Aquarian guys what the hell?

by ronda
(halifax)

im in a relationship with an aquarian guy. im a pisces. at first everything was great, we had lots of sex, then it became less and less frequent, and the hugs started dissapearing. we still hang out a bunch, but he is not as warm with me. he hates answering his phone and i have constant worries that he is interested in other people, he (the great aquairian truth seeker) has lied to me a few times in the past. everytime we hang out is great ! we have almost the same interests and humor, but he has gone cold. what up with that? any thoughts?

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To the gentle-hearthed Pisces
by: Anonymous

Hahahahaha!
Sorry to laugh at your story (though your story is painful, and my laughing is cruel), but my message had to begin like that.
I am an Aquarius bastard. Although I seem like a bastard, I can feel your pain and I would like to help you. I feel that it should be my karmic duty to explain the unconsidered and painful Aquarian behavior and to offer you a relief.
I might have done that too (and I certainly disappear). My dancing partner is Pisces, so I know how gentle souls Pisces have (note: to me that is boring).
Explanation: HE HAS LOST INTEREST IN YOU = he does not have faith in you = he does not see his future with you = he hoped that you would change, but you didn't . . . . = he lost interest in you. You should turn a new page in your life.
………….. Here I could write a lot, but it is worthless. Be reasonable and pragmatic as all women are, and move on with your life – without him. To him you were just an episode in his life, and he obviously tries to start a new one.
I hope you can handle the truth. Good luck
my comment.:)
by: Anonymous

okay i am also a pisces and i am dating an aquarius. and i have the same problems as you do only not to the same extent. when my boyfriend gets a little space-y(i know that isnt the right word but hopefully you understand what i mean)i just wait. i wait until it passes. if it doesnt pass, try to fix it. my aquarius and i communicate with eachother alot! we dont hold back...now i dont know if it is the same in your relationship but talking may do the trick. Ask him STRAIGHT UP! go from there depending on the answer you get. also keep in mind that aquarians guys like their individuality. my boyfriend and i are in a very serious relationship but at times he needs his own space, now being a pisces it was very hard at first for me to give him that space but i am all about what he needs and wants. thats just the way that i am. try not calling for a while. he has your number right? he'll get ahold of you if he is really into this. if i have learned anything in this relationship its that he will get what he wants. =] good luck!!!
A relationship needs giving and receiving from both sides!
by: Anonymous

I'd listen to the first comment . Move on . He's lost interest in you. The second comment just proved how "weak" a Pisces is . It's not only about what he wants and needs, it's about you too! If you're in a VERY SERIOUS relationship like you stated then he should have compromised abit. Why is it just you? Maybe in the beginning, he'll be flattered but soon he'll get bored because he does need abit of will from you, Pisces. If he can walk all over you so easily, he'll slowly distant himself from you. It sounds to me , it's a relationship of convenience for him till he can find THE ONE!
Aquarius Male
by: Dahron

Ok, to answer your question. Aquarius males LOVE sex. You both had each other at that point,because i know it was full of life. But you lost him when you started to get "clingy". By clingy, I mean when you start putting your emotions into it. Aquarius' are very well against letting our emotions get the best of us. If there are emotions involved, your best bet is to count us out. A nother thing you did wrong is trying to make him all yours, you messed up BIG TIME, we love our freedon, and he felt as if you were taking that away from him. If an aquarius likes you, HE WILL LET YOU KNOW, we only are attracted to people we know that will make us use our minds, we are very observant, thats how we know who those people are. We sit and observe, then we make our move, may not all happen at once, but we will.

BUT YOUR EMOTIONS GOT IN THE WAY, AND HE PULLED AWAY, NOW WITH THE LYING PART, IM NOT TOO SURE WHAT TO TELL YOU, BECAUSE WE ARE NORMALLY STRAIGHT FORWARD PEOPLE, HE MUST HAVE BEEN A RETARTED AQUARIAN BABY LOL, IDK.







im in a relationship with an aquarian guy. im a pisces. at first everything was great, we had lots of sex, then it became less and less frequent, and the hugs started dissapearing. we still hang out a bunch, but he is not as warm with me. he hates answering his phone and i have constant worries that he is interested in other people, he (the great aquairian truth seeker) has lied to me a few times in the past. everytime we hang out is great ! we have almost the same interests and humor, but he has gone cold. what up with that? any thoughts?
i know your pain
by: broken gem

aquarius men are cold and heartless i wasted 3 years with one im a gemini and im supposed to be compatible with them i will never get another aqua man all the other women can have them i gave him my heart he gave me stone all he cared about was his friends so they can have his ass funny thing is since i left him and dont want him back all of a sudden he wants me he loves me so he says if him ignoring me and not coming home some nights was his love he can keep it my advice hunny is to move on his hot cold nature is no good for a beautiful pisces becouse you actually have a heart he has an ice box sorry about the long rant the break up is only 3 months old
to all
by: Anonymous

having Aquarius is sick.. no emotion means no passion.. how can you do sex with no emotion? unless they are not human right? hahahhaa..let, go girl, i hope aquarius male will find a woman that will love them with all their heart, despite of being manipulative, control freak, hot and cold, not sweet, insensitive, and childish. Good luck.. Pisces girl, just want to have love and care dont you get it aqua boy?
1 lesson u girls forget
by: Anonymous

did your ex-boyfriend aquarius forget to tell u girls before broke up,for not blame others when some shits happens to you?if so,then that is their fault.lets blame them 4 it!
In the Dark
by: Anonymous

