Why do Aries men get bored so easily?

I'm a Libra gal - sort of dating an Aries guy. well we met at a party and hit it off right away... we can talk and talk in person and it never gets boring.... and yes the sex for both of us is amazing!! but he keeps telling me don't fall in love.. and i laugh and tell him the same thing.. lately hes been kinda distant tho... and he would usually text either everyday or never go more than 2 days with a "how ya doing gorgeous" or " what you doin today?" but I haven't seen him in like 2 weeks or got a text in a week... so just wondering what could be up??? we met 2 months ago.. maybe hes just over me know reading how aries men get bored easily :(

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Why do Aries men get bored so easily?

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Have you tried ignoring him?
by: Anonymous

Have you tried ignoring him? Aries men can be weird in that if they think you're totally into them they do get bored - whereas if you play hard to get they're often a lot more interested. If for example you told him you love him, will always be together etc it could explain him losing interest pretty fast.

Try to make him a little jealous - talk about other male friends for example and he might be straight back!

Yeah
by: Anonymous

Ive been really busy - so not really ignoring him but haven't texted or called him, its been a week with no contact... nothing yet. last time we talked he did say he was going thru some bullshit and ex-issues and said he was sorry. But I think IM over it... dont have time for mickymouse bs...lol

Why cant I just get him outta my head
by: Anonymous

Me again! i had actually erased his number from my phone and 2 weeks later he called from a new number. I didnt know whos number so i picked it up and he acted like no time had passed... and told me this is his new number.

We talked like such great friends. then he called again 2 days later asking if I wanted to come over and hang out.. only if i was bored and had nothing to do that I should "come on thru" well I know where this is going...

But damn i have to admit it is sooooo HOTTTT!! So I waited until the weeknd and called him back and we spent all night and the next day together.. and had so much fun together. But now nothing again... i guess i really do see where this is going ..Why cant I just get him outta my head! Lol

Aries man here.
by: Anonymous

I met a Libra over a month ago. She lives a long way out. True to form, she knows I like her, as I have already told her, I complement her often. I talk with her every day, mostly through text. If i don't text her for a while she will get moody. I think she likes me, she's said so before, but I just can't read women very well. She's playing hard to get, and it drives me crazy. So to Libra women, play hard to get and you will have an aries for as long as you sting him along...haha don't tell her that!

Aries Men are Jerks
by: Jack

I am an Aries male. A lot of these are very truthful in regards to an aries male personality. Other things are wrong. First when its over eg...(why you havent heard from him in awhile) is because he doesnt care about you its over.They have no respect for you! You will NOT know! He will not verbally say He will just dissapear leaving you hanging on to wonder what just happened. He has already moved onto his next quest. He will never come back to you and if he does its only for sex and if he doesnt get it than you really will never see him again. He doesnt care! He has sex for his pleasure only so don't think because its passion in the bedroom he loves you your wrong. He is so insecure that is part of his game. You will know if he truly loves you...believe me...he will stick with you through thick and thin (with a little of his own space)He will talk to you on a regular basis and will not cause you grief. He DOES NOT like beautiful strong independant women no matter what you read. HE likes doormats only. Only 5% of Male Aries are decent! That leaves the other 95%, no matter what age as being players and insecure jerks. Run fast or put out thats all we want! When you run and get caught expext to go through emotional hell...he will rip your hearts to shreds! Good luck ladies and let the games begin!

Jack is right!
by: Kat

I'm a leo female who was involved in a terrible mind altering relationship with an aries. He was married. I was at a vulnerable place I my life and got caught up. We were together 9 months. I'm very independent and I think he liked that. Things just never added up with him. I knew after 3 mths that he didn't really dig me but he would lie and say otherwise. I never disclosed my real feelings to him because he never took me out. He never even brought food over. I went through an extreme depression from march through currently and I finally ended it last week. The relationship shattered my self esteem because he would talk a good game and strung me along. I am now picking up the pieces to my emotional life. I missed him after purposely not seeing him for a month before I ended I but realized I missed the sex so wh bother. I may see him in passing one day. We are both Veterans and vissit the same VA. He was a charmer, chameleon, cassanova a sexual deviant, and a con artist. And he's with his new conquest now.........

