Will my Capricorn woman forgive me?

I'm A Virgo Man, with Asc.in Scorpio, Venus in Virgo and Moon in Gemini. I was recently married to an officer in the military and followed her to her past assignment in another state. I decided I didn't want to be with her after the first six months and told her this. We agreed to go our separate ways when I met the most vivacious Capricorn I'd ever seen. We met through business and she was a sale rep for a company trying to get my business. She kept coming by my business and dropping off little gift for me. Well we discovered we had so much in common the it was scary and exciting too. We share the same taste in music, food, art, leisure activities, sex, and world views. Did I mention we also happen to share the same last name and 1 year apart in age. Thing developed as we grew closer and I started a business for her, which I discovered she really couldn't operate, so I started another and the same thing. It never occurred to me that what she really wanted from me was my time and attention and that was the thing I failed to give her. Needless to say the relationship strained, someone else started giving her what she need at that time and I lost her. She said she tried to get the feeling back, but she can't seem to grasp the idea of us spending the rest of our lives together as she did when we first connected. Now she is planning on moving away and starting a life with the one who gives her the attention she needs, she left abruptly with no warning or goodbye. No call nothing I believe in my heart and with every fiber of my being that she is the one soulmate out there created for me and I did not see it until she was too late. Does Capricorn women forgive that and reconsider true love found late or do I chase her as I never did? By the way she is Cap. Sun, Aries Rising, Pisces-Venus, and Scorpio Moon also.

Just need to get it out!

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Move on
by: Anonymous

Let go. She's made up her mind, u discussed it, she explained. When she says it's black it usually means just that.

news
by: chantel

my dear,
sorry to say this but when us capricorn made up in out minds to leave....we leave. We look at every aspect of a decision before we make it, then we go for the kill. So my dear you have lost her. it will be best for you to move on and dont chase her.
However, my self as a capricorn I would loved to be chased in that situation, jus to see if you really wanted to be wit me, but mind you that is me.
take care,
Chantel

U'll really need to prove yourself
by: Anonymous

We give our 100% the first time..and once we've given up...its difficult to believe we'll feel the same way again. Optimistic best- if you can really prove that u r the best for her...she'll think again :)

no looking back
by: Anonymous

capricorn once realise they get what they need from a diff person, they will not look back, they will be loyal & happy with what ever they have acheived(Blessing in Disguise)

It's Over!
by: Anonymous

I am a Capricorn woman and I can assure you it takes a long time before we get to the point of letting go. We analyze a situation fully, everything we do is calculated. And when we decide we've done everything in our power to salvage a relationship and decide it's over, unfortunately, there isn't anything you can say or do to win us back. You've missed your once in a life time. We are so genuine and powerful with the love that we give until often our value isn't recognized or appreciated until it's too late.

It won't help. You lost her.
by: Anonymous

All that will happen if you go after her, you will upset her, and make her feel rather uncomfortable. She left you, and Im sorry, but I don't think she's coming back. Anyway, I bet she already has plans with her boyfriend/fionce/husband, or whatever he is to her right now. Trust me, we Capricorns aret easily taken back when we have a man.

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by: Anonymous

I'm a cap nd that's the biggest problem with me it's hard 2 forgive ppl. We need attention nd the only way yu could get her back is by showin her yu could give her attention but don't wait weeks do it fast. Nd don't talk just show her actions Goodluck

I am a Capricorn Woman
by: Anonymous

I agree 200% with a comment left previously. We give over 100% in a relationship and make every possible attempt to make it work even when the other party isn't. We are genuine and our love is extremely powerful. With that being stated, it has been my personal experience that a man doesn't truly appreciate us until we're gone. And, it does take us an very long time to get to the point of letting go; however, once we're there, it's absolutely no turning back. We truly exhaust our very being.

Lets just be friends
by: Anonymous

So true. I am a cap woman who was recently dating a virgo man. I gave him my all and he got very comfortable in the relationship. He showed little attention and made me feel as if I was alone in the relationship. I told him, lets just be friends.

Leaving without a warning or goodbye
by: Anonymous

I am like that. When I set my mind to disconnecting from someone, I leave without a warning or goodbye.

When she's left, she's left. She won't get back.

Sorry..
by: Anonymous

Once we made up our mind and there is no reason to stay,we leave and no reason to turning back..we put all in relationship until there is no more left..sorry i will never look back.

