Cancer man Gemini woman

You're heading for Whiplash with this one!!! I'm a Gemini woman & my Cancer man who I been with on/off for 4 years is the most difficult guy I have ever dated.

At times he seems ice cold, uninterested, secretive & borderline arrogant. When it's bad it's bad, weeks without speaking and they say Gemini have multiple personalities, but when it's good, WOW he's amazing, always makes me smile, fiercely loyal and has a knack of making me feel like I'm the only woman in the world. Sensitive, passionate & I love his emotional side when he shows it.

He Is never disrespectful or abusive, he'd rather walk away than argue, which drives me nuts. Our issue is communication, neither wear our hearts on our sleeves BUT I do know I'll love him forever cause he is the most special and amazing guy I have ever known.

I am a Gemini gal that has been dating a Cancer guy for a year and a half now. In the first 3 months, it was all sugary sweet... but then it started to be all stormy.

He seemed to like to release his anger on me regardless of the reasons. Then, after a year of an on-off relationship, things began to stabilize. He treats me better though there are no more sugar coated words like in the first 3 months. But one thing never change.... he doesn't trust me enough ... I always caught him checking my phone and all (and I thought I'll be doing this... haha) ....with him I felt like I was the man instead because most of the time, it is him who nags...

Cancer and Gemini sounds like a very interesting combination.

I am a Gemini woman who met and fell head over heels with a sensitive, caring and sensual Cancer guy. He was perfect! None of my previous boyfriends could measure up to him in terms of how caring and sensitive he was to me, how he tried to please me all the time and how he always made time for me. However, he was extremely emotional and clingy, texting and calling me ALL the time, endless emails, etc. Initially, it was so sweet and romantic and I couldn't bear to be apart from him.

After a few months of intense attention (and I mean 24/7!), I found it a bit smothering esp when he showed his jealous and controlling side - not to mention his fluctuating moods! Things are getting a bit bad now that my job demands are increasing (he does free-lance work) and I cannot afford to spend time doing nothing but cuddle in bed with him - which he is interpreting as my rejection of him. Gemini gals love to be in love and be swept of their feet but after a while we want to get back on our feet to live our lives as we see fit. Trust is another area where Cancer guys lack. In fact, my previous Scorpio BF gave me more freedom - and they're supposed to be the suspicious type. So, in conclusion, Cancer men make caring lovers but after the romantic dust has settled, us Gemini's will find them too suffocating and we need to move on.

I am a Gemini woman who's been on and off with my Cancer man for 4 years...everything in the beginning was wonderful he was the sweetest man ever I thought I had found " the one " .... It was a text book guy who I thought had been sent to me as a blessing...booooyyy he turned out to be a learning lesson...extremely moody one day he had me rolling in the floor from laughter literally less than 24 hours he's pouting biting his nails like he's beyond stressed barking at ur every what's wrong...now im a Gemini this man has me beat with the dual personalities...we have a child together that's the only thing that keeps me from completely cutting off communication...worst relationship ever...when its good its aite when its bad its HELL

As a Gemini woman who is currently dating a Cancer man I can identify with some of the experiences here. My Cancer man is a doting, attentive, romantic type who was like heaven-sent for me.

However, his possessive, clingy and moody behavior is really trying my patience. I really, really love him and he treats me like a queen. I don't think I have ever met a person who cares for me as much as he does but so far, I have had to sacrifice my social activities, some old pals and soon, my mom too if he keeps up with his insecurities.

I am bending over backwards to accommodate his feelings and occasionally I'm asking myself if it's all worth it. His lack of confidence and self-esteem, which originally was sweet, is getting to be a bit tiresome and I'm not sure if us Gemini's have the emotional depth to handle this in the long run. Would appreciate advice whether I should hang on or let go?...

yeah I guess it's like that with all Gemini women I'm pretty much the same with my boyfriend but we are still a young couple so to speak we have been dating for 2 months now and it is great don't get me wrong but he is a bit jealous for now I don't mind cause I'm so in love LOL but in time I know I'll get pissed ff and probably hurt him with out meaning to and we will breach up but who cares we are having fun now and hat's all that matters

If you feel these things from the beginning run and run far away, because once Cancer has you in there claws you are nothing but a play toy to them, putting up with the mood swings, the insecurities is not worth it when there are many other people out there you can be compatible with. Easier said then done I know that is why you should listen to your instincts, I also thought this was the one, then to find out his rage and insecure paranoid secretive behavior was a constant cycle wearing on me day in and out. I think this one is better left a one night stand and maybe you will hurt him but move on and forget about it or you will be dealing with it for a while, there is no short affair with Cancer male or female.

wow I've known a Cancer male for about a year now, I am Gemini, he has all the characteristics that you guys wrote about, he is very sensitive, extremely moody and yet very loving and caring very sweet, I have fallen for this guy hard. I have known him for a year and he just told me that he likes me and I am special it took him a year to tell me that and he is never direct always asking questions around never direct, and sometimes he seems so cold and rude he barely talks to me, and after 5 min, he will come and talk to me like nothing was wrong, he is very private never talks about his personal life. I am very confused though I don't know if he likes me and he is very protective of me for sure which he says he does, but he talks to every girl he seems flirty and I don't trust him that much, I am very confused and I really care about this guy, does anybody have any experience does he really like or is he playing me any advice would help.

Cancer guys really have a way with words. They are charming creatures and mine wooed me with incessant text messages, emails and phone calls. I was literally swept of my feet! He was kind, thoughtful and knew how to say the right things every time. He was my Mr. Perfect! With time, the mood swings, insecure and controlling traits emerged. I found that I was always trying to defend his behavior to my friends and to myself. Infact, I gave up on many friends to appease his insecurities. His constant need for reassurance and demands for my time caused detriment to my job performance. In the end, after the passion had died down and the sex wasn't that exciting anymore, I saw that this relationship was toxic to me and moved on. It hurt terribly because underneath it all, he was a decent guy. In conclusion, Gemini's need someone adaptable and who understands their nature. We cannot feel trapped or controlled - it will kill us.

Hi Im a Cancer guy and dated a Gemini woman, I knew my insecurities would be the biggest obstacle from my side, and so I fought my jealous nature and trusted her wholly (im a Gemini rising so I understand the need for freedom)

In the end she cheated on me with several guys... Ouch

All I can say is open, honest communication from Gemini and trust from Cancer is needed for this combination to work!

