Why do pisces men dissappear?

I would like to hear your opinion and experinces about why pisces men dissappear not only for days but for weeks; and then suddenly, they call back and just act nothing weird happened; then they dissappear/appear exactly the same way throughout months. Although I have never questioned the person about it, and I acted as if nothing happened, I just am very curious to know about it. He is pisces in sun and sag in moon, mercury and venus in aries.

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Why do pisces men dissappear?

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by: Anonymous

Hi
Just to let you know that your not on your own..My boyfriend of 3years still does the disappearing act when things get to much for him which let me tell you does not take alot!
When we make up and he comes back he can never answer why he does that,i know its very hard when they display that kind of behavior and its also very confusing and hurtful, but its just something they do.
I've just lost a baby to my boyfriend and i haven't seen him since,he hasn't been to see me which i just can't understand after what's happened,we have spoken twice over the phone and all he could say is he just doesn't know how to support me,i'm at the point with him now where i'm thinking do i really want to be with a man who can do this in such a sad situation..think can you keep putting up with a man who run's away at the drop of a hat..good luck take care x
Pisces Magician
by: Anonymous

We disappear, because we don't like negative energy. Sometimes it's better for us to take a break from real life, but sometimes we also change our minds overnight. I know I've have disappeared overnight and never looked backed, but sometimes I do come back.
My Truth could be your Lesson....
by: Aryan

Hi I'm a pisces man. I never believed in sun shines because I always believed that God has given us wisdom 2 understand what's right and what's wrong.
Been reading alot about the people of my sunshine it is the only time that I do believe in them to some extent.
Tell u Wt? I was in a relationship for four years, many fights happened in between, she wanted a break up everytime we fought and she actually left me seriously a couple of times but, I always put the first step 2 her after that because after developing a deep emotional, mental, internal and spiritual love towards her, I lost my virginity to her which definitely strengthened my bond towards her and call me girlie I don't care but getting married to the person I love and the person person I lost my virginity with was my internal wish and dignified thought since I opened my eyes to Love and Marriage, something I seriously cared about. I met her dad, got insulted on the basis of religion and community differences, I don't look that good but, it never depressed me till I saw her standing carefree, defenseless and chilled when her brother insulted me on the basis of my physical appearance.
Pisces man
by: Anonymous

it really depends on the type of relationship you are in with us, becuase I disappear only if I do not take the relationship serious enough, and when I disappear its to cater to another "lover" meaning if he disappears he is escaping from your negativity and bringing some positive into his life, he will always come back to his true one though.
^ totally agree
by: Anonymous

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Pisces man
by: Anonymous

Yes but how do you know if your the true one for example in my case when i was in high school i date a pisces man but before we dated we were friends and he always followed me around flirted with other girls thinking that would make me jealous which made me think he would break my heart. well to make a long story short i was cold to him at that time because my heart was broken by someone else. Now years later we have got in touch and all in all we did become intimate only i am married so after being intimate he thought it was awesome but all of a sudden he started pushing me away by insulting me. Im thinking that is his way to push me away knowing he cant have me. I'm a cancer and i know if things were different we would of been great together. Now all you pisces men you tell me is he still in love and am i his true love? He has been married twice but he is single now. oh and after all these years he still brings up on how cold i was to him during our high school days
You liar!
by: Chan droo

what about me??
Don't date a pisces man PLEASE
by: Anonymous

Picses men are no good!!! RUN if you come across one they nothing more than little boys. no back bone they are sad and pathetic.
Strange but True
by: Anonymous

Are you just jealous of pisces. All of the above are true, although there are stronger type of piscean born on the last range. They are more driven than the rest of the pisces decans.
Pisces dissappear, to avoid meaningless existence! Pisces are the best...
replying to strange but true
by: Anonymous

No Pisces are not the best im sure your saying that because your a pisces, i have to agree pisces men have no back bone they are like children. They constantly want attention drawn to them all the time. And they want to talk to you on their own terms. Pisces men just play games and never stop. That is why they will end up alone.
im capricorn
by: anitha

i dont think pieces are escapes, they stay with the true lovers. if he dint then think that he has no trust on you. in my case my boy friend is pieces he disappears some time but im sure its not due to escpism its something which even he doesn know, better adjust it if you love him that much but knowingly or unknowingly dont aske any questions regarding that to him then he will confuse you by giving some answers which no one can understand MORE OR LESS like a mad, but i love him so much so i wont think about it.my best choice in my life...
clear the air
by: Anonymous

