Virgo man playing games

I met a male Virgo 9 months ago and from the moment we met, I knew I liked him. Fast forward 6 months, we are "talking" exclusively. He gave me his couch. We went to Miami for my birthday (OCT 31ST!) and had THE best time a couple could possibly have. Our sex was AMAZING! 2 weeks after our magical vacation he breaks up with me for no reason. I still don't know why to this day. He stated that he didn't think I was "committed" to us. Which is bs because I had already expressed I was VERY done with the single life. The whole 6 months he would act somewhat aloof. We didn't talk on the phone nearly as much as I would like but when we saw each other he made me feel like a queen. Take me out to eat, go to movies, hold me and watch T.V. When I was sick he was upset that I wouldn't stay with him (I was trying not to get him sick!). He doesn't have a driver license nor an official job. Two things that are quite important to me but I told him I would still be with him regardless.

I truly cared for this man and put just about all my requirements aside so I could still support him and be by his side. After the break up in Nov we got back together that weekend. I personally feel the break-up was part of a game to see if he had control over me. For the first time in my LIFE, the man had the upper hand in my relationship. Ultimately, he was arrested a few months later and I was by his side during that. I ended up going to the hospital because of all the stress. He even came and saw me while I was in there! 2 days out the hospital he "claims" one of his friends saw me out on a date with someone else and broke up with me, for good. I know I haven't been cheating or doing any disrespectful acts. Its like he WANTS me to say I've been a whore and did all these devious things.

I personally think he was never that into me. But when I think about how he was there for me during my times of need (flu, jail, hospital) its hard to understand. Why is the Virgo so fickle? Is he intimidated? Did he ever really like me??? By the way, I WOULD go back to him, but only if he got past his insecurities. In the mean time I've been trying to figure out how I can get him to sleep with me one more time ;) Can this relationship be salvaged? Should I even try?

Game-playing Virgo man. Strangely, caught-up Scorpio woman..

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Virgo man playing games
by: Anonymous

Im a Scorpio woman and I met this particular Virgo man six years ago (2004). We were seeing each other for about four months and then I met another guy (who ended up being my boyfriend but we are broke up now)and leaving Mr. Virgo alone because I didn't feel he was ready to be steady at the time. two months ago I ended up running into him (after six years) and to make a long story short he said that he realized he messed up with me back then and that he loved me and was going to marry me one day and that he was "a man of his word" about marrying me. well recently I hadnt heard from him in a week and then he called one night but I missed it and then the next night I had went out so while I was hanging out I text him and asked him why he was M.I.A. and he said "I am back on the scene now" I asked where he was he replied and then I told him where I was and 10 minutes later he ended up showing up to the establishment I was at. When he got there he gave me a quick hug, s at his coat on the seat beside me went to the end of the bar to talk to his friends, came back stood by me so I decided to go to the ladies room since he was back at the chair his coat was on. when I got back he said he had to leave becuase "he had something to take care of". My first thought to myself was "what do you have to take care of at 12midnight" (hmmmm??!!) so after he left the bar, I left and out of the corner of my eye I could see his car with the head lights on in the parking lot but I walked past as if I didn't see him. When I got home I sent him a text saying "You said you loved me and one day you were going to marry me now I see how you REALLY feel about me! and as of now its been almost a week since Ive heard from him and I refuse to call him because I felt since I hadnt heard from him in a week he should have at least asked me how I was doing? or what's been going on with me? He had more to say to his friends and patrons of the bar than what he had to say to me!and don't get me wrong I don't expect him to be glued to me when we are out together. I feel if he really loved me he would have called me after (maybe not right after)I texted him that comment and find out why did I say that or what was wrong. He use to call/ text me everyday and now I don't know what to think of him and for some reason I really do like him. PLEASE HELP???!!!

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