Virgo man Scorpio woman long distance

I'm a Scorpio was in a relationship with a Virgo guy, fell in love with him, it was a long distance relationship, but we saw each other when he came to visit me. Lat year, I went off to university, in the same country he is studying in, we were having issues, so we broke up like months before I came to study, but we still spoke every now and again; until he decided it wasn't going to work for him, and after cursing him, because he totally avoided my question as to why he thought it was going to work, I forgive him, and told him, I was sorry for cursing what's not, only then he apologized and stated the reason why he thought we couldn't.

Until at the end of the semester I was in desperate need of a place to stay before I left to return home, and I ended up having to stay with him for 2days. During the day it felt so weird to be around him, he acted a lil shy, I wasn't sure what to do what to say, if to talk about the relationship, if not to. Finally, I decided and ot to, cause I know if I didn't start he wouldn't have. Anyways, during the night he started becoming playful, a lil, and I responding back by playing with his hair, yea, we made love that night, or so I would had thought, but the next day we were back to square one, the same weird tension, until the next night I asked him about his relationship status, where he said he tries not to think about his feelings; it hurt so bad that I turned my body away from him, I couldn't bare to look at him anymore, realizing that I was hurt,(i guess), he tried to talk to me, but I wanted him to feel as hurt as me, and he did, until I couldn't bare it anymore, till I gave in and we made love again that night (so I thought), the morning was the same, but that morning I was leaving to come home, he was to go with me to say goodbye, but he ducked out, saying something came up, that hurt so terribly.

I told him how I felt, I even told him I regretted doing it, cause I didn't know if I expected things to change btwn him and i, he told me I offended him, with my comment, now he won't talk to me or anything. Was I wrong, was I right, does he love me, what really is it? by the way, the sex was wonderful, but he confuses me and hurts me every time.

why are Virgos like that?