I'm currently back on a relationship with my on-off boyfriend of almost 2 years. He's caring, thoughtful, but a tough guy because he doesn't like to lose. With our relationship, I'm the insecure Gemini and he's the strong-minded Cancer. We drive each other pretty crazy after a while but somehow we find each others need to care for one another to help us patch up the holes. As a Gemini woman, Cancer men are unique and we come from different worlds but we both have a lot to learn from one another and I've learned a lot of patience! =]

omgggg all the things said about Cancer man - Gemini women are 100% true! I myself have personally experienced this relationship and still trying to find a way out. I was in love with a Cancer man one year younger than me and we both are in high school. At first of the relationship I was still my carefree crazy and social self. Then he came along and swept me off my feet with the emotional and sensitive behavior as well as caring attitude and words. God I swear I have never felt anything like that before. I was instantly attracted to him even though I had many other guys of different horoscope (I checked!) going after me. but as our relationship began, all the personalities of a Cancer surfaced with the controlling and insecurities. It drove me super nuts and I kept asking myself, is it worth it? Am I making the right choice?

But once our relationship started, every time I wanted to end it or breakup, he would come pulling me back to him with his sensitive yet lovely charm. I failed sooo many times to end things because every time we do, I will think back of him then in the end get back together. In the end after 8 months I got sooo tired of everything but our relationship got better. However I am not willing to jeopardize my social life any longer for his sense of insecurity, so I am pushing myself now to let go of him once and for all. But my heart hurts soo much and seeing him makes me wanna hug him and pulls me to him. God, on advice Gemini’s: never go with a Cancer or sufferrrrr!

yes I’ve started to date a Cancer male god! He’s hard work I’m a Gemini female one minute he wants a relationship with me the next he goes cold on me cant understand why sometimes I want to scream at him I’m starting to like him but then I think relationships shouldn’t be hard work should there! someone help me out what do I do with this Cancer male cant work him out!!

Well I had no choice but to tell my Cancer male to get lost. Being a Gemini female ive got 2 different personalities. He's got about 8, I had enough. Going back to my fiery Aries men they make me tick unlike a Cancer male haven't got time to work them out life is too short!!

hahahahahahha this has been the most informative and freakishly accurate string of comments ever! I find it funny how so many of us Gemini women who have an affair with a Cancer male have had it on and off. ive been on and off with my Cancer male for 4 years... AND IM ONLY 18!! the truth is, Gemini girls, if a Cancer man is in your heart, Oh boy, is it hard to let go indefinitely.

us gem gals are used to affection and attention from men of all astrological influences so we tend to become complacent and believe we are not the vulnerable ones, but when Cancer man comes along, he's got us fooled, and not many men can do that. he is a charmer because there is something sweet whilst simultaneously fiery about him and a brain to go with it!

I was only 14 when I met my Cancer guy and I was instantly drawn to him, even when we were apart our chemistry was off the chain (ehem, and I like to be in control thank you very much), granted im a gem born on the cusp- gem-Cancer (but im a gem girl in every sense) and I just could not for the life of me work the kid out!

After being so smitten, then really confused, then really hurt, and then more hurt (Cancer men invite you to experience love-ache like never before), and then after that, pulling out all out all the gem tricks of charm and wit and flirtation, (which ALWAYS work)

I got really angry at myself for letting one guy hold me down, I was ready to fly again.

And I flew.... right back into his arms.

4 times!!!... we are most likely on the verge of getting back together now..

I don't know how the little crab did it...

Gemini girls; BEST OF LUCK.

im a Gemini girl dating a Cancer guy who is a cop lol that's how we met... I got into a car accident and he came 2 my rescue. we both had an instant attraction and exchanged numbers. he told me he was a private person and didn't want anyone 2 knew in our small city that we were dating but u also told me he didn't want to rush into anything just take it slow hang out get-well I was ok with that until I really started to like him. I told him I wanted to start hanging out with him more and he seemed like he wanted that to and even told me he liked me a lot but wasn't ready for a commitment. He made plans with me then broke them then I wouldn't hear from him... so when I told im I didn't want to talk anymore that's when he would start calling again and saying super sweet things but yet he still hasn't made any changes...his moods def change a lot!!! it seems like when I tell him I don't want him anymore that's when he wants more with me but when I don't cause there's no change he chases me I just don't get him at all. can anyone help me figure him out lol I don't know what he wants??? he changes way 2 much...

I am a Gemini woman and was with the most amazing Cancer male for 2 years.

As said above, he unlike anyone I had ever met - was so romantic, doting and charismatic, great and caring in bed. He would always call when he said and say lovely things to make me feel so special. The relationship was great for the 1st year although he was insecure... but I considered this sweet!

After the 1st year he seemed to get bored and go out more the more. I guess I got more distant, but it was because I was comfortable and thought that he was deeply in love with me. This was a mistake as after another year HE ended it and I was heart broken :( He said it was because he realized he was not IN love with me like he should be and didn't want to settle sown with me.

Its been a year since we split and I am still not over it. Although I think back the actual relationship and can see we were not compatible... I don't think any guy will ever compare to a Cancer guy.

I was a cool, flighty Gemini girl who had 15 relationships in the past 10 years ; most didn't last longer than 3 months. They were mostly with colleagues who were fun to be with but not very serious. I found most of them immature. Until I met Cancer guy who was romantic, nurturing and so wonderful. He had such a way with words and bombarded me with incessant calls and text messages. Would drop everything to be with me, if I called. I gave him my heart and body and he was good to me for approx 6 months until his ex-GF came back into his life! Suddenly, all the promises and sweet words were out the window. I think he just used me for sex whilst he was estranged from his GF. Gemini girls love spontaneity, great conversation and to be pampered. He definitely knew how to push all the right buttons, taking full advantage of the famous Cancer charm. I even gave up many friends and made changes to accommodate his jealousies and insecurities. Girls, beware - Cancer guys may ap pear sensitive and caring but don't let them worm their way into your heart (or bed) too easily.

