Cancer man Virgo woman

I have started seeing a Cancer guy... It's an emotional roller coaster at times, he can be loving but at times distant. I see all the above qualities in him. He is a very simple guy, has never given me a reason to not trust him but will see. I'm a very untrusting individual.

I'm a Virgo woman I was soo crazy about this Cancer guy and he seemed to be crazy about me or so I thought he was.... he was a mystery I'm still not sure what wasup with him

My Cancer man can be very immature, up and down when things don't go his way or if he feels like I am nagging him, and very critical and judgmental.

I'm a Virgo woman and we have been together 4+ years long distance. If he isn't in love he is stupid for bringing me to a family reunion and whatever. My question is... will he ever be as happy with me as he is with his friends? I feel like I am working hard bettering myself and he still is doing what he wants not trying to sacrifice.

I am in love with him but need to know that he will one day let go of his "need" to have all the friends (male/female). Will he ever stop being a flirt for the sake of our relationship and potential family? I don't flirt and cant stand the idea of having to move on with someone else... while I want to believe he'd never cheat again. It's something about his crabbiness that makes me worry... ADVICE PLEASE!

I'm a Virgo woman. I dated a Cancer guy for almost two and a half years. Whenever we would be alone it was amazing! He brought out my passionate sides, and made me feel like there was only us on the world. I loved him with my entire body more than I ever loved anything in my life, and he was crazy into me too.

After awhile, and the years went by, things became more complicated in his life, and he wore it all over his face and all over clothes, and the more frustrated, aggravated, dirty he was, the more we pulled apart. We're still good friends now, and whenever we're together it just feels right.

We were great together. Still are. I hope somewhere somehow we'll be together.

I'm a Cancer man and every time I'm around a Virgo woman we have so much fun, it's like we're linked

I have Virgo sun, Cancer ascendant whereas he has Cancer sun and Virgo ascendant.

He is a big flirt with other women, but not with me. but I forgive him as we have a long distance relationship. He is sweet, simple, nice, kind and traditional gentleman. Very good in business and management. I have never met him outside, but over the Internet.

I had never had such a love affair in my life. Incredible experience. We would be talking minimum 2 to 6 hours and feel like he is just mine.

I knew him three years ago, but love affair started just 6 months ago. I am the one who made a move after I received a poem from him.

Cancer man is unlikely to go direct. He has many memories, many friends, a lot of ideas to help save the poor and weak. Yet, he is emotionally very weak.

I have a Cancer man, we've been seeing each other for at least a year. We have a lot in common we get a long pretty well. I feel like he's the ONE! We have our lil spats, nothing serious, I think we are soulmates.

well I just started dating a cancer guy we 1st used to be friends n all but now we are dating n like we have soo much in comment so far we have 1 month of dating n its going great..we might get marry next year I think his one I will love to spend the rest of ma life with him =]

Thanks for this forum. It's quite unique.

When me and my Virgo woman first met. It was a connection at first sight.

Meeting on a blind date, we sat across the table from each other with the guy who introduced us found we couldn't stop staring into each other's eyes.

After dinner we saw a movie together and then, "FINALLY" ditched him. AS SOON AS we stepped across the threshold of my apartment and I had her up against the closed the door in a kiss. Looking back in hindsight -- this was the instant attraction part of our relationship. I mean it could've been that we were just horny, but a moment (read years) later that girl became my wife.

No I've read that some of the people here said that their Cancer man lacked maturity. We're just kids at heart, but after a recent breakup/separation I wonder if as someone else echoed and I'd heard from my wife, she works hard to extend herself and feels I'm, you know, not trying hard enough.

well I just recently started seeing a Cancer man and oh my word wow its incredible. we have this connection that I cant explain in words... we get along so well I feel safe with him comfortable we can sit and chat for hours without realizing what the time is... and time does not matter when im with him....

I find him very intriguing, passionate, caring man I think im in love with this man!

butterflies non stop.... and thoughts about him.... epic smiles....

Maybe a Virgo lady and a Cancerian man are meant to be

My neighbors introduced me to there cousin and sure enough he is a cancer and me being a Virgo. He is everything I ever wanted in a man, he listens, he cares, the way we can just sit and talk its like the world moves around us. He brings smiles to my face just thinking of him. The only thing is that we both have been hurt in the past. And he says it takes a great deal for him to let himself fall in love, and me the same I don't have my heart dangling from my sleeve. I been reading some things about the Virgo woman and the Cancer man, maybe we are destined to be together maybe it is the new side of relationships that we both need. The way he stares into my eyes I know he has to be feeling something.

I met this Cancer man and just knew from the moment he took my hand he is the one...yet three years later we are still just friends as if a battle is before us keeping us apart. We love each other yet find it difficult to come out openly with what seems like a distant love affair. We are loyal to each other yet find ourselves with trust issues...the making up is the best... Then we have cycles of good times and silent times never bad... He is a wonderful wonderful man and I wont trade what little we have for the world.