yes or no??
by: Anonymous

I started to know aries man in one month only( we are different nationalities), what i observe his type is who talk straight forward, nice and kind person, likes activities, sports, fun and party guy, almost hang out with his friend but till now he try to find out the time to meet me and take initiative to see me in other ways during both of us are in conflict schedule. He told me his about ex,and he is the one started to say over his ex after one month because she is not his type and he doesn't want to waste her time. when i met in second time, we just discuss slightly about serious relationship,he is the one start open this conversation, if i am not match with him, he will say me directly and i can say to him straight can't be together, now we already in one month, i feel that he likes and respect to me. I care, nice, give compliment, respect , deal in cool but move with
my own way. Frankly, i like him but i afraid to have relationship with aries man, for me i want serious life and wanna build family life, for him, he wants to know more about his girlfriend in 2 years, when he feel compatible he will marry .. So should i be with him or ...???

Aries men are all the same
by: Anonymous

I've been dealing with a Aries man for 4 months and he keep dropping in and out of my life. Crazy! when he calls he acts like we just talked the day before and not a month ago! I dont get it!! I keep telling him to leave me alone and let me be but its like he's not listen. He's so true to his sign and thats why I dont wanna continue to see him. He already told me he gets bored easy and he's a very sexual person...In other words he just wants one thing and I'm not having it!

The Cat analogy again
by: Aries

It's something they can't help. You have to stimulate them or they get bored. With the common cat analogy after playing with the same toy over and over again, the cat's either gonna walk away from it or not even look up. You have to keep things interesting. However, if they love you they will try to please their partners (cat coming to rub on you )but they are not attached to you in the first place they will feel no qualms about leaving.

They are born with out hearts
by: Dated an Aries

It is so true. Heartless men, who only engage with their partner for attention. Date an Aries guy for two years I was practically his personal clown always trying to spice things up. In return he would shower me with attention, and buy me the world.

You can never count on them for emotional support. I think since they are the first since they skipped the heart department to run ahead to see the world.

Their impulsive decision making is so unhealthy. They are masters of ignoring. And are so self centered.

SEX WOW amazing. After two years he just found new meat and I was an old shoe.

Worse men to date if you are sensitive. The romancing is for a short time. Aries men need whores for women. Whores do not need any emotional attachment, love gifts in exchange and everyone is happy.

I feel sorry for these men

Hope none of these Aries are EDDIE MURPHY
by: Anonymous

B/c if it is RUN FOR THE HILLS. He rotates women on a weekly basis out of that 'compound' he lives in. Go park at the local Coffee Bean in the Valley during the week, and you'll see the slime ball pull up every 2 days with a different YOUNG, barely 21 chick on his arm lOOKING like he's "oh so in love." Only to show up the very next day with someone else.

Run like hell or risk being ruined.

C'mon now, there are jerks everywhere
by: Really now?

I know some of y'all are in a sensitive place now. There are douches everywhere. And people are going to hurt you as long as you're alive. One of you guys right though- you really can't be sensitive around us/ We really don't know we're hurting people sometimes. Some of y'all need to suck it up (there I go again)

Scorpios are manipulative and sneaky
Aquarians and Geminis disappear and are cold
Taurus and Pisces are boring
Virgos are controlling and nagging
Capricorns and Cancer?
Sagittarius -- rock, I really can't find fault with em.
Libras and Leos ok.

There ya go. But don't you think picking a mate based on astrology is kind of ridiculous?

whatevs
by: realaries

picking a mate based on astrology is ridiculous. but using astrology to understand someone isn't so ridiculous.

i'll be the first to say i thought it was all a crock of sh*t but after flirting with my neighbor for 3 years and asking her out just to be turned down every time i started looking into it. ordered several astrology readings on the same day. 2 of them sucked balls but the one from the guy who runs this website... he knows his sh*t. told me what the problem was and how to get around it. less than 2 weeks later she was nekid. done. well worth the $ lol.

not saying all astrology is right but theres got to be something behind it because id tried everything i could think of to get her into a bedroom trust me. the funny part is that i only ordered the readings because she asked me what my dob and stuff was b/c she was into astrology. that still cracks me up :]

@realaries
by: Aries

Most women know right away when they meet a guy whether she will have sex with him or not. What it will take before they do though varies (how many beers before they make out, how many dates before sex yadda yadda)?