I am not even sure if I am with the Cancer man or not and that's who how likes it I love and hate it so I don't know

Im a Gemini girl who's been dating a Cancer man for four years (on/off).. yes he was so romantic and charming the first year we dated, every weekend he took me out fishing or out of town or clubbing, dinner.. wow I was deeply in love.. Then we lived together and he turned to a caveman.. I was bored and wanted to leave the relationship but cant help running back to him (Kinda like it in the sexy way when he was ice-cold).. He makes me feel special to be his girl, he's caring and giving and the most important things! he's royal..

well im a 15 yr old Gemini girl who is currently dating this just turned 18 yr old Cancer boy. we always fighting about stupid stuff and I just want to make things work out between us. we been dating for about a month and now he's talking about breaking up with me cuz my attitude gotten worse. we always talked about being in each other life forever, and that I need to change me ways. even though I don't want to leave him. he may be the one for me but he says that our zodiac signs says we aren't meant to be, and don't believe in that bullcrap. I begged him to not break up with me and he said that he just needs time off, and I told him to don't leave me and I cried too. he said if I change me bad habits and be like the girlfriend he always wanted in me, then he said he will think about staying with me. so now here I am changing my bad habits just for him and so far its going good. I REALLY love this guy and always tells me that he loves me to death and I love him to dea th too. Thank for letting me share my problem with all of you very kind people and I hope you can give me some advice to change my ways just for him. Thanks bye

thanks for the info... just met a Cancer man but was curious about what I was getting myself into and even though I know I might fall for him it is good to know what to expect so I can be prepared. Want to c how this goes. We are friends now and he don't push for a sexual relationship. I think that is what is attracting me to him.... but we shall see. thanks for these opinions...

I am a Gemini gal and a having a bf of Cancer .. He always waits for me n every respect.... if I do something then only he replies.... he is very caring .....very controlled, shy and love to stay in one place ......... Sometimes I get bored of him...... Sometimes I feel I am staying with a man with out heart. suggest me how I could change him?

I am a Gemini woman liking this Cancer male! and omg he is the hardest thing ever! and I don't get it! he txt me every day and we talk but in the phone. when I see him in person he doesn't talk and I think he likes me cuz he shows interest (some times) and asked me to go out with him (like movies, chill & things like that) but he never talks so I always try to talk to him first! but we never last talking to each other. help me what should I do should I just leave him or don't give up?

I am a Gemini girl who wants to win back a Cancer man we used to date a couple of year ago but it all went pear shape now we re hooking up again but only on a bedroom term as he has his girlfriend and a baby I so in love with him and I want him back how do I get him back I told him I love him but u can never tell with a Cancer men what they are feeling inside.

Almost all of these are negative. But I am a Gemini girl who has been with a Cancer guy for almost a year now and to be honest I'm the happiest I've ever been. it might sound strange but I like the clinginess of him, if anything I sometimes feel like the clingy one, but that's because I adore him and love being close to him. I also like to know he loves me and that is why he can be wary and slightly possessive. and he won't be any different in future if you end things with him, it might get worse. he just needs someone to think the world of him and THEN you will be left with security and happiness

I think it is not a good match. First of all, there will be many communication breakdowns, this will spoil all the magic and chemistry. Cancer man is hypersensitive and suspicious, this will bore a typical Gemini girl.

I'm a Gemini in my mid twenties and this Cancer guy is in his late 20s. We would always see each other at the club. We never spoke to each other directly but our friends were friends. I would always think about how handsome he is though I would always see him talking to other females. So I wrote him off as uninterested in me. I'm attractive and very outgoing not the shy type. He told me that quality I have always stopped him from speaking to me, He wanted to plenty of times but didn't. I don't know how I end up hanging out at his house with him watching TV and cracking jokes at the commercials and we had good fun. Then he wouldn't return my calls or texts. So I wrote him off again I'll be just fine without him. Then I'm back at his house with a gift for him and then he accuses me of sleeping with a guy he saw me talking to. & When I get ready to leave he argues and wants me to stay. Then apologizes & gets rude again so I get rude too. So I write him off again. He called me once late at night and I picked up and hung up on him. I haven't heard from him since but I think of him a lot for some reason.

I've been dating this Cancer guy for over a year now OMG he is the hardest guy I have ever met in my life. He is so complex I can't figure him out, yet he has a way of words, the right words to say all the time. They have a tactic to get us. I have never felt like this before. Being a Gemini I fall in and out of love so easy I love freedom, but this is driving me crazy in a good way, even though he is possessive and clingy, moody. I learned a lot from this guy, I learned how to be patient, I learned how to deal with his moods. I leave him alone when he is moody, and when he is ready he comes to me. I don't push him, Cancers don't like to rush things. He is the most amazing guy in the world, though I didn't give up my friends or family for him, I already told him that my friends and family are important to me, and he decides not to talk to me for days and I don't care, and then he comes back cause he knows I wont give in. When you ignore a Cancer male it drives them crazy they don't like to get ignored I do that all the time just to let him know that he can't control me I don't like that and he is leering how to respect that. They are a lot of work though but they are worth it, they will always make sure that you have everything and secure. I love my Cancer men he is the best. Who has a Cancer is the luckiest girl in the world.

Well, I'm a Cancer man and I had dated a Gemini girl for about 8 months. My god, I don't think I've ever been in love with a woman like I was with her. She was my everything. In the beginning, it was like heaven. mentally and physically. As time went by, there was the inevitable tension between us where I would feel like she was not loving me enough or didn't care enough, even though I would do anything for her. What really hurt me was that she constantly needed her space and I treated this as rejection. After 8 months, we ended the relationship. and I was totally heart-broken, and still am..6 months later. She told me I'm one of the greatest guys she has ever met but our personalities were not compatible. and it would spell trouble for us down the road. In a way she was right and I knew it...but it's just that I loved her so much.. In my heart I knew it was the best thing to not be together as there were too many differences but my heart also aches constantly becau se I will never love another girl the way I loved her.. It's the Cancer curse...

I am a Libra woman totally in love with a Cancer guy.

no matter how much you love this one better quit while you're ahead. Cancer men will never trust you so without trust there can be no love. Librans are too free spirited always tiring to seek explanations. the Cancer is extremely secretive. miss Libra walk away whilst you still can. Cancer are sweet but they don't consider other's feelings only there own. leave him to crawl into his shell. damn you are better off believe me

Im dating a Cancer man now. were young juniors in high school I met him freshman yr & noticed him right away. Im his first & only go has ever had which that I love! Uhm its been about four months now & honestly so far so good, being a Gemini girl I love being around friends & having a good time yet im "very" flirty. I cant help it but whenever im around my Cancer boy its like all my attention is on him. I guess you could say I like playing hard to get sometimes & having him know if he ever were to hurt me there's plenty of other guys that would die to have me. im not meaning to sound cocky but im an attractive young girl with a great personality last but now least a big heart who always is giving. One thing that gets me though all these bulletins say their Cancer men are jealous but mine I swear is impossible to get jealous & its bugging the she** out of me. I like went their a little jealous cuz it shows me that they care, he's told me he's so in love with me & that im his everything which im sure many of us girls have heard before but he brings so much security & love, comfort, passion, yet being in high school isn't easy because of all the girls & guys but honestly he's very trust worthy, loyal. we've talked about the future & all, he's my baby & I know he can be a handle sometimes but im going to give him unconditional love. when we get into a little argument within a hr or two we remind each other how much we appreciate & love one another. & to me I need reassuring because ive been hurt SOO many times that its put my self esteem down a little. anyways im taking it all day by day im still so young & have a lot ahead of me but I want this boy in my life forever. x

