Aquarius men are so distant

I am in a relationship/friendship with an Aquarius guy and everything that I've read is so true. They are very distant and go thru periods of saying loving things and wanting to have sex and then all of a sudden no calls or nothing for a few days. I'm ok with that as long as I can believe that he's missing me and thinking about me as I am him. I too want to talk to him everyday but I try to respect his space as I want my space respected. Is it true that if they like you then they will spend time with you? I'm always so afraid of doing the wrong thing or saying the wrong thing because my Aquarius man has been hurt real bad in the past, I mean real bad and I don't know if he will ever be able to love again. I feel like I'm always being tested and compared and as soon as something goes wrong the first response is I can't go back there. I'm not out to hurt him at all, I just want to love him but I'm afraid that the other person has taken all that he has and that he will never love again. Therefore, that leaves me with the question of who am I and why is he spending time with me at all? I'm so confused I don't know what to do. I try to have patience and I've kept my tongue a lot of times from things I really want to say. Also he seems to always give such direct non-compassionate answers to my concerns but I don't do that to him so does it mean he really doesn't care what's going on with me? please help me keep my friend

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Aquarius men are so distant
by: Anonymous

Honey I feel your pain but you have to have a bit more confidence in what your doing not saying your doing anything wrong but you have to believe your worth staying with and working whatever out , these men bounce back from anything y u think you're with him now? don't keep worried about things you don't have control over I'm telling you , you will drive yourself crazy . if anything just b cool and let things fall in place they are very distance people but they are also simple people they are very sexual romantic candles it might not seem that way but they are , they love very deeply but he may not show it yet keep being patient with him , and last but not least stay calm they don't like there backs against walls as we don't either, so don't question him jus ask questions hope everything works out stay blessed!
Disappearing
by: Coyote

We have random thoughts about you, how you're doing, what you're up to, and if something in a recent conversation sounds a little off to us, our brilliant intellectual mind leads us down the wrong path. I have done this frequently, where i have periods that i just don't want to talk to whatever girl i'm interested in because of something in a convo that just put me off, and my thoughts led me down the complete wrong path. We may seem distant but our emotions are generally running rampant and we put them in check in public or in front of people that we don't think needs to know what we're feeling. The only time my closest friends have seen me be emotional was after my mother tried to take me to court, and the smile after sex with a girl that i really like. We think about what you might have done and with who, as we are jealous and need constant reassurance, and we tend to be the kind of people that wrap you around our fingers, or at least i am. It's easy for us to warp your mind, as we honestly seem very interesting to all sorts of different people, and although we don't try to eventually it becomes about us. The best thing for that is to comfort us but never make it ABOUT us. Only the very self-conscious Aquarians such as myself can keep that ability in check.
MY AQUARIUS ABUSED ME I HADTO GET OUT
by: SUNSHINE

After reading your experiences with your aquarian/friend relationship I had to respond. When you mentioned that he says let's not go there because of his past hurt from a relationship I almost imagined you talking about my ex-husband aquarius. You see I really loved my husband until he decided to cheat and lie in our relationship and I still wanted to forgive and save our marriage. But he manipulated and made everyone believe it was my fault, and he was successful at it too. He was very cruel and ugly to me, my safety and even my things from my deceased mother. He took and kept everything we shared and even though I worked throughout 14 yrs I had and did nothing.Once he manipulated what he wanted he was done period. Don't believe what you hear from some people My experience from this aquarius was every ugly,bad,evil he did to me he mirrored it to family and friends like a victim when indeed he was the purpotrator. Be careful I did not realize it and he destroyed relations in my life...faithful-I do not believe aquarius knows this importance and a commitment to one..Good luck

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