Same story
by: Angel

Hi: I dated a virgo man that I gave my all to. He did not appreciate me until I was gone. Now he's doing everything in his power to get me back into his arms. Im not sure if I am willing to give him a second chance. He is going to have to prove his love for me and be there completely, 100 percent. My love runs deep for this man, but I know in my heart I deserve the best.

Best of Luck

virgo /capricorn relationship
by: Anonymous

d same here i dated a virgo and he was my first real man he got evrything my heart,body ,soul and attention it was love at first sight we were very compatible he always had me into him keeping me laughing until d day i found out his ex was pregnant for him and i still accepted dat cuz they were together first and it happen b4 we met and then it so happen dat she was desperate and did wat she had to spiritually to get him back and we started quarrelling evryday and guess wat i still held on until i realised it did not make any sense and d attention i needed i would not get so i made up my mind and left him and i got myself my cancer man and we r very happy and then dis jumbie came back trying to get me back and begging me to have a child for him and he was very sorry and needed me bck but too late son i moved on and there is no turning bck i did love him but i gave my love to another since he could not control his life.so my dear she moved on and hear wat u can't stop a moving train u will get knocked down so find another lady dat u can love.

CAPRICORN
by: Anonymous

IM A CAPRICORN AND I MISS MY FIRST LOVE WITH ALL MY HEART.. IT HAS BEEN SIX YEARS.. SIX YEARS.. HE CHEATED AND CHEATED BUT I WOULD FORGIVE.. BECAUSE I STILL CAN NOT GET HIM OUT OF MY BRAIN.. BUT THATS ME..

Cappy's determination
by: Anonymous

Once we've made up our mind, we're NOT turning back. That's one of our best known traits. So to all those signs out there, be careful in risking your chance with a cappy. We don't like to waste our precious time on people who don't respect our love and take us SERIOUSLY.

It takes that special one with true sincerity to get the best from us. Capricorns are keepers, but it comes with a very expensive price (money don't equate), only TRUE LOVE and TRUE SINCERITY can open the gate to "forever after".

deep down inside if she felt that way at first then she will still feel it
by: 24capricorn18

I think yes she will...in all actuality thats what we want the man to do when we storm off...if they dont right then we make em work for it...No one ever knows the right thing to do though.(as if they are only men .)
You need to get her somethin she really needs to make her feel special(gift)chase her down and tell her how you feel...I have just had this same issue happen to me except it was the other way around....My virgo kelpt tellin me he can see the future...the way things was goin with us never gettin our conversation together it wasnt gonna work...we were doin very well for a while as long as I stay away from this ex bff of mine....Soon as we are around her she spoils it for us...He bought up why were we not as close since him and i got together and I stated to him it was not him it was the past with me and her... she has done to many things to me....(she is a virgo )

So i told them both how i felt about the both of them ...it seemed like i wasnt be understood...i got fustrated and told them that I was just gonna stay the fuck out of both of their lives...I felt bad because I really didnt want him and I to breakup cause of that incident...I really wanted him to call and make up with me ...my mom says if he is a true virgo he is gonna give you a few days and he will come around to you cause he will respect you for speekin your mind(thats if he really cares about you....So now im just sittin back feelin awful about it...SO in my honest opinion if there was anything there she wants you to think with your heart instead of goin with logic ...we only want your time and attention ...we have to know that we possess our men ...i norder for us to trust hes ours...We need time (we have a very high sex drive )so when we say qt time We are wantin to cuddle and freak lol

YOU stil have a chance

face reality
by: cap

sorry to say, but you've lost her mr. Virgo.
We capricorns are very determined women. This applies to all aspects in life. When we've made our decision, we're not changing it.  You had your chance to do it well, but you didn't cherish it, so now you have to face the consequences for it. women in general, not just caps, don't like indecisive men.  you didn't take her seriously, so she didn't feel the need to give her heart to a man who didn't deserve it. 
Again, you can never be absolutely sure she was made for you / is your soulmate because she might not have thought the same way about you.

There's one big turn-off about you virgo men.  When a cap gave you the chance to win her love, you hesitate and took it for granted. Then when we've had enough of your immaturity and decide to move on & do something better with our time, you begin to complain and ask us to give you a chance. Sorry, what's gone is gone.