Dear high-schooler. Being young and in love makes it near impossible for you to appreciate the realities of life. Jealousy at the start of a relationship is quaint but it will grow to be suffocating. Cancerians are sweet and really have a way with words. Trust me, an older and much wiser Gemini girl, when I say that Cancerians are not strong enough to weather storms and stress. In times of trouble, you need the strength of a Leo or the never-say-die spirit of a Scorpio. Cancerians will not step up to the plate; instead they will crawl into their shell and sulk. Your relationship will only have a happily-ever-after ending if, and only if, there are no stresses like job loss, illness, family disputes, etc in your life. You are still young. Have fun and live your life but open your eyes to all your possibilities because you cannot be too sure that it's going to be a bed of roses all the way. And when challenges appear, your Cancer man may not be there for long!

I'm a 20 year old Gemini lady who in love with a 23 year old Cancer man. we in a 3 years relationship, when we started he was so caring, loving he sent me a text once and I could respond cause I had no airtime, he called me sometime yelling about why I didn't respond since he never sent me an sms, dis is distant relation I see him maybe twice a year and he's away we don't contact each other, well he never gave me his numbers and one time he came back & were fighting he said I don't make means to reach him while I had, thats when I found he had a baby girl mistakenly with his cousin & said if I call him that cousin his "wife" was going kill but didn't tell on them. when I was 18 in matric he got me pregnant I was afraid to tell him then sent my friend, she told me he denied it was him that I should do abortion & his brother said he told we always used a condom the same one who always told me he wasn't coming back every time he was gone and bout the wife & the daughter, he tried to cal one afternoon from school and my friend came to tell me not to answer the phone as so didn't. I terminated with my friend's help, he came back after a while asked me in private to talk bout the baby denying al the two those two told and that he would have loved with me that's when he told bout the daughter yet didn't mention the "wife" and wouldn't want to talk bout her at alone bout some wit dude I was dating for fun& wanted to beat him, next weekend wanted to beat me but he could yet I could c he was angry. Last year he told me, they told a lot of about me and his trying to ignore them while they were also telling me it ended to da point he acted amongst other but when alone was lovey dovey. He dumped me once cause they after him I had a baby by his brother again terminated I went away a week when I came he acted as if we never broke up and told not to go to CapeTown but Jozi to Varsity now I'm in Pretoria, when I left home I told him via cell and told me not to got dat how am I going before having his dick, when I went back home he was there and now the girl & daughter was coming fortunately they left when I came, he treated me bad, yet sent a child to cal me to help him wit wat he was doing, I told my friend to tell I wanted to fuck wit him, he told me to come the ff day, I didn't have sex with him I only sucked him when he wanted to fuck me I said no with no reason he didn't force I continued with my Job, went home & sent him an sms telling him bout how he treats me, at maybe I don have a place his heart and ama bounce as he always said once he'd yet at me he said I cant wait for him for but he's gon wait me for years when Im gone, he'd find out each and every dream I had. now I text him the truth about me & correcting what they've been telling him, He doesn't respond at all. Whats going unthaws he feeling, does he still love or want me, What must I do because I love him??? Help.

I am a Gemini woman dating a Cancer man. We have been dating on & off for 4 years and this is our 3 time back together. This relationship has been the hardest work ever. My Cancer man has all the typical Cancerian traits and it is so frustrating. He finds it hard to trust, sensitive and won't commit!!! I love him and want nothing more than plan our future together. Whilst he is creative and very intelligent he appears to lack ambition and confidence. When we first met he showered me with affection but that only lasted 2 months and only reappears when he is trying to win my heart back. Most days I am lucky if I get a call or text from him and even then he talks to me as if I am his mate. I don't get him, he says he loves me and keeps running back to me but yet he wont commit and gives every convincing excuse in the book. I am a naturally affectionate girl, I am attractive but yet this man makes me feel the opposite with his constant rejection or lack of focus s on our relationship. I have compromised a lot and am beginning to wonder if it is all worth it. He is 38 and still lives with his mum. Me and his mum get on well but lately I feel resentful towards her as she is in the way of my man committing to me. He won't leave her but yet won't let me move in, time isn't on his side so I am beginning to feel like that there is no room for me in this relationship & I am wasting my time. I do love him, if I didn't I wouldn't have gone back, but everything is on his terms...sex, commitment etc. I have read a lot about Cancer man & Gemini woman compatibility and I am beginning to wonder if I am trying to make the impossible work.

hey im 22 and im a victim of a Cancer man we been talking for 8 months and wow the sex is so good makes me feel like hes the on but he just be all in my business dang that get on my nerves yes im a Gemini and I cant deal with that he just got mad at me over myspace and was trying to break up but of course I put my charm on a pulled him back we will see what comes out of this lol

Well I'm a Gemini woman and absolutely in love with a Cancer man. We've been in a relationship off/on for 8 years; however, we've known each other since we were school aged kids. I've always been attracted to him. I know he's always been attracted to me. We ran into each other in 2002 and the strangest thing happened, I gave him some on the first night. I was so embarrassed that I kicked him out. I just knew that he would never call me again and that he would think I was a slut. He called me the next day and said " Can I see you again?" I was floored, "Yes!", was my answer. He asked me why did I kick him out he was upset about that because thought that I thought he was a bad lover. I told him how I felt. He said " We were destined to be together he's always loved me so us having sex was bound to happen." WOW. He then asked "So are you mine now?" all caveman like. I loved it because I love a man who can take control. I had never experienced that before I'm usually in co ntrol . We've been together every since. I breakup because of his moods, insecure ways and issues as a Cancer, but he always wins me back. We're engaged and I can't see myself with anybody but him. Even though he's crazy, but hey Gemini gals are crazy too. This union is very romantic, passionate and never boring. In conclusion, Cancer men are insecure, possesive, clingy, and moody, but they are also caring loving and sensitive. When they love you, they truly love you and wouldn't dare abuse you. They would rather walk away. Gem gals, if you're not ready to settle down leave the Cancer man alone. RUN, because Cancers play for keeps.

