Virgo man in a relationship with a Capricorn Woman

by Brian
(Indiana)

I was in a relationship with a Capricorn woman for 3 years and when it was great it was Great!! But when things got Bad, and times got rough, it was like a volcano colliding with a tornado. The sex was fantastic and the communication was there when things were good. Now that we are not together my heart is trying to move on..although its taking time, but the Capricorn is relentless, and vows we will be together and belong together. Is this normal in a Virgo/Capricorn relationship...I would like to read comments on this. Thanks

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Virgo man in a relationship with a Capricorn Woman

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Man up
by: another virgo man

She sound a little crazy. But That Might work if you want it to. If not MAN UP and end like the mean cynical S.O.B you know you can be, Don't allow your ego to keep this girl in the hook, so to speak,
Don't make the rest of us look bad which you already kina have with all that longing heart crap.
fellow virgo,
by: Anonymous

I Am a virgo man and from my own personal experience with a capricorn woman, the part where she longs to be there forever regardless of some thing or other person in her life is extremely common. i would say the same thing goes for if you were to date a cancer woman on long terms as well, but it all depends on your ways with words.
Be sure
by: Allen (Cali)

Don’t know what to say but, I’ll take her off your hands. Caps don’t normally commit unless they know it will work and they definitely won’t stay once you let them know you’re not interested because they have too much pride so maybe you’re not being direct. Being a Virgo you should know we don’t connect with just anyone and once we fall, we fall for good so maybe you better re-evaluate just why you don’t want to be with a Cap, unless you found another Cap. True Caps make the Virgo/Cap combination powerful, especially if she’s a sexy Cap. Being a Virgo I am up front with all women and I have dated more than my share, every sign, and the only one I keep going back to wont let me back in …..she is a Cap. Best advice I have is …..make sure your done or she will.
cap/virgo
by: Anonymous

You must not be firm with your Cap. I am a Cap and when my heart is in it, it is 100% in! When I am no longer willing to be in it, I will end it and you will know it. I personally never really had to deal with a man telling me it is over. I think if I did hear those words, then there is no turning back. Like the above comment, you better be firm and make sure she knows its over, or she will make the decision for you! I am currently dating a Virgo man and it is very great! When I get upset with him, I get on "mute"! He knows what that means, and hates it. :)
cap woman loves a virgo man.
by: Anonymous

I am a capricorn woman who has been dating a virgo man for 2 years and we have the exact same situation! We have the most amazing sex I have ever had when we fight its like complete insanity and when its good its absolutely wonderful...we can have all this happen in one day...sometimes more than once a day! We have broken up so many times but neither of us seem to let the other one go. We have tried but as soon as one of us starts dating someone else or really seems to move on we get together or spend time together and we are right back in love. Its strange I have never broken up with a guy and continued seeing him the way I have with my virgo. We are hopelessly stuck together in this crazy relationship I think. I can't let go of him and I know he can't let go of me. We both hate seeing the other with someone else. I doubt I have been helpful but I can totally relate to your problem! Good luck!
Capricorn woman dumped by a Virgo Man
by: Halo

Reconnected with my virgo guy after 13 years of no contact. 13 years ago we dated briefly but I ended the relationship or rather dating him because he was a player. Fast forward, ran into my virgo man in January, 2011. He noticed me first, then approached me. When I saw him I was very excited and happy to see him and so was he. On our first dated we played catch up and discussed relationships. He said he wasn't in a serious relationship but had 3 different women that he had sex with. Moving forward, he dumped these women so that he could concentrate on me. So we were in the dating getting to each other but not committed. We had a great time a very loving time, connected on many levels. But we only went out once a week or maybe twice, he rarely called but would text. I always made the contact. At any rate, told him that I'd like to see more of him and talk with him. so he attempted to do so. I shared a lot with him because I felt I could, but I was wrong. Had an incident with my family that landed me in the hospital. Told him about it. Shortly after he said he can't deal with my problems and his. He said I'm too loving and giving to my family. And because the way my family treats me he'll never want to meet them. In short, he dumped me and said we will never date or have a relationship ever. Needless to say I was crushed. He ended the relationship so cold and heartless. Totally not the guy I fell in love with. I've been nothing but loving, genuine and sweet. Dealt with him on his terms, etc. And to just throw me away like garbage is so painful. I tried reaching out to him but he refused to accept my calls or texts, so I stopped. Then a week later he sent a text saying "I'm a good guy and you're a beautiful woman, but unfortunately you're damage goods". I was crushed! So I responded respectfully and lovingly but no response. One week later I reached out via a letter...basically saying I am sorry for overreacting about the breakup (crying & begging) that is. Told him I will respect his decision and no contact him as he requested. Told I love you and always will. In that letter I enclosed a bracelet that I made for him that he wanted. Never received a response. It's been a month and no contact. So my question is, is he totally done with me? Is this how virgos are? Should I ever reach out to him again. Or accept that he meant what he said that we will never date or be in a relationship. I just have no closure, but perhaps what he said should be closure enough. I love this man and that hurts. HELP!

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