I am a Cancer man and was engaged to a Virgo woman after dating almost 9 years. I was emotional, warm & immature at times, and she was practical, supportive and cold at times. Our dynamic was great sometimes, but completely mismatched other times. I was truer to my sign than she in terms of sexuality, as she had zero sex drive most of the time. There were factors involved with regard to that which we both contributed to (the pill, my neglect of my appearance), but all in all, we would've been better together as parents than as lovers. In the end, I left her a few months before the wedding. Tried to get her back unsuccessfully, and now am focusing on me. Don't know if she'll ever want to try again, she's a tough cookie...

I'm dating a Cancer man who was born in the Gemini/Cancer cusp. He is a wonderful mix of sweet emotionalism and mature intellect. I know he kind of sounds like a walking contradiction, but I like the variation, because I'm the same way. There is rarely a dull moment between us, and I love him!

I am a Virgo woman married to a Cancer man. There was instant attraction between us when we met at a party six years ago. The only problem at that time was that he was living in a foreign country and I wasn't interested in a long term relationship. What was suppose to be just a friendship quickly escalated to a relationship because the chemistry was so strong. Everyone thought we were crazy when we married only six months after meeting. Well, like I mentioned above, that was six years ago and we are planning our beautiful daughter's first birthday next month. I have truly met my soulmate.

So interesting to read other peoples experiences :) about Cancers and the info..

I have known a Cancer for nearly 3 yrs now I was with my ex so nothing was going to happen he badly did :).. any way after splitting with my ex things have def changed..

You can def say a Cancers mood is some what extreme at times he changes so quickly and does sulk just like a kid.

And as for his family and friends they do play a big part in is life and as does is money and business.

I have to say I have fallen madly in love with him however his own feelings are getting in the way and will not let go of these. We are not dating but yet he still wants to have fun! :)

Cancers are funny creatures to say the least its like a big puzzle with them a guessing game..

As with us Virgos or (me maybe) just like things as it is black and white up front to the point lol Cancers do not like criticism.. this does concern me if any think was to happen between us however his caring nature understanding side and the sex :) is well WOW! lol what can I say lol

We have been so open and honest in the past but things have changed since the split... Just wish Cancers could let go of their feelings now and then :)..

Conclusion: Erm... I haven't got one yet lol I waiting game I guess.

I first met my Cancerian male friend 25 years ago in the 5th grade. I am a Virgo woman. We were antagonistic frenemies for the next 8 years thru elementary, middle and high school. But something happened during our senior year of high school; he began to mature and became less defensive and we grew closer. We stayed close friends thru college and then we lost touch. Fast forward 14 years later in the summer of 2009; a mutual friend of ours made contact w/my Cancer friend thru facebook and told me that he gave her his phone number to give to me to call him. I did and I'm glad I did. When I called him we were on the phone for 2 hours! It's like we picked up where we left off all those years ago. We've been friends since then. It's now March 2010 and I have to say that I realize that I'm falling in love with my friend. All the things that describe the Cancer man ring true for my friend. He's confident, attractive, sociable, loving; but he's also introverted and sometimes reclusive. I feel that we have an "understanding" and I trust him w/my secrets as I believe he does w/me. He's very emotional w/me when we're alone. And his personality allows for me to be more emotional, and giving. Being a Virgo that doesn't always come so easy. And being a Virgo, I don't usually give in to fantasies, but I feel that he is the one for me. I want him to be the father of my children. I'm just very cautious and I'm taking it slow. I'm not totally sure about his feelings for me, but he shows signs that he may also be interested in me. At least I hope so, because I'm hopelessly in love with him.

I am a Virgo Woman dating a Cancer Man and his moodiness is troubling sometimes.... I do feel like he is not as open about his feelings for me and I know he has intense feelings for me. I want to hear all about them. It would draw me nearer, however he keeps himself on his own pedestal. He is very comfortable to be around, good listener and very passionate. The sex! Well, WOW! I'm addicted!

I've been dating a Cancer man sometimes he seem like a jerk and I'm a Virgo woman I want to be with him but he seem his not wanting to be in a relationship with me which that hurts so we still remain friends but when we r alone all that go out the window and he is all over me I've told him not to go there because of my feelings for him and my need to put a label on our relationship so my gut tells me to leave him alone but my heart tell me to fight for him I can tell his been hurt before cause of his actions but I don't know if it's worth it he constantly flirts with different women sometimes he do with me but I don't know if it's genuine or just a big game please Cancer men help me understand cause I don't want to be a friend with benefits with this guy which I told him this already

I met a Cancer guy a year ago. He was really shy towards me. We didn't have a real conversation until the third or fourth time we met. We've been hanging out a lot for the past 7 months. So anyway, I've gotten to know him better. And I really am attracted to him and I know we have some kind of connection because I often catch him gazing at me. He's really caring, sweet and funny. He makes me laugh a lot! and I make him laugh a lot too. He's really a fun guy, he has loads of friends, he's handsome and he's really good academically.

