Aquarius man cheated on me

by Lauren Marsh
(Burbank, California)

He cheated me on me once. He says he has to live with the remorse of hurting those he love dearly. He begged and crid for forgiveness. I have a hard time believing him because I feel that the Aquarius man loves comfort and dislikes the new challenges. I feel he is so used to me, might as well come back to me.

However, now he is the jealous one who cannot see me talking to another man. Any thoughts from an aquarius man point of view?

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The Cheater
by: Anonymous

My Aquarius man was just the same. He never stopped cheating. He would cry, tell me that he loved me, that he was sorry, etc. etc. We got married and within 7 months of being married, he saw his ex, had sex with her, and got her pregnant. So, I kicked him out. He still, 5 years later, continues to try to come around and see me. He even asks if I am dating or have a sexual realtionship with someone. I do not think that he can see me with someone else although he is living with someone. So, my advice, just stay away. let him get his life together and then maybe it will work. But if he cheated, he'll cheat again.

Aquarian cheater
by: Anonymous

I went out with an aquarian for 5 years to find out he had been seeing loads of other woman while he was with me. I recently found out he missed someone else out who he forgot to mention. He had unprotected sex with all of these woman putting me at risk without me knowing. He basically lived a double life how he got away with it without none of us knowing beats me. They come across all sweetness and light to begin with. He says he still loves me even tho he has now got one of these girls pregnant cos he used no protection and she lives with him. He wanted to still have a friendship with me. I told him I wanted nothing more to do with him my friendship was too good for him I cannot get over how someonce could do such a thing to someone they claim to love especially as I did nothing wrong to him other than be a good person. The funny thing is I know he doesn't love this girl but he will stand by her cos she is carrying his child. Fool.

Cheating Aquarius Husband
by: Anonymous

My husband is in military we met and fell in love [at least I did] right away. We got married after knowing each other for only six months and every time we would have an argument he would pull "I'm done with it, I'll get my stuff and move out" card on me EVERY TIME. Me being a sensitive person and more mature would had to PHYSICALLY stop him from doing so. A week before he deployed (five months being married to him) he told me he cheated two moths after we got married. He did not feel any remorse what sow ever... In fact I have only heard him say "I'm f***ing sorry, I regret it, I felt bad every single day I had to hold it in" ONCE never did he say anything like "I will never do it again" or ANYTHING of that sort. I found out he was lying to me ALL the time and finally two months into his deployment I found out he sent my [very private pictures] to our mutual guy friends, being fed up with all the BS I told him to f off and that I was divorcing him, to which at first he said ok and now he is totally kissing my A** saying how he can't live without me and all that stuff. All I have learned from this relationship is that AQUARIUS men CANNOT be trusted, they will never change they usually never stay with one partner their whole life. They go wherever the wind drifts them and that is how it is going to be. I am still deciding whether I should wait till he comes back (not for another five months) from his deployment, or just end it right now. In my opinion he will never feel or show ANY remorse to what he did. That's just how he (they are) is...

Aquarian Boyfriend, Aquarian dad, Aquarian brother
by: Anonymous

I've been dating the guy off and on for 4 years. It was mostly long distant but yes, he cheated on me the whole time. Had unprotected sex w/ at least 20 ppl and yeah, now i'm pregnant with his kid. The first 2 years he'd cheat and i'd leave and we were just comPletely out of sync. I kept going back to him or he'd get back in touch with me and we'd try again but we never fit until one year, when i stopped caring. I stopped trying to please him and I was... myself. There was drama, at one point, i thought he was cheating on me w/ this girl he was living w/ but i met her & she's more into me than him, if you know what i mean, so it worked out. Anyway, we were extremely happy. we had this connection that went deep, like ESP, sensing certain things about each other deep. Anyway, at some point, I got mad at him and to get revenge, would cheat, and then I got madder and started Telling him i was cheating. I wanted to make him jealous and this was my fault completely, but he started cheating on me again. And now he won't stop b/c he's scared I'll hurt him again. They aren't the forgive and forget type.

I'm under the impression that they cheat out of fear & b/c they need a challenge. I think they hate easy love. It bores them. From having a father, brother, and boyfriend, who are all aquarians, I can say with experience to back me up that they absolUtely LOVE challenges. My dad didn't cheat on my mom but he'd always overwhelm himself with things, he was in college and at work half of my life and now he's remarried to a woman w/ 3 kids, and a brother who all live w/ him now. He goes to work, college, and they're having a baby. He's Never been happier. So if you can keep your Aquarian loved and challenged intellectually, and physically, i don't think he'll cheat. thing is, that's a Lot of work. So just stay yourself be on guard at all times and if he can't love you as you are and stop the cheating, then let him go. Mind you, however, not All aquarians are bad. My dad's one of the best. He has many faults but his days of cheating are looong gone. Gotta give em time to grow up.

Heelp!is my Aquarius man cheating on me?Virgo women
by: queen

Me& my Aquarius man have been together for 3months he's sweet kind treats me like a queen& has always had my back to the fullest I work so I was paying both our phone bills he hates asking me for things so he doesn't because he very independent and I always respect that but I havnt been getting as much hours at work to pay our phone bill so now our phones are off..he jus started working 2 weeks ago and befor the phones went off We talked everyday now that the phones are off he hasn't contacted me in 7days I'm starting to get concerned because We don't live together @ the momment but he would always hit me up on Facebook befor he had a phone I need to know what do do about the situation for this whole week I been Stressin and not knowing how to fill or what do do can anyone please help or give me advice it would be really appreciated please and thankyou..I AM A VIRGO WOMEN HEEEEEEELP!

aquarian man suck... trust me
by: Anonymous

they jus dont care bout how the opposite person is feelin... they are detached... its jus games over games... its the moment they are with u that they utilise more and cast their charm... once they gone they are gone n u need to cry inflict self pain missin them... it takes lottssa time to believe that they are players coz it naturally runs in them... stay away dont fall for them... they not worth it.. its the last sign meant for a relation...

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