You have chance
by: Falcon

I'm a Capricorn male and I think you may still have shot, but only if there is true change in your emotional and spiritual makeup? You truly must committed this time and approach and speak with someone in honest terms about how you feel and then simply let it go from there. I'll agree with the rest here and say the we Caps do give it our entire all before we decide to leave someone. But when we decide to close our hearts and leave?..It's done!! No looking back towards frivilous people when you've communicated expectations and given them every opportunity to grow up and be real....If we don't see a trusted intimate future with you? There really is just no point in opening upthe door again. It's like opening a book to any page and knowing there may be some fun going on there, but ultimately knowing how the last page of the book always reads already. We can discern and read if people are genuine do to their actions.

True Cappy
by: Anonymous

Sorry dear if she left without a word...ur done she can even be cold whne you approach her...Dont do it!!!

virgo male
by: Anonymous

hey man sorry bout that. im a virgo male myself and my past relationship with my ex has been on and off for the past 4 years. were inlove but going away to college has parted us. everytime we rush into a relationship i try to give her all the attention i could but she always ends up dumping me. -.- we always stop talking and then she hits me up on our anniversary. i do believe you have a chance. but for her to leave without saying anything was cold and i dont know if you deserve her now. but if ur heart lies with her then go for it.

You're toast...!
by: Cappygal

Typically, we don't come back and can cool our feelings right down. If you can connive your way back, it won't be the same because the trust and respect are gone. And you won't feel again like the centre of her universe that you once were. Maybe next time you'll appreciate what you have.

im virgo
by: Anonymous

Dude caps are not for us virgos, we have strong dominating personality s, caps want full controle of the relationship we prefer 50-50 or 70-30 just because we are hard workers and want a women to be self reliant and still cather to us as men. Let her go ..SOUL MATE thing, No. go for aqua girl or cancer and thank me later.

Plus cap women cheat, most do anyway i have slept with 3 caps who are currently in relationships. Hotel action, and they always want money, but dnt want to look like prostitutes lol. She probably left you because the other guy had more fame, or money.

Play her call her tell her you love her miss her all that lovey dovey stuff fuck the shit out of her record it. Do it tile u had enough, e-mail the video of u fucking her doggy style type 3days before your birthday on it and send it to her new man, because if she moved on that fast she was screwing him while with u

Your choice go out like a bitch, or fuck the bitch get your dick wet in her pussy and man the fuck up my nigga

Recovering from a Capricorn Woman
by: Jesse

Mine was a bit different. She was VERY jealous. I never gave her a reason. I came home always and always called her. She was an amazing person. Until she started checking my phone and wanted to see my emails. She had been cheated on many times prior.

Anyway, she was also still talking to her 2 ex bfs and swore that there was nothing going on. I figured that there was life before me...besides she was always with me. Long story short. I had to walk on eggshells around her or any female I spoke to. And she was checking my phone when I was asleep.

She eventually found an old text conversation that was between me and an old friend. Although the verbage was VERY colorful (my female friend is like a guy) most of that text was about my beautiful GF. She read that I was talking to another woman...and blew a gasket...and read everything. I tried to explain and just gave up after a few days. I also brought up a video that was sent to her buy some random guy and the friendship with her two ex bf. Whereas I couldn't be caught talking to any woman.

Sorry for the long story, but I guess the message is this. NO MATTER who's at fault, a Capricorn woman will dump and forget you. I will NEVER go out with another Capricorn woman. They aren't the forgiving type. They want you to come back on your knees...(her ex bf and Husband did that) and I might do some of that if I felt that I was wrong.

So...Forget her dude...and stay away from Caps. There are MANY other signs out there that CAN forgive and can get past stupid shit. This I know....that no matter what...NO ONE will treat her as well as I did. I took care of her two bratty boys too! LOL.

Move on My brotha! Let her find the next fool.

Recovering from a Capricorn Woman
by: Jesse

Mine was a bit different. She was VERY jealous. I never gave her a reason. I came home always and always called her. She was an amazing person. Until she started checking my phone and wanted to see my emails. She had been cheated on many times prior.

Anyway, she was also still talking to her 2 ex bfs and swore that there was nothing going on. I figured that there was life before me...besides she was always with me. Long story short. I had to walk on eggshells around her or any female I spoke to. And she was checking my phone when I was asleep.

She eventually found an old text conversation that was between me and an old friend. Although the verbage was VERY colorful (my female friend is like a guy) most of that text was about my beautiful GF. She read that I was talking to another woman...and blew a gasket...and read everything. I tried to explain and just gave up after a few days. I also brought up a video that was sent to her buy some random guy and the friendship with her two ex bf. Whereas I couldn't be caught talking to any woman.