Your neighbor was probably waiting for you to do a certain thing/fulfill a requirement (so to speak). And in typical Aries style, since it wasn't spelled out for you, you missed the signs (you might recognize them now in hindsight). That's where I guess the astrology report helped-to spell out what you needed to do to get her. Congrats?

**All speculation.

Aries play mind games,just to keep U!
by: Anonymous

I've been wit an Aries 4 four years off and on and I just cannot seem to realize that he's all about himself,I love him so much that my family is telling me that I'm willing to Crumble my heart and future over him!! He's very manipulative always saying when I decide to stop seeing him"Don't be surprise if i'm wit someone else when u decide to come back or I'm really ready to settle down"So if u leave ur messsing things up for yourself! I'm tired of his lies and all the females friends he has,it's one thing to have female friends that u haven't slept with or females friends that aren't trying to get wit u!! He's too much of a flirt and I don't know what to do??

the Aries Curse
by: stuck on Aries

Ive had 5Aries relationships. I'm not sure why they are the way they are. all Aries are compulsive liars, compulsive cheaters and r emotionally and verbally abusive. I've dated both women and men Aries. Theyre great @1st but after 2mo they are completely selfish and what's crazy is they really think they are the greatest people alive becus they are sharing themselves with every1 so there4 how could they be selfish? "Jacks" comment was raw but it was the most honest description I've heard so far. Aries will sweep you off your feet but its short lived and when they stray they don't have the guts to be honest so they hide until the new girl upsets them and they call u see if you're still game. Aries keeps every1 they've ever messed with on a back burner by never officially ending it w them. They disappear and act like it's your fault and then they reappear like nothing ever happened and if you bring it up youll run them off and on to the next or the last. Almost every woman friend they have theyve slept with or they flirt in regards to having sex in the future. I've been through so many things that its not appropriate to list them. trust that I have begged, pleaded, cried, been strong, retaliated, been passive, exciting, loving, overly attentive, ignored them, chased them, fought with them and all of their past lovers(becus they are mad and hurt2 so don't think that by him keeping them in the bkground, theyre not thr jus 2cause you turmoil) I'm a scorpio so I feel it and I investigate until I find the answrs and Aries cant handle the confrontation. They will never admit.to get the truth you have to dig it up and present it in a way they can't deny. After some time they will see you as their competition instead of their partner. They can't handle you getting more attention than them. The sex is great but the emotional b.s. that follows is unbearable. I've had to leave the state becus there was no othr way for me to b strong n not take him back. All u can count on is that theyll always string you along to use you again at their leisure. Aries are hateful when it comes 2 how they knw they are hurting you and the mor you let them know, the less they care.It's sad that they are so needy and selfish they entr a relationshp4 attention, sex and stability but then again have no loyalty to anything but themselves. They can be fun friends but nevr have I seen 1tht was an ideal mate. My sister,an Aries has admitted that it's all about her and she will never stop cheating or lying becus she doesn't care if she gets caught or if any1 gets hurt. Aries will take over your life and you will let them. Beware that you are entering a future of hartbreaks and confusion when you are left wonderin why u? And, what did I do wrong? Why doesn't he love me? The answer is...They love you to the best of their ability or as strong as their desire to get from you what they want. Whether its money, security, good credit,sex,a party friend,or whatever your role is in their movie.

