Are Taurus men loyal?

by Fong
(Atlanta, GA, USA)

A saw a lot of comments about Taurus being players? One good example is George Clooney?

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Are Taurus men loyal?

edited my post
by: Fong

My question is how do I know if he is into me? How do I know if he is a player or not.

I dated a taurus guy before and it didn't seem he took too long to decide if they want to leave the relationship even tho he liked me very very much in the beginning. Now I am kind of scare of dating this taurus guy because of that. I am a leo girl and I know leo and taurus is supposed to be hard in the beginning. However, it wasn't hard for me with my ex taurus nor this taurus .. seems like they both like me from the first sight.

Dating and relationship is so hard... don't want to get hurt but.. you won't know until you try... sigh! Need some advice here please.

The REAL side of Taurus Men!
by: Aphrodite Bull

Taurus men are actually the MOST conservative men in the zodiac. Seriously. Do not let the 'playboy image' or outgoing personality fool you. This man is very shy and introverted. This means do not expect any verbal communication of Shakespeare sonnets to transmit to you. He is silent, observant, and very protective of himself. Because Tauruses set high ethical standards, they're under the impression that the entire world is dishonest...but them. Which is why he thinks he is ALWAYS right and knows the most! He will keep you at arms length because of this. But this is just the slow initial stage. When he is not with you or calling you, he's doing his homework, which includes gathering info about you. You may see him at a location, and he may just merely say 'hi' and nothing else. This will leave you baffled. But the entire time he's watching you when he thinks you're not looking. He's observing how you interact with other people...and carry yourself. Loud, vulgar, disrespectful, and cheap women turn him off. Also, this man has a jealous streak. The thought of you flirting with another man will drive him nuts. In his presence, avoid this at all costs!

Persistence and patience are the two key factors to attract a Taurus man. This man will have no problem holding your interest. Although he is shy and introverted, he carries a strong silent confidence. His magic? Working you with his sensual kisses, spoiling you, making you feel as if you're the most important person in the world, and then...DISAPPEARING for a couple of days....

He's not playing games with you. Tauruses are 'old mature souls' and beyond game playing. He's assessing you. But he needs a break from you to do so. Pick and choose your words wisely. Avoid being pretentious. He can spot a phony with his eyes closed. He has an impressive memory, and is perceptive to bullsh$t. So if you're someone who lies or manipulates, the two of you won't last very long.

How to keep a Taurus interested? Taurus is ruled by Venus. I hate to admit it, but you're dealing with a vain man. Be very attractive, and take personal pride in your appearance. Be a great cook. This Taurus LOVES to eat! Suggest art shows, jazz concerts, wine tastings, but couple them up with sports, beer, and buffalo wings! An all-nighter sex romp would be a definite bonus.

What isn't said to you will be shown through romantic gestures and plenty of affection. Why? Because he wants to be with you, and no one else. If he feels that you're whining about non-verbal emotional communication, then he will sense you're either insecure or a pain in the @ss! His response "I'm here aint I?"

If your man is a Taurus, consider yourself LUCKY! He is very dogmatic,quick temepered, non-communicative, stubborn, and at times can come across as a sarcastic @sshole, but keep in mind, he's got your back, and there is nothing in this world that he wouldn't do for you!

BTW, I am a Taurus woman. My brother is also a Taurus.

Thx Aphrodite Bull
by: Fong

Thanks for the detail explantation. That makes me feel better. I also talked to him about not returning my phone call at night. He reasurre me that he is not a player. Hope he is a honest person.

I hope you are right also. We will see.

=D

shall i stay or shall i go
by: pisces woman

He's my first Taurus man and how true what's been said here. Almost no communications - very few text, phone calls, email and no instant messaging even if he shows avb in Gtalk.

When we do see each other, the feeling's strong. Unlike most men, he doesn't bullshit. I love his dark humour and am attracted to his almost gloomy view of life. He's romantic, affectionate, and we share some most sweet intimate moments.

The downside.. He lied about the divorce. At the beginning he told me he was divorced for one year and later admitted that it was only a bit more than one month when we first met.

I start to wonder if I'm just here to bridge thru a difficult time - and equally bad, is he trust-worthy? (he cheated on his wife which finally led to the divorce)

He sorta apologized for appearing to be cold or distant. Since his ex-wife's been thinking moving back to their original country with the kids, whom he can't live without, he might not be here for too long.

