I swear to you understanding the Aquarian man will drive you crazy. I can't believe that all of them are so much alike. As I have said in previous posts, if you think he is worth it them hold on. My Aquarian beau had pneumonia. I have never seen a man that did not want to be taken care of when sick. He would rather be alone suffering then to have me help him with his daily tasks. It hurts a bit and I get so frustrated with the distance he has. I don't think there is a thing in the world that would make them understand how their distance makes us feel. I have always said which issues would we rather deal with in a man. We are dealing with distance and disregard for our feelings. However would we rather deal with a man that gives us all the attention we want but have them have issues such as lying to us or cheating? I find myself toiling with these decisions every day. I know at times it feels as if we are in the relationship by ourselves. I give up so to speak trying to make him give more attention. I have started focusing on myself and keeping myself busy and healthy. As much as I would love to talk to him everyday, I will not contact him. Believe it or not, even though they don't contact us much they are missing us as well. If you distance yourself from him he will come around with more love and aggression than you can handle. The problem is, is that it doesn't happen enough. So ladies we have to decide which issues we want to deal with. Distance or the typical male patterns. I choose distance as lying to me turns me into a person I don't like much.

the sincere
by: Anonymous

I agree. I miss him so much. So much. I have afull and busy life...but his few moments are intense and I know they are sincere. He doens't as give as much as other guys but its always been quality over quantity for me...and he is quality.

To the girl who is involved with the commited Aqua
by: Anonymous

Why are you involved with someone who is commited to someone else? Of course , he doesn't have time for you because he has someone else who is much more important than you (and who knows about who else he does have?). I didn't know Scorp women like to hurt themselves this way and claimed that the world is unfair to them. Please use your head more to think about this. Intensity and passion is fine but be wise and fair.

Scorpio to Scorpio
by: Anonymous

I am also a Scorpio woman who is seeing an Aquarius male and YES they are dynamic, thoughtful and exciting but you, as a Scorpion female should resist his tactics because you are in denial. If he has told you he already has someone then why do you think YOU are his girlfriend? He likes variety and the feeling of freedom. Get your own social life then use your interactions with this man as an occasional indulgence. Yes, I am left wanting more but you have to give him time and space to do his thing and to decide if YOU are important enough to be welcomed into his universe. Be strong. Keep your appearance up and dazzle him with something new each time you see him. Which should be rarely. Never call him!

understanding Auquas
by: AnotherScorpio

I completely agree with 2 previous posts. You have to distance yourself from him and let him choose who is more important to him: you or the other woman. If he doesn't see you for a while, maybe he will decide that you are more important to him than her or the opposite. Of course men like variety, and they prefer to have 2 women or more instead of one. By distancing yourself from him, you will let him know that there is no joke, either he is with you and only you or he is with her. Those Aquarius men are smart and perceptive, so he will get your point and respect you for that. You have to be strong and distance yourself from him and really mean it. Otherwise, you will never be the one for him. If he chooses the other girl, go on with your life and never look back, unless you want to be one of his many women and you don't care to be the only one. You are a Scorpio and we are strong. Put his Aqua in his place and be the one who calls the shots. Good luck!

How did all this end??
by: Anonymous

If he is committed to someone else and still keeps on "talking" to you, where is the guarantee he won't do this to u, if you two end up together. Is that really what you want?? Then good luck!
Anyway, how did all this end? I'm a scorpio and involved with a crazy aquaman as well...

Aquarius man
by: Anonymous

Hello I'm in the same boat with my aquarius man billy I just don't understand him at times and it seems like I'm going crazy... And I question a lot if he's cheating but he says he not...I found myself reading so much about them

They are stressful
by: Anonymous

Completely loving affectionate sweet kind generous and then, the EXACT OPPOSITE. Rude, cold, standoffish selfish. 2 aquarius go well together because theyre the same & are comfortable with distance & being weird. Im a cancer, met a scorpio man and couldnt be happier. He sends me flowers tells me all the time how he loves me and is consistently considerate. The aqua man was always tricky annoying and mixed messages. I always dated others while i dated him because i refuse to let him get the best of me. But i did fall in love with him. Dont be fooled by their fake nature. Space is ok but not in this large of a quantity. They suck.

No, horrible advice
by: Anonymous

You take any of this advice of "calling shots" and giving ultimatums and I guarantee that distance will turn into seperation. The "live and let live" comes from a feeling/knowing of what will be will be. Being aggressive and emotional is fine until you try to invoke his emotions. Tell him how you feel...fine. Manipulating how he feels...he'll hate you for it.

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