It'd be perfect if we were together .. :)

I've been with a Cancer guy for four months now. Found out he was with other girls in the first two months of our meeting. I split from him without ever telling him I knew.

It's true - even if Virgo's give all we can. We do "Pull" back our emotions and (like I believe) become disconnected or cold.

For a Virgo woman. I don't believe in Monogamy, but if the right person comes along then I demand honesty if not loyalty. We met up again and the attraction was there once again. Though I said he had work to do!!! ha ha

Cancerian males: his words - are very protective, become very jealous, love to flirt, loyal to friends and family (friends + family = the same) and enjoy intimacy. Virgo's - only take a lesson once and learn from it. We both assess situations intuitively and analyze things occurring around us. I trust his instincts and we agree mutually on a lot of things. I find his mood swings easy to deal with and I like to ground (Earth thing) it and ensure he is back to normality. And he makes me laugh, feel strong and positive. We talk a lot. And yes he is open (now) but I have learned that Cancerian are very wary of new situations with people. He has a gorgeous smile and a genuine interest in me. We are both coming out of relationships - easier for me than him!! We are both quietly reserved in what we are willing to give in terms of emotional interaction. But we know there is something more....

Round two looks more promising. If you want a Cancerian male to know you exist in this world. Speak (Text, call, email) LESS. They will persist and pursue you because they need that reassurance that you care for them and it wasn't nothing. The connection is real.

They are very deep, vulnerable and genuine people. They aren't that hard to get through to. Virgo's are the same. But extremely methodical. Cancerian will fall head over heal in love and leave their heads at the door!! Virgo's head first heart last!! ha ha

Has to be all or nothing right!!

I want to kill astrology sometimes XD it says Virgo's r unemotional but I cried my eyes out when I watched avatar , when the avatars homes were being destroyed wile everyone else just sat there just watching (people looked at me and I went bright red from embarrassment but I was like "what? I'm expressing myself" I admit I'm a total cry baby) anyway I find Cancers really weird people (good way) their really kind people, funny, they can get moody, the Cancer guy I know is very clingy (I'm alrite with that though). I think Cancers r very mysterious people. btw Virgo's r really shy people, it takes them awhile to reveal their inner feelings, u just need to give it awhile, if u ask them they'll retreat from u, cuz it'll make them nervous and most of the Virgo's I know including me hate being nervous. (people have been saying on other things that they don't understand y Virgo's aren't being open with them)

To the poster above. I have $100 which says you have a water moon (Cancer, Pisces or Scorpio). Get a reading sometime and tell me I'm wrong :) Meanwhile, don't worry about it, every Virgo is a little different emotionally, the common denominator is the self conscious part.

yup yup yup! Cancer men and Virgo women, they seem to do real well together! I am a Virgo woman married to a Cancer man have been for ten yrs now. Our first date sealed our fate! He is just an over grown child! But he loves me respects me and ALWAYS has something awesome to say to or about me! He is truly the love of my life! He is a great provider and works right along side me in what ever task we need to accomplish. However he is not so good with money lol! But knows his down falls and we have our own method to make the money work. As far a sex! I don't believe there has ever been a boring moment! He never lets me down!!! I have the best husband ever!

I am a Virgo woman; I dated a Cancer man years ago. I pursued him in high school b/c he was extremely shy and I was attracted to his demeanor. He didn't get it at first, but later, he realized that I like him. We lost contact during high school, then came back in contact with each other years later. We instantly hit it off; we moved in and lived together as a family. He was somewhat protective (border line possessive) and generous (except for his car). We had silly arguments but always made up very well. However, after years of being together, I pressured him for a commitment b/c I wanted to get married and have children with him. He shut down, hesitated, and moved out instead of giving me a promise bracelet at the very least. I was so hurt, disappointed, and sad due to his decision to jump ship. After our break-up, he later married and divorced a Virgo woman! After eleven years of no communication, I found him and we talked for a week before he shut down and withdrew once again. Even after apologizing for my part in the break-up, he still holds on to the past... He doesn't trust me, and that's hard to swallow. I miss and am trying to open up the lines of communication once again, but he is not budging. Cancer men are very emotional, stubborn, and irrational.

Cancer men are very selfish.......they love money and sexy women. There are some Cancer men who love to play with women's feeling. His mood changes a lot......

Just met a Cancer man today.. im a Virgo woman and let me tell you. WOW. The connection is strong, and he is very handsome. I would love to pursue and see where this goes, but he has 2 kids, from two different mothers. :/

not exactly what im looking for.