I should probably leave it all behind but I know I wouldn't be able to say no if he asks me out.

am i doomed? :(

shall i stay or shall i go
by: fong

Sound likes yours lied to you in the beginning already and he cheated on his ex-wife? hm... for me once a cheater, always a cheater, and you found out he lied? Why stay? I am sure you can find someone better than a liar right?

For my case, he does call me or message me once every 2 days if I don't communicate with him. The problem I still have is I feel kind of distance from him since I am leo girl, I do need alot of attention. Not sure if it will last but I am trying not to whin about he will disappear or 1 or 2 days.

I also read about Taurus, you have to let him chase you. If he knows that he aleady has you then you are doomed! I think I am partially doomeed LOL... when I am with him, ya, he makes me feel like I am the most important person in the world, pay all the attention to me. However, that also making me feel like that sounds like a player... have found anything to proof it tho. Hate that feeling, the insecure feeling.

Dating is hard!
:(

The Real Deal about Taurus
by: Brama Bull

I am a taurus man and I have been married for almost nine years. I am on the verge of a divorce myself. I can understand what everyone is saying when they say that a taurus man is more likely to stay in a bad marriage and cheat vs. breaking it off and starting new. Its a very very hard thing for me to imagine leaving someone that at one point I pledged my heart to Especially when we have two kids ourselves. The one these other people are not saying is that when a taurus has made his mind up and is set on his next move there is not an army in the world that can change it. Granted I have been thinking about this decisoion for over a year now but that is only because at the very least for the sake of love a taurus man will do everything in his power to make it work like i have but when he reaching the breaking point and his heart is closed for business it is almost impossible to reopen it.
Now as far as the taurus men who string girls along I can understand that because i have done that myself but what most women dont understand is that if you can take it extremely slow with an unhappily married man and get him to fall in love with you then you have achieved to first step in getting him. Then all you have to do is be patient. but if you end up giving up the booty to early or start nagging him about leaving then he take a step back and consider you a booty call. Sad i know but the truth is no taurus man likes change but if he is compelled by love he has have for another women then there is no stopping him. Trust me i know b/c i am currently in love with a virgo(a more compatible sign i might add) who i have known for 5 years. She sophisticated and classy. We have always stayed plutonic but there has always been undeniable energy between us. The more that i am around her the more i realize that she is the one for me. If we crossed the line in the past then I know that it would have ended in a broken heart for her. I'm older now and the one thing i refuse to be is unhappy no matter what situation i am comfortable in. I love my wife but i haven't been in love her for quite some time. I am like LL CooL J and "I need love" and i think found the women that can give it to me in a way that sustains me. For most taurus men they get married at an early age to disastrous results. Its usually after that do they truly find what they want. Another factor that plays into you women getting heartbroken is the maturity of the man that you are with. If the man isnt really mature than chances are he will dissapoint you. Taurus men have wonderful natural qualities but it depends on the person. Lets not forget Hitler. Naturally So if you find yourself in a situation as the other women and the taurus man you seek is worth it then be prepared to wait and make him fall in love with you. A well played seduction will capture any taurus mans heart. Being sensual beings we are susceptive to seduction. We actually would love it.

The Real Deal about Taurus
by: Doomed

Brama Bull,

What do you mean "but if you end up giving up the booty to early "? So if you stop having sex with him then he will probably end the relationship?

Since Taurus men don't tell too much about his feeling to others, how do I know if he is after only booty call? or if he is really falls in love with me?

I kind of feel like he is taking a step back but I am not so sure. He still want to do things together on my date off. The last time I spent a night in his house, we didn't have sex. He still want to spend time with me on my day off. Does it sound like he is taking a step back or something else?

I have read that Taurus men likes to chase. Maybe he treated me like this because he knows I am already doomed? What step can I take to go back the he chasing me stage? haha.. please help.

to the married taurus player
by: Anonymous

that taurus man is talking bull, he sounds like a player... these men talk about love, but if they really loved anyone they would not start new relationships , whilst they are married.. if your unhappy in your marriage why should a woman wait on you, waiting on a married man to make is mind up is a mugs game, he is using you matter what star sign he his

To Anonymous who called Taurus a player
by: Aphrodite Bull

He speaks the truth. Why would he choose to lie on a forum? Tauruses are possessive by nature and DO have a difficult time letting go. This is why we tend to be overly-cautious when choosing a mate. But being stubborn natural bulls, if we're miserable to the point of no return, not even an army will be able to sway our decision. His marriage is pretty much over! Trust me, he will end it. If you evaluated his genuine appreciation and respect for his female Virgo, then you would know this man was NOT a player.

