Astrology and Soulmates

Finding your soulmate

As a full time relationship astrologer I get to see soulmates fairly regularly. Even with a huge client base however my sample size for soulmates is fairly small compared to regular couples, so my research in this area is far from complete. Several common patterns have however been identified to help answer the question...

What is a soulmate?

  1. Very high compatibility scores
    Typically these are between 2 to 4 times higher than average couples in my compatibility readings scoring system.

  2. The gift of irrelevancy
    Everything outside of the relationship becomes less important to the couple and even severe problems and obstacles become irrelevant to their happiness.

  3. Opposite viewpoints.
    A fascinating element of the relationship, opinions are often shared yet the logic used to arrive at them is often literally opposite.

  4. Acting out of character
    Typically a soulmate brings out a different side of you than previous partners have. Recurring themes include being more nurturing and selfless than in prior relationships. Soulmates seem to always bring out the best in each other (especially apparent if they have a history of destructive relationships prior).

  5. A sense of wasted time with previous partners
    It's common that when soulmates compare their current happiness and dedication to that of previous relationships they're fairly horrified at how unhappy and dissatisfied they were.

  6. It's scary!
    The word "love" is very over-used in modern society. Typically it implies fondness or tolerance. True love however is scary. The more you love someone the more they can hurt you, and it's quite normal to feel a level of fear when you truly love someone.

  7. Am I good enough?
    It's quite normal for each partner to feel they aren't quite worthy of their partner. This isn't insecurity but it's a similar concept. There's also a subtle feeling that they make you a better person. (I've never found soulmates in a destructive relationship)

  8. Trust
    There's an abnormally high level of trust. You can't truly love someone unless you implicitly trust them. They just hold too much power over you to "let go" beyond a certain point without trust (destructive behaviour and 'relationship sabotage' often derives from a lack of trust, perhaps for this reason)

How can astrology help identify your soulmate?

It's often assumed that the best relationships involve people who are substantially identical with similar temperaments etc. The reality however is that the best relationships involve people who are identical in some areas, but opposite in others. The logical grouping of personality traits used in astrology provides an ideal framework to identify, measure and predict this phenomenon.

Soulmate astrology readings

I specialize in compatibility readings delivered via email. These include a structured analysis designed to identify and highlight soulmates. I score 8 key areas of the relationship for soulmate potential and compare to averages. Finding your soulmate is of course rare, but this system makes it immediately apparent, even if you have only recently started dating.

Goals of this reading

This reading first explores your unique personality and your partners, and then moves on to examine your relationship together in areas ranging from sexual attraction to problem solving. Each topic has clear explanations, scores and comparisons to averages. The relevant astrological charts are included, together with notes of how the information is derived from them.

Understand your relationship

In this section we examine everything about the relationship and how well you mesh together in different areas. We look at both the rough and the smooth edges of your interaction and include scores to highlight the strong and weak areas compared to averages.

Understand yourself

Unless you understand yourself it's much harder to know what you want and need from a partner, and it's much harder to recognize the right partner when you find them. This section explores everything about you and your unique personality.

Understand your partner

Similar to the section on you, though typically with a lot more surprises! What needs must be met in order for your partner to be emotionally fulfilled? What layers of their personality do you need to understand in order to deeply and passionately connect with them?

  • How do they view you?
  • How do they view your relationship?
  • What are their values?
  • What are they motivated by?
  • What do they find most attractive in a partner?

Be more attractive to your partner

You'll be given a lot of information about your partner which you can use to communicate with them on a deeper level, or to showcase the traits which make you more attractive to them.

Ordering information

How to obtain your reading today

This unique compatibility reading is available exclusively from this website. Delivery is via email. The reading is in PDF format and is designed to be easily printed. The complete 100 page reading is $27 and includes free email questions and free revision if you later find more accurate birth information.

All the analysis is based off of the date, time and location of birth for you and your partner. Ideally the times should be as accurate as possible, but we can work with the best information you have.

Below is a questionnaire which shows the information we will need:

Your first name
Your date of birth
(please spell the month
eg May 4th 1970)
Your time of birth
This time is in the
AM (Morning)
PM (Afternoon/Evening)
My time of birth is
Close, but maybe an hour off
Within a few hours either side
No idea, so I used noon
Location of birth - Town
State / county / region

Your Partners first name
Partners date of birth(please spell the month
eg May 4th 1970)
Partners time of birth
This time is in the
AM (Morning)
PM (Afternoon/Evening)
Partners time of birth is
Close, but maybe an hour off
Within a few hours either side
No idea, so I used noon
Partners town of birth
State / county / region

E-mail Address*
* for delivery of the reading. We never sell or share your email address and never send email advertising

Life can be infinitely more enjoyable with the right partner

Frequently asked questions

How long does it take to get my reading?

All readings are delivered via email. I promise delivery within 24 hours. The average time is under 6 hours if ordered during US business hours.

Do I need to know my precise birth time?

All the analysis is based off of the date, time and location of birth. Ideally those details should be as accurate as possible, but I can work with the best information you have. I offer free revisions to improve accuracy if you find a more precise birth time or location later.

Do you offer a guarantee?

Yes. A very high percentage of my business comes from repeat customers and personal referrals, so ensuring every customer is satisfied is a high priority. All my work has a 60 day 100% money back guarantee if you're not totally satisfied.

Do you offer instant delivery?

No. Only automated systems can produce reports instantly. Those aren't nearly as accurate as professional astrology tools due to various corners which must be cut during the automation process. They also can't answer questions or tailor advice to your unique situation.

Why isn't this free?

Many astrology websites now advertise free astrology reports. The free report is generic text with an invitation to buy an expensive automated report. It's a bait and switch sales trick. If you buy the report you'll be offered another and another, until that "free" report has cost several hundred dollars.

About me

My name's David, and I'm a professional relationship astrologer. Since 1993 I've written over 3,000 articles on relationship astrology. My clients include psychologists, relationship counselors, and several of the worlds largest dating services. You can read more about me here.

No hidden costs or additional reports to buy

It's common for online astrology reports to be just a few pages long and include an "upgrade" offer for additional reports. This upselling process can cost hundreds of dollars for a complete reading.

I never charge for additional reports. I offer a complete relationship reading which includes all the astrological information for your relationship. There's no need to compare features or buy multiple reports from me, as I never hold information back to sell you additional reports later. Due to this complete coverage my readings have a wide variety of uses.

Other uses of this reading:

Soulmates - Is he or she the one?

It's exciting and new, but that little voice is asking if this will be another dead end relationship? You don't need to wait months or years to find out. My structured analysis can show you today whether he or she is your soulmate.


Astrology has no magic tricks to make someone fall in love with you. However, by understanding someone, how they view things, what their goals and motivations are it's very easy to make yourself more attractive to them by highlighting what they want to see, early and often.

Online relationships

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Considering an affair

You met someone, and for the first time in years you feel alive! An unbiased and anonymous analysis can often do what your friends can't... help determine what's right for you.

Relationship help and advice

Each package includes my personal email address if you have questions or want additional help. I have 17 years experience of solving real problems for real couples. Information and understanding is the first step. The unique format and features of my packages help solve real problems for real people every day.

Learning about someone you recently met

Life can be infinitely more enjoyable and satisfying with the right partner. The single biggest factor in obtaining that happiness is not wasting years of your life on dead end relationships, and not settling for second best. True love does exist. Astrology isn't required to find it, however it's the most powerful tool I've found to predict it far in advance.

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