I'm a Cancer man that's been on and of with a Gemini girl off an on for almost 6 years. I love her and I hate her. I know that the love I have for her is not unconditional. It's not her fault that I don't feel this way and as the moon gets full I become more annoyed by her lack of ability to communicate, pay attention, and her general selfishness. My downfall is I become lonely and my clingy nature keeps me going back. Having Lots of things in common has only given me a good friend but she cares way more than I do. She's a good girl and a good person. I have charmed myself into a curse.

I'm a Gemini Woman. I met a Cancer man 20 years ago. We have 'dated' on and off over that time. Last year he came into my life again and I have fallen head over heels in love with him. I know he loves me - he tells me - he shows me - but then he takes all the pleasure away by accusing me of being unfaithful (which Im not). His moods confuse me. He can leave me elated one moment and in despair the next. He can ignore me for days, plundering into a depth of despair about whatever his latest issue is - this drives me to distraction. I can't help trying to talk him out of whatever it is he is in a turmoil about. I know I should leave him to just 'come out of it' but I can't! It's like dealing with a five year old child - not a 45 year old man. But when hes in a good mood - hes brilliant. You can't help who you love but I suppose you just have to ask yourself if its worth it for the long term.

Im a Gemini woman who fell head over heals for a Cancer man. We dated for about 4 years. I know I will always love him inside. The relationship didn't go no where though. He was very controlling, emotionally abusive, distrusting, and very possessive. Even though I didn't care and wanted to stay by his side. I couldn't any more. Everyone comes to their breaking point and I had reached jmine. I alwayssssss looked at Cancer and Gemini profiles to c if maybe we just weren't compatible. I read books on relationships, I talked to him even his mother, I tried everything. At the end I got on a plane without a word left to say. This was the most painful thing I had ever gone through. I know if he loved me he would stop me from leaving, or tried to find me online to get in contact with me at least or something. But that never happened. N since this wasn't the first time we had tried...... I just left him alone. I always thought love was sticking by each other through the think n thin, lost blindly in love. You cant change anyone. everyone is their own person. I will love him forever.... and I know he thinks ill stop. but now hell never know. I have a tattoo with his initials I mean im doomed for life now I have to find someone wit the same initials....lol jk. well that's MY painful ass story. I have a gaping hole in my heart all for falling in love with a Cancer. :/

I'm a Cancer man married to a Gemini Woman. After reading these articles and living my marriage life for 5 months now that I am very clingy and want to be controlling of where she goes and what she does.. I give my heart to her and it seems sometimes she doesn't really care what I say or anything. I just really hope someday that she will open her heart more to me and start feeling with her heart instead of her head. Another add I do have jealously troubles with her but she gives me all the right to when she doesn't tell me where she is going and who she is with. She locks her phone and hides her msn conversations from me but I want to trust her but she has to give me a chance to help build that trust back up. I have so much more to say but I'll let others say what they have.

I'm a Gemini woman and I've had long term relationships with Aquarian men, which were so much fun! I have dated other signs, but I am so attracted to Cancer men!!! They are my favorite. They are so loyal, passionate, caring, and they make you feel like a queen. They worship your body, they nurture you, and invite you into their worlds. I have met and dated 2 Cancer men, but I left them because I didn't want to settle down. I am dating my 3rd Cancer man and I love it! I love feeling like a goddess! I hope this time I will settle down because I will be 27. Although they can be sensitive and clingy, we Gemini's just need to be a good listener, be polite and considerate of their feelings. Any relationship can work, you just have to respect each other's differences

Wow I have read this and I could not stop cracking up, I am a Real Gemini gal to the heart I have men falling at my feet all the time I recently met a Cop who happens to be a Cancer and I am really glad I read this post, he had me thinking I was off my game this man has done what no other could do and that's sweep me completely off my feet!! And yet some of the many signs you all refer to has start to come out I no he really cares for me and adores me any man in his shoes would be a fool not to.. I just hate it when he he adores me one minute then pulls back the next well see how it goes I am a Fashion designer and it takes me all over so lets see if he can handle that...

I am a Gemini woman with Cancer rising and moon in Pisces. I never dated a Cancer guy, but I often show personality of a Cancer or Pisces. With my ex husband (Capricorn) I was jealous, possessive, moody and I always wanted his time. I checked on him all the time. He made me feel insecure.

So that goes to show that my sun sign is weaker than my moon/rising water signs.

I've been involved wit a Cancer male, and I have to say... He is the most confusing individual thus far. But he can be so sweet and caring at times! At the same token I really don't understand him, his controlling, jealousy, and insecurities are beginning to show. I don't like it, I don't want to be told what to do like a child! I'm so confused about him, HELP! Lol!

I've dated a Gemini girl and let me tell you all even thou the relationship didn't last long. It was one of the best dates of my life. The Gemini girl was Intelligent and Confident (Even if she dated many guys before me and got her heartbroken many times kinda sad that she carries that burden without showing it ( I got to understand her)). It was fun Dating this girl who has always something new and interesting to say, that enjoyed my play on words (double meaning) and that so was bitchy she could make a man cry ( good thing I have a tough shell ). The sexual tensions between us was so intense... It was mind blowing. We got separated she joined the Army and I continued my studies...the End

Every Gemini girl out there be proud!

(nice knowing you girl)

I am a Gemini 21 year old girl my date of birth is 05/06/1988,timing 5.02am. I am in relationship with a Cancerian boy and his date of birth is 12/07/1986, timing 2.13pm. want to know this relationship will last forever or not. the reason y I am asking this question is because he is very serious about me and I am not very serious about him as he is. If we get married then how will be our future.

Cancer male here ok ok Cancer males suck but when I ask her and say baby what's wrong are you ok im worried she gives me the cold shoulder I don't get angry or abusive sure I might be sad but damn we feel ya know go easy on us

I have dated Cancers before and in a relationship with one now so I can truly relate. I am in the same situation, and it at least makes me feel a little better to know I am not the only one dealing with this. My Cancer is married and still very possessive/clingy/insecure when it comes to me, even though he tries to act as if he is confident/cocky because he knows insecurity is a pet peeve of mine. He is constantly afraid of me leaving him but also not ready to be with me totally. I don't mind his moods much but I do know that he thinks I am somewhat unemotional and insensitive. I am at the point of being ready to get out but mainly because I just want a real relationship and commitment. Overall relationships with Cancer men can be some of the best and worst you have ever had.

