Will my Capricorn woman forgive me?

I'm A Virgo Man, with Asc.in Scorpio, Venus in Virgo and Moon in Gemini. I was recently married to an officer in the military and followed her to her past assignment in another state. I decided I didn't want to be with her after the first six months and told her this. We agreed to go our separate ways when I met the most vivacious Capricorn I'd ever seen. We met through business and she was a sale rep for a company trying to get my business. She kept coming by my business and dropping off little gift for me. Well we discovered we had so much in common the it was scary and exciting too. We share the same taste in music, food, art, leisure activities, sex, and world views. Did I mention we also happen to share the same last name and 1 year apart in age. Thing developed as we grew closer and I started a business for her, which I discovered she really couldn't operate, so I started another and the same thing. It never occurred to me that what she really wanted from me was my time and attention and that was the thing I failed to give her. Needless to say the relationship strained, someone else started giving her what she need at that time and I lost her. She said she tried to get the feeling back, but she can't seem to grasp the idea of us spending the rest of our lives together as she did when we first connected. Now she is planning on moving away and starting a life with the one who gives her the attention she needs, she left abruptly with no warning or goodbye. No call nothing I believe in my heart and with every fiber of my being that she is the one soulmate out there created for me and I did not see it until she was too late. Does Capricorn women forgive that and reconsider true love found late or do I chase her as I never did? By the way she is Cap. Sun, Aries Rising, Pisces-Venus, and Scorpio Moon also.

Just need to get it out!

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Will my Capricorn woman forgive me?

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Move on
by: Anonymous

Let go. She's made up her mind, u discussed it, she explained. When she says it's black it usually means just that.

news
by: chantel

my dear,
sorry to say this but when us capricorn made up in out minds to leave....we leave. We look at every aspect of a decision before we make it, then we go for the kill. So my dear you have lost her. it will be best for you to move on and dont chase her.
However, my self as a capricorn I would loved to be chased in that situation, jus to see if you really wanted to be wit me, but mind you that is me.
take care,
Chantel

U'll really need to prove yourself
by: Anonymous

We give our 100% the first time..and once we've given up...its difficult to believe we'll feel the same way again. Optimistic best- if you can really prove that u r the best for her...she'll think again :)

no looking back
by: Anonymous

capricorn once realise they get what they need from a diff person, they will not look back, they will be loyal & happy with what ever they have acheived(Blessing in Disguise)

It's Over!
by: Anonymous

I am a Capricorn woman and I can assure you it takes a long time before we get to the point of letting go. We analyze a situation fully, everything we do is calculated. And when we decide we've done everything in our power to salvage a relationship and decide it's over, unfortunately, there isn't anything you can say or do to win us back. You've missed your once in a life time. We are so genuine and powerful with the love that we give until often our value isn't recognized or appreciated until it's too late.

It won't help. You lost her.
by: Anonymous

All that will happen if you go after her, you will upset her, and make her feel rather uncomfortable. She left you, and Im sorry, but I don't think she's coming back. Anyway, I bet she already has plans with her boyfriend/fionce/husband, or whatever he is to her right now. Trust me, we Capricorns aret easily taken back when we have a man.

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by: Anonymous

I'm a cap nd that's the biggest problem with me it's hard 2 forgive ppl. We need attention nd the only way yu could get her back is by showin her yu could give her attention but don't wait weeks do it fast. Nd don't talk just show her actions Goodluck

I am a Capricorn Woman
by: Anonymous

I agree 200% with a comment left previously. We give over 100% in a relationship and make every possible attempt to make it work even when the other party isn't. We are genuine and our love is extremely powerful. With that being stated, it has been my personal experience that a man doesn't truly appreciate us until we're gone. And, it does take us an very long time to get to the point of letting go; however, once we're there, it's absolutely no turning back. We truly exhaust our very being.

Lets just be friends
by: Anonymous

So true. I am a cap woman who was recently dating a virgo man. I gave him my all and he got very comfortable in the relationship. He showed little attention and made me feel as if I was alone in the relationship. I told him, lets just be friends.

Leaving without a warning or goodbye
by: Anonymous

I am like that. When I set my mind to disconnecting from someone, I leave without a warning or goodbye.

When she's left, she's left. She won't get back.

Sorry..
by: Anonymous

Once we made up our mind and there is no reason to stay,we leave and no reason to turning back..we put all in relationship until there is no more left..sorry i will never look back.

Same story
by: Angel

Hi: I dated a virgo man that I gave my all to. He did not appreciate me until I was gone. Now he's doing everything in his power to get me back into his arms. Im not sure if I am willing to give him a second chance. He is going to have to prove his love for me and be there completely, 100 percent. My love runs deep for this man, but I know in my heart I deserve the best.