The 'Taurus Players' who play the field {when they're single} do it for the sole purpose of preventing themselves for being placed in sticky situations like this. This is why we over-assess every one we come in contact with. Our stubborn and resilient nature prevents us from letting go and admitting we made a mistake. But once a decision is made, it can NEVER be reversed. He's on his way out of his marriage. POINT BLANK!

what makes a taurus stray?
by: Anonymous

I thought I was in a good relationship with my taurus partner of over two years. We have had some moments when he thought I was flaky but overall the relationship has been stable and solid with good sex and both beening there for each other. We had a seemingly good relationship..but then I found out that he cheated on me with someone that I thought was a business associate turned out that she had been an old girlfriend. The month of him acting different he did let me know that he did not think I wanted him..I had been preoccupied with a lot of family and work related issues that had me very stressed. He was also dealing with stuff, but we were working thur our differences.. How did someone so loyal who said that he would walk away before he would cheat on me..ended up cheating. I am a gemini and I think now I must have been sending him wrong messages..but all seemed good and loving..I was really blindsided by this event. The breakup has been tough..kids involved. He wanted to talk but I said for what? Now I wish we had communicated better. Your thoughts on what may have led to this out of relationship affair. Is there any hope of working out our relationship?

reply to what makes a Taurus stray
by: Anonymous

I am a Gemini Woman dating a Taurus Man. We are only 5 months into our relationship. I would have to say that you already know what made him stray. Men are men and need your love and attention, I have had moments that I am stressed about family, and work. I get distracted easily and he is so patient with me but I know deep down I need to work on this to keep him happy and I NEVER take him for granted. That is probably where you went wrong. Love always needs to be constantly tended to or it will fade. It takes work! I love my Taurus man so so much, he is wonderful, so loyal, would do absolutely anything for me, showers me with attention, loves to cuddle, he is thoughtful, and most of all I trust him unconditionally. I am realistic though, if I were to start neglecting him, he would disappear eventually, its human nature. You have to appreciate what you have every day, that is my advice, no matter how you feel, always take time to let him know how great he is and he will do anything for you...

will i fall in love with him
by: what should i do nextwill

I met this taurus man about 4 months ago. When I was around him something deep inside me was pulling me 2 this man I'm a pisces woman I told him how he made me feel. Of cours he said I had a strong sprit also. Well I asked him out 2 eat but when its said give them a few days 2 think about it that's true cuz the first try was a no but when I asked 5 days b4 that day he said yes. So lunch was at my house. Wow I had it all planed cuz I think I want this man. Well I cooked a good meal n we both enjoyed it well back 2 when he can n my frount door I asked 2 hang up his coat. He asked me. You didn't give me a kiss when I came n I was unsure but I did n I made it quick cuz I'm goin 2 get this man I think. I let him smell a lot of oils I own n how I mix them up for many things like body rubs. He had a good time n told me next meal is on him when I have him over again. (Not sure y he said that ) I also told him I'm not rushing into sex cuz I want him I don't want him 2 think I'm a booty call he said he is n for more than sex so I'm not sure if he is truful with the thingshe say

Tauras are confusing...
by: Anonymous

,well, I have been around a number of tauras men as well as females... one thing stands out over and over again,they just say it like it is. It can be rude and down right disrespectful and they think nothing of it. I don't think they think their being rude, they just don't care at that given moment. I'll give you a piece of advice, stand up to them. Don't yell, scream and insult. Say with a solid firm voice your point and give them examples and they will listen. It might take them three days to come around, but they will. They like to banter and get off on regular intence conversations. One tauras male once told me, "I can control anything", I laughed. Seriously, if you think that, your life will be living hell. To CONTROL: is the ability to purposefully direct, or suppress, change. Well, to suppress is exactly what tauras people do, they turn you off. Like in relationships, if it's their idea and they want it the relationship, it will run 100% smoothly. If on the other hand they decide your being to clingy or controlling... clip, the cord is cut. They can master their own universe by trying to control, but a confident independent thinking man or women will challenge them and that is exactly what they want. Yes, fly paper attracts flies but why would anything so easy be attractive? As for loyal, i think that is something gained by how much trust is given. TRUST: reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence. 2. confident expectation of something; hope. 3. confidence in ... so, when it comes to relationships if you truly think of EQUALITY: It refers to the belief that all/some people ought to be treated equally. Well, That will make the best partner for a tauras...

My Taurus NEW
by: Anonymous

To: Brama Bull

I love your post.... I would love to have an email conversation with you. I am a pieces female - and very same story. I would love to share with you - I don't want to wait forever for nothing - but I know he loves me deep.

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