Hi all!

I am a Gemini girl! Met this amazing, gorgeous Cancer male at a legal skills course (2days)!

As soon as I entered the room and sat next to him, something that I never felt before happened! I am sure he felt something as well because we could not stop looking at each other and wanting to be together! it was almost like an addiction! this was on the 1st day of the course.

on the second day of the course the experience was more intense, we were in the room but we were not listening to anything! it was almost as if the room was empty. he asked me for my email saying that he wanted to start a list of legal contacts. We went out after the course to celebrate the completion as it is very difficult. 4 of us went out. suddenly the other 2 left as it was evident that something was in the air and they were uncomfortable. Anyway, we had a nice conversation, he told me a few things about his life, we have so many things in common it is incredible, he did not want me to go home. we have agreed to meet and go out.

He texted me that night to check if I was ok and said he was very glad I was well.

I've contacted him by email with the details of the place we wanted to go. it has been 1 week now and he has not yet replied to my email. I sent him a text today with a joke and nothing!

does this mean he does not care anymore?!?!? I never felt like this before! HELP PLEASE!! I cannot stop thinking about him!

Gemini girl here.... I just happened to open this site.. and Omg is all this true???

there is this Cancer guy...the sweetest guy I have met until now...really interested in me....

I also like the guy........ I shouldnt believe in al this stars thing....

but I guess it did help me after all.... Ill b careful!!

And I know I m already falling for him

I'm a Gemini with Cancer in Mars and Venus, he's a Cancer with Gemini in Mars and Venus. This relationship has been going on for about 20 years now, on and off. We've both been married in the mean time to other people. If I can give one single piece of advice to my fellow Gemini girls then it is RUN. Run as fast and as far as you can. Cancer will suck the life out of you. They'll come around when you least expect it, draw you in, seduce you until you feel dizzy, promises the moon and disappear again. You will be left confused and an emotional wreck. Then, just when you've got yourself picked up again, he'll come around again and the whole mess starts over. Honestly, I don't know why I am still giving in time and time again. After all these years I just don't have the strength anymore to fight him off.

I am a 23 year old gem and yeah I guess you could say I'm in love with a Cancer. Its easier to handle things when you don't take them personal or you come off as fickle. He knows me more than I know myself and for anybody to have half of me figured out takes a talented and loving individual. I think deep down he is a really warm person who is sometimes too caring and passionate for things. I can be but it is here one minute and gone the next. I think for anybody to even try and stick by my side while I'm running from one attraction to the next deserves the best of care and treatment.

I'm an 18 year old Gemini girl 2 months into a relationship with a Cancer guy. We had our first argument the day after our two month mark but it was quite nice because we sorted things out. I noticed that someone suggested that it can work with an honest Gemini and a trusting Cancer. If this is the case then we will last the years because I rarely lie, by choice and partly through lack of ability, and once I make a promise I never break it. My boyfriend is the same and he has also put a great deal of trust in me. His ex (3 years ago) cheated on him with his best friend, he caught them in bed, so I'm the first person he's trusted since. We are completely honest with each other and we made a pact to talk things through when we are ready to ensure we communicate. Strangely, what we argued about was my jealousy. It's as if he's a rising Gemini and I'm a rising Cancer. With that, we seem to be on the same page, neither of us are massively jealous, just insecurities cause us to worry. Somehow we both manage to look after each other we ego boosts, he can say a single sentence to completely change my mood and just with a hug, I can pull him out of his. Hopefully we can find a balance and I wish you all luck :) x

thanx for this 'space'..at least I have something to share with u all.. I am crazily in love with a Cancerian guy.. I am Gemini girl btw..ehem..how to start? I ve got lots of things to say here..ok let me compose myself first..ok the moment of truth. as been said earlier, I am crazily in love with a Cancerian guy. but he doesn't know that I am in love with him.. I deeply understand his character (we are in the same office n share the same office room).. huh.. I just don't understand his mood.. I can see that he is subjected to severe mood swing.. He is reserve but his smile can kill me..pls help me. his plus points are, he is not stingy he buys food for us to eat) n he is very committed with his work. what else should I say.. I see it is just pointless because he doesn't know how I feel towards him.. If only he can fathom my heart. that would be the greatest miracle..pls help me friends I only pray that we would be together n I am willing and ready to give birth to his children.. Hel p me pls....thanx for reading my post.

Ok... REAL Cancer MAN speaking here. And I have a message for the lot of you. Hello Gemini women. I LOVE Gemini women. Stop dating these poor excuses for men. I've read the complaints and all I can think is, "Are these women dating 16 year olds?". If that's the case, then that will explain the possessiveness, jealousy, and USELESS mood swings (some moods can be useful, so the swings should stay). Which also means that you ladies are DOING some major illegal relationships.

A real Cancerian male should be able to keep the sugary coated stuff up every time he sees his lover (unless he's with the wrong woman, then he needs to run far away). I have a Gemini lover. She's AMAZING!! Sure, I piss her off at times. But I squash it as quickly as possible. I apologize for the things that I SHOULD apologize for and talk about the issue (even, if she's still yelling, and boy can you Gemini women yell). If it seems to be developing into an argument, I walk away. And I saw the complaint about the walking away. It's good when a Cancerian male walks away. We become ridiculously harsh when you bring us into an argument. Trust me... you don't want any of that. Let us walk off and collect ourselves... sheesh. When we become non-communicative. Well, that's our way of being. Sometimes it's better to say nothing at all, if you have nothing of value to say. Better than being a smothering fool (another thing that REAL Cancer men don't do, for we hate being smothered ou rselves.. So why would we smother? That makes nooo sense).

And REAL Cancer men don't get jealous either. I've received jealousy from women on all signs. Jealousy is a waste of time and energy. Real Cancerian men give plenty of freedom, for we are big fans of freedom ourselves.

Something I've noticed about the relationship between a REAL Cancer man and a Gemini woman: when it comes to passion and love-making... Mmmmmmmhmmmm ;) Love it!!!