Best of Luck

virgo /capricorn relationship
by: Anonymous

d same here i dated a virgo and he was my first real man he got evrything my heart,body ,soul and attention it was love at first sight we were very compatible he always had me into him keeping me laughing until d day i found out his ex was pregnant for him and i still accepted dat cuz they were together first and it happen b4 we met and then it so happen dat she was desperate and did wat she had to spiritually to get him back and we started quarrelling evryday and guess wat i still held on until i realised it did not make any sense and d attention i needed i would not get so i made up my mind and left him and i got myself my cancer man and we r very happy and then dis jumbie came back trying to get me back and begging me to have a child for him and he was very sorry and needed me bck but too late son i moved on and there is no turning bck i did love him but i gave my love to another since he could not control his life.so my dear she moved on and hear wat u can't stop a moving train u will get knocked down so find another lady dat u can love.

CAPRICORN
by: Anonymous

IM A CAPRICORN AND I MISS MY FIRST LOVE WITH ALL MY HEART.. IT HAS BEEN SIX YEARS.. SIX YEARS.. HE CHEATED AND CHEATED BUT I WOULD FORGIVE.. BECAUSE I STILL CAN NOT GET HIM OUT OF MY BRAIN.. BUT THATS ME..

Cappy's determination
by: Anonymous

Once we've made up our mind, we're NOT turning back. That's one of our best known traits. So to all those signs out there, be careful in risking your chance with a cappy. We don't like to waste our precious time on people who don't respect our love and take us SERIOUSLY.

It takes that special one with true sincerity to get the best from us. Capricorns are keepers, but it comes with a very expensive price (money don't equate), only TRUE LOVE and TRUE SINCERITY can open the gate to "forever after".

deep down inside if she felt that way at first then she will still feel it
by: 24capricorn18

I think yes she will...in all actuality thats what we want the man to do when we storm off...if they dont right then we make em work for it...No one ever knows the right thing to do though.(as if they are only men .)
You need to get her somethin she really needs to make her feel special(gift)chase her down and tell her how you feel...I have just had this same issue happen to me except it was the other way around....My virgo kelpt tellin me he can see the future...the way things was goin with us never gettin our conversation together it wasnt gonna work...we were doin very well for a while as long as I stay away from this ex bff of mine....Soon as we are around her she spoils it for us...He bought up why were we not as close since him and i got together and I stated to him it was not him it was the past with me and her... she has done to many things to me....(she is a virgo )

So i told them both how i felt about the both of them ...it seemed like i wasnt be understood...i got fustrated and told them that I was just gonna stay the fuck out of both of their lives...I felt bad because I really didnt want him and I to breakup cause of that incident...I really wanted him to call and make up with me ...my mom says if he is a true virgo he is gonna give you a few days and he will come around to you cause he will respect you for speekin your mind(thats if he really cares about you....So now im just sittin back feelin awful about it...SO in my honest opinion if there was anything there she wants you to think with your heart instead of goin with logic ...we only want your time and attention ...we have to know that we possess our men ...i norder for us to trust hes ours...We need time (we have a very high sex drive )so when we say qt time We are wantin to cuddle and freak lol

YOU stil have a chance

face reality
by: cap

sorry to say, but you've lost her mr. Virgo.
We capricorns are very determined women. This applies to all aspects in life. When we've made our decision, we're not changing it.  You had your chance to do it well, but you didn't cherish it, so now you have to face the consequences for it. women in general, not just caps, don't like indecisive men.  you didn't take her seriously, so she didn't feel the need to give her heart to a man who didn't deserve it. 
Again, you can never be absolutely sure she was made for you / is your soulmate because she might not have thought the same way about you.

There's one big turn-off about you virgo men.  When a cap gave you the chance to win her love, you hesitate and took it for granted. Then when we've had enough of your immaturity and decide to move on & do something better with our time, you begin to complain and ask us to give you a chance. Sorry, what's gone is gone.

You have chance
by: Falcon

I'm a Capricorn male and I think you may still have shot, but only if there is true change in your emotional and spiritual makeup? You truly must committed this time and approach and speak with someone in honest terms about how you feel and then simply let it go from there. I'll agree with the rest here and say the we Caps do give it our entire all before we decide to leave someone. But when we decide to close our hearts and leave?..It's done!! No looking back towards frivilous people when you've communicated expectations and given them every opportunity to grow up and be real....If we don't see a trusted intimate future with you? There really is just no point in opening upthe door again. It's like opening a book to any page and knowing there may be some fun going on there, but ultimately knowing how the last page of the book always reads already. We can discern and read if people are genuine do to their actions.

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