Aries aka tha jerk
by: Anonymous

I was with an Aries for 6 years off and on and let me say i really did love him. I was willing to accept his family and his children in my life Yes, yes and there was more then 2 kids involved but that didn't matter because I loved him but he kept playing these games like he didn't want to commit. Yet it was okay 4 me 2 tell my family and friends that were in a relationship. He was really full of himself,I mean having these female friends that he previously slept with as friends and of course there buying him shyt and cleaning his appartment. I mean my family told me that he was not worthy of me,but all i would say is that I loved him. Then it didn't make better his mom still washing his damn clothes and cooking 4 him. I mean LOVE will make you look like a FOOL, and at the end I found myself being lied to and disgusted by his male nature. It's sad you find yourself giving chances after chances then u realize you know what IT's not worth it,I told him he needs to grow up.

Hate Aries..
by: Anonymous

I hate Aries, said above is true

Aries R Messy
by: Anonymous

I dated an Aries man 4 ten yrs. He was my prince the 1st yr. After I caught him cheating nothing was never the same. I ddom't know how I tolerated his shit. Every time I tried to lealleatried to leave he aggressively wooed me back. He was selfish,a liar,cheater,stingy,sneaky,put his friends/family first,and just a damn narsistic ass. They fk with u mementallu,use u 4sex,materialistic,money hungry,workholics,pretend like they r so innocent. I vowed to run if another man told me they were an Aries. I'm now ddating another Aries. I see the same characteristics wow. Wont do this mess again. What I can say , I'm an Aquarius and I didn't take his shit. I gave that Aries hell and they can't take a challenge.

I am an airies and ufnortunatly everything said here is all true.
by: airies man

I am an airies man and every single sentence here about airies men is all true. My coworker (also an airies) who sits next to me read this thread as well and completely agreed. It is sad to say that but airies men are very clever, play mind games, cheats, get bored, are con artists , basically have been salesman sometimes in their life ( a good job for manipulative people), they know what to say to get you back under their trap, love sex with different women. hide and are distant when they get bored or would disappear for some times, never ever tell the whole truth, Would not even tell you if he is not feeling you anymore. would never let you figure him out completely. opportunist, selfish at times , but once in a while can be fair. and love sex so much that they always keep their exes in the back of their mind just in case they want sex from them one day. i mean everything that was mentioned here is all true , EVERYTHING. I am really trying to change all the bad things about me. but even with all these negative airies traits, an airies men will bring you a lot of joy , excitement, adventure and great love life, and they are kind and givers. if you really succeed in making an airies man fall in love and keep him challenged, spice up the realationship once in a while, support him, He will be the most honest and caring person and will not cheat at all. he will be stuck for good and will make you a very strong woman , they are great leaders and are very creative. your life will not be boring for sure. and they will teach you many tricks. but making them fall in love is not an easy task.

Reality about Aries men NEW
by: Anonymous

First of all i am an Aries man, born slap bang in the middle of the month, making me 100% of the star sign.

before please just know that yes i am very self absorbed and i do think i am the best (mainly because i always strive to be the best)

The biggest problem with Aries and relationships is our swagger, thanks to the fact we are based about venus and mars, our natural sexual attraction is unbeatable (not my fact, its scientific)
thats why so many woman complain about how they cant seem to get away from Aries men, because no matter who a woman goes after, after a dating a Aries man, the man just doesnt measure up because we have the force of the universe on our side and our powerful aura makes it impossible to say no to us.
back in my demon days i had no problem with woman, even ones i messed around with on a constant basis, they still said yes anytime i wanted them to, (the only ones who can even begin to fight it is a woman with a Scorpio star sign, because of the stubbornness) i thought it was because i am physical, over 6 feet tall and got dark hair and dark eyes, but the truth it that the universe makes me a sex magnate. (once again not my fact, its purely scientific)
if you dont believe me then just ask any woman who has dated a Aries man.

Or better find a man who isnt a Aries bloke, ask him if he has ever had a girlfriend cheat on him (especially if it was a long relationship) and see if you can find out what star sign he was. i guarantee the guy is a Aries, or the girlfriend was a slut, your choice.