So... please... Stop dating these jackasses and find yourself a REAL MAN. Doesn't matter what sign. Just do it

I'm a Gemini girl in a 7 year relationship with a Cancer he is very loving and will do anything for me he loves family meaning only our household he rather keep his distant from extended family he is very generous but also very whiney it is like having another child they want you all to their self and whine all the time when they don't get their way but he is also loyal but doesn't hesitate to let you know when he feeling unappreciated

All these comments are starting to really freak me out... I am also a Gemini dating a Cancer man for only 1 1/2 mos. He's moving w/ lightning speed, treats me sooo good and everything feels great. Never felt this way before, but I am terrified that everything I am reading here will happen to me as well. I can tell already that he has a huge temper but a great heart. Already talking about moving in!!! He's also very insecure when it comes to my feelings for him. Always needs reassurance, which is kind of cute now, but is probably going to get old very soon. I am so in Love with him but don't want to be stupid. Are there any Gemini girls out there that actually have a happy relationship with a Cancer man???

I am a gem woman married to a Cancer man 25 years. I love that he is everything I'm not. When our children were little he was the one to give them medicine when they were sick. I take care of the communications/finances. he's the cook and novel reader. He keeps a steady job and provides well. Our love life is always exciting. We fight once every 6 months and when we makeup. it is great! I wouldn't trade him for some outgoing guy for loyalty is important for me to come home to. He is my home.

Hi, I'm a Gemini woman and I have recently started talking to a Cancer man. He's sensitive, thoughtful and loyal so far. I admit though that some of these comments have given me food for thought. However I am not scared of what the future holds for this relationship because I've been with a Leo for 6 years , we were compatible in so many ways yet his ego and his selfishness kept us from cementing our friendship. Meeting this Cancer man is now a breath of fresh air and I look forward to being smothered with care, love, kindness.........What he requires is not too much for me to give as long as he loves and respects me unconditionally.

YEP! Me too .... 43, dating a 46 year old Cancer man. The chemistry OMFG! The passion in bed, I have NEVER had anything like it - its totally electric. And he cares and nurtures me, loves and protects me. But will he commit?! Haaa! A total commitment-phobe. And I got dumped by him. Why? cos I found a nightdress that wasn't mine under his bed (I have been seeing him 16 months) and I had a go at him as he didn't buy me a birthday present, just flowers and card. He says I'm ungrateful, a taker and selfish. I'm not at all. I'm on state benefits and he brings home £10,000 a month, or 15,000 USD! He says he loves me more than anyone in his whole life ever, I'm fabulous looking, pretty, and he says he wants to spend his life with me. But doesn't want my kids (6 and 10) even though his son (8) loves them to bits. He says he cant stand my moods! He is aggressive and wont commit and now he has dumped me! I have done nothing to deserve it. I am totally lost. HELP!!

I'm a 26 year old Gemini woman engaged to a 29 year old Cancer man (we've been together for 3 years) and I'll agree that this combo is A LOT of work. All of the previous comments about the Cancer guy being possessive, moody, paranoid, and hypersensitive are true, but then so is the fact that he is the most loyal, caring, attentive, and sensual man I've ever been with. I think are managing to make our relationship work despite our clashing signs is because we have so much in common and because we each share some traits not typical of our sign. He is super independent and restless like me... we try to spend every spare moment together, but also feel safe knowing that if one of us needs some space the other person has other stuff going on to keep them occupied. I am extremely in touch with my feelings and wear my heart on my sleeve like him. Also, I am very good at making him feel like he is the only guy in the world that matters just like he always makes me feel special and taken care of. Our relationship also works because we make the conscious decision to do what we can to make it work all the time. Sure, there are times when one or both of us don't have the energy to do that, but that's when some discipline comes into play. If he is stressed and wants to retreat in his shell, he'll let me know "baby, I can't do this right now can we talk about it later?" and I can trust that when I give him the time he needs, he'll follow through and bring up the topic when he is good and ready "ok sweetie, let's talk about ___ now, I'm good". Or if I am stressed and want to go out with my friends (5 out of 7 of my closest friends are guys) to relax, he'll allow me that freedom. I show him respect and appreciation for that (because I know it's hard for him) by not staying out with them for hours and hours and checking in with him every now and then. We've been very lucky to be able to find a balance for this star-odds-against-us union. It's not always butterflies and cotton candy, but just like any relationship it can be healthy and fulfilling if both of you practice diligence, compassion, and insight and have the key love traits constantly at your core.

Good luck! :)

Im a Gemini woman I argue w a Cancer man like a cat and dog. There's a better chance for the relationship to last long term and that's if we are nowhere near each other. Cause Ill be up front, I wont walk on eggshells. He'll do just fine without a Gemini as a lover. They can be very close as friends that can relate on certain things.

I am a Gemini woman who's been dating a Cancer guy for over a year now. Honestly I have never been with someone who I've connected with on such a level. We hit it off from the get go, he is funny, sweet, caring, and he deals with MY moodiness. He understands me, helps and guides me in everything that I do. We have a great relationship, and I can honestly see myself marrying this perfect man. I don't really think it has much to do with the sun signs, he is not jealous, or over bearing in anyway. I'm the one who shows jealousy sometimes, and I can be over bearing and as I said moody. Like I said in over a year, we never really have had a fight. We weigh each other out. I think it's how he was raised though, because he fits certain Cancer traits, and I'm full blown Gemini. I don't usually get along with cancer's, my mother is a Cancer and we fight non stop. I'm head over heels in love with my guy, and hopefully if I'm the one who doesn't screw it up, we'll be e together for a very long time.

After ten years of knowing my Cancer man, I finally gave in and agreed to be his personal Gem. We've been through a lot of life together, almost dated a few times (though we both botched that up and it didn't end up happening), and we have always argued like an old married couple. Now, he is extremely frustrating and for sure he gets under my skin quicker and more thoroughly than anyone else... but you know what? Its worth it, and it keeps things interesting. I've read about all of the Cancer men issues we Gemini dames have, but we need to realize that we aren't so perfect either! Our tempers are quick to flare (though its the strangest of buttons to push to get us to that point, and boy does the Cancer male have a knack for finding them!), and we usually don't stop to assess the fact that our actions/words might be hurtful to these guys, who unlike most ARE sensitive creatures.

My Cancer has always been there for me, he's patient and supportive and I'm not afraid to be vulnerable in front of him (which speaks volumes). I'm currently going through a nasty divorce with a Leo, and my friend/lover has been so understanding of my trust issues and wariness to give my heart up after such trauma. He is compassionate but checks me when my inner crazy seeps out, snapping me out of what's flailing around in my head and grounding me back into reality. There's a balance there that's vital to any breezy Gemini female that I've found with him. He embraces both of my personalities and marvels at the inner well of strength, he isn't afraid of it and takes pride that I'm his oddball Gemini.

