Aquarius Virgo

Aquarius Virgo Compatibility

Aquarius Virgo is often a great friendship, but often a hard combination to make work as lovers.

Compatibility	2
Sexual chemistry	2
Communication	3

(All scores range from 1=low to 5=high)

Note, this article is written from the viewpoint of the Aquarius man or Aquarius woman. There is a separate article from the viewpoint of the Virgo man or Virgo woman available here Virgo and Aquarius

You're both very intellectual and excellent communicators, and you'll always have something to say and debate about. The mental side of this relationship is likely to be superb. So good, that in some ways it's really more suited to a friendship than a sexual relationship in the long term.

Your mental styles are very different, yet both very powerful and you will likely come to admire each others strengths in this area. You enjoy concepts and ideas, while your partner is highly detail orientated, often with a fantastic memory. This can make a great partnership of your imagination coupled with your partners practicality.

You may find this partner somewhat pessimistic at times, and perhaps overly obsessed with routine and tradition, often doing things for no better reason than because 'that's the way I've always done it'. Similarly they may find you highly chaotic and disorganized, and may not appreciate that's often quite deliberate. You could keep each other very busy in this respect!

You'll like this partners 'straight to the point' approach to life, while they'll appreciate your gift for understanding (and creating) exciting ideas. While you like to keep your mind clear of details, this is a partner with an often encyclopedic memory. In this repsect you have both the big picture and the details covered.

Neither of you want to rush into a commitment, and in this respect you're on the same page, both comfortable with giving the relationship time to develop first. You're somewhat detached intellectually, while your Virgo tends to be detached emotionally. This is another area where you 'agree' but for different reasons.

Money probably won't be an issue here. This is a partner who can be fairly frugal, always preferring to gather long term security rather spend on temporary pleasures. While you aren't quite as self disciplined in this area you're not careless with money either. Your Virgo may be a lot more obsessive about balancing their check book. Ask nicely and they'll be happy to do yours too…

This is a fairly flexible partner, who is often comfortable with you taking the lead and having your way. In this respect they're an almost perfect partner for you on a day to day practical level, moping up all the details which you prefer not to clutter your mind with.

Aquarius Virgo sex

Planning sex for next Tuesday at 7pm, and discussing how to make it better is certainly an efficient approach on paper, however in practice one or both of you really needs to 'let go' in order to get the most out of it. You're likely to be the more adventurous partner here, so lead the way! You're more likely to get bored before your partner does, and if that happens, mix it up and keep your partner guessing - you have the ability to do so, and can reverse this vicious circle. Corrupt your reserved Virgo a little!

So is this article conclusive?

No! This article is based only on sun sign interaction. In order to provide a lot of people with information it's a convenient and fast way to generalize, but it's far from conclusive at this broad level.

To get a complete picture we need to take all the other planets and their interactions into account. If you would like more information for your unique relationship please see the astrology compatibility reports page.

Other resources

Often the hardest questions to ask are the most important - for example, what are their views and expectations for raising children? sharing housework? saving money? career goals? etc.

One subtle and fun way to approach this is by working through a couples question book together - that way it's not really you asking, and delicate subjects can be covered easily. The best book for this I've found is Michael Webb's 1000 Questions For Couples

For reviews of this and other relationship ebooks on subjects ranging from improving your sex life to getting an ex back please see the relationship ebook reviews page.

A third method of further research is to share experiences with other couples of this same sign combination - you may be amazed how consistent they often are. Please see the links below for visitor experiences and questions.

In any relationship there are also very significant external factors. One of these is how well you understand yourself, your partner and your partnership - the more you do, the easier it is to make the relationship more exciting, fulfilling and satisfying for both of you, regardless of your starting position. The articles on how to Make him fall in love with you and Make her fall in love with you have information on how you can use astrology to revitalize a relationship.

Aquarius man and Virgo woman

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Aquarius woman and Virgo man

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Learn more about Virgo men on our Virgo man page.

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