Sorry for the long story, but I guess the message is this. NO MATTER who's at fault, a Capricorn woman will dump and forget you. I will NEVER go out with another Capricorn woman. They aren't the forgiving type. They want you to come back on your knees...(her ex bf and Husband did that) and I might do some of that if I felt that I was wrong.

So...Forget her dude...and stay away from Caps. There are MANY other signs out there that CAN forgive and can get past stupid shit. This I know....that no matter what...NO ONE will treat her as well as I did. I took care of her two bratty boys too! LOL.

Move on My brotha! Let her find the next fool.

Happening to me....
by: Anonymous

This is the same story happening to me. I am an African and deeply in love with a Chinese Cappy. at first I was so busy with business trying to set up things for us but I lack the attention part which I try my best in giving but work calls. Now I am on my kneel begging and crying every morning and night just to make things work out. I love her so much but things happen that we can't control and that's what happened to me. I wish and pray she would give me the second chance.

cancer and capricorn
by: Anonymous

My experience with a capricorn was amazing i mean you never forget them. I was with one on and off for almost 6yrs and what went wrong was trust issues supposively i lie too much she would believe everyone else but me i tried everything too prove her wrong but it wasnt enough she would say "its just not the same" but yet she wanted us to start over. She would say things like "i miss you everyday" she would drink alot to calling me drunk at 4am to tell me shes crying and that shes inlove with me. But yet she didnt want to be with me yet not until i prove it as she would say "actions speak louder than words" i mean what does that even mean if i Am in fact showing you she would confuse the hell out of me but i loved her and still do but once she said she was done literally wrote it that way after an arguement she left without a trace never spoke to me again til this days its been 2 yrs

response...
by: Anonymous

I'm a virgo young man. I swayed away from my Capricorn woman. I was her first boyfriend ever for 8 years. Since I was 16 and she was 15. Im now 24. We recently just broke up. Capricorns will give you another chance if you give it your 110%. i MEAN 110%. You have to give yourself up. Sacrifice A LOT. You need to regain her trust and beliefs upon yourself. Us virgo's are very complicated. We tend not to show much affection. It doesn't mean we don't love our capricorn woman. It's tough on us to express our feelings in the right words. Especially with a cap woman. Our immaturity jokes are a HUGE turn off and pisses them off. She has tried EVERYTHING and had hope I would change and treat her the way she needed and wanted. I speak from personal experience. Things got rough with us. She dumped me. I got with a cancer who I connected very well with. But its her who holds the key to my heart. She took me back. But I didn't live up to the expectations. Now I'm facing life alone when all I really know is just her and I growing up together. Capricorn woman will do EVERYTHING and ANYTHING to keep you. There's a limit for everyone. I'm still dwelling on it. It hurts but its no ones fault but your own.

Will I get my capricorn woman back???? Plz help
by: Nilesh

Hi ! I'm aries 39 and my Capri is 36, last entire year there was not so good going with both of us . Whatever I do she always had some problem with it , we use to fight a lot , she n I both are committed to each other, last month I loosed my control n I Yaled on her, I was continusellly using bad words for her and I broke with her. Past 30 days she is not talking to me n don't want to come back, I want her back, plz help.....

Before I discard a taturus
by: Anonymous

I'm a Capricorn women and dating a Leo guy, before dating a Leo Ive been hardly discard on a tarusu guy because he wasn't seem really interested in me as I was so into him but my feelings have got too heavy and was trying to have his attentions but it don't matter to me anymore I just hope he have someone who would appreatice everything he would done for his dream girl so I would difenly move on.
Now a Leo man before we became serious things was really bad before our week of hanging out I caught him flirting with another girl on the phone while with me ! I knew I was not his gf he knew I was super jealous then understood how I feels later about 2 or 3week he willing to change, would never want to give up on me and he been to to earn his trust back he understood my love it was hard for me so hard because there no way I could trust again but I gave him another chance see how things go and yes we fight all the time but he said he so in love with me and would want us stick it through together no matter what. I was frighten I wouldn't able to believe anything he those that come out of his mouth not any guy. I alway have bad thinking like if he going to cheat on me or whatever but it not the point what's matter for ME is to be happy not caring bout anything But I do just love this person he actually showing me that he care n love able I'm feeling nervous on what happening next. Soon in 9 days it going to be our year together I never been in a long term relationship in my life !

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