Im a picses man and I do in fantacey.I used to act like a little boy because Im growing up slow due to a grip of reality, We escape from reality due to negativity that wounds our emotions through reality.Leaving us in a recovering state or mind & emotion. We live in our own world full of dream and freedom. Since we're so sensitive living in reality for too long will destroy our vision leaving us depressed but sooner or later we're back to the plan(: ... Yess we do live to exist and IF we hurt bad enough we leave,depending on what the situation is,we either heal and come back or leave to avoid a meaningless existance,problem is you might think we're playing mind games,we're not,you wouldnt understand that we live in our own world an we're no longer part of yours,although still hold treaserd memories of something long and beautiful or short lived and memorable
pisces? yes, run for the hills
by: Anonymous

my experience with the last 2 pisces i've dated is that small day-to-day tasks that are no-brainers for most people, take a lot more effort for pisces.

small things like even knowing where they put their keys is difficult for them. then they get very upset and moody because they'll be late and it snowballs from there.

i'm a libra and i found i was babysitting and taking care of my pisces and doing everything for him just to save time!!

but i ended up being frustrated with his inability to cope with life. and yes, he would run away from anything difficult to deal with. i think they get overwhelmed more easily than any other sign.

it was the most lonely relationship i've ever been in
Fish
by: Anonymous

Since when do fish need back bones?
I am the one who raised the question on this blog a long time ago...
by: Anonymous

Well, it's been a year since we met the first time and about three quarters of a year since the last meeting. We had sex, long, I mean really long nonstop action that was all day and night yet we never got to know each other beacuse we didn't have any time to talk about anything but made out. So i am curious what the negative energy possible was. He got the best treatment he ever had, I was told... So i don't get it and i will never get it, I guess.

I am back again because i got the message sent to my e-mail box from this site so I don't want you to assume It bothers me any longer. I mean sex was awesome and I think about it and I was very attracted to him so I believe was he. I mean this is a guy who couldn't leave the me alone in the bed to take a shower and stare at me and he would say upon my question" I just can't leave you..." sending kisses often if we are driving to a location in two different cars all through the ride... So where is the negative energy?

thank you
backbone
by: Anonymous

fish do have backbones - they're just very easily bended
pisces run for the hills
by: Anonymous

i laughed out loud about the lost keys, oh the f rustration and wasted time. pisces man will make you question your sanity. he will suck you dry and then leave.you MUST have a plan B.and expect to use it. my pisces has left me in a bad way but i will rise from the ashes spurred on by the comments i have read!
Pisces are Lonely
by: Anonymous

I dated a pisces for a month or not since he was absent most of the time. Popped up whenever I least expected. Worse relationship I have ever had. Admitted he likes living all alone out in the desert even when he was married and had children he worked out of town in the middle of nowhere and hardly came home and he liked it. Still does. I don't see what there is to date really - he is emotionally unavailable. We had a knock down insulting fight on both sides & I hear they always come back - is that true? No communication at all now.
Disappearing act
by: Confusion Susan

I am in love with the fact that pisces men love to make love for long hours almost all day and night. I love the emotion and sensitivity that they possess. I will say that they are freaks and sexy as hell. BUT!!!

I dated one pisces guy who would get hurt about everything. If I was on the phone with him and told him that I had to get ready to clock in to work, he would be hurt deeply. Then he'd turn around and not call me for 4 days. He'd emerge and say that he just needed to regroup. He drank a lot too. But his sex was undescribable. He would lick, touch, pump every angle of my body. And the way that he said that he loved me was like butter.

Right now I am getting to know a pisces guy. He says that he is feeling me. He says that he has thoughts of what he'd like to do to me. I'll send him an email and we'll exchange cute and sexy notes. And then I won't hear from him. I'm so tired of this shi*t. Then he is going to call and say, "Hey, how's it goin'?" And basically talk about nothing. Oh yea, this one does not have much to say at all. I have to bring up stuff to talk about. And he has a bedtime. He likes to be in bed by 10 every single night. So if we are on the phone, he starts yawning at 9:30 like clockwork. I don't know what to do.
Nothing to talk about
by: Anonymous

That was my experience also, I found in the end he was in it for sex only. He didn't want to talk. That is not a grown up. No thanks.
Look between the details
by: David