If you want to enjoy the unique relationship that a Cancer man has to offer, you have to really sit back and assess yourself first. Are you able to commit? Can you fully admit when you are being an arse and apologize? Can you allow yourself to relinquish some of the control and let your heart be tended to by another? They can be frustrating, yes, but we can be just as bad, if not worse! Let me tell ya, it'll never be boring with a Cancer man... nor more fulfilling when one truly loves you.

interesting thread. My two cents: I'm a Cancer guy, a little older, who's been in a series of LTRs over the years with mostly Leo, Aries and Aquarius women. Several months ago, I met and fell for a very attractive Gemini lady in her mid-thirties. She's quite self-aware of her typical Gemini traits. We always joke about how she's a total princess. But it's true, she loves being treated like a 12 year-old girl at a her own princess-themed birthday party. I have no problem with that. In fact, I love it. it makes it really easy to give her what she wants, pamper her and make her happy. The trouble comes when I have a rough day, or am genuinely too busy to talk, shower her with affection, answer her calls or emails right away. I know she doesn't mean to be so passive-aggressive (I missed her call last night while I was working in my restaurant, and she non-challantly decided to go stay at her sister's instead of coming to my place). It just seems like she can't control her need to always get her way or go somewhere else to get her needs met. And even though I am way less insecure than I was when I was younger, she has difficulty being next to me when, for example, I have a little headache or express feeling off my best. It's like it annoys her even though she knows it is completely human to not always be on my A game. My theory is that there is something melancholy and lonely inside her--and a lot of Gemini girls--that needs to be filled up with playful, unconditional attention in order to feel better.

We are both working hard on making it work, cuz we're nuts about each other and there's a ton of physical chemistry. but it is definitely not an automatic match: if I were still an insecure kid, her impatience would eat away at my sense of self-worth and make me an emotional wreck; and at the same time if she didn't have a sense of irony and perspective about her princess complex, my career demands would make her seek someone else with perhaps less depth but more time on their hands in a heartbeat. Cancer Male/Gemini Female is hard work, I won't sugar coat it. And by work, I mean each person working on their own crap and not just expecting the other person to be magically awesome. but so far it's very rewarding work. so enjoy!

I'm a Gemini Woman and I'm currently dating a Cancer Man. He's sweet, loving, caring, understands me, and does annoy me a bit. But I just can't help loving him still, when I get bored, I usually ask him what's on his mind. To me, I think Cancer Men are mysterious at points or just him), and well he keeps me intrigue by his actions and the way he thinks. He trusts me, and doesn't get jealous like barely). While I had good times, there are bad times. I get into fights with him about repeating stuff over and over again, and other stuff. Though overall, it's hard work, but if you're willing to work at it, good things will happen. Also composition plays a HUGE part in this relationship. I understand that not every Gemini Woman is cut out for a Cancer Man. Everyone is different

I am a 23 yr old Gemini woman in love with a 36 yr old Cancer man. we have been in a relationship for the past 2 months now and have had no issues. he is very doting and loving and affectionate and I some insecurities have popped out, but I wouldn't want to be any where else. we are truly in love and im hoping to marry him one day.

haha wow this is so true. I love everyone's way of explaining it. ive been with my Cancer guy for 4 months so far. still together. yay.. not planning to leave him anytime soon. hopefully. but he's a really jealous guy. and controlling yes. im planning to deal with it. I hope I can manage. I like being a Gemini. love my own personality. im sure you girls do too. since were so wild. and I feel bad for these Cancer men though. because they love us for being so outgoing and full of happiness. they just have to ruin it by thinking were cheating. I also hate it when people go to him and tell him im cheating. when im not. its so stupid. but things will work. cause I love him. and I know he loves me.. maybe way more than me but that's good lol.

Im a Cancer guy dated a Gemini woman for a month only. We seemed a match made in heaven and we really connected and took care of each other, but eventually we found she has no time for an imperfect guy with mood swings at her age.

Unfortunately, when we ended things that was it for good, so far it seems. But who knows.

I'm a Gemini girl (23), been with my Cancer boyfriend(22) for 3 months. I've read all of these comments and I am truly amazed at all of the similarities! The first month was amazing, he was caring and passionate and very loving. I felt like I had finally found 'the one' but over the last two months he's been distant and moody and yesterday we made the joint decision to be friends for a while. He said he has issues to sort out but he still wants to take me out on dates like normal and that he doesn't want to be with anyone else! Honestly, I welcome the break as I've really resented him this last month. He's made me feel very rejected and I also need time to figure out how I feel.. So many of you have had an ' on/off ' relationship and I guess we've just moved into our first 'off' stage'

wow, reading this I'm getting scared, it feels like we're all dating the same guy. I have been on a relationship with a Cancer male for about a year now, I'm Gemini 30 years old, and he is 44. He has all the Cancer traits. He is very loving, caring, supportive drives me nuts in a good way. He is not jealous at all I'm very honest and very expressive so I don't take crap from nobody including him. When he decides to disappear for day, I do the same thing to him too, when he texts me I don't text him back for days, and he doesn't like it, but a taste of is own medicine will do him good. So whatever you do give him hell once in a well just to let him know that he can't control you, do the same thing he does to you and see if he likes it. They always come back if they really love you.

Good luck gems we really need it for Cancer males

Im a Gemini girl. Ive had no experience with a Cancer guy, actually I ain't had much relationship experiences. The longest relationship I've had lasted only a year. This is due to me being a independent girl who doesn't hate relationships, just dislikes the drama that comes with being in a relationship. After all when I want I can be very dramatic lol. Im also a girl who takes day by day, don't like planning things, specially not my future. life is too short you only live once. I think it doesn't matter what star sign a guy is, your gonna get at least 1 of those traits in every guy. 4 the past 2 years I've had my eyes on this Cancer guy, and after reading all these comments it still ain't put me off him. The chemistry is just to strong to ignore and the fact that he is mysterious makes him more interesting and a challenge hehe. We only get hurt if we let ourselves get hurt. I also think if you love sum1 so much, Try to have patience every relationship is a piece of work even though I ain't had much experience. Nothing is ever to easy.

I've read through a few of these posts and they seem to be just like my story! I am a Gemini woman that dated a Cancer man for 2.5 years. At first it was complete passion and fireworks 24/7, then his moods started to come up. I could handle them for a while, but then it started to get ridiculous...when he was good, things were great, when he was down, things were dark until he felt better. It ended up not feeling very fair or nurturing to me and I am a very patient person!