As this is hard for me to admit but I am going to....I was seeing an Aquarius man whilst I was already in a relationship with another man. I told the Aquarius man I had a boyfriend I was totally honest with him about it all as I was unsure of what I wanted. I saw this man for about 5 months on the side, we both had feelings for each other and he always use to tell me he did he was very open about it. He told me he was single and really wanted to be with me and wanted me to leave my man. As time went on I started to like him more and more......But I did not see him all the time and he use to make up a lot of excuses and I had a feeling he was lying. So I confronted him via the phone and said I thought he was lying. He carried on saying he wasn't so then I thought maybe I was just not trusting enough. Anways I did the one thing that you just don't do with Aquarians tell them you are falling for them....After that he backed off, then he called me and said he wanted to meet up with me to talk.

We met up and spoke and told me he was going to jail and that he was so sorry because he wants to be with me, and that as soon as he gets out he hopes we can be together. Yes as sad as I feel to admit this I fell for it. He put on this big show saying that he cares for and carried on about how he is scared to go to jail.

Anyway I did some research and found out he had a girlfriend and he had been with her for 2 years....So I sent him a message asking why he lied.....I never heard anything back. Then about a month later I bumped in to him while I was out he kept looking at me but did not approach me. Why didn't he just be honest, we were both in the same boat. so many questions run through my head I just don't understand. Why did he not bother to even come up to me and say sorry doesn't he care at all.....In a sense I know it is karma, I only have myself to blame I guess. The nost stupid part is I still care for him....I hate it!

Please tell me your views as I know you will be some what harsh but honest.
so sad, but keep moving your life
by: Anonymous

i feel you sister. im sorry to hear what happen to you. one thing should be remembered, player will always be a player, no matter what sign they are.

i see you still care of him. but is the feeling bigger than you care yourself? care yourself more, sister!

you should be thankfull that at least you already know the truth (or 'truth'? still questionable but it's not important for now) before it's too late.

one thing for sure,that aquarians are so expert in psychological thing. that's just make the distinction of being an aquarians' victim or other sign's victim : you hate yourself why you still care of him.

but once again, a jerk will always be a jerk. care yourself more, keep rolling.

- aquarius good boy (:
In the dark
by: Anonymous

Thanks for the advice I guess it just takes time :)
Immature and Confused
by: Aquarian Male

Sounds like these guys are immature and confused. I remember seeing dating as a fun game when I was younger, as well as sex. However, underdeveloped individuals such as teenagers and folks who just don't want to grow up (regardless of sign) aren't really in control of themselves. I think any underdeveloped sign will run wild with their negative and positive traits. Through the years I have learned as an Aquarian not to jump into relationships. That is why we stand off and take time. The Aquarian that moves fast is immature and still figuring out life. The one taking his time is most likely doing so because if he takes the plunge it will be for good. There is a conflict in us (at least me anyway). I have actually stayed in clingy, controlling relationships instead of fleeing because I do not want to hurt someone. However, I do find that I tend to manipulate the situation so the the offending (clinging/restrictive/demanding/controlling) individual breaks it off instead. But believe me I give plenty of chances to correct the situation. But once again, as a 'fence walker' I want the person to correct it out of their own will, and not my influence, so while I would like to communicate, I also don't want to shape the situation to tailor me. Anyone I can bend to my will is not interesting to me anymore. See the complex thought process of the Aquarius? Those who really do damage on purpose or lie are just idiots. They would be that anyway no matter what sign they were. They would just do it in a different way.
Not so confused anymore
by: Anonymous

Hey thanks for your feed back.....We actually bumped in to each other and sorted it out. The truth is he does not admit to being with that girl when he was with me but he said that she was as you said controlling and a clingy person and did not want to let go of him he said they got together again after me and they tried to work things out but he did not feel the same way about her. He said he did not want to tell me because he was embarrist that he had lied and dealt with the situation the way he did. He said he lied and left me alone because he had feelings for me and because I was in a relationship he did not want to get hurt. I am sort of seeing him again he wants me to move in with him but honestly dont think i can trust him after all that has happened. Things between us have gotten a lot better but I think I will pace myself this time as I dont want to get hurt by him once again.....

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