As a evolved Pisces who read most of these comments let me make a few suggestions:
1-There r 2 types of Pisces: the evolved one's and the involved one's. Just decide which one u prefer or at least find one of each and compare and contrast- notice the differences and similarities. But do it over about 3 to 6 months. If Pisces turns u on or u like their caring sensitive side at least u have a guide book on good n bad qualities.
2- they disappear to regenerate. Silence, space n solitude recharges batteries. It's like getting our heads/hearts rebooted. Introverts recharge by being alone. Maybe negotiate ground rules around disappearing. Also time will slow down n speed up easily for a Pisces. 3 days away can be like just hours for us. Also try putting fly spray in a room with a fish tank- dead fish in a day or so. So reread the post about negativity and getting away from. Then read it again.
3- Pisces do not need their partners. Give them a jug of wine water whatever they will survive thank you very much. Maybe look at your own expectations around needs.
4- Pisces love is usually universal. Let them do that so they warm up to personal love. Don't tell them what to do, but b very careful with suggestioning anything- easily influenced. Remember they might look soft affectionate n sweet on the outside but He isr pretty much doing what u r- that is trying to get your needs met while attending to the needs of another person. And waking up in the middle of the night realizing they r not the same. Try reading Emotional intelligence & google 4 horsemen of the apocalypse- Bateman I think. Well researched techniques on communicating in a relationship. Simple & well known. Oh & learn how the brain
Floods in fights n how to wait half an hour before talking it through. Simple real practical stuff.
Nothing to talk about to : Anonymous
by: Confushion Susan

There has been an update on the status of the pisces guy that I'm seeing. Remember me? Disappearing act? I kind of get how he works now. However, I realize that I will never get to know EXACTLY how he works. If I do not contact him (he loves my emails and when I call) then I will hear from him. He will call. I would miss the call. I'd email him telling him that I knew it was too late to call him, but I just wanted to let him know that I did see that he called. He writes back with exclamtion points saying things like, good morning beautiful, it is so good to hear from you!!!!!! Anyway, ya-da-ya-da-ya-da......We talk on the phone that night. He is very talkative. When I don't call HIM, he gets talkative. Then he wants to see me. We plan a day and then I'll call that day to say that I will see him soon. He is so selfless. He always has his brother, mother, or cousin over. When I am there, his brother comes in with his own key all of the time and he doesn't know how to tell him to take a hike. I just don't know if he can man up to his family or to me. I don't know if he likes me or if he is just holding on to me for collateral. I mean, he did ask me if I'd move in with someone for love. I don't know. That is why my name is Confusion Susan.
Please move on
by: Anonymous

my humble advice to you is just move on with your life definetely without him...seriously!!! I had a brief encounter with one jusssttt like the you describe... lol, not that I was looking for anything serious at the time, we just wanted to hook up, then a few more times, we both had awesometime while being intimiate but that would be it... then, he dissappeared but this time not like for a month, just never heard from him...anyhow, I noticed him online where we met and I am very sure he noticed me as well... well, I have never been exclusive with the person I was with at the time, this pisces knew the situation and never made any suggestion while we were meeting but now, boy is he desperately looking for a hook up online ALL THE freakin time? Well, seriously, maybe it's my personality, I ain't chasing anyone and neither have the reason to go out of my way to keep someone happy without nothing and no plans in the forseable future...never understand, why bother if there is no interest on his part whether it's some sort of mind game or not? Seriously, move on... good luck
SAME DAMN THANG DIFFERENT DUDE
by: Anonymous

I really like my Pisces guy. I live in another city(about an hour away).He used to blow my phone up sending texts and calling to see how i was doing. We have spent weekends together getting to know each other and each other families. I have started to notice lately that he doesnt call as much as he used to. So in turn i stopped calling as much. He noticed the distance and said that he understands that i am a mother and have other responsibilities outside of him. I told him that yes that is true but i would like to know that he is thinking of me. he also stated that he is going thru a lot financially and he has alot on his mind. But he still pushes and pulls. He is 34 years old so i am starting to think that this is the way he will be forever. I like him and would like to see if this can go anywhere....Or should i just take it as a lesson learned???
My Pisces Friend has been gone for 3 days
by: Lissa Loves Pisces

I have a best friend, a wonderful Pisces man. We are not romantic, both of us married to other people, we're just really great friends.
But, I guess in just knowing him and how he flows, I know that every few weeks there will be a period of days that I won't see, talk, text, etc. from him. It's like he's recharging.
Today as of this writing, it will be almost 3 days since I've talked to him.
One thing that I have learned from him in watching how he works, is that when he unloads some heavy emotional stuff off his chest in any of our conversations, he'll be gone resting for a few days before we talk again. It's almost like it drained him to spill his guts, ya know?
I don't mind & I don't worry. It's cool to think that he totally trusts me with anything and able to communicate with me on such a, dare I say, intimate level.
But, yeah...I know he'll be back in action in no time. I am a Taurus and am very patient with him and I think he appreciates that.
have patience they always come back
by: Anonymous

yes i know how you feel its like they want to space ....im a gemini and my pisces guy always dissapears every once and awhile ..then i chase after him and he ignores me so then ..i ignore him bak and dont text for ages and he then decides to come back i think they do play games but its them that are insecure not you ...i love my pisces guy very much when i met him first i used to take his dissapearing acts to heart ..but now i realize that is just him ..and its his away of saying i need space..