So yes we are serious assholes, as one person said earlier 'i hate Aries men' but the fact remains, if you meet an Aries man and he asked you out for a drink, you are more likely to sleep with him over any other star sign, its not your fault, we are just very good at reading people and adjusting ourselves for that person to get what we want.

but on the bright side, we are the best lovers and we never get jealous (because we know we are better than anything she can throw at us) so you will never have to worry about your guy friends getting their nose broken just because your bf is insecure and jealous.

in conclusion, date an aries man, if you can resist his charm and his aura and the way he sweeps you off your feet, than either your a nun, a serious christian, your parents are sitting at the table, or maybe your confused about your sexuality. but mainly you cant find it, so why try, we dont fight our urges to please your sexually radiant bodies all night.

cheesey line- once your with Aries, all the rest are fairies

aries men NEW
by: Anonymous

Would one of these guys be named Mark lives in brissy?

Aries guys will beak your heart NEW
by: Anonymous

I went out with a aries guy for about 5mths as soon as he realised i was falling for him n wasnt going to play hard to get he left me for someone else now we have started talking again i told himm i wasnt going there again he seemed really interested in getting to know me again,texted me all day n night but a week ago he turned his charm on n we slept together.Since i have not heard a word from him.I came to the conculsion Aries guy only want sex not a relationship.

My Aries man NEW
by: Anonymous

I was seeing an aries man almost 2 years. we just recently ended things. I think. we were considered friends. I guess friends with benefits its called. I'm much older then he is. which did not matter. we work at the same place. He had been chasing me for a very long time. I wasn't interested and had alot going on at the time. and been alone almost 5 years and wasn't looking. I had others that tried but, no go as well. then, I stopped running and gave in to him. things were good. I didn't sweat him. but, he had his jealous moments although he wouldn't admit it. we did things, sometimes. sometimes at my request and his when he made time. He has two jobs and 4 children. so, time was limited. but, I would see him when it was feasible for him. and he would contact me when he was free. I grew to care about him. and he said he felt the same. the SEX was AMAZING. and he enjoyed it as much. its just that we had to keep us quiet at work because the gossip was unbearable there. and sometimes, I didn't want to because I was feeling him so much. but I did. well, the gossip started about us and other things. I began to listen to it at work. and discussed it with him along with other feelings I was having that was hard for me. but, I kept those feelings to myself. well, we kept it going anyway. and then the big blow up came when he didn't want to listen to anything else that had to do with that job. (outside of work we were great, no problems). so, he ended it.(which I did not want). we are still talking at work sometimes and through texting. but, I initiate it. and he answers. we are suppose to get together. Is that a good or bad idea? please anyone respond I don't want to waste my time. Thank you.

Not always So! My 2¢ Worth NEW
by: Trying2BChristianAries

Maybe because my birth day is March 22nd on the cusp
I can not relate to all the accusations that has been made accordingly to an Aries man. Also, I guess I have a deep passion for being tight with Jesus. I want His Love to flow thru me and not just me flowing thru if you know what i mean! hehe. Sorry diagressed if you caught that. I think a praying man does breal the MOLD of any zodiac sign.
Because BEING active spiritually keeps a check on carnality. Thus, one can go beyond sheer EGO me me first syndrome. I happened to be single for some years w/o sx. Shocking! I Thank Jesus 4 helping me.

Not always So! My 2¢ Worth NEW
by: Trying2BChristianAries

Maybe because my birth day is March 22nd on the cusp
I can not relate to all the accusations that has been made accordingly to an Aries man. Also, I guess I have a deep passion for being tight with Jesus. I want His Love to flow thru me and not just me flowing thru if you know what I mean! hehe. Sorry diagressed if you caught that. I think a praying man does break the MOLD of any zodiac sign.

Because BEING active spiritually keeps a check on carnality. Thus, one can go beyond sheer EGO me me first syndrome. I happened to be single for some years w/o sx. Shocking! I Thank Jesus 4 helping me.

To: Trying2BeChristianAries NEW
by: Anonymous

Hi, Thank you for your comments. You are a beautiful man. walking with the Lord and living your life in a Godly manner. More men regardless of their astrological sign could learn alot from you. Its all about how you treat someone and want to be treated in return. If more love was givin freely without strings attached and motives involved the world would be a better place for everyone. But, you have to have love and God in your heart to know that. Be blessed and God bless you. Dee.

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