when he does this i keep busy and when he comes back to me hes even more in love like he was before he left ... if you love this guy have patience ..they will keep doing that untill they know your the one ...
A question for all Pisces meng me crazy
by: Anonymous

A question for all Pisces men

I’m a Taurus girl when i met my Pisces man it was love at first sight, we were inseparable. We were attached to the hip. When I met him I wasn’t really looking for a relationship since I was trying to get over my Cancer man who I had a 3 year relationship with and my God! I thought I wanted him to be my husband. He was what every girl wanted, young, cute, smart, had style, own a house, nice cars, great job, I mean my cancer guy was my ideal guy and it was sooooo hard getting over him, and I had so much competition it was crazy!...lol when I met my Pisces man we connected (for me to spend time with someone it’s hard I need to feel connected someway, traits of an introvert Taurus)
So we connected very well, he used to make me feel as if I met him or seen him before. We were together for 1yr 8mos, we were happy. We told each other “I love you” constantly. One day he got up and disappeared then a week later I was told “we needed to break up” and that’s it! We never fought, we never argued (probably had 3 fights during the time we were together). it’s been 4 years since the break up and it’s been hell. He comes back once a year to “check how I’m doing” or maybe “to terrorize my relationships” (still trying to figure that out) crazy part is that I still feel connected to him. When I meet him he recharges me, he doesn’t even have to say anything because I’m just enjoying the energy. But he only comes to tell me how horrible his life is. I know he has dated throughout the years, I can say he has almost turned into a male whore…lol When he comes back to talk he spills all his stress and what’s going on with his life on me, obviously being the (Taurus that I am) I can help but to feel like I want to help, and then my feeling get caught up and once he feels it he runs again, and leaves me with no word. He hurts my feelings all the time, he treats me like garbage to be honest. He never remembers my birthday, he has no sympathy for me when I’m facing tough times (if I tell him too much of my problems he runs again), he avoids me at all cause, ignores my calls, emails, blocks me. (And I don’t bother him that much and with time I have learned to stay away. It has come to the point that I actually think he hates me. And just when I think it’s over here he comes again telling me how happy he was when he was with me. I don’t understand why he has picked the only one person he trust with his intimate thoughts with and who seriously wants the best for him to treat like crap?
He chooses to spend all his time and money with his friends and other girls. While with me when we talk it’s always in his car then he drops me home. Makes me feel like he’s ashamed to be seen with me or embarrassed?

so the question is

Does he hate me? Dislike me? or am I just a punching bag? are looks very important for Pisces man? maybe I’m not skinny or tall enough and that’s why he’s embarrassed”
Re:A question for all Pisces meng me crazy
by: Anonymous

Hi dear Taurus.I'm a Pisces male and i think i can clarify things a bit.So,you still feel connected to him? that's good.A little of you is still inside of him.It seems like your his shoulder to cry on and knows he can trust you with his thoughts however i think his keeping it at just that.He might just be over you and only hangs out with you not to hurt your feelings because he knows you have the potential of getting closer to him.I think he could be embarrassed because you know longer fit in with his ideal match.He's being really fucked up.

Us Pisces admire beauty of any kind as long as it's unique.However he settle for anything no matter how ugly or beautiful it is.

Honestly I think he's being fucked up
Same here
by: Anonymous

i dated my Pisces man for 2 years, there was an instant connection since day 1. We did everything together.He would buy me gifts all the time and send me “just because” flowers …..He used to tell me “i love you” all the time, all day long. We didn’t use to fight. We probably had 3 arguments for the time we were together. I did let myself go, i gained 30lbs or so (i know that’s bad and its harder for a Taurus girl to lose it) The last 2 months our sex life did suffered, but i thought it was because he was stress with work; Because at the time i had my Pisces man who actually verbalize the words ” i love you” to me everyday. I didn’t see it as a red flag (now, i do). One day he got up and left with no word nor say. a week or 2 later, he writes a letter on how he didn’t want to be in a relationship anymore, he was not “feeling me”, i had so much faith in our love that i just told myself “Give him space, he’ll be back, he will miss me really soon and we will be happy together again” (yeah, that didn’t happened) i begged him to come back for 1.5 yrs, he would tell me that he had other goals to achieve and that he was stress, that he miss me but he was not ready for a relationship. i found out later on He started dating his ex not too long after we broke up but he failed to tell me for the 1.5 yrs that i was begging him. One thing i don’t understand is that he always comes back to apologize because he feels bad (how many times does a person need to apologize for?) Every year he has always reached out to tell me about his life and how miserable he is and how happy he was when he was with me but he never wants a more than friends relationship with me. when he notices that i’m catching feelings, he leaves again. it doesn’t matter how bad our arguments have been, when we see or talk to each other it brings us back to when we were together, getting along just fine. He never wants me to find out that he’s with other girls (i find that funny) since i have nothing to hide, i do flaunt my boyfriends because i’m proud to say “he’s my man” i have no problems finding great men that love me and treat me right, but for some reason i just can’t connect with them. no matter how hard i try (trust me, i really want to be able to LOVE again, to treat my man right and spoiled him and travel together and explore the world together).
Advice(yes we do suck)
by: Pisces

Pisces men will not tell you how they really feel easily, you have to find a way to force it out, not with threats but by letting them know what you need. Their priority is you, you need to make sure that they know that you need the same honesty as them. They can relate to this and they will try hard. Once you know exactly what it is it gets a lot easier to solve.

We're like a very complicated maze really, but I really hope that in the end we can be worth it for any girl. If you can't take it just try to back out slowly, but I really do suggest that you keep at it.

I think I speak for all guys when I say that we're sorry to be morons and not nearly as adorable as women, in one way or another.
Y Pisces Y?? NEW
by: NEVER AGAIN

Pisces men do suck. I mean don't get me wrong they are sweet and loving and can sometimes be devoted and hard working.......buuuuut....they can manipulate, cheat, lie(for no reason),and be Houdini..lol. I love mines no matter if he wants to leave forever or come back one day. He was mine for a brief moment in time and I am okay with that. I will always miss him.(I always did even when I was right next to him)I know he thinks about me and misses me. He may never be fully mine but I will always cherish the time we spent together. I admit I did do too much for him and never got the same treatment in return but thats ok. How will I learn my lesson if I never lived through it? I'm stronger because of him. I know pisces absorb energy from the people they are around and at the time I was fwb with him I was going through alot and after being with him I always felt better. So I assume he took my negative energy? I think it weighed on him too much. I dont blame him for going away but it would be nice if he could text a smiley face or something once in a while. He has not deleted off his friends list online so I know he is not mad at me. I will always love him and I don't think he even understands why he leaves. Its okay with me as long as he is happy and healthy. I really do miss him though. Oh and since this about astrology I'm aquarius but i was born Feb.18....but the year and time of day I was born says the sun was in pisces when I was born. I dont really explain that to anyone #too complicated....but I display both traits its weird and confusing...lol. I was raised by a pisces woman and have a pisces daugher. also 2 aunts, 1 uncle, my godson(still a baby), 1 homegirl, and a guy friend...ALL PISCES!! They make me crazy but I love them all.
Sometimes pisces are scary NEW
by: Gemini gal

But my guy has got a backbone,he has stood up 2 many things in life,i just dont see him being a coward. He spooks me @tyms dou i.e sumtimes when m abt 2 recieve a visitor he tells me in advance,when m angry with him i drop things,i gave him a nickname Flames.He called me d next day and asked me what i meant by flames.i ws shocked coz i had not yet told him about d nickname i had in mynd.The first time he professed his love 4 me,i actually heard it through his heart.I screamed and i asked him if i heard wrong...till now i still dont want 2 believe that i heard his heart tlk 2 me. Our sex is hot.Their lovemaking is slow and langurous and can take hrs.When you have sex with them i swear you ll pray that it never ends. Am a gemini and i dnt take well 2 orders but..with my pisces man it is quite the opposite. And ohh the connection between us is great. One thing i have learnt with him is Never nag,Never insist on issues. Whenever he is bogged about an issue i change the topic,place my head on his chest and tell him i love him. After a couple of hours or a day he would talk about it.Learn to read their moods and ask what their thinking and they ll do the same for you
Once in a while i tie him in bondage and close his eyes,use my tongue or a light feather and tease him.When they loose control they loose it totally.If you v ever a seen a lion roaring you ll kno what i mean.A rule of thumb with a pisces show him with words that he drives you crazy.He could be with his friends whisper in his ear and tell him you want to rip his pants off or that you love him.Make them